Your Life A Mess? Embrace It. Here’s How.

Tiger delivers a raw, liberating reminder: you don’t have to feel ready to begin. The learning path is through failure — by showing up, making a mess, and letting it be chaotic. He speaks candidly about the behind-the-scenes of growth, how clarity comes after movement, and why sucking at something is often the most sacred step.

For anyone waiting until it’s perfect, this talk is the permission slip to throw yourself into the pool of life, get messy, and trust that what matters will rise. A call to honest, human-sized courage.

Please note: This track may include some explicit language.

Transcript

You want to learn how to do it?

Go do it.

But I'm going to fail.

Yeah,

That's called learning.

That's where you really learn,

Is when you're willing to fail.

And you say,

Okay,

Here we go.

Let me go suck at this for a while.

You really have to disregard what the whole world thinks.

I'm right there with you on this chaotic fucking journey.

My goodness,

What a ride.

As I'm doing what I'm doing,

I was thinking today,

I am so just.

.

.

I don't even know how to say it.

I want to say out of control,

But I don't know if that's the right word.

Meaning,

I'm walking forward,

But shit's just falling everywhere.

And I don't know what's working,

What's not working.

But I just keep moving forward and I figure it out.

Right?

It's like there's this idea of like,

Oh,

I need to know exactly this and that and the other thing.

It's like,

No,

I'm just making a mess.

I'm just making a mess and moving forward.

And one part of me is like,

I am so fucking unorganized.

And then somebody else looks at what I'm doing and they look behind the scenes and see all my shit and they say,

Oh my God,

You're so fucking organized.

Yeah,

Because I know how unorganized I am.

So it's both.

And it's only because I can acknowledge how unorganized I am that I have a pretty badass system of organization.

The point is,

Is you just move.

You just go.

Let it be a mess.

Let it be chaotic.

Let it be unorganized.

You will find your way.

What is important will stick.

And then everything else will fall behind.

That's part of it.

That's life.

Let it be wild.

Let it be a mess.

And just move.

Just take a fucking step.

How do you find your balance?

You get way out of balance.

How do you learn how to swim?

You find out that you cannot swim.

And you learn real quick.

You got to throw yourself into the pool.

Sure,

Maybe throw yourself into the shallow end,

But you still got to get your ass in the pool.

It's like the difference between I want to learn how to do the thing.

So I'm going to read about it.

No,

Do the thing.

You want to learn how to do it?

Go do it.

But I'm going to fail.

Yeah,

That's called learning.

That's where you really learn is when you're willing to fail.

How do I learn how to be a good speaker?

You'd be terrible at it.

Over and over and over again.

How do I get good at holding space for others?

You suck at it.

Over and over and over again.

You dive in.

You commit.

This is what I'm here to learn.

This is what I'm here to do.

It's required.

Part of the process.

And you say,

OK,

Here we go.

Let me go suck at this for a while.

You really have to disregard what the whole world thinks.

Hey,

Thanks for listening.

If you're ready,

Or almost ready,

To embody these discoveries in everyday life,

Then check out my profile for upcoming retreats,

Live broadcasts,

Courses,

And other opportunities to open up,

Fear less,

And love more.

Your life is sacred.

Don't waste it hiding behind an adorable but imaginary fear.

It's time to show up.

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