Hi beautiful souls,
Welcome to another podcast with Life is Magical.
Hope you're all doing good and enjoying those sunny days wherever you are and hope the weather in your heart is good.
And today's topic is and just for today,
Trust yourself.
That's the main thing.
So trusting is a big part of our waking up and in our journeys.
So I just wanted to stretch some insights on it and share my own experiences where it all began and the tools and techniques that I have brought in with me and I have recognized and used and checked out.
So I'm ready to share that topic with you guys and some parts of it are from my Connect Your Inner Guide book and if you haven't got a copy,
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So thank you guys for being here and listening to this and it is going to be some deep stories and some parts of my journey I'm going to share here.
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So just for today,
Trusting yourself and how wonderful is that just to think about like whatever I'm going to do today I'm going to trust myself and say yes to everything that's going to come into my life rather than say no or give excuses of the fear or our resentments or the limiting beliefs because so far we have done that but just for today I'm going to say yes to everything.
Have you watched that movie?
Yes Day?
It's fantastic.
It's exactly what it is like you know trusting and saying yes and going along and tagging along as the day is evolving and having fun and a lot of surprises.
Some things that we didn't realize that we could have fun,
Some things that we were discomfort with.
We realized like oh now we changed,
We moved along and we are having fun.
We are okay with it you know so just for today set that mantra up in your mind you're going to trust yourself.
So around like 20 years ago exactly this year I got married and yeah we are going to celebrate our 20th anniversary soon and when I got married we moved to Ireland.
So it was only like 24 days or something like that that I was leaving my country continent and moving with this person in my life whom I barely knew and going to spend my rest of the life with him and I to be frank I didn't even know where that country was on the map.
At the time the map we had didn't show Ireland and when I asked him where exactly is it?
Is it even existing or are you making up any stories and he said it's right near London.
So I just trusted him it is where it is and so yeah I moved to Ireland and I still remember it was September when I moved and it was cold,
It was windy right before the 9-11 event and yeah that memory can never fade off.
I was like oh my god where did I land like such a cold country.
It took me a couple of years to settle in,
Absorb and actually accept the country.
People have been so nice,
So amazing I still miss them.
It's been two and a half years being in Seattle but I so so miss Ireland.
I call it my home country now because that's where I started my adult life.
I have my children there so it's very special at this stage.
But coming back to trusting I didn't know what my gut was saying but all I felt was it's good to go with the flow,
It's good is coming in so let me be saying yes for it and so that's how I went.
But deep down I knew we were meant to be together and this was the right time.
They shouldn't be taken in yeah.
And later on after my spiritual awakening I was at a Caroline Miss workshop and where she was talking about her journey about her grandparents when they were moving from Poland to US.
All they had was a ray of hope and all that ray of hope meant like they can have a new beginnings after the war and have a new settlement,
Start from the very zero and that's all they carried in and came in a boat and they didn't even know if the boat will make to the end journey.
And when she said that it just caught on to me like that is the ray of light and the hope that I came to this new country having that faith and the trust in the person in the relationship in the universe that's the biggest thing like you know it came in and no other fear nothing else is going to bring me down.
So now if anything else is more fearful I always think in my mind I crossed the biggest one at the age of 21 and nothing else is more fearful than what I have crossed over.
So yeah that was on a brighter side.
But later on I lived life having the fearful times or not trusting myself or not listening to my intuition or didn't focus much about all these things and lived much until like my spiritual awakening started and that's where I started relooking and rechecking with me what is this whole trust about like you know did I ever trust myself or what are the things that I did trusting myself and when I started refocusing then I felt this was the biggest thing that I did like you know trusting for one of the major things in my life and what I realized was just for a change when you trust your intuition and yourself you need to be open to see the possibilities and to see what will happen out of it because right now if you are in a problem in a situation where you are thinking about like hey what can I do so far you have been doing what you were doing normally not taking that leap of faith or say but now just for a change what if you trust and follow your intuition and see what happens maybe some things will change maybe things will unreveal or lead you to your destination in much better way like you know but unless you take that leap of faith trusting yourself you're not going to know is that what's going to happen or is that how it is supposed to be like you know it's easier especially when we do this work when we are less emotionally attached to the consequences do by the small steps like you know rather than jumping in for a relationship like I did or moving the country again or things that are having a low impact say you're going to work with the same route maybe today your gut is saying hey take a different route go for it don't take the freeway go for different route that you have been called into and see what happens maybe something will trigger up to let your intention or not intention to let your attention into the nature maybe or you might see a deer on your path like you know so there could be something magical that you can bring forward your attention to so just for today if something is calling you to do differently that you have been doing give it a chance just give it a chance and see what happens so this by doing these many things you are going to build up onto the bigger ones or the ones that you are mentally emotionally attached to them like you know it will be much easier and trust is something that keeps us going forward but isn't it amazing how we have programmed our minds to always trust someone else and not ourselves right you might be happier to trust your family your friends or your children even but when it comes to trusting your own thoughts you haven't done that before or nobody told you to do that like you know or taking responsibility for it but now is the time trust yourself rather than blaming others for being who you are today trust yourself take that control back to yourself and do the things what ignites you and you will notice that you are never going to be the same person again and this is a new change new vibes that you're going to bring into your life yeah but i have to tell you there is going to be a fear always that fear is going to be there it's about how you bring that fear into your life make it as your friend and fear comes only when there is a shift change or moving you forward make it as your friend and replace that fear with trusting trusting for yourself and the universe that there is something brighter and the best things are going to happen for you and this also helps us exploring the gifts of who we truly are i totally believe that the reason we are here and the things that we can do we haven't even been doing even ten percent of it there is a lot more potential that we hold back just because we are afraid or we don't know the consequences and we don't take that time a leap of faith or even the first step towards that life yeah so just for today exploring the gift of who you truly are is something that you can sit and think about it and sometimes we just live life for others as per their needs beliefs comforts like you know and then you forget who you really are because on the way you have been diluting yourself and you're not yourself at all like yeah you're a pure soul until the age of like four to six i think it's even decreasing with so much happening around even for children and then you change as per the society as per the family everyone else and you forget who you really are and when i ask my clients like you know what as a child did you enjoy most some of them do struggle to remember recollect what did they even enjoy as a child were they playing with the dolls or they were they're playing with the stones they do forget that memory becomes so vague and also we close it up like you know because your soul wasn't getting much of it and it's only was like giving you more pain so we close those doors off and don't go into that part of it as even writing the book for me about trusting there was this beautiful memory came up where as a child in school this was in the kindergarten i used to love collecting the glitter in the sand the mica we used to call it and these are shimmering up mirror flakes you know minerals and i would be doing that for hours and collecting them in a small bag and be so mesmerized of somehow big they were and how small they were like you know and be looking into with all the glitter and the shine they would be spreading and i would be attracting all the kids around me to do the same as well so that was something that fascinated me like yes like a beach combing i was sand combing in the playground yeah and that definitely even till today like ignites me i find the joy and if you are near the sand in india i would ask my children hey this is what i used to do and maybe let's go and hunt for it you know so it's something that fun as well but it is that exploration that you need to go into your past memories and bring it forward bring it into the present times yeah maybe you can start journal writing them down that might go down into your memory lane into your happy moment and you're bringing more out the more the joyful times we have the lighter the energy around is the better you feel you're raising your vibrations you're shifting your energies you're not feeling stuck anymore it it gets easier in life to move forward and just for today trust yourself and imagine if you're trusting yourself for today you're releasing the past and you're welcoming the future and nothing gets tougher for you and trusting yourself is more natural than being a resistance like you know as a child that this is what i always remind myself as a baby we trusted as a young baby coming out of the mother's womb we trusted we are going to make it and everything is going to be fine and we came out into the light not knowing what's from the darkness to the light is going to be there and now why are we not trusting ourselves anymore back then we trusted who our loving people were we didn't even hold them tight but when we were to the strangers we were holding them tight didn't know if they are going to make us fall or um they can hold us but again why did we forget to trust ourselves there is that biggest thing off i can't do this or some of my pastations has gone wrong so i rather not do them anymore maybe you have you would have invested in a particular place and all your money was gone and never again you will trust yourself but hey you learned your lesson and we are not going to do the same mistakes again we are going to do better than that and that has taught us something we are learning and moving forward and that is how you bring back you gain your own trust with yourself to do this again when you when you start trusting you are going to love everything around you as well and that's the most important thing like you know and there is there is so much of a beauty when you start trusting and living by it so some of the things that has helped me over trusting are being grounded now when i say grounded definitely that always reminds me because it's a word that i learned in ireland in the schools for the children or in the crashes they would say like hey being grounded is you're not a corner or you're punishing but in the spirituality the grounding is about anchoring yourself into the present moment into the mother earth so that is the grounding that i'm talking about here when you ground you're bringing your connection back into the present you're having a clarity of thoughts and what you want to do how you want to progress forward so definitely that will be your first thing to trust when you hear hearing those inner voices or the callings stop pay attention where it is coming from is the voice louder is it your own voice is it um loving caring or is it um harsh and it's going towards limiting belief so you are able to rationalize or differentiate between that voices and that will help you to lean towards trusting yourself that's the most important thing and you start listening to your body trusting yourself is also related to listening to your body because your body is always on the mission to tell you the truth but we do ignore it now remember the last time you had a food where you were feeling you should not and you felt sick or where your body was saying hey this is enough i don't want any more coffee but you still had it and you felt so odd afterwards you didn't have a sleep as well so these are the things your body is constantly trying to tell you what it wants and needs and then we addressing or not is up to us how we are reacting to it so just for today trust your body just for today feel anchored into your body and see what the miracles or the magic moments it's going to bring towards and with your trust also turn into your prayers you may have the fear but turn that fear into your prayers and ask for guidance from the angels from the guides from the universe from the source whichever word we want to place it on like you know pray and again listen to that listen to that and listen to that voice that is giving you the guidance sometimes we do pray we do ask but actually when is the last time you are hearing when was the last time you stopped by and actually paid attention to hear those voices meditation could be something you can do quietening your mind is what it does or some mindfulness activities i focus on conscious breathing and that is my go-to to quieten my mind in a quicker way so maybe something you can do that you know so you are shifting changing your thought pattern and slowing it down so you are able to hear from that rustic sounds to the clear voices and generally our trust our intuition voices are subtle and softer gentler with love but it's our ego self ourselves the limiting beliefs they are louder and they keep repeating of what we can't do rather than what we can do so try meditation and i wouldn't say you to do for an hour every day definitely i do understand like you know it's a new habit for some of you and it might take time but i about just start with five minutes and that might lead you to like 20 minutes or a bit bigger as well yeah so definitely look towards it and raising your vibrations when you have to trust when you have to say yes to everything in your life you definitely need to cleanse some of the nose some of the things that are coming out that are allowing you not to move forward so raising your vibrations all you can simple thing is shake off that extra energy maybe dance around sing around be playful be creative like you know bring lots of fun energy into your life or even pretend to be smiling you don't need to do any big substantial changes look around what's there move things around make more space move through the clutter and see what is going to shift like you know clutter is something that causes a weighing down so just change and by that you will see some shift of a guidance coming into your life and by raising your vibrations you're cleansing your energies and you'll feel lighter when you feel lighter less thoughts are there in your mind and when less thoughts are there you are going to hear the divine guidance more clearly as well so do watch that out and write write any trusting um intuitive guidance that's coming down speak about it say it before it's happening we have been training gum or teaching my youngest child because she is feeling she can foresee things are happening so we are asking her to speak about it before it's happening so she is acknowledging where she can trust herself like you know and so this has been amazing um uh to see in practical as well for a child so definitely speak it out loud or tell a friend or a partner who will be supporting you now that's the thing yeah the reason i said supporting you maybe some people may not understand the depth of it maybe not sharing with your soul tribe um maybe sharing with your soul tribe is actually beneficial rather than sharing with anyone else yeah be clear about it and see what you can do about it and also for um shifting your intuition some of the things that worked for me is uh using the amethyst crystal on my third eye or while i do my chakramit or while i do my chakra meditation or reiki healing me focusing on my third eye was helping me to awaken my gifts for intuition and that was helping me to trust the guidance is coming from that beautiful space and um just relaxing taking a deep breath not panicking about things and when we are relaxed your whole body your cells your muscles everything is so super relaxed that you're not going to stop the flow or panic about the things you know and the flow is going to get so easier and feel the fresh air on your face that changes again like a change or a radar or a perspective as well like you know move away from the situation and grab um even drink some water and come back and see what you feel about it so here are the few things to rewind you on how you can just for today trust yourself by being grounded listening to your body prayers meditation raising your vibration cleansing the energies writing them down and listening and remember just for today you're doing this you're trusting yourself and remember you can do it because you have been trusting everyone else and the same as your friends were trusting you or your family members were trusting you um so now you are just trusting yourself so fantastic um i really wish you guys uh best and and look forward to hearing how you are trusting and making the choices and if something has inspired and that has shifted for you please please do share with me i love to hear your stories and connect with you so thank you thank you so much for staying till the end listening to you and don't forget to subscribe like and share and leave a review i'm so grateful for your support