Re-awakening The Feminine Spirit
With her signature humor and ability to put words to vague perceptions and feelings, together with her healing touch, Premasudha's work is life-changing. She has a truly great knack for assisting people out of the emotional prison of their ego/intellect into true freedom. This means that sometimes even serious diseases disappear too, as part of the emotional shift into a new more love-based understanding.
Transcript
So the really,
Really good news is anybody listening right now and anybody listening to the recording,
There's an opportunity to make space for your true nature to come in and you might feel it just around your body like a like a foot around your body and if you don't feel it don't worry but this work listening to this material will actually help you embody your true energy.
So I just want to make that very clear at the outset and the reason it's doing it is the power of feminine energy which is connected to being and this is the power women have and we are transformers for everybody around us once we start making room in our hearts for ourselves then anybody who comes around us they experience room to be themselves.
So almost one of the most important things that I'm going to talk about.
You know I just want to give a perspective on femaleness.
You know back in the 1918s and 1920 women got the vote and that's the first wave women got the vote.
The second wave was in the 1960s and 70s when women went to work.
Okay now we're in the third wave and really it's the most important and it's the most challenging and it's around women awakening to their true feminine nature and learning how to embody it and live it and to do that in a culture which wave basically live according to more historically more patriarchal way.
So but the important key is you know and I you know this is that women are in a lot of pain.
It's there is a relationship between the state of the feminine and the state of mother nature.
It's actually as a woman and also a man but we're talking about women.
You are mother nature okay there's no separation between the natural world that you look out on and you.
I had the feeling before this talk that I should go slowly and maybe repeat things because most of us don't think this way.
We're taught to look at things from look at life from sort of put life under a microscope and and look at it and analyze and because of that we we miss the obvious we miss the big picture.
We're mammals.
We're mammals like we're part of mother nature we're not separate and so if mother nature is being exploited and used and if the reverence for her has been lost so much so that you know she is so out of whack that the storms are coming and you know we've got this hot summer this just reflects us.
This isn't separate from us.
This is our state as humanity but particularly as women.
So you are mother nature.
Now it may take a little bit of time for that to really hit home because we've all been schooled to go up into our heads and look at life and try to problem-solve our way through it.
Now the truth is when when we do that what we're doing is we're we're numbing out our whole body.
Really most people walk around numb to the to the to the neck and so they're just not aware of their body or the signals their body's sending them but they're just listening to their head.
I mean this is our training and there's a lot of reasons for this.
I mean we've had philosophy Western philosophy I mean it it's had this mind-body split.
We have Descartes saying you know I think therefore I am.
I think therefore I am.
It's like you know a woman might say I feel therefore I am.
In fact the soul communicates through feelings.
It's like knowings and that is the direct signal of that of soul input.
So you know the thinking is the head.
And we have you know the church steeples so as if God was somewhere at the top of the church steeple not here on the ground with the children we've downgraded the physical and with downgrading the physical we've downgraded the female.
Okay this is this is really painful for women you know because the role of the feminine the aspect of the feminine is she's kind of the mediator between the physical and God.
I mean she gives birth.
She you know a woman giving birth is so surrendered.
I mean she is in a process that is so beyond her head.
It's a process that involves her body and her soul and the soul and body of her child and it's basically an experience of life that is totally beyond the head.
You give over and you're helpless.
Now the way of the woman that's how life is for us.
Like life is done to us.
Say you know we make love with someone their semen comes into our bodies and then we suddenly are pregnant and then a whole other chapter opens and we just flow with this.
The male energy is much more active in the world taking action to problem-solving,
Exerting energy to to alter the world.
For women it happens to her.
But I'm going to come back because I want to talk about how we are Mother Nature.
I mean we our salt in our blood is similar to the portion of salt in the ocean.
The amount of water in our bodies is similar to the ratio of land and water.
Oxygen is the more oxygen than any other gas on earth and same within our bodies.
The menstruation and the moon cycles everybody knows about that.
You know we our bodies you know had bacteria a lot of bacteria and there's bacteria outside us too and our bones turn to stone.
You know they turn into fossils it's like they turn to stone.
It's like you know and our bodies it's like dust to dust earth to earth.
It's like we're we are aspects of the earth.
We are the earth too.
You might think that you're like a 21st century person who was born on you know Marguerite Street in some city but you're actually part of Mother Nature part of the earth.
And as I said in the you know the blurb is sent out like the Chinese say women hold up half the sky.
It's like if the feminine is not honored the sky falls in and that's what we thought really with you know with the amount of mental distress around.
It's coming because the feminine aspect of humanity is not it's not seen how crucial it is.
Now if you think about like a mother bear or a mother lion you know I'm thinking the male bear and male lion.
Nobody is saying the male bear or a male lion is more important than the female or that the characteristics of the male are more important than the characteristics of the female.
Nobody's doing that.
It's just inhumanity where at this point in time we have so exploited Mother Nature and not loved her and this is what we've done to ourselves.
This is what women do to ourselves.
Like I have had so many women come in to my like office to for a session and they'll say oh yeah well I've got this gift and I I could I can I can do this and I can do that and I could use this talent and that talent in it and I just have the sense of like almost they're raping themselves you know and they just been taught that.
The woman is the muse for the man.
She helps connect him to his soul and you know Carl Jung says men can't really get to their souls without women which probably isn't absolutely true but it is certainly what I've seen around a lot.
That's what I've observed in life.
It seems very difficult for a man if he's not with a really awake woman to awaken himself.
So the feminine you know the Statue of Liberty is the female.
She brings in the awakening.
She brings in the spiritual awakening and at the same time the female who's focused on you know say worldly it's very concerned with worldly things.
A man can get very lost with that kind of a woman like he can get hypnotized and lost so she can lead him into illusion or she can lead him into freedom.
So when a woman doesn't love herself it's very easy for her to get stuck in illusion but if she really loves herself she comes out of illusion herself and she helps bring whatever male her partner her children helps bring that male more into truth and so they can live in truth and in peace and be honest.
The women we don't realize our power.
We have enormous power that way but one of the things that's happened is you know with the you know the history of the patriarchy so we've had bound feet and witch burnings so really women you know it's it's hard for me to say this because it's just so sad that women I've met so many women who are so scared of their true nature and don't have the courage to live in truth.
Now when a woman if you imagine like a mother bear or a mother lion trying not to be a female I mean just imagine that imagine them trying to like I didn't imagine the female yeah just imagine that so that they they try and be man like this the stupidity of it is obvious if you think of it that way but this is what we're trained is we're trained to turn against our true female nature.
So you know that if really that if this is what I've seen over and over again if a man actually comes to me comes in the door he's very open and there's no resistance he just is like he opens up like he's just so happy to find like an opening and he opens up and goes yay whereas women it's kind of like they get scared it's like they stop loud not loud not loud and they start fighting the process and start you know and it's like oh my god I'm just trying to help you find your true nature but that's how scary it is for us.
Now I deeply have gone through so many gates of clearing fear around being myself I was terrified to bring forward this level of knowledge and this level of understanding of love like it felt taboo and it it it has been taboo it's like there were witchburnings we you know it's not allowed it's like toe the line but now we're at this state where you know we could lose the whole earth and you know in a way even equally as pressing we could lose our sanity you know and there's an epidemic of mental illness because it's it's like what we're trying to do is walk on like three legs rather than four do you know it's like you or walk on one leg rather than two we need two male female you know even as I'm talking I'm feeling some resistance building in some people and it's like I get why like I understand why it's so uncomfortable to hear about and then you know what do we do about it because I mean there's so many single mums around who after in their living it's like you know who's got time for listening to finding out what the true female nature is I get it I really get it the thing is that this problem like our our pain and the problems with Mother Nature and the problems with this epidemic of mental illness are not going to go away till we address it and one of the ways that it can be addressed and one of the things that I notice a lot of my clients are doing is they're supporting other women really deeply they're loving other women deeply there they they become they're becoming freer themselves and they are sharing it and it's that that so that women you know so the experience is that it's safe to come into your heart that you know you can be it's like if we weren't fully well mothered by a mom who was scared of her own female nature we can be mothered by a friend who's or a boss even who's in truth with her female it can be shared in fact that's what I do I just share this that's it okay so there's a feeling of expansion and even when this goes on to YouTube it could still be tapped into by listeners who are not listening right now they could feel the expansion because you know the universe you know this needs to happen this is the way the universe is going so when somebody's you know when there's work being done that goes along with where the universe is going you know they gets a lot of support energetic support no so you know it's like respect yourselves all of you here listening I feel this is a message coming for all of you respect yourself really yeah okay good good okay I'm feeling this deep movement it's really good as I was talking to today a dear person and we were talking she remembered something I told her which was in traditional family therapy the person who's treated worse than the family is often the most loving one so you see this is what we're doing to the feminine to the compassion of the feminine to the kindness of a feminine it's like it's considered you know vulnerable weakness it will get attacked I remember this is years ago now but I remember the government doing cutbacks and they decided to cut this magazine used by single moms this is before internet and everything that the single moms used to arrange babysitting find babysitters and it had a budget of $60,
000 a year and they cut it and and and I mean it was just peanuts it's a small amount of money but it was their lifeline but it's again vulnerability it's like this kind of stance against the gentler the gentler virtues the gentler values which is the realm of the feminine and so this is why we women were toughening up we're numbing out but the the pain of doing that many of us cannot we we can't we can't run from the pain like we can't get away from the pain and we don't know where it's coming from we don't even realize that we're turned against ourselves and that we're trying to go against the way the river wants to flow and we're trying to numb ourselves down like chunk ourselves down to become less sensitive so we can handle this world you know and this isn't going to work for anybody it's you know it's kind of depressing this but it's it's it's like we have to see the situation and and embrace it understand it feel into it before we can know how to transcend it to get through it so I've gotten through it do you know I got through it because it's like I was like I'm just not gonna do this to myself I'm just I just couldn't and this happens to women I noticed like especially in the 30s what will happen is they have a broken relationship or something happens and suddenly there is an eruption of pain and they don't know what hit them but it's their feminine that's been so pushed down erupting up and often she's pretty ugly like because she's been so repressed so she's covered in mud you know when I say that you know she might erupt full of rage or she might erupt hysterical yeah now it's actually better to do that than to stay numb and hold it together it's better to have an eruption like that because once you have an eruption you cannot run from yourself it's like it's you know it's so you if you try to plug a hole it will it will come out another hole and you you start realizing that you that life is bigger and deeper than you thought and that you're not just a marketable commodity that you're human being and you and you have to solve your heart pain you have to turn and face it or there's certainly a call asking you to face it depends what you do with it then there any questions or comments really too depressed I want to talk about what feminine energy is so when I think of female energy I think of nurturing practical she'll come up with practical solutions she's very inclusive and compassionate so if we you know if we have a baby with six fingers we have to be inclusive enough that we can love this baby and not you know leave it out in the cold because it's not perfect so that's why the females you know we include and the female will tend to see similarities rather than differences so she weaves together she sews together what the intellect separates you know and and the discriminating intellect is good you know we need it but if we don't have if we don't value the weaving together that comes through the feminine we're gonna have a very raggedy cloth with lots of holes in it yeah she's gentle she has the ability to wait women wait now that is the true feminine to know how to wait and because we're so conditioned out of that I'll tell you my experience it's really hard for women to wait and they get very desperate and then they push and they force and then it's game over because that never works it never works with the men but it never works in life either it just doesn't okay so a woman will do that pushing force out of fear and really she's scared of her true nature she's scared of the vulnerability that comes with just waiting but waiting is a very very powerful thing a mom who's pregnant waits but all the time that she's waiting she's loving the child that's coming it's like rich it's a rich rich waiting there's a lot going on there it's not like a board waiting or how much longer it's it's a rich waiting of being it's like waiting for the flower to blossom it's a connection it's connected with being and connected with nature it's not separate her world too is emotions relationships and emotions but emotions and I'll tell you here's again like you cannot separate a woman from emotions and emotions are the other heart the other side of our intelligence so if you suddenly feel scared there's an important reason it's either you are clearing some fear within or you know you're caught in your ego or there's really you know if you're scared before you walk into a party or walk into a restaurant maybe there's a reason no maybe that's just your intelligence saying don't go in there yeah okay so even women you see will will try and repress their emotions and so what happens is their love gets smaller and smaller and smaller and they'll have trouble giving of themselves at all I mean how sad is that you know if you sit and just feel your emotions the posing this is I learned to do this is my book spiritual psychology I really learned to do this that if I felt rage or hatred I would just be with it and I would pray and give it over but I did not push it down at all and what happened was I would feel it and feel it and feel it and then it would get weaker and weaker and weaker and then it would leave and then I would get a bulletin from my soul that that emotion was covering up it's like a an understanding of a jewel of understanding would come in so it's you know and if you pray to God with real fervor you will actually that helps your prayer come true like no and if you a mother with her child if she prays for her child if a mother fasts for her child that has an enormous amount of power and that's coming from her love but also her emotions her emotions it's like it's not a machine it's so funny I feel like it's it's we've been taught so much to control our emotions and to and that they're kind of bad and then we're wondering why everything is falling apart well it will because human beings are not machines I mean we have to honor our humanity we can't just cut emotions away there was a therapist I worked with for a while and he used to say there was somebody he was training with and when he started training with her he would get so impatient with her emotions right she would you know suddenly she started to cry and over time he discovered that if she was crying there was a problem she was like the nightingale you know in the coal mine you know our culture I mean we're making it so difficult even just to bond with children I mean we're doing 30% of the population the birds are caesarean this pressure go back to work fewer mums are breastfeeding it's all structured just to prevent bonding and to try and kind of control and contain you know that exuberance of giving birth and the great joy of being with your child and really no mom I mean I would think hardly ever any mums go off happily to work even if they love their work you know because for thousands and thousands of years women the women took care of children and they're these patterns they're subtle energy flows coming from thousands of years of human history and we're just going in there and we're cutting them all down like pruning them away and because we can't see them we say there's nothing there but what we're doing is you know pruning a magical garden yeah I actually think this is where we're gonna renewed I think it's gonna be we're gonna be renewed around the mothers and the bonding with the children that there's going to be something that happens and it's going to be seen as more important and so it's going to be respected by the society and mothers will have much more freedom to bond with their children I mean the fact we're disrupting something so basic as that initial bonding really shows how deluded we are so you know I as I was speaking about today that I had breast cancer and you know I with the diagnosis I took it in a very feminine way I went right into it I went right into my body I went right down into I turned inside and I went a dug deep or I allowed myself to be taken to the depth where the cancer was created and so it started to shrink it came out of my notes and became probably half the size that it had been because the full size was it was in the milk duct and the full size was hidden a bit and you know with the medical you know I had a really nice doctor but you know when I said you know I said well you know look look what happened you know meaning that I was saying like you know there's a there's a depth and a power that a human being confined with illness and he turned to me and said you know Janet you know you just you just weird okay so that's happened to women a lot exactly that exactly that so this is why I'm standing up to go this has to stop and also everybody around me gets strengthened they're deep feminine and even just listening it will be strengthened and you'll feel more permission to just be yourself okay so I'm feeling like there's some who don't think it could be quite that simple but it is and it's okay it's okay to but this is the power of the feminine the feminine energy is like the wind it gets in or water it gets into every nook and cranny you cannot you cannot get away from it it will just find you mm-hmm the trouble is when the feminine energy is not seen clearly she'll she'll go dark you know she'll manipulate it's working with I'll tell you working with women man to get beyond the manipulation it's like it it takes something but I was the same way I was the same way it was just my modus operandi of living see if we don't if we don't have our true selves and we don't feel honored and that we can be here we'll feel threatened and we'll manipulate and there's a beautiful story about this there was a farmer a female farmer she married this guy and she said look I'll be married with you but I've got this box I'm gonna put it under the bed and I you were forbidden to look at it and if you ever look at it I will leave so you know it was like with the subconscious I mean if you say don't do something you know people are gonna do it so took him two years or so but he crawled under the bed and he lifted the box and he opened up he said there's nothing in it so we went to her and said what is this like what's the thing about this box you made such a big fuss there's nothing in it and he you see the thing was that all of life was in that box but he couldn't see it and that's why she would leave that's why she left because he couldn't see it it's like the feminine you know the subtle feminine and the value of it it it doesn't get seen by x-rays you know it doesn't get seen by a linear mind looking at something won't see what feminine energy is it'll a mind that's just focused on the concrete well we'll just see an empty box it won't see the the magic of the feminine which bridges the divine and the earth she gives birth she's bridging heaven and earth this you know her women I've a client who who's had a and this is not that uncommon who had a peak experience giving birth you know experience God giving birth she's giving birth and you know that gave her a reference point for really how she could live her life I mean she had a physical experience of tapping into God so so that's there and with this beautiful woman this is what I'm working with and helping to build on because she already had the experience so it's just a matter of increasingly validating so her whole life becomes more like that you know women have a subtler logic than men do our minds are subtler and they're more freer they it's more they can think more they're not so a to B to C to D their minds are more fluid okay so this is a wonderful thing but you know if you don't value it and you don't tap into your divinity you could be just called a flake by somebody you know it could be downgraded so that what you're doing and what you're bringing in and what you're seeing just gets ridiculed so you know what happens women don't even want a chance opening their awareness in case that happens but you know the woman with this experience giving birth life is not just the concrete no it's not just concrete reality and if we get too focused on concrete reality we lose the muse of the feminine we lose her connection to God that the job of the female is to find God in the physical so you know seeing the truth of her children seeing the God in her children and then loving them and and raising them in a way that she does not discourage that God self but she supports it but she supports who that child was born to be and that takes tremendous concentration and patience and ability to see deeply that's very different than raising just conditioned children all all babies start off as females and then the male it you know the ones who are males they become then move into the male and as men get old they become more feminine I don't know why we decided somehow that the females that these attributes of the feminine were less valuable than the concrete reality and competition and acquiring wealth like you know the guy I mean the ones in the old days would be raising kids and the guy would be you know hunting and looking for food so he had to be like competitive he had to like you know if he didn't and it had to be like conditional in the sense of if he didn't find something everybody starved so for the male he has to do this like all the males like all the sperm they run for that egg it's big competition to get get to the egg like it is beautiful the male like that's beautiful that the males like that it's just that women we're not supposed to be like that that's like we're supposed to be like women and really you know and I I think this is a problem it's like the males we the females we've lost our feminine and the males actually have lost their true masculine and so we don't really know what to do with each other we're just everybody's just kind of they're just becoming kind of neutered kind of like you know focused on earning a living and working working and accumulating I'm being a little facetious so I'm feeling there's a little bit of confusion I can feel in people like I'm sure this is pressing buttons and you know I'm sure you don't agree with everything I'm saying or maybe you're relieved to hear it spoken like this but there's a little bit of confusion underneath you it's all healable it's confusion that we feel in ourselves it's very healable you just have to be patient okay good it's around your true nature it's your true nature all of you your true nature is allowed it's beautiful to nature's allowed you can have your true nature imagine imagine not having to defend against yourself but a relief is to relax you know your true nature can survive style development any questions?
Or Any questions or?
Maybe you can expand a little bit,
Prima Suta,
About how women are conditioned more to be more masculine.
I think we can all as women feel,
Oh,
You can be womanly.
But what does that mean even to?
Yeah,
Yeah.
Masculine,
Because we probably think we're feminine and that we're meant to work.
So maybe expanding on that would help because it's hard for me to understand and I hit it wrong.
Okay,
So,
You know,
Increasingly,
It seems our idea of the feminine is our bodies.
And,
You know,
Taking care of our nails and doing our eyebrows and dressing.
And that's a lot of what is seen as the body,
That the female is the body.
And we're not,
We're actually the spirit.
I mean,
The body is there,
But what makes a woman is that her spirit is oriented toward,
She takes life in and transforms.
And someone who chooses to be born male is more focused on the body than the body.
And the woman who is born male is more focused on action in the world.
So tell me your question again.
To just clarify what it means to really have female energy and what does that look like?
I know.
I know,
Because it's like,
Maybe it's just an empty box.
I mean,
Where is it?
What is it?
I mean,
Even the women don't know what it is.
It's like,
Where is it?
They can't feel it.
And the men,
I don't know,
Poor guys,
Like,
You know.
And the fact there's,
You know,
Even I came across us scrolling on the YouTube and it was these males talking about,
You know,
Relationships and they were telling women,
They're saying,
Don't go to bed with him too quickly because when you go to bed with him too quickly,
He doesn't try so hard.
And it's basically,
Yeah,
He doesn't bond.
He doesn't bond.
Like,
It's the waiting for the woman to sleep with the male,
Which is like that,
The respect for the bonding,
The subtle bonding that occurs before sex takes place.
And that is where the male shows his love and respect for the feminine in that he would be patient.
And if women,
If we can't take our space for what we need,
Because I mean,
Certainly me,
I would feel like I didn't want to sleep with somebody after like just the third date or something.
Like,
If we don't honour that,
That's exactly what I'm talking about.
It's like,
You have to honour your deep feelings about what you're doing.
Feelings about about what to do or how to do it.
You know,
I used to.
I had a very tough dad and I was very angry at him for a long time and I used to move my body in a very,
Very jerky way.
And it wasn't till I was in my mid 30s and doing this ancient Hawaiian dance where I studied with Hawaiian Kahuna,
We danced for 18 hours,
That I began to move with feminine.
My movements became round before that.
They'd been just A to B.
And I didn't even know that I was out of touch with my feminine.
Do you know,
I mean,
This is what I'm talking about.
But we would dance for 18 hours.
And then what would happen is all the resistance would come up.
And I remember just crying and crying and crying.
And then after these tears,
Suddenly my movements became so fluid and I felt as light as the air.
It was like,
Wow,
This is a whole other something.
And it was freeing my feminine.
And the resistance was just where I learned,
Like,
It wasn't safe to be in my feminine nature in my family.
It's sort of like,
You know,
If you paint,
If you spread water on a painting and all of a sudden it's like those child things and then it comes,
There's color on the page.
If you just put water on it,
All the colors come.
It's sort of like that.
Once you start turning and really,
You know,
Making room for your true feminine nature,
Suddenly life becomes,
It's like becomes a multi many splendid thing.
It's like you feel lighter.
You move with grace.
You're gentler with your talk.
Your children,
You see more clearly who they are.
You're more patient with them.
This is it.
If you give yourself room to be your true female self,
You will give room to everybody around you.
It's just we're going to have to do this journey,
I think,
For women,
And then we're going to have to help each other.
Wake,
Love each other awake.
And then,
You know,
And then women can then wake up the men.
Women can then wake up the men.
You know,
Then because the men are just like,
They're going around going like,
They don't,
It's like they don't know what's wrong.
And then they're still empty and suicidal.
And obviously,
You know,
Our culture,
We're losing the,
We're losing our culture is in trouble.
And actually,
I think it's female leadership that will bring us out of it.
Females waking up.
No.
You know,
I've been doing this for about 30 or 30 years,
And I'm just now stating it this,
You know,
Clearly,
I mean,
I think it's clearly,
Maybe you guys are confused.
I don't know.
But I'm just kind of saying it like it is.
The thing is,
If we don't love ourselves,
We'll be very critical of our mates.
We'll be very critical of ourselves.
We'll be critical of our children.
And that's really hellish.
You know,
I have a funny thing.
I was in this little shop and this woman had,
Her son had put the tea bags in the fridge by air.
And she was so incensed about this,
She sent a picture of it to him and said,
Never do this again.
And I'm like,
It's just the tea bags in the fridge.
It's like,
What?
I mean,
It's such a small thing.
It's like,
We can all be like that.
But,
You know,
She even took a picture.
I mean,
It was just like,
It was a big sin.
I'll tell you listening to it.
I'm going like,
I'm glad I'm not this woman's child.
Women have a lot of power.
It's like,
And if we don't bring,
If we don't go conscious about this power,
We live it out unconsciously and we cast a shadow.
Like Carl Jung said that children,
The hardest thing for children was the unlived lives of their parents,
Like where the parents hadn't been true to themselves because it just gets loaded on the children.
Yeah.
Females,
You know,
A female,
A true female energy will be very honest,
Very transparent,
And it will speak directly to the heart of things.
And be very few words often.
And my experience with most of us women,
We don't feel safe enough to be honest and transparent.
I don't know what we're protecting,
You know.
If you can't be honest and transparent,
Like life gets heavy and it's not much fun.
You know,
And with all of you,
I'm feeling this,
There's nothing to be done.
I mean,
Just hearing this will set off changes within you.
You don't have to do anything.
It's,
You know,
As time goes on,
Maybe your awareness will grow and you'll see,
Oh,
You've got a choice about how to be with yourself,
Whether to accept yourself or not.
But just hearing this will help.
It will clear some things,
Just hearing it.
Just hearing it,
You know,
The masculine says take action.
That's the male side.
Take action.
The female side,
It's much more just being with.
Embracing,
Being with.
Accepting.
It's very beautiful,
All of you guys.
It's a beautiful shift.
Yeah,
You have permission to accept yourselves.
That's the whole key.
Just accept yourself.
There was a woman I spoke to today who had a difficult father,
And I pointed out the father had given the family tremendously gifted genetics.
So it's just what you look at,
What you emphasize.
Focus on the gift of the genetics.
The other thing,
A woman is really,
Really,
Really important.
Is a woman can see 360 degrees.
It's like an owl.
True feminine energy is.
It's really whole.
It's like the full circle.
It's like being able to see in one one glance,
Say,
You know,
The circle of life and maybe a teacher with a classroom.
And then so there's a context of the classroom and then there's a particular child with a particular trouble.
And she knows just how to handle that child because she sees clearly his history and her history,
Sees clearly his family and then sees clearly what's going on in the classroom at that time.
So it's sort of all done at once.
And really,
A lot of what I'm saying is coming out of this 360 degree viewpoint where you start seeing the whole picture,
The whole story.
So it's not like a small little analysis.
It's more like a comprehension.
A big comprehension.
And the other thing to remind you guys is anger is not a strength.
Seems strong,
But.
Not to repress it,
But just know that it's something to be transformed if you feel angry.
A woman.
It's too.
Okay,
This is one of the most important things I'm going to say.
Whatever you're feeling,
It's just be with it.
Supposing your partner upsets you and you feel angry.
So be with it.
See if,
You know,
Just be with it and.
Listen.
And feel.
Until an understanding comes.
A deeper understanding.
Maybe of yourself,
Of him,
Of the situation.
And then go and speak to him.
Once you are in comprehension,
This is really important for female energy.
You speak after you are in comprehension about.
What it all was for you.
And.
What you're to do about the situation so that you're not.
So that you're taking action,
But you're not reactive.
It's taking your power.
You feel all the difficult emotions until you are clear about the situation and know how to handle it and also know what the situation means for you,
Like what you're learning.
And what action to take,
Just trying to think of an example.
Okay.
There's a long story I don't know that I want to go into it all about.
I don't know even that it would help.
You understand.
Once somebody in my family did something that was disrespectful,
Not treating me well.
And I,
I felt hurt.
I felt angry and hurt.
And I also knew if I spoke directly and said to this person,
Oh,
My feelings were hurt with this,
That it would not have any power that they would not even.
Not care,
But it wasn't their language,
They wouldn't be able to understand.
They were choosing not to understand that kind of language.
So.
What I did was.
I.
I knew that he could understand it in the terms where I,
So I said to him.
So he'd done something to me,
But I said to him.
Sort of like.
You know,
Look at you and your family.
You love these people.
You love these people.
Remember,
You love these people.
So what I was saying basically is what you did to me.
I know it's not just to me.
I know you do it to everybody.
So I'm.
I'm I'm I spoke about like.
Your family loves you.
And he heard that he could hear that.
And he,
He was upset and distraught in a,
In a good way.
Like it reached him.
So,
You know,
I had to get over my own personal upset and want me wanting to shake him and go,
Don't treat me like this.
But I knew that he.
It wasn't going to even work to be able to speak that way to him,
That he just wasn't wouldn't want to.
He wouldn't want to understand that at all.
But he would hear it.
When I talked about his family.
So does that,
Do you understand that a bit?
So it took me,
I had to do quite a lot of cleaning to get to that point where.
I could speak.
And then it was the amount of the cleaning that I did the inner cleaning that gave my words a huge power.
That really made him sit down and really take stock of himself.
Do you understand it was because I'd taken all that time to work internally.
It gave my words.
Enormous power.
And also the other thing that gave my words in enormous power was.
It was a selfless thing I did.
I,
I wasn't focused on me.
I,
I was focused on him and his family.
Do you know.
And women can do this.
The other thing women,
All my teachers have told me women make the best shamans.
Because our minds are subtle because we give birth.
So we already connected to,
You know,
Psychic abilities,
Like being able to hear what is not being said,
Or maybe hear angels whisper.
Women are really good at that.
They.
When I was in Hawaii,
I was doing some working with a shaman.
I was doing some weeding and this tree said to me,
I kid you not.
This tree started saying,
Mommy,
Mommy,
Mommy.
Loudly to me.
And I'm like the tree speaking to me.
Now I feel really foolish.
But I got up and I went to the beach.
And my son had fallen and he was lying crying going,
Mommy,
Mommy,
Mommy.
So the tree transmitted it.
I heard it through the tree.
You see,
Women can do that.
Yeah.
And we can also,
This is really good news.
And it probably should finish after I think our time's getting on.
Women can grow spiritually very,
Very quickly.
Really,
Really quickly.
It's a survival thing.
I think it's,
You know,
Probably mother nature and survival are the species.
But we can move into transcend our own patterns,
Our old patterns.
We can transcend them very,
Very quickly.
Okay.
And nobody's saying this.
In fact,
What I did notice like with the shaman is like,
They study with the Hawaiian kahuna.
He said like,
Women,
You guys make the best shamans.
And all the women were like surrounding him and just parroting him.
And not coming into their power at all.
But this is like 40 years ago.
So maybe it's better now.
But this is kind of a comedy.
I don't know if that makes any sense.
It can grow spiritually.
It's like,
If you decide,
If you get like really fed up with your old patterns and just go,
I'm not going to do this anymore,
Universe,
You know,
Back me up here.
Show me.
I really mean it.
Then I'll tell you,
You will transcend them very,
Very quickly.
It's not only my teachers told me that,
But I did it.
I did it.
So I really know.
So if you come in behind yourself and just love yourself,
One of the things about women is,
You know,
Women do not need huge posses around them.
They don't need like an audience.
You know,
It's like,
If you decide to turn and really love yourself,
Then you will be shown exactly how to do that.
And you don't even need any support for it.
I mean,
It's better to get support,
But really,
As a female,
You can just feel into it.
You can just bond with the universe in a way that the universe shows you.
Because women,
It's like we,
If you start listening to your insights,
If you start listening to your heart,
If you start following your hunches,
Your intuitions,
You'll find that you've got like a university course from inside coming,
Showing you what to do and how to live and how to solve your problems.
I feel disbelief,
But it's true what I'm saying.
It's just like a birth.
It's like an autonomous process.
You go into it and you give birth and suddenly you have this beautiful infant.
The same thing happens to us psychologically.
We get brought into trouble or we have difficulty,
But you just keep trusting yourself,
Being true to yourself,
Keep your journal,
Exercise.
And you'll just be brought to breakthroughs,
Breakthroughs,
Breakthroughs of understanding.
If you write a letter to the universe saying in six months,
I want to be twice as happy as I am now and then burn that letter,
I'll tell you and forget about it,
Ideally.
But if you remember,
It's OK.
In six months,
You'll be happier.
My kids were with their dad for a year when I was sick and I was really sick at the time.
And I wrote this letter to the universe going,
Within six months,
I want to be stable enough to be able to pick up my kids,
Stable and healthy and happy enough.
And I burned it within six months.
And I'm going to be happy.
I'm going to be able healthy and happy enough,
And I burned it within six months.
There I was picking them up like and it was like it just seemed like a miracle.
You guys,
Please say something,
Show yourselves a little more.
I think maybe could you speak to about loving yourself and what that means?
I think society tells us it's about nice spa baths or getting your nails done or exercising,
But what does that really look like from like deep down,
Loving yourself and that's something that I've struggled with and still struggle with.
And how do we love ourselves,
Especially in that the feminine way,
The feminine energy to bring that forward?
Yeah.
You know,
It's one of those things and it can easily turn into a how to and advice.
You know,
I think all of us we have.
In inner,
We have times where we feel most ourselves.
You know,
Where you feel like you feel a little bit how you used to feel.
You know,
Where you feel like you feel a little bit how you used to feel as a kid,
Maybe.
So I would say do anything that makes you feel like that.
Like I used to have a feeling on Saturday morning when I was a child.
Saturday mornings,
My bliss.
So anything,
Anytime I got the feeling of Saturday morning,
I would fan the flame.
You know,
I would go,
Oh,
I want to feel like this more as an adult.
You know,
I got shiatsu a lot because I was in my head.
So shiatsu really helped.
I think it's a deep decision.
I'll tell you,
You know,
People spend their whole lives like going,
Okay,
Well,
How do I do it?
And it's more like getting dispassionate and what kind of life do you want and what kind of deathbed do you want?
You know,
Like I haven't quite found the answer that needs to come.
I can't quite.
What do you think it is,
Stephanie?
What would you say to answer your own question?
Thank you for hearing you maybe just to be the love,
However,
That's expressed when I was a child,
Whether that's I'm following my bliss,
Maybe riding a bike and feeling that bliss.
But I think it is that feeling and not doing it because I think it's good for me or that it's going to help me just feel into it.
And when I find that feeling like you're saying to do more of that.
Yeah,
It's kind of like do what you want.
I mean,
I remember once deciding that I didn't have to go to these parties anymore because these people that I was associating with that,
Okay,
Andrea said,
Is it kind of like pointing your boat in a direction like your intention for yourself to love yourself?
Yeah,
It's pointing your boat in that direction.
Yeah,
Setting the intention.
Right.
And then you'll be shown how.
But with these people,
I remember going thinking,
Why am I even coming to these parties?
These people are not very nice and they're not very like productive people.
I mean,
They weren't doing anything for society and they weren't very nice.
That's like,
Why would I go to these parties?
So it sort of dawned on me.
So that was like that was a step.
And I didn't make myself go to these parties.
You know,
A small thing.
But yeah,
You set your direction.
You set your sail.
You know,
I mean,
If you get it,
Can you get it philosophically that if you're a woman and you don't love yourself,
You don't love your femaleness,
You're not going to be happy.
So you just steer your boat that way.
You see what I mean?
It's common sense.
It's dispassionate,
Right?
It's like it's like climbing a mountain.
If you see the view,
You see the view,
You see the picture,
You get it.
So then so you act differently.
Yeah.
And the other thing is,
If your pain gets really bad,
You'll do it.
You'll start loving yourself,
Because if you refuse to,
Your pain gets worse.
So then who wants that?
That's the universe's secret weapon.
You know,
If we're not flowing with our truth,
The universe sends pain.
I mean,
That's what it is.
It's a nonverbal saying,
You're going the wrong way or you've got work to do.
You got to face this.
Everybody falls in love with a woman who's in truth.
I'll tell you.
Like,
You know,
When I traveled when I was a journalist and neurotic journalist,
And when I travel now,
I get treated completely differently.
I like the way I'm treated now.
I like I like the way the world treats me.
No,
Because I love everybody.
Again,
You're good enough,
All of you.
I'm feeling a thing in your tummies.
It's like in your tummies,
Like not allowed,
Not allowed,
But it is allowed.
It's allowed.
You can be your female self.
That's it.
You can just be yourself.
I'll tell you,
The roof will not fit,
Cave in.
That's it.
So,
You know,
With these like,
You know,
Nurturing,
Compassionate.
Once I understood what the female was,
Then it was easy for me to give permission to myself to be that way.
I mean,
Most women,
I think,
Go around feeling like second rate men.
Really,
It's horrible,
But that's kind of it.
I mean,
Who wants that?
The other thing is,
You know,
With our Judeo-Christian thing with the serpent.
And the apple and Eve and everything like.
You know,
Knowledge comes in through the feminine,
So the,
You know,
Christ.
Christ's teachings were spread through the females first got onto them.
And then,
You know,
Then the children,
Then the men.
That's how it spreads.
It spreads to the feminine.
Feminine is always,
She can't be contained in the box.
She always goes beyond the box.
Sort of like in Jurassic Park,
Where the dinosaurs got beyond the island,
Where they life will always go beyond,
You know,
Any limitation.
And that's the female.
So.
You know,
Just accepting this is the way of the female and then valuing it.
It's not flaky.
It's fantastic.
There wouldn't be any change without the female.
Female's like a river.
It flows.
You know.
I wish I could say something that would give you all just total experience of self-acceptance and self-knowledge.
I'm going to talk a little about about your body.
I mean,
Part of the reason why I am so honest is because from the time I was little,
My body was so full of self-acceptance and self-knowledge.
And I'm going to talk a little bit about your body.
I mean,
Part of the reason why I am so honest is because from the time I was little,
My body wouldn't let me be dishonest.
Like I it's like I don't know how to put it.
It's like,
You know,
If something's bothering me,
I cannot hide it.
I cannot repress it.
I have to bring it up.
I don't have a choice.
So I was on an island once and I suddenly started feeling we had to leave the island.
We need to get the boat going and leave.
And so,
You know,
We did.
And so we just got in the boat and we're heading back,
You know,
And night started to fall quite dramatically.
Like I was just being very accurate with my nagging about the boat.
But I didn't even know that it was going to turn dark at that point.
I just knew from my body we had to get in the boat.
So women,
Our bodies can tell you a lot.
You just have to listen.
Like notice them,
Notice the tension,
Notice how your walk feels.
Occupy your body.
I mean,
If you're tense,
That will be fear.
The more you're in your body,
The more you'll decode.
The more you'll get to understand what's the signals your body gives you.
Because you're very beautiful.
Like very,
Very beautiful in yourselves.
That's a bulletin I'm getting.
It's like you please accept this from me coming.
It's like you're very,
Very beautiful.
Okay.
You need to,
I mean,
It would be helpful to just go,
Okay.
Okay.
That's true.
Like to that,
Just go,
Okay,
Sure.
Why not?
Might as well.
It's like,
It's like,
You know,
The penny dropping,
The penny dropping.
You're part of mother nature.
You're beautiful the way you are.
We don't ask a female bear to be a male bear.
We value the female for her femaleness.
We value the male for his maleness.
That's all I'm talking about.
You need to value the women for their femaleness and value the men for their masculinity.
Because we need all of it.
It's like mother and father God are madly in love with each other.
Really?
The other thing was,
This has come from teachers and also my own reading is that of the earth's civilization,
The male and female are more differentiated,
They're more different than they are in other civilizations in this universe.
So it's more of a challenge for male and females to meet because we're so different.
So that's just maybe nice to know.
So it's not just you.
It's not just us.
It's like maybe it's just,
You know,
It's very opposite for males and females.
But really,
You know,
My teacher almost says we really need the women to wake up.
That is the thing that's most needed because that's what's going to solve the problem with mother nature too.
And we talk about mother nature,
But you know,
That's us.
We're,
You know,
If we're losing species,
If they're going extinct,
I mean,
You know,
So are we.
Like,
It's not like we're on some safe island somewhere and we're not going to be affected by exactly these things that these species that are dying out are affected by.
I hope this inspires you.
I hope it's been clear,
You know,
That you'll certainly be able to listen to it again if you wish.
Is there anything else that needs to be cleared up or anything?
It's like,
You know,
You guys,
All of you are going to have to wake up more.
And so like,
Maybe you don't want to,
Partly.
That's like the human condition.
Yeah,
But if we want to help be life,
We have to wake up more.
Yeah.
And the other thing about female energy,
It's like I told you guys,
I told my people close to me is I've had more ardent male attention since I turned 60 than I had really.
I mean,
Since I've been 19,
It's more than even then.
And it's because I'm in my female and the males experience it and they love it.
They just love it.
It's way more important to them than your physical body.
Yeah,
If you're in your feminine,
They just adore you.
Yeah,
Right.
Yeah,
The trick is to stay in your feminine.
To be there.
To know that it's safe enough.
And,
You know,
Women have been trained to manipulate men,
But authentic feminine feeling will move the man.
True female grief will really move a man.
So we don't have to manipulate them.
We just have to find ourselves.
If a woman's in distress,
A man will move in to protect her.
No,
It's.
There's a beautiful story.
It's in England and a woman was picked up by these guys shoved in a car and they drove her out to the Moors a long way out.
And they were going to rape and murder her as they had done other people.
And they threw on the ground and all of a sudden she had,
You know,
The crack in the cosmic egg like she had this breakthrough.
So she wasn't wasn't worried about her own personal death.
She just went into kind of universal compassion for for them and what they were doing to their souls and how they were going to feel after her death.
So what she didn't do was she didn't reflect back to them their own terror.
She just kind of went up into this heightened thing and they couldn't kill her.
They bundled her back in the car,
Drove her back to London,
Threw her out of the car in front of a.
A subway where she fainted.
So that's female power like.
Yeah.
It's like with my son,
You know,
The leukemia and I,
I went.
Well,
No,
I'm just going to open the door for something other than his death to happen.
Lo and behold,
The whole universe turned on that like.
We we've got this goddess,
We're goddesses,
But if we're hating ourselves and turning away from our true nature,
We won't find that love power.
But it takes you to be very patient with yourself because it's many,
Many years of this.
Kind of hatred of the feminine,
I remember this psychiatrist saying to me when I was 21,
It's like your dad doesn't know whether to let you move him by,
You know,
Because you move him,
You threaten his defenses,
You move his heart or to kill you.
He doesn't know what to do.
It's like almost fall in love with you or want to kill you.
And it's this is this is what happens like a.
We we have this hatred of the feminine going so.
So somebody is leaving.
Yeah.
So,
You know,
When a woman wakes up,
You know,
You also rattled the defenses of the males to the women.
And so,
You know,
It's like,
You know,
It's like,
You know,
It's like,
You know,
It's like,
You know,
It's like,
You know,
It's like,
You know,
It's like,
You know,
It's up,
You know,
You also rattled the defenses of the males,
Too.
So that's why you you have to be very solid in your awakening and very.
Do a really good job,
Be very thorough,
So you're really built your your awakening on a on a rock,
So it's very solid.
And.
Your dreams will come true.
I think we should finish.
I think that's.
That's kind of all I want to say today.
Thank you so much.
So many beautiful messages and just wisdom about how to be a little bit different in the world and to use that feminine courage within us all to empower us to to love and and then be loved in return.
I think that that can be sometimes the hardest thing is to receive that love and to be able to give that love to women,
To men.
And I think that's what really I felt like your message encapsulated and and to be compassionate with ourselves and be patient and waiting is OK.
Waiting is actually when the baby arrives and we need to remind ourselves that the waiting there's a beauty in the waiting.
Yes,
Exactly.
That's it.
So thank you so much for your time,
Prima Suta,
And your wisdom and all that you've walked through.
I have such great respect for and I just so many blessings and so much love for you.
So much love to all of you and thanks for listening,
Guys.
Like what a blessing.
It's a blessing to me to be able to share it.
Yeah,
Blessings.
Bye bye.
Thank you.
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February 23, 2025
Once again, Premasudha Janet Hobbs delivers! I've been searching for anything I can get my ears on about uncovering the inner feminine, and this is a perfect gem 💎Thank you so much for this gift! 🫂
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May 9, 2022
🙏🏼Powerful and quite raw at times exploring the imbalanced state of masculine & feminine energies and how and why activating, thru high vibration choices and expression, the Feminine energy is essential to shift ALL to a higher frequency. Balance. Not revolution. Forgiveness. Not retaliation. Response. Not reaction. 💜 Thank you for sharing. 🤗
Lise
March 23, 2022
Thank Divine Mother for you!! I needed to hear this today. I felt like you were speaking right to me, especially at the end. I had an awakening moment yesterday and it was so powerful. I came into my own in the divine right time and was able to pour my love into the moment with so much clarity and standing firm on what I truly meant but in the most loving and meaninful way. i hit 40 last year and have felt so discombobulated lately. I’m getting my footing and now I know waiting is the way. Being patient. Parenting myself has been a tool I have been using and it helps to put my techniques on my kids onto myself. I’m so happy that backing off not being in my nature is in fact becoming a good thing. Lol I’m coming from love. But I can do it with more subtly and with ease, in its divine right time. Thank you so much Permasuddha! Lots of love and hugs! 🤗❤️🤗
Stephanie
March 22, 2022
This is true spirtual sustenance. The depth of which you go in your talks is so healing and comforting. Your talks provide a gentle space to access this feminine nature we have all forgotten about. The light you shine of where we all need to go to save ourselves/humanity/the earth, will revolutionize spiritual circles. ❤️❤️❤️ so much love and gratitude to you. Blessings 🙏💕