Be Unapologetically Yourself

Do you trust in yourself? Do you trust in your decisions and choices? We manifest our lives with every choice. Who are you living for? Are you living from fear or from love? This is a podcast episode to support you in expanding into your higher self and not staying small.

Transcript

There is a quote from Lisa Nichols that says,

Write your life like you are writing for your obituary.

And not,

Not writing and making choices out of fear,

But rather of love and of living in your truth and really trusting yourself.

To really,

Really trust in yourself.

What does that look like?

So I drew a card of the day today.

Happy Monday,

By the way.

This card is from my card deck,

My self awareness card deck.

And it says be unapologetically yourself.

It's normal to feel distracted by what everyone else is doing or becoming.

You are unique.

You are magnetic and luminous in your own way.

You were not made to be like everyone else.

Own who you are.

Put your blinders on and stay in your own lane.

So come back home to you.

So an action step you can take today is today is your day.

How can you show up and own your day today?

Are you focused on others or yourself?

And ask yourself why you're making the choices that you're making.

So to go back to this quote from Lisa Nichols is to write your life like you're writing your obituary.

So what do you want at the end of your life?

I believe we are spiritual beings that came here in a physical body.

We chose to be here to expand.

To expand means to have freedom.

It means to feel free,

You know,

To really expand versus living a contracted life or living a life in neutral.

So where are you wanting to expand in your life?

That's the first question you need to ask yourself.

Where are you wanting to expand?

Do you feel expansive or do you feel constricted in your life?

Or are you riding on neutral on cruise?

So living a life from the place of love and from the place of trusting in yourself.

And it takes a lot to trust in yourself.

I have taken a long time,

Many years to really know what it feels like to trust in yourself.

And I did a live yesterday.

If you were to go back and see that it's on my feed.

But it's odd.

It's all about when you feel when you want to take a risk,

You're leaving the shore.

And there's a poem about this.

It's called the burning bridges or burning ships poem.

And it basically says that there was this man who commanded an army.

And maybe you know this poem.

Let me know if you have heard of it before.

But this man was leading his army to an island to fight a war.

And he they burned the ships when they got to this island.

So they had no choice but to win the war.

They could not back out.

How many times do you want to back out on yourself?

How many times have I wanted to back out on myself?

How many times have we said we are going to commit to a goal or a dream and we don't show up for ourselves?

So today's message is about showing up for you.

You are worthy of showing up fully for yourself.

That means having to tell someone,

No,

You're not available because you're going to hit the gym or you're going to work out or you're going to paint or you're going to start a project that you've been wanting to do.

Or you're going to make that phone call.

Whatever it is for you,

You will stand in your power and you will fight for yourself.

And when we do this,

It's a beautiful gift that we're gifting to other people,

Especially our children.

Our babies are watching us and they're modeling who they see we are.

And when we shift,

We allow seven generations ahead and seven generations behind us.

We heal.

We help to heal that.

So don't ever think that your light is not making a difference because whether you know it or feel it or not,

Your light,

Your being,

Who you already are without having to change anything,

Who you are at your core right now in this very moment is bright enough to be happy and to live a life of bliss.

I believe we are here in this earth.

We came here in this earth to live a life that feels like bliss.

So are you living a life that you are in alignment with and that feels like bliss to you?

And our life is made up.

And there's this quote.

It's not from me that our life is made up from choices that we make every single day.

I have a talk that I give.

It's called Shift One Degree when I do my speeches for people.

But it's all about to really transform.

It comes down to a one degree shift.

If we ask an engineer who's building a sky rise in New York,

They will say that three degrees will wreck a building.

They cannot have a building that they cannot be three degrees off.

So imagine if one degree you shift.

So today I'm in Wisconsin and it's 45 degrees.

It's fairly warm for December.

But just imagine in January what it's going to be.

Right.

If I were to shift,

If I were to look at a map and shift my movement,

Just one degree,

If I were just to shift one degree,

I'm not going to notice any changes or differences right now.

But a year from now,

I could end up in Bali.

So if you're planning it on a map or if you're an engineer and you're shifting just one small degree.

Imagine the change.

Imagine what you can step into.

It's not about changing to become a better version of you because you already are an amazing version of yourself.

It's to step in and to feel how it feels to fully embrace the highest version of yourself because you are trusting in yourself.

You're confident in yourself.

And I believe confidence comes from taking action.

We cannot have confidence if we're not following through for ourselves.

So if you tell yourself January's coming up,

You guys,

So how many of us have always had a goal?

I'm going to lose weight this year.

I'm going to I'm going to find the person I'm I'm going to marry this year.

I'm going to get that certificate this year.

I'm going to have a house this year and have a better job this year.

How many?

It usually comes down to relationships,

Money and jobs.

Right.

The things we really focus on.

So how many times have we not followed through on ourselves?

By every time that's taking.

It's a it's a dame in the tree.

Right.

It's an it's someone you're putting your own ax in the tree.

You're cutting yourself.

So fully show up for yourself.

Take those baby steps.

So right now,

The card for the day is to be unapologetically yourself,

Is to know your truth,

Is to know oneself.

That means,

You know,

If we work together,

When I'm coaching someone,

We talk and really get deep into what are your values?

What are your boundaries?

What are your hard no's?

What are your easy yeses?

And to live from that place.

The mantra I want to share with you before we go is I stand confidently in my power.

My time is now.

So,

Again,

I always encourage you to write this down.

There's a power in writing things down.

Take a dry erase marker and write this on your bathroom mirror.

Send me a picture when you do.

We can be accountability partners.

I have I write with dry erase markers on my windows all over my mirrors in the bathroom so you can see it all the time.

But I write a mantra,

Something how I want to feel and what I want to focus on,

Because our brain is a powerful tool that needs something to focus on.

That's why you see when when a woman wants to get pregnant.

I remember when I wanted to get pregnant,

I or when I found out I was pregnant,

I saw a million other women.

It was like everyone was pregnant.

Or when you want to buy a car,

Say a particular car,

Say a white Nissan.

You see white Nissan everywhere.

I had a white Nissan.

That's why I say that.

But we see them everywhere because a reticular activation system in our brain focuses and loves to focus on something.

So I want you to put all the energy you're giving towards what people think about you,

Towards caring.

You can care about other people.

That's that's amazing.

And if you're here,

You're like me and you have a big heart and you probably are an empath and sensitive.

And this is a superpower.

But we need to know how to own our super power.

Just like just like Spider-Man.

Right.

When he found out he was Spider-Man,

He was in the room,

Banging against the room.

And his grandma was like,

What's going on?

Spider-Man,

You know,

What's going on?

And he didn't know how to control his power.

Well,

As you are tuning in,

If you're listening to this,

More than likely,

You are a lot like me and you are this sensitive,

Self-aware,

Super aware human being.

And that's a beautiful thing.

But it can be hard.

It can be a hard life if we don't know because we're givers.

We want to give our heart away.

We want to fill up everyone else's cup.

We don't know how to really give to ourselves.

We really don't know how to make ourselves happy.

We really don't know self-pleasure.

So it's really a practice to hone it in,

To learn how to control your superpower.

And when you do,

It is so worth it.

This is where doors open,

Floodgates open.

You have aha moments.

You feel empowered.

You feel confident.

You feel like I really love myself.

Like I'm not just talking about that I need to love myself.

But you really feel like you love yourself and you really stand in your power.

And you get comfortable with with all these things of having boundaries,

Knowing what your values are.

The hard the hard no's,

The easy yeses.

You learn about yourself.

So if this message resonates and you want more support,

Shoot me a message.

I would love to support you.

But I wanted to leave that with you,

My friends.

The card of the day is to be unapologetically yourself.

If this message resonated with you,

Please share it with a friend or take a friend below.

I would love your support.

It means a lot to me and it keeps me doing what I'm doing for you all.

I love you.

And the wholeness in me honors the wholeness in each one of you.

Namaste.

Have a beautiful day,

Friends.

I love you.

Reviews

Love that message!

Awesome. So motivating and inspiring..all from a place of live. Thank you!

I absolutely loved this. My mind went for the ride. When the ride was over. I wanted to get back on. 😁 Love Wins❤

Just perfect! This was everything I needed. Thank you so much!