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Relationships: A Choice To Run From Or Face Our True Selves!

by Premasudha Janet Hobbs

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With her signature humor and ability to put words to vague perceptions and feelings, together with her healing touch, Premasudha's work is life-changing. She has a truly great knack for assisting people out of the emotional prison of their ego/intellect into true freedom. This means that sometimes even serious diseases disappear too, as part of the emotional shift into a new more love-based understanding.

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Transcript

I've talked a lot in this series of videos about early childhood and how as little ones were born and we have this tremendous connection to the divine,

We're just little love bombs.

And then we gradually get used to our family emotional climate and we pick up on,

You know,

What's bad and good,

What's allowed,

What isn't.

And because we're dependent on our parents for survival,

We bond to them and their emotional climate and we let go of our incredible wisdom,

Our soul knowledge,

Our awareness that we're divine beings.

This is just a human condition.

But the thing is,

When we grow up,

We will have this sense of separation inside.

And when something comes along like someone or some experience comes along that catalyzes us into,

You know,

Remembering or connecting up with our divine energy,

We often get very scared and we can resist this.

Again,

This is a human condition.

I mean,

There's lots of broken love affairs that are testament to this,

You know,

When it gets too intense or a person's touch so deeply,

Sometimes they don't know what to do about it.

And it's easier just to separate.

But sometimes,

You know,

People step up and then,

You know,

You can have a very unusual kind of love affair.

Because certainly men and women are looking at each other a little differently now.

There's more sense of the possibilities in the bonding between male and female and how each opposite sex can bring out the best in the other.

But I just really want to talk about how,

You know,

We can get scared.

So one of the things is,

If we're scared,

We've got two choices.

One is to,

You know,

As we're able,

Turn and face the situation.

And the other is to,

You know,

Run away.

So in the course of my life,

I've done both.

I have run away sometimes and I have turned and faced it sometimes.

And what I can say is,

It's much safer to turn and face it,

Even though it's hair raising,

Because your divine wisdom will support you.

The universe will support you as you face the challenge.

And if you run from it,

Which,

You know,

I have run from these challenges in the past,

It's part of how I learned.

And what happened was,

I ran right into a full experience of my resistance.

Because you know,

When our hearts touched,

What's the universe is asking us to move through our resistance and start moving into our true nature.

And you know,

When we run,

It's like we will get it in the negative.

Yeah,

We'll just get the resistance with no kind of happy ending.

That's certainly my experience.

And it's in everything.

It's not just in relationships.

It's in,

You know,

Family relationships.

It's in,

You know,

Work,

Everything.

But when I stepped up to follow my heart and the guidance that was coming to me,

Even if I was scared,

I was supported all the way through.

And it turned into not a big problem at all.

It turned into,

I was kind of like,

Why did I get scared?

And in my 30s,

When I really turned and ran,

I got such a big experience of resistance I was carrying.

And it was just very,

Very difficult.

So that's why I'm so brave.

Because I learned that if you face these things,

The universe will support you,

And you end up with this incredible wisdom.

And if you run,

Well,

You know,

It's just like learning the hard way.

Okay,

Bless your hearts.

Meet your Teacher

Premasudha Janet HobbsNorth Vancouver, BC, Canada

4.8 (296)

Recent Reviews

Miri

December 29, 2024

How do you know the difference between running and leaving a situation that is bad for you? Facing something & stepping up versus standing up for self ?

Becca

December 9, 2024

Encourages transformation with a positive direction. Thank you for your genuine support that empowers safety for change. May you have a wonderful day. โค๏ธ

Oana

December 7, 2024

Some valuable nugets of wisdom to take in here, really enjoyed listening to this talk :)

Ann

September 30, 2024

What a revelation, yes this has happened to me big time. Never thought of it in this way. ๐Ÿ™

Becka

September 20, 2024

I like thisโ€ฆ I have anxious attachment and just stayed in a relationship Way too long (but for the kids) now in something lovely and feel this twisted feeling of wanting to leave him before he leaves me, (just because heโ€™s younger and I think eventually he will leave me, not because heโ€™s saying that thoughโ€ฆ) have some healing to do! This is helpful ๐Ÿ˜โค๏ธ

Patti

July 26, 2024

Thank you๐Ÿฅฐ I'm learning to hug and love my fears. Moving through it with honor and love. When I fight it, it does seem like everything else around me becomes a fight! So true what you shared. Thank you so much! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’•๐ŸŒบ

Tisch

December 9, 2023

Thank you Beginning a romantic relationship after 20 years of coming to love myself and others So scary yet feels like it belongs The wanting to run because I already have a wonderful community of love Is there space Let go and enjoy the process Beyond grateful ๐Ÿ’™โ˜ฎ๏ธโ™ฅ๏ธ

Alex

November 4, 2023

I still think about a moment when I ran (it was something to do with work) - it is something that is taking a long time to process and learn from- like you say learning the hard way. All the times I have stayed and faced something, its not turned out as scary/bad as I thought. Thanks

Chethak

February 2, 2023

This was nice and helpful and cheerful ๐Ÿ˜Š thank you ๐Ÿ˜Š

Lise

May 16, 2022

The resistance is definitely felt when we run. I had a rough time in my 20โ€™s. Ran from difficulty within my parents household and right into the same difficulties within my work environments all throughout my life until I dealt with all the things. In my current job, Iโ€™m learning the younger generation is catching on quickly, without even knowing about the creating of karmic experiences that they, in fact, want to stop the vicious cycles. Itโ€™s really great that the awakening is a conscious one among many of them. I wish I had been better prepared for this human experience. However, I am aware now and am making much wiser decisions. Thank you for this talk. โค๏ธ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿพ

Stephanie

May 16, 2022

Itโ€™s so true that Little kids are just like little love bombs! We all feel this I think ๐Ÿฅฐ Love Bombs really puts words to the indescribable joy that wee ones can bring! Your talk reminded me of Peter Pan too and how the kids fly when they think happy thoughts. They stay young and innocent forever with a magic where fairies exist and no one ever goes hungry. The weave of The Universe can be quite wonderfully wonderous. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and providing support through these talks. For me, connecting within is all that matters now ๐Ÿ™โค๏ธ deep thanks, much love and infinite blessings ๐Ÿ’•๐ŸŒท๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ€

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