Message: They Hurt You Because They’re Broken

If you’re struggling with pain from someone else’s actions, this message is here to bring you clarity and peace. Sometimes, people act out of their own wounds, projecting their hurt onto others. This channeled message reminds you to let go of the blame, focus on your healing, and find strength in your journey. You are not defined by others’ actions—embrace the power of self-love and growth.

Transcript

If you click on this video this message has found you for a reason hello beautiful souls my name is Tess and welcome to another reading so let's see together what you need to hear today from the universe so let's see five of wands, Two of swords, Reverse three of swords and reverse nine of swords very extremely heavy energy is extremely sad energy is what i'm getting so let's see the cards individually and also i'm going to channel some messages for you so the five of wands as a card is talking all about the conflict about some environment that is a little bit toxic about environment that it's not very perspiring for you you are being asked to maybe distance yourself from the environment that is toxic like i said distance yourself from the unnecessary drama if there are some people who are all the time competing with each other you are being asked to not to involve in those activities because it is draining you down it is also taking a lot of energy of you it is also taking you a lot of time and you are just feeling so energetically drawn drain by engaging in the activities what i'm getting for some of you guys because this is a general collective reading so please take what feels right and leave the rest so some of you guys are feeling very much stuck in your current situation because there are some toxic people around you you want to leave some people behind you aren't very happy with the people who you maybe have in your life there are some toxic situations maybe it can be in your work in your university your education maybe at your home in your family friends group neighbors community someone is toxic there is a big competition there is a high competition there are a lot of opinions a lot of discussions very much different people different backgrounds different values you are just in the collective some of you are currently engaging with the collective that is completely different from you there are people from all around the like the spectrum is what i'm getting the opinions on everything basically the whole opinions about the whole world and what's going on is the message that i'm getting just so many diverse people and i am not meaning this like diverse in a good way i mean like diverse opinions that are not very healthy for you this is the message that i'm getting that people around you are so different than you are some of you this message for some of you some people are completely opposite you need to deal with people maybe in your work in your community who are actually on different spectrum of opinions than you are maybe this is going to just the message there are just so many different opinions maybe you are dealing with um like close-minded people and you are open-minded just something different is also the message that is coming and you don't know how to deal with those people you aren't sure how to also approach this situation because they're so different than you want to have so many different things also it was the message that came through that some of you are dealing with this currently but mostly majority of you are dealing with some competition with some toxic environment and there are a lot of fights a lot of discussions and it is leading you to nowhere it is not giving you anything positive because also the other cards are i don't want to say that this is very negative reading but the energies are really heavy is what i'm getting to of sorts you are currently on the crossroad you don't see the way out also maybe from this situation with the people around you you don't see the way out you don't see how you can actually improve your life how to improve your environment how to also leave something behind and move towards something else you are standing on a crossroad maybe this message is going to resonate with some of you are you're thinking about changing the career because of the environment that you aren't very connected to the people working in the same team or in the same job and you are kind of like standing on this crossroad you don't know how to move forward you don't know which path to take because also we have the nine of swords and three of swords and you just know where the path is going to lead you you just want to do the decision that maybe your job is financially beneficial for you but you don't feel so great there because of the environment is what i'm getting maybe you are studying and your classmate or collective is so toxic and you want to change the schools but you don't know how you don't know if you're going to fit in new school maybe you don't even have a lot of options around you or you don't even have a lot of opportunities to actually make a decision that you are going to stand or you're standing in the time when you need to choose when you need to do one decision and go to one way and you are also maybe someone who what i'm getting maybe this message is going to resonate with some of you some of you are also very closed you are very individualistic you are someone who is not very good with talking with people you want to do your own thing which is not a bad thing you just want to be on your own and also maybe some of you are not very social people you are you just want to be at your own home and do your own things and it is also draining you down it is taking so much of your energy what i'm also getting that you have been also maybe in the past surrounded by unsupportive people surrounded by people who were maybe also making fun of you or who took advantage of you and that's why you are kind of like close to you close inside you are not letting other people inside you are not like letting also other people to socialize with you because you have been hurt in the past but because we also have this three of swords but it's in the reverse position so three of swords when it's in normal position is talking about heartbreak you have been hurt in the past someone hurt you so deeply and it's still holding back but when it's in the reverse you are actually healing it's a very good time for you and the universe is asking you to heal to step on your healing journey to start this healing process to start healing yourself because you are so much stuck and you don't see the way out but you are currently in the right period when you need to start healing yourself when you need to also leave those people behind and also realize that it's not about you also if someone hurt you it's not about you it's about them they hurt you because they have some unresolved issues in themselves or also the people around you are not the way it's not about you it's it's just the message that i'm getting it's not about you you done nothing wrong you have been also acting according to the best way how you know in the in that situation so don't blame yourself don't also put too much pressure on yourself do not also get maybe stuck because of this situation you have been going through you are also not only maybe putting guilt on yourself that you could do something better you could do something you you couldn't because you were acting at that current stage in that current situation the best how you know maybe today you would act differently but you can change the past you just need to heal you just need to heal from it you just need to forgive forgive the people because if you're going to forgive them you're just making yourself favor you need to be a little bit like selfish in this situation and it's a little bit i don't want to say selfish i'm just making this you know it's fun making it sound fun or funny but if be a little bit selfish because if you're going to forgive them you are actually um letting this heavy feelings out of your body you are just making yourself feel better if you are going to forgive them you shouldn't be very much stuck in the situation because you are just hurting yourself and also we have the nine of swords and you see a lot of anxiety heavy feelings what i'm getting that you kind of didn't know how to move forward you didn't know how to how to heal how to forgive them you didn't know how to do that and it was draining you down what i'm also getting that you didn't basically in the past know how to heal how to move forward but the nine of swords and is in the reverse it is suggesting that you are currently ready you are definitely 100% ready and you just need to realize that it's a very good time to heal yourself to let those worries and to do something and you just need to maybe some of you or the message that came you just need to also do some shadow work and start working on yourself start working on self-acceptance start working on your self-confidence and on self-love and if you're going to be more confident you're going to realize that nothing really matters and the only thing that matters is your opinion about yourself it doesn't matter your toxic environment all that matters is the way how you perceive yourself and if someone hurt you it's not about you it's about them they were acting from their own insecurities from their own subconscious mind or yeah the the way what i just wanted to say that the people are acting the way how they act because of their maybe family backgrounds some unhealed trauma some unhealed situation is what i'm getting so you shouldn't feel so hurt by the others is what i'm getting and also if someone is for example hurting you or done something bad in the past to you sometimes those people are going to reach out to you in the future and you're going to see if they're going to see that you are doing better you just need to also show them show yourself that you can do better that the thing they are doing to you the thing they are talking about or maybe behind your back it's not going to affect you because you're so strong you know inside that you have the power you have the confidence to overcome this situation but can i get one confirmation card some one message about this okay i also got the page of wands as a card so page of wands is talking about new ideas new beginnings new fresh energy so you need to realize that you are so strong inside you you need to step also in your own self-esteem or work on your self-esteem so all of the external situations won't get to you you need to start working on your self-esteem on your confidence because if you're going to be 100% loving towards if you're going to be kind to you if you're going to learn how to love yourself so deeply nothing is going to affect you and other people's opinions or it's not going to affect you it's not going to shake you because you know who you are you know what you want you know your values you know what you're capable of and that's all that matters and let them talk let them speak let them behave it's not affecting you and it shouldn't affect you it's about them uh there are small people what i'm getting because they are trying to hurt someone the high vibrational people or the people who just have good self-confidence and good self-esteem they're not going to hurt other people only people who are hurting others who have negative comments who have negative talks about others are inside very hurt are small and they're just going to they're just making themselves feel better about themselves by hurting others if they would be 100% confident in themselves if they would love themselves they wouldn't try to hurt you this is the whole message so you just need to look at them and be also sorry for them you know you need to feel also be like yeah i feel sorry for you that you needed to hurt me because you have some unresolved trauma so don't get affected by it it was the small message that just came but i also want to see some monology oracle cards or some monology messages what do you need to hear okay i have one card and it is the past leave the past be the past do not dwell or do not be so not cling into the past do not get so affected by the past the people from the past just move forward is the message that is coming through and also change your tune change your perspective change the way how you are thinking about yourself change the way how you perceive yourself is the message that i'm also getting but i also want to see some affirmations cards if you are going to get some affirmations from the universe some affirmations for my collective okay so judgment i understand that everyone has their unique path and challenges again there may be just acting the way how they act because they have some challenges inside they have some unresolved you know traumas and you just need to feel sorry for them basically that it's nothing about you it's all about them and if they make someone else small it's because they are small and that if you're going to vibrate higher it's not going to affect you because you will be so confident confident in yourself you are going to be so so loving towards you that it's not going to affect you you just need to be like okay it's not affecting me it's not in my reality and i am not letting others negative thoughts negative beliefs to affect me it's out go out believe my life then trust i accept that my inner voice will always guide me correctly believe in the universe believe that the universe is working in your favor the universe is working for you not against you and the last one imagination i embrace and nourish the creative aspect of my mind maybe some of you are being asked to be more creative to maybe also if you're feeling a little bit you know heartbroken or some grief situation you are being asked to also maybe express your feelings through the art so i have the feeling that that was the messages that came through i hope that some messages resonated with you and as always please remember that this was a general reading and you are also the creator of your own destiny you have a free will so take what feels right and leave the rest thank you so much for tuning into this reading until next time see you

Reviews

Some really great points that I found very helpful. I gained new perspective that eased the feelings of hurt . Thank you 🙏🏽