My name is Sangeet,
And today I want to give you an important message.
We humans may have the tendency to look for the wrong outside of us,
And sometimes life can be so challenging that we may see the wrong in everything and even think that everything is against us.
But here is the thing,
The second we blame whatever is around us,
No matter how right we may feel or seem to be,
Is also the second in which we have no other choice than to blame ourselves as well.
And here is why.
Whatever we experience,
Somehow there is us involved,
And unless we are in complete denial of our ability to choose which action to take,
By judging the experience in relation to people,
To events,
To circumstances,
We will inevitably have to judge ourselves,
At the very least,
For having been there instead of somewhere else,
Which only leads to self-punishment and deep regret.
When we open the door to criticism towards others,
We assume that they could have done better,
That they had a choice,
And therefore we instantly open the door to criticism towards ourselves,
Because if others could have done better,
So could we.
Even if the situation involves someone else being clearly abusive towards us,
Still,
By blaming them in one way or the other,
We will end up coming up with reasons to blame ourselves as well.
And even if we randomly criticize a particular situation that we were simply told about,
And that isn't necessarily directly related to us,
We will instantly hear a voice in our minds,
Reminding us of how many times we have done the exact same thing or something similar.
Exclusion doesn't function in this world.
Yes,
We are unique in nature,
But we can never exclude ourselves from the crowd when it comes to presenting us as humans and having obvious and inevitable common traits and abilities.
Plus,
Whatever comes out of us,
Whatever thoughts or words,
Even related to others or to external environments,
It is always more about us than anything else,
Because it is indeed coming out of us,
No one else's.
The inside and outside merge in one another,
Because however we see the world is only a reflection of our focus and perception in each moment.
We are not responsible for other people's behaviors,
But we are responsible for ours,
And whatever we feel,
We choose or we decide is always about us.
And whatever we think or say or do,
Despite the level of impact that has in others,
It will always for sure have an impact on us.
We cannot separate ourselves from ourselves,
And whatever we think or say or do in one way or the other has always to do with us.
This is why letting go is so important.
And how do we do it?
We stop judging.
We are not supposed to be stuck in the past or to become compulsive judges of whatever is going on in our reality,
Even because our reality is supposed to shift and to change so we can experience new things.
And how can this happen if we are constantly holding on to it?
We are supposed to be free and happy no matter what.
Is it hard?
Maybe.
But if we really care about our mental and emotional tranquility,
Then we choose to focus on the good instead of continuously pulling the bad out of every single detail.
So,
Today,
Let's leave judgments aside and relax.
The world is never against us.
The world is always at peace.
Our minds are the ones that create all the conflicts and all the wars.
Let's instead create beautiful stories and peaceful scenarios.
This earthly experience won't last forever anyway.
Wouldn't it be amazing if from now on we would all be truly happy?
What a big dream,
Right?
But guess what?
Dreams indeed come true.
