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The Secret Of Quiet Mind

by Guy Finley

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The mystery, calm, and majesty of a truly meditative life begin with seeing the river of thoughts and feelings for what they are (distractions) and then choosing not to jump in its currents. The one thing that can't be carried off downstream is stillness. Choose stillness instead of one more bumpy ride down the river of thought. We are meant to be observers and not participants with these thoughts and feelings that continually rush by.

Quiet MindStillnessReactivityObservationMindfulnessLiberationNegative EmotionsCalmInner StillnessThought ObservationMindfulness In LifeSelf LiberationMeditationDistraction

Transcript

Hi,

This is Guy Finley,

And let's spend a couple minutes together looking at the secret of a quiet mind.

How often do we dive headlong into a river of thoughts rushing through our mind?

Maybe it's to find relief from a struggling relationship or some other personal concern,

But the results themselves seldom vary.

We realize,

Too late,

That it isn't we who are holding on to what we thought would save us,

But rather our own thoughts and feelings have a firm grip on us.

They're dragging us under with them.

And the more we struggle to resolve our negative reaction to this condition,

The more wrapped up in it we become.

So the evidence is clear.

Struggling to save ourselves from a torrent of thoughts and feelings by adding to them doesn't diminish our chance to be free actually.

It ensures we will only be swept further downstream by the very thing that we've reached to save us.

Now,

If we can see the truth of this,

The solution to our struggle is simple,

As surprising as it may seem,

And it's right before our eyes.

We must do nothing.

Let me explain this beautiful,

Powerful,

And very simple idea of what it means to do nothing when caught in the struggle of our own thoughts and feelings.

Our life experiences have been trying to teach us,

Really trying to reach us,

Right in the midst of every one of our trials,

A certain grand lesson.

And here it is.

Liberation from our captive condition can't come by further deliberation of it.

We can see the wisdom in doing nothing toward our own troubled thoughts,

But only as we realize the only way not to be dragged under by our negative reactions to life is to stay out of their life.

Learning to do nothing means we don't jump into the river of thoughts as they rush by,

Even though it looks as though they're going to carry us away and that without them we'll never find the path to freedom.

No,

Quite the opposite.

To do nothing means we meet any kind of conflicting movement within us with the one thing that can't be carried off by it,

Stillness.

In many ways,

This kind of watchfulness,

Our willingness to do nothing save be still in the face of flooding reactions,

Is real meditation.

Meditation isn't just sitting someplace with our eyes closed,

Quietly contemplating something of a spiritual nature.

Real meditation is a direct relationship with the sum of ourselves in the moment,

Where we stand as a witness to what moves through us instead of being its captive through our reaction to it.

When it's time to step back from some reaction that's tempting us to jump in and to get out of some jam by listening to those thoughts and feelings,

Let us remember to become still,

To be as quiet and inwardly still as we can be toward what we see in ourselves.

This includes watching our own inability to be still.

We need do nothing else to start seeing all that isn't us.

Who isn't us?

What isn't us?

Well,

For one thing,

That fitfulness that's pulling us left and right,

The sound and the fury of those 10,

000 thoughts and feelings coursing through us and trying to get us to change our direction to suit their flow.

We must just watch it all.

That's the secret of a quiet mind,

And if we'll practice that we'll soon understand the goodness of stillness,

And we will know the mystery,

The calm,

And the majesty of a true meditative mindโ€ฆ

Meet your Teacher

Guy FinleyGrants Pass, OR, USA

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Recent Reviews

Bryan

November 15, 2025

Just Wow! I already knew this. It is so simple and somewhat obvious but I think I had just forgot. I normally struggle with some visualizations but the flowing stream/river I can relate to. Thanks for getting me back on track. This is going into my Go-to folder. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Aaron

September 29, 2025

When I'm meditating I feel like I catch myself already floating way down the river of thought and then I reel myself back (no pun intended) just to catch myself downriver , once again, pulling myself back on shore and doing it again and again . And not just while meditating . Thanks .๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

Blossom

August 9, 2025

Hi Guy. Greetings from Sydney Australia. Love this track! Thank you. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’– It's so freeing to be watching the ripples of the river from the bank of the river. This meditative live has brought me SUPRISES which I did not see coming. I had face the fear (childhood trauma related to piano) and got the calling to go back to piano playing after 37 long years!! It's such a JOY to be playing the piano again!!๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’–๐ŸŽน๐Ÿฅฐ Many Blessings to you Guy. From time to time to try to stay up at 1am to attend your lives. Always get the ah- ha moments listening to you. Thank you.

Teresa

July 8, 2025

Thank you for this insight & awareness of choices in choosing not to swim in my river of thoughts & feelings. I will sit quietly on the bank & choose stillness ๐Ÿ•‰๏ธโ™“๏ธโ˜ฏ๏ธ

Lori

April 29, 2025

Nicely done. You covered it beautifully in 4 minutes, yet Iโ€™ll have to listen to it many more times for all of it to really sink in. I look forward to returning to this many times today! Thank you.

Darryl

March 15, 2025

Beautiful in every word and deeply mindful. To understand oneโ€™s mind is to understand oneself thank you for sharing Namaste.

Melinda

March 27, 2024

I am in awe of how you simply and powerfully speak to help transform lives! This is truly incredibly inspiring! Thank you ๐Ÿงก

Julia

March 14, 2024

Practicing. Thank you for your simple, and wise, and patient guidance. Deep gratitude.

Donne

December 5, 2023

Sounds easy but oh so difficult. I need to listen again. How do you do it?

Josephine

July 27, 2023

๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜Œ๐ŸชทAlways so good to listen to you, this felt like a present moment reminder that also felt like a positive pep-talk.๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ

Doug

May 8, 2023

Even the thought of the practice of being still, has tremendous rewarding benefits. Thank you for the short but extremely impactful lessons.

Kelly

April 11, 2023

Iโ€™m enjoying these short, thoughtful pieces very much.

Bettina

April 5, 2023

Thank you dear Guy so grateful for your kind words wisdom and sharing ๐Ÿ™

Donna

January 17, 2023

Yep, thatโ€™s the goal! Thanks for the encouragement!

Mary

July 19, 2022

I love the explanation of stillness and meditation. Donโ€™t run from my thoughts. Stay still and watch them go thru

Susan

July 1, 2022

Will come back to this one

Nicole

June 3, 2022

Perfection!!

Tiyi

May 27, 2022

So true. So helpful. Thank you!

Rachel

May 22, 2022

Seriously short but sweet as

Alice

May 18, 2022

This was brilliant. Short, great information and a fantastic yet simple solution. Thank you for sharing your insight ๐Ÿ™

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