Feeling misunderstood can be a painful experience.
You feel as though the other person or group of people cannot really see you.
You feel as though no matter how hard you try to explain yourself or stay true to your authentic self They believe you are wrong.
Or need to change or are something that you are not.
You may see that they have made up their mind about who you are and what they think of you and there is nothing else you can do to make them see you,
Accept you or love you just as you are.
Being around this person or people feels draining to you.
You may feel a sadness or grief well up within your heart.
Because deep down we all want to be.
Sane and loved for who we truly are.
You may find yourself not even trying to connect anymore,
Not trying to prove your worth or put energy into conversation.
This is valid.
And having discernment is very important for your own well-being and self-care.
It is not up to you to make people like you or understand you.
It is only your job to be yourself.
To be your authentic self to the best of your ability.
If someone does not like you,
Agree with you,
See you.
That is their issue.
That is their loss.
They are the one who has missed out on a beautiful opportunity to see the light,
Unique perspective and energy.
From you.
We are not all meant to be the same.
We are meant to be embodiments and expressions of our soul.
And we might find we are in coherence and alignment with certain people and others not so much.
But what we can have is acceptance and allowance of others,
Regardless of their beliefs or way of life.
We can let people be who they are unapologetically.
We allow people to be the creative beings that they are.
We don't have to spend all our time and energy with and on people.
That just doesn't feel right for us.
And you are not obliged to.
You can accept and love someone from a distance,
Honouring your own unique path and inner guidance.
So when you feel misunderstood,
Unseen by someone,
That's okay.
Allow the sadness to exist,
To be.
And feel it and let it turn into empowerment and clarity.
Of knowing who you are.
What you want to be around.
And treasuring the souls that do truly see you and that you feel so in sync with and loved unconditionally by.
The most important thing is that you stand in your own truth.
Irradiate your unique essence for the freedom and liberation of your own being.
I don't care.
It will be those that are attracted to you.
There will be those that may be inspired by you,
Love your energy,
And respect your boundaries,
And recognize your skills.
Now in your mind or out loud,
State.
I am enough just as I am.
I accept myself fully.
I embody my authentic self regardless of who accepts it.
Some people may just not want to understand you.
They don't want to try and instead they want to place masks or costumes upon you so you play a certain role for them.
A villain,
Perhaps.
But you do not have to wear those things.
You do not have to claim and accept that role.
Instead you become grounded and anchored in your light,
In your love.
And who you truly are.
There may become such a dissonance within their projection of you.
And the clarity and strength of your own embodiment.
That they begin to dissolve from your life.
Or there is a more limited interaction and you no longer find yourself impacted by it.
You no longer feel the sadness,
The unworthiness,
And instead,
They are like a leaf blowing in the wind.
You may acknowledge them.
But their own consciousness or energy is transmuted from your powerful energetic field and consciousness that no longer allows such energy to enter.
You remain untouched,
Unfazed,
And in strong alignment with you.
So this is also a reminder for you to come back to your center.
And to that self love and self acceptance.
So no matter what or who doesn't resonate with you,
It doesn't matter to you whatsoever.
There is no emotional charge to be activated because within you are whole,
You are healed and you have integrated any parts of you that once felt unloved,
Unacceptable,
Unseen or unworthy.
You have become unified within.
A cohesive whole,
So radiant like the sun,
That simply burns away any impurities that come close.
So breathe into this now.
Feel yourself feeling so full of love and light.
Feeling so connected and in alignment with your own being.
Feeling so bright and radiant.
So free and unapologetic in expressing who you are.
You are perfect just as you are right now.
So move forward with compassion.
Self-love.
Encourage.
To be who you are.
Regardless of who understands or misunderstands you.
The most important thing is that you love and accept you.
Forever evolving you.
Much Love!
