Ep 3 Trusting The Law Of Attraction With Lidija, High Vibe CEO

In this episode of And The Net Appeared, Chelsey is joined by Lidija of High Vibe CEO, a mindset and manifestation coach. Lidija is deeply passionate about sharing what she learns because she knows how life-changing it is. Originally from Serbia living with 5 people in a 1 bedroom apartment, she has moved across the world to live in sunny California, attracted her dreamy future husband, and created a business that's on track to make 6-figures. Recorded Aug 25, 2020.

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And then as I was experiencing med school,

I,

I was 20 years old,

That was second year of college,

I discovered the movie The Secret.

And that's where a big turn,

Like my life took a big turn,

Literally.

I started,

A lot of attraction from that movie really just caught my,

My attention and it felt so natural,

It felt so good,

It felt so right,

It felt so,

It just felt so right in my soul.

So I started studying it,

I started practicing it.

And that's when I tapped,

Really tapped into and connected to my soul and really recognized my true desires for this lifetime.

Welcome to And The Net Appeared podcast.

I'm your host,

Chelsea Benzel,

Business coach for spiritual online entrepreneurs.

In this podcast,

You're going to hear stories of badass women,

Just like you,

Taking big leaps of faith and the net appearing.

Enjoy.

Hello,

Lydia.

I'm here with Lydia,

The High Vibes CEO.

And I am just,

We've been sitting here like girl crushing over each other because there's just such a similar vibe of like doing big things in the world and shining our light.

Lydia,

You are just like such a beacon of light.

And I said,

When we first connected,

You are,

From hearing a little bit about your story,

Which we're going to dive into more,

You seem like you're just this mirror,

This magnet for miracles.

And I'm really excited to get into the leap,

Leaps that you've taken,

Like the,

You know,

The life that you're living now and,

And all of it.

So welcome.

Thank you.

Hey,

Everyone.

Thank you so much for having me on this beautiful,

Beautiful,

Beautiful podcast.

I feel like first off,

I want to congratulate you on this podcast,

Because I feel like it is going to change thousands and thousands of lives.

Yeah,

Thank you so much.

It's my full intention to just like,

I want to create evidence.

I want to show women who are either like right on the edge of like taking that leap,

You know,

You're standing maybe your toes over the cliff,

You're thinking about what if I left the job?

What if I moved to another country?

What if I did something completely insane that I know I really,

Really want to do.

And it's so easy to stay stuck in that and thinking it's way too scary.

No one's going to understand me.

So the more people,

The more women who have done it that can share their stories like you,

Lydia,

The more we're going to inspire those women to leap and trust that the net will appear.

Exactly.

I love the vibe.

Yeah.

So I always like to hear first,

Like,

What are you up to in the world now?

What is life look and feel like for you where you're at now?

And then we'll talk about like,

Hey,

What got you here?

So what tell us like,

What are you up to?

Okay,

Awesome.

So right now,

I live in California,

Which is basically my dream place.

But you're gonna hear this story.

And I live in California,

I am a women's coach.

So I kind of consider myself as a mentor,

More of I am looking to work on my example to work on myself.

And then for be an example for women that they can step up that they can rise that they can be more powerful,

Even if you are born in circumstances that are really just not letting you experience the abundance.

So that is where I am right now.

I have my own business,

High Life CEO.

And I'm living life.

I'm enjoying all the juiciness that is happening.

Yeah,

I can feel that in your vibe.

So let's rewind,

Like,

Where were you?

Not all that long ago?

Tell me because I know you didn't even live in the United States.

And now you're living like,

Your dream life living in California.

So where were you?

I don't even know for like,

How long it's been since it's taken you to get to like,

Living your best life now.

So take us back to before.

Okay,

So I was actually born and raised in Serbia.

Serbia is a tiny,

Tiny,

Tiny,

Tiny country on in Eastern Europe.

And so I was living there.

I was a perfect child.

I was always getting the best grades.

I was always going to all the competitions.

I was always the example child for literally my whole neighborhood.

So I went with the rules.

You know,

I finished school,

I went to high school.

After that,

I went to I applied to med school.

So I started studying medicine,

I was basically society's supposed to be perfect child,

Like I was doing everything right,

Everything perfectly,

Everybody was proud of me.

And then so when I started med school,

And that was,

I was maybe 19 years old.

So I'm 26.

Now.

I was like,

Seven years ago.

Seven years ago,

I started med school.

And I was so excited about helping people.

I was so excited about helping people that I was like,

Oh my god,

This is it.

I get to help people.

Yeah,

This feels so good.

I'm an empath.

So I was really excited about experiencing like,

Helping people in a large way.

And then as I was experiencing med school,

I when I was 22 years old,

Right?

No,

When I was 20 years old,

That was second year of college,

I discovered the movie The Secret.

And that's where a big turn,

Like my life took a big turn.

Literally,

I started law of attraction from that movie,

Really just caught my my attention.

And it felt so natural.

It felt so good.

It felt so right.

It felt so it just felt so right in my soul.

So I started studying it,

I started practicing it.

And that's when I tapped really tapped into and connected to my soul and really recognize my true desires for this lifetime.

And I realized one thing that med school was the thing that wasn't make me making me happy,

Making me miserable.

So that's when everything started happening for me.

What a realization to that thing that is like kind of when you're living in that life of that,

What you should do med school is like the,

Oh my god,

I can't believe I'm doing this,

Like super successful type thing that you should be like,

Super proud of yourself for.

So that must have taken a lot of courage to actually admit that,

Like,

You know what,

Actually,

Not what I want.

Exactly.

And I feel like I kind of knew it,

Even when I was applying to med school that like,

Maybe deep down something,

But I was pushing it down.

I was pushing it down.

And then I started doing the classes here one.

It was it was hard,

But I was doing it.

I was a good student.

But I was I was just studying for the grade.

And that's the one thing that struck out to me,

I wasn't excited about learning the knowledge and having the knowledge.

And so for a couple of years,

I was just pushing down that realization,

That little feeling that maybe this is not what I truly desire.

So yeah,

That's that's when I had to push all that down to feel to feel the to feel it out to experience college in order to realize,

Hey,

This is not for me.

So when you had that realization that this was not for you,

Did you have like,

Kind of the opposite side of that really?

Okay,

I know I don't want to be in medical school.

This isn't what is lighting me up.

Did you automatically know like,

Hey,

This is the thing that I know I need to do?

Or where?

Where did that leave you?

I basically had no idea what else I would like to do.

So I was just really passionate about knowing and trusting that in our gut feeling that hey,

This is not for me.

I have no idea what else I could be doing.

I don't know what I'm going to do if I ever finish college or leave college.

So I was basically just ground zero.

Mm hmm.

So you're living in Serbia still.

So what at what point were you like,

I think I might try the States?

Like what did that journey look like for you?

Because that's got to be quite the leap.

Hey?

Yes,

Yes,

Yes.

So how it happened is,

I have two older brothers.

And the year before I started college,

My brothers actually moved out to the States.

And that was just their start.

And they were really just kind of showing me like behind the scenes of how is it for them living in the States.

So that was the moment that I started kind of like thinking about it,

Like imagining myself there,

You know,

Maybe just planning to visit.

And then as years went by,

And I realized that med school is really not my dream.

I definitely was curious to just go out and experience maybe us.

Right.

That was always,

I always had like this feeling,

Kind of like,

Like tiny little nudge in myself.

And then what happened is I went on a work and travel program for the summer to us.

And I have the best experience ever.

Honestly,

It was so amazing.

I was I felt so free.

I just felt like I was at home.

I don't know how to explain that to you.

But that's how I felt.

But still,

I wasn't planning to leave med school or I wasn't planning to change my,

My life path.

And then what happened was,

And this was the first big sign what happened was,

I was just doing my summer job.

I was on the bus on the way to work.

And I was just thinking about random things about nature,

Life and just random stuff.

And this one message came through my mind.

And it was clear.

It said,

Leave med school,

Move to the US.

And I was like,

Like,

I never had that thought ever before.

So I deeply believe that it's my higher self sending me a message.

Because I when I imagined doing that in my mind,

When I visualize it,

It felt so good.

It felt so right.

It felt so natural.

It was so illogical.

It was so illogical.

But it felt good.

It felt natural.

I love that because it is it's like,

I believe we're always being guided by high power,

Like spirit guides,

Non physical teachers,

And our future self,

Like,

I really believe we can connect to that and can communicate.

It's like,

The feeling that goes with that of like,

This feels aligned,

This feels really good.

You know,

That's what we have to go on when we get these little nudges and we get these ideas or these messages,

Whatever it might be.

And it's like that feeling that that expansive,

Oh,

My God,

Yes.

Oh,

My God.

Yes,

I think maybe even like my future self might be already in some like quantum level living that life.

And that's why it feels so good.

That's why like,

Yeah,

100% I'm following this nudge.

Even though it's like,

Oh,

My God,

Can I do this?

Oh,

My God,

Am I like,

There's so much to that?

Like,

Can I do this?

Do I have the faith in myself?

But can I like,

Almost disappoint the people around me that are like you said,

Like you were this role model,

You were this person that everyone looked up to you great grades,

You're in med school.

So what was that like for you when you had this realization?

And clearly you took the leap because you're in the States now.

Like what?

What did you face from the people around you?

Were they supportive?

Were they like,

What are you thinking?

Lydia,

You can't do that.

Tell me about that.

Yeah,

So there was there was a lot of both.

A lot of both.

I had already cultivated such a high level of self love that I knew that this was non negotiable and that nothing that anyone can tell me that is against it is going to change is going to stop me is going to not even upset me.

So I was ready.

I was ready.

And I actually kind of was a little tactical about it because I wanted to ease other people into it.

So I first came up with the story of,

OK,

You know what,

I'm not I'm going to just pause med school and then I'm going to go to the States for a year and then kind of just see kind of just see,

Explore and then see what I'm going to do.

And then maybe I'm going to come back and finish my school.

So that was the first story that I went put to my parents because I didn't want to be like sharp.

And then they were kind of like thinking about it there.

They had their own current concerns.

They had their own questions,

Of course,

That were fueled by society,

The societal beliefs of,

Oh,

Well,

You should finish college.

You need a degree.

What do you mean?

Right.

And then I was waiting to get my visa,

Which I manifested also because it's very known in my country that when you come back from a work and travel program and you were in the US,

You cannot get the visa again,

Like probably in the next year,

Like ever.

It's like it's impossible.

So me,

I was like,

I got the universe on my side.

I'm using law of attraction.

I know all these things.

I'm going for it.

So I went in and there was like a thirty five minutes interview about why I'm going again,

What's happening with med school and everything.

But the whole time I was just visualizing him saying,

Yes,

You are approved.

Yes,

You're approved.

And I kept doing that and I kept sending that energy.

And then at the end,

He was like,

You know what,

This is the last time I'm doing this,

But you're getting your proof.

I knew it.

I love that,

That confident expectation,

Because that's it.

It's like that visualization,

That thinking from the end where you've already you've already received the outcome.

But it's that like,

Yeah,

OK,

Yeah,

I knew that was coming.

There's no like this is what I'm doing.

It's already locked in.

Of course,

You proved it.

I walked into into the embassy building already with the knowing that I'm walking out with my visa.

So I love that so much.

And it's easy to say,

Like for us to sit here and talk about that is do you have like tools that you use that help you stay in that confident expectation?

Because I know for me,

Like it's it's something I work at consciously to like keep my mindset or to shift back into that mindset.

But what would you tell someone who like struggles with doubt and struggles with like,

How the hell do I actually get into trusting and believing with confidence that that can be mine?

Yes,

Yes,

Yes.

So the main thing about shifting your beliefs and shifting your your focus and shifting your energy,

I feel like it's repetition of the newly,

Newly created feeling that you desire,

Do you only create a belief that you want?

So whether that be with affirmations,

Affirmations are super powerful.

You can have your daily affirmations that literally are contrary to your limiting beliefs about something and just keep repeating them.

And after 3040 days,

You're going to start believing in them,

You're going to start thinking in a way you're you're reviring your brain to move with it to believe in it.

So affirmations are definitely number one.

And then I also use I listened to a lot of Abraham Hicks.

So I use a lot of her rampages.

Yes.

One of my one of the favorite ones that she has,

It's called it's done.

So it's literally a three minute track where she's just repeating it's done whatever you want.

It's already done.

It's done.

It's done.

It's done.

It's done.

It's done.

So I listened to that one a lot.

I remember even before going into the embassy building.

So those two definitely.

I love that so much.

And I'm familiar with that,

Like the concept of that rampage.

But what book or what like resources that from if someone wanted to go pull up Abraham Hicks,

Because that so far,

I think that's come up on like every interview,

Maybe because I also I'm obsessed with Abraham Hicks.

And I'm always talking about their stuff.

But it's such a powerful tool for anyone not familiar who's listening.

So Abraham,

Esther and Jerry Hicks are the like human couple,

A man and a woman who together have brought forward the work or the teachings of Abraham,

Which is this.

How would you describe it like an energetic,

Nonphysical.

Pardon?

Entity.

Yeah.

Entity like this wisdom that Esther channels.

And so they've given it the name Abraham Hicks.

And so it's like you can just feel the vibe when you listen to this stuff that it's from beyond.

Like it is so it lands so deeply as like this truth that we all have.

Like it's that knowing that like there is some magic around us that we all have access to.

And Abraham Hicks was the first kind of introduction to this for me,

Like along with the secret and the law of attraction.

But it was Abraham Hicks that really kind of like locked it in for me.

So this already it's already done rampage.

Like could someone go on YouTube and find that or like what?

How do we access that?

Yeah,

Definitely.

So Esther Hicks,

She decided to after her seminars to give out the audio recording of the seminar to every single person that attends the event.

So what happens is that they are also free to share it with people.

So you can find all of her teachings from her previous seminars actually on YouTube.

Cool.

If you search Abraham Hicks,

You're going to find over thousands and thousands of videos.

Oh,

Amazing.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I listened to their audio books and I like get their content that way.

But that's such a,

Yeah,

There's so much,

So much out there.

There's so many tools out there.

And there's so many people like you and me right now talking about like this stuff that we label as miracles and like magic and whatever woo woo stuff that maybe feels a bit out of reach or unrealistic.

It's like there are so many people that are like sitting right here right now saying it's actually like,

This is the way it's meant to be.

When you tap into your inner connection to source,

Your inner knowing,

Your connection to yourself and practice coming back to that energy,

Like these things that seem like these far out miracles can be your everyday like experiences,

Even in just the smallest ways of like,

I think a common one people can resonate with is like when you think of someone and then you bump into them in the street or they call you up randomly or whatever the synchronicity is.

But just those little connections,

Those little like glimpses of magic are so attainable to all of us.

And it's like,

As you listen to more and more people talking about this,

It eventually starts to click and then you're like,

Oh my God,

This can be my reality too.

Exactly.

That's how I got started.

And I love that you're now sharing that.

So I feel like there's more that I want to go back and like continue your story.

So you've got the visa,

But I just want to say,

I love that you are now living this life and this is your purpose.

Like you're sharing how this is possible for people.

This is like,

You know,

It's available,

It's attainable and we are all worthy of living miraculous lives where we're fully expressed and we're living amazing lives just for being here,

Just for breathing,

Just for being human in this lifetime.

You said it perfectly.

Okay.

So let's rewind.

So you've just gotten the visa,

Which already was like,

Oh my God,

How did I even get this?

Like it's supposed to be impossible.

So what came next for you?

Yeah.

So that was kind of the green light for me to actually tell my parents that,

Hey,

Look,

I got this visa because of law of attraction.

But like,

I can't get it again.

You know,

I got this visa.

So I literally told them like,

Hey,

You know what?

I'm going to move to the US and then just give myself time to see and figure out what I desire to do in my life.

And I don't know if I'm coming back.

So yeah.

How was that received?

Were you still in a place of such certainty that it was just like,

It wouldn't even matter what they said or thought,

But I'm sure they were sad to see their daughter go.

Oh yeah.

Yeah.

They were sad.

They were maybe a little bit like,

Kind of like disappointed.

Like maybe from that,

That point of,

Oh my God,

We're the parents of this really smart girl who is going to be a doctor,

You know,

From that like societal,

Like a provenance that they've been like desiring in their life.

Um,

But I definitely knew I was strong in my knowing and in my feeling,

I knew like I'm going,

I'm booking the ticket and it's done.

So then tell us about,

You landed in New York first,

Right?

And then did you have anything lined up?

Did you just like arrive and kind of,

You know,

Trust that more miracles would line up or what happened for you next?

Yes.

So I landed in New York with two suitcases.

That's all I could bring to suitcases and $200 in my pocket.

So that's what was left after I booked the ticket.

I,

I was going to be able to sleep over at my,

In my brother's room.

Um,

Because he lived in New York,

He lives in New York,

Um,

For a short amount of time.

That's all I had from my plans.

So that was my first step.

Uh,

I moved in there and I was initially allowed only two weeks because he has had roommates and everything.

So two weeks,

I have two weeks to figure myself out in New York city.

This was my first time ever living in,

In the U S and then going out and looking for a job by myself and,

And experiencing everything else that comes with it.

So it was,

It was a big challenge.

Definitely.

I was excited,

A little bit scared,

Um,

A little bit scared.

And I knew that miracles are going to happen because I,

I still went with the belief and I all,

All that time up until now,

I believe that the universe has my back,

That the universe,

If I take a step and I don't see the rock,

The rock is going to appear.

The universe is going to give me the next step.

One thing I loved in your,

Like your pre-interview form was,

Um,

Like your brother wanted you to be like out there and like hustling and trying to find a job and like,

You know,

In that struggle mode almost to like make it work.

But you wrote that you,

You spent more of your energy,

Like feeling good and enjoying where you were at.

And like from a deep place of trusting that it would line up.

Exactly.

I knew that my priority was to feel good,

This to feel on,

On a really good vibration of abundance.

So I can,

I can go out with that energy of abundance and then all the miracles and all the people that are,

Are going to help me are going to be attracted to me.

So that was really important for,

For me.

But the thing was my brother didn't believe in law of attraction and law of attraction or anything that goes with it.

He's very like logical.

He's very masculine.

So it was,

It was,

It was a struggle.

It was a constant struggle because every single day I planned out,

I'm going to go to the park.

I'm going to,

Um,

Visit,

Um,

Macy's or whatever mall I went to do this.

I'm going to do that to enjoy myself,

To,

To fill myself with that abundant feeling.

And then he would always ask me like,

Okay,

Uh,

How many,

Um,

How many CVs,

How many resumes do you have printed out?

Where are you going to look for jobs?

So it was,

It was really hard to stay in my energy and then still communicate with him every single day.

But yeah,

That,

That's what,

What was needed for me.

Yeah.

Probably helped you to drop deeper into that feminine,

Like receiving,

Cause that is such the like divine masculine energy of going out into the world and going and like making things happen and working for it.

And,

Um,

You know,

We all have that element of the masculine and the feminine in each of us,

But that heavily dominant divine masculine is like out in the world.

Whereas the divine feminine is like,

No,

I trust that.

Like if I become a match to what I want to receive,

I trust that my desires will come to me,

You know,

And there is that balance there,

I believe has to be a union between the feminine and the masculine within each of us.

So it's that,

Um,

Feeling into that vibration,

Trusting that it's coming.

And then the inspired action comes,

You know,

The things that we need to do or the places maybe we need to be to meet someone who has this amazing opportunity for us,

You know,

Or stumbling upon a job opportunity that wouldn't have been there.

Wouldn't have shown up for you if you'd been like,

Oh my God,

I got to go hand in my resume at all these places and feel really stressed about it.

If on the like alternative,

You can give yourself permission to just feel good,

Trust that your essence will attract what you desire to receive.

Like there's so much magic in that.

Yes,

Yes,

Yes,

Yes.

I love living in that magic.

And I feel like with our conditioning in current day society,

Like there's not a lot of people yet.

I think there,

I find there's more people talking about this now,

But it's been a very like heavily masculine dominant society where it is like do the things,

Um,

Go out and make the things happen.

And so it is almost like there's a disconnect between like,

Well,

How does that work?

Like how,

How can you just like feel good and receive,

I don't get it.

Cause we're not taught that.

And so then the people who start to do it look crazy,

But then it's when you start to see the results,

When you start to see the magic unfold,

Where you,

Um,

You know,

You attract the job or the clients or the money out of nowhere and things start to line up for you,

You know,

Or the visa that you're told that you're probably not going to get.

Um,

Yeah,

There's just so much magic to that.

So I love,

I love sharing this story and I love sharing this message that like,

Yeah,

Of course there's going to be things to do,

But I think our number one most important thing is to feel good.

Yes,

Exactly.

Exactly.

So I was focused on feeling good and,

Um,

You know,

Time went by.

It was actually,

Um,

Only like after two weeks,

Like two and a half weeks into me being in New York where I kind of started to worry a little bit,

You know,

Some kind of worries came up like,

Oh,

Am I gonna,

You know,

Be able to find a job,

To find a place to live and finally move out and not be a burden on somebody else.

But I still kept that feeling.

I still kept that feeling.

And one day it was my brother's roommate.

She was going to work in this restaurant and she invited me because she,

She was like asking me,

What are you going to do today?

And I wasn't really having any plans.

So she was like,

Oh,

Come to the restaurant with me.

I can teach you how to be a server because being a server in the U S being a server in,

In Serbia,

It's two totally different things.

So I was like,

Oh,

That sounds fun.

Amazing.

Let's go.

So I went with her.

And then it was that day that I met this other girl who was working at the same place,

But she was from my country.

And we instantly connected.

She was into a lot of attractions.

She was into all the juiciness,

The spiritual vibes,

And we connected and we decided to go for a walk after later that day.

So we were just going for a walk,

Just vibing,

Enjoying the breeze.

And then she was like,

Oh wait,

This is the restaurant I used to work at.

Let me just go in and say hi to my like old friends.

And I was like,

Okay,

Cool.

So we went in and I was like,

Oh,

This is cute.

Well,

Since I'm in here,

Let me just ask the manager if they are hiring.

So I looked for the manager.

I asked the manager if they are hiring.

She's like for servers.

I'm like,

Yeah.

And she's like,

Can you start tomorrow?

And I'm like,

Yeah.

Oh my goodness.

And she's like,

Please,

I need you.

Oh my goodness.

I just like,

That's exactly the type of thing that is like,

You were feeling good.

You were going with the flow.

You followed,

You know,

You went to the restaurant where you met the girl,

Hung out.

Like it wasn't like you were going and like striving to find this job.

You received it.

You attracted it.

It was there for you.

Oh,

I love that.

Yeah.

So like a week later,

I already made like $800.

I rented out my own room.

I like moved out and I finally felt like,

Okay,

I am,

I have my own foundation.

That was doing good.

Oh,

I love that.

So then was that kind of your stepping stone to building your foundation then and eventually,

You know,

Thriving in the States?

Cause it was like that first little miracle,

You had the job,

You could start the life.

And then from there,

Like how,

Yeah.

How have things unfolded since there to get you from like,

Okay,

So the miracles,

The things are starting your life in the States is starting.

And now you're this boss babe living in California.

Yes.

Okay.

So when I started receiving these miracles and attracting all these opportunities,

I was like,

Okay,

So everything in the States is,

Is bigger,

Everything.

There is a lot of opportunities.

I can go for whatever I desire.

And this is actually the first time that I had that much money in my bank account,

Like a thousand dollars,

A thousand dollars.

That's like my whole years of scholarship in,

In Serbia.

So I was getting like $80 a month for my,

For books and for food and things.

So it was a lot of money.

So that got me really excited into attracting more,

More things and more miracles.

And as I was just getting out like in the world,

I was good with,

With my job,

With my money.

I started exploring my kind of like hobbies,

Hobbies,

My desires,

Like,

What do I love to do?

Let me see.

So I started going to the gym.

I,

I think I,

That's when I started really getting more active and on social media.

I chose Instagram and I was just sharing about my day.

I was reading books.

I would share about that.

I would listen to a podcast.

I would share about that.

I would go to the gym.

I would share to inspire people.

And I started really enjoying that.

And I thought,

Wow,

I'm going to be kind of like an inspirational person or like a fitness inspirational person.

And then I started digging into that and I enjoyed it.

And then I,

I started doing modeling.

So I tried out all,

All different things and it was really good to be able to dip my toes and just try it out,

Test it out.

And I even started like an e-commerce business.

So I was everywhere.

I tried all different sorts of things.

And by the end,

I realized that I really want to help people on a greater scale.

I want to help them to create life-changing transformations,

Literally just how my life changed when I decided to move to the U.

S.

And do all the things that were illogical and crazy.

That's how I wanted other,

And I'm really passionate about helping women.

I want to help other women feel this good and go after what they desire and,

And,

You know,

Really tap into what's making them happy and going for that.

There's so much magic when we each follow that,

When we give ourselves permission to follow what makes us happy.

And you're such a prime example of like completely changing your life.

Like your life today looks,

I would imagine,

Nothing like it looked when you were living in Serbia.

Nothing like it.

I was living all my life in Serbia.

I was living in a one bedroom apartment with five more people,

Six of us,

One bedroom apartment.

And now from following that nudge,

From taking that leap,

And then from like giving yourself permission to feel into what makes you happy,

What is fulfilling for you,

Trying out all these different things.

And basically,

As you were trying out all those different things and sharing about it,

You were building this brand that is you,

Which I,

I know that speaks to me and the work I do and the work that I help women do.

It's like,

Just like we're worthy of miracles,

We're worthy of the synchronicities and the magic available to us.

It's like,

I have a deep belief that we each have an innate gift in just like being who we are and getting paid to be you is a reality that is available.

It's easy to like take that leap or to like automatically believe that or trust in that because it's so far fetched,

Like from the society that is like the,

What you should do,

The straight and narrow,

The like,

Get a job,

Be an employee.

But there's this world that's available to us with social media,

With the internet,

With how connected we are now.

It's like people just by being in your presence and feeling your energy and hearing your story,

It's like that alone is inspiring to people.

And if you can hold that vibe of feeling worthy of like,

Of knowing the value that that brings and standing in that,

Knowing that like,

You know,

You might not know right now what it is that you can monetize or that what course you can create or what kind of coaching packages you can provide.

But as you hold that vibration,

Those ideas come and those services,

Those offerings come through that aligned,

Like those ideas,

Those light bulb moments that,

Oh my God,

I need to do this,

Which stems from feeling good,

Which stems from feeling worthy,

Which stems from doing the stuff you love.

Yes.

You basically just described my whole business.

Tell us more about your business.

Like I want to really paint the picture for anyone listening,

Who is really feeling your vibe and wants to know more,

Like how can they connect with you and work with you and what kinds of like,

Where would be the best place for them to find and connect with you?

Okay.

Awesome.

So I am always hanging out on Instagram.

So you can find me on Instagram at high vibe CEO and shoot me a message.

I love to talk,

Connect,

And just really get into people's minds and see what they need help with,

What they need.

A little bit,

Where do they need a little bit of push?

So what I am more like most about in my business is really just showing people how they can transform their life,

How they can use the tools that they have within themselves that you do not need any outside tool.

You do not need anything from your physical 3d reality in order to succeed.

You have all the answers inside within you.

If you follow your higher self or your intuition,

It will always give you the ideas,

The nudges,

As you said,

The downloads for the programs for everything that you need in your life.

And that's what I'm really passionate about.

So I created programs like become a fearless life coach.

So if anybody is looking to really just use what they are passionate about in their life and what they experienced and take that and guide other people through those experiences and help them get out out of the tunnel,

Right?

So I'm really passionate about helping just other women starting their businesses,

Starting their coaching businesses,

Or any other business that they desire.

But I also teach on mindset,

I teach on self confidence,

I just have a program,

Literally just going on confidence,

Self love,

Tapping into intuition.

So it's called.

Wow,

Okay.

Self Mastery Queen Academy.

So Self Mastery Queen Academy,

So many programs that is running.

So I'm really passionate about just helping women become a overall higher version of themselves.

I love that self mastery.

And like being in that confidence and that self love,

That's like,

That's so foundational to all the rest of the magic,

You know,

It's that feeling and trusting and knowing that you're worthy.

And like owning the shit out of that.

That's a must.

Thank you for doing this work and for guiding women to see their own beauty and their own worth and their own innate,

Infinite potential.

Thank you.

I'm really grateful for all the women that come to me and connect with me and tell me even that like sidekicks told them that they should work with me.

And I'm like,

Wow,

Okay,

My energy is out there.

My energy is felt.

So everybody who is coming to my page,

It's not a coincidence,

They are going to take away something from it.

Yeah,

I fully believe that.

Just like anyone who landed here listening to this podcast,

It's like this was put here for you.

This was part of a bigger plan,

Even when we don't know at the time what that bigger plan is.

And the same applies for things that we might consciously label as like,

Not so great.

It's like,

Everything is guiding us to exactly where we are meant to be.

And if your focus is continually on feeling better,

Being more,

You know,

Confident and integrated into who you are,

And knowing like,

How incredible you are just for being here.

It's like,

That is just all of it.

Like,

Oh,

I just felt so deeply into that feeling of like,

That innate worth.

I kind of lost it.

Yes,

Yes,

Yes,

Yes.

When you know yourself,

When you work with yourself,

When you let yourself play and disobey rules,

You're going to feel the fullness of life,

Of abundance,

Of love,

Everything.

You're letting yourself tap into all of that.

Yeah.

Oh,

I love it.

Well,

It's been so nice chatting with you,

Lydia.

Thank you so much for coming on the podcast and sharing your light and your wisdom and your story with us.

It's been so nice connecting with you.

Thank you so much for having me.

I was so excited to share my story,

Because if it only helps one person,

That means that one life is changed.

And I'm grateful for that.

I love that.

We'll put the in the notes for this episode,

We'll put the links to find you on social media and connect with you further so that you can continue to help and inspire the women who are here,

You know,

Looking for you.

And I fully believe have already like agreed energetically to connect prior to even you coming into their awareness.

And it's like,

Okay,

Cool.

So that'll be in the show notes or the description wherever you're watching this,

And or listening to this.

And yeah,

Thank you again,

Lydia,

So much.

I love you.

Yeah,

I love you so much.

I'm just so feeling your vibe.

Okay,

We'll wrap up.

And yeah,

Thanks,

Everyone listening,

And we will connect with you again on the next episode.

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