Meet Your Alter Ego

What if the person you're trying to become is already inside you - you just haven't given them permission to take over yet? In Meet Your Alter Ego, you'll create a powerful second version of yourself designed to step forward when fear, insecurity, self-doubt, or old patterns normally take control. You'll decide who this version of you is, how they think, how they speak, how they carry themselves, what they believe, and - most importantly - how they respond differently to the situations that usually hold you back. Give your alter ego a name, an identity, and a purpose, then learn how to consciously step into that character when you need them most. This isn't about pretending to be someone else. It's about accessing a part of you that has been there all along. Who would you become if, just for a moment, you stopped asking "Can I do this?" and instead asked, "What would my alter ego do?"

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Hello, Everyone. Welcome. I'm so excited to have you here. This is one of my favorite lessons, Things that I teach people, Because this is something that I use personally, Myself, All the time, And it really helps me. It really helps me in my life, It really motivates me, And it always helps me to overcome that obstacle, That challenge that I'm facing, And I really hope from the bottom of my heart that this is going to help you too. So, What is it? So as you can see from the title today, We're gonna talk about creating an alter ego. An alter ego, You can think of it kind of like a lot of celebrities do that, Right? You can think of Beyonce, Right? She has her alter ego, Sasha Fierce. And the idea behind the alter ego is essentially this identity that we're creating that represents the best parts of us. The parts of us that we would like to embody. This identity that holds not just a visual identity, But so many layers behind it, Behaviours, Patterns, Way that they think they're energy. Their frequency, How they show up in a room, How they leave a room, How the universe, The world reads them, How they have this confidence that maybe you personally do not hold. And trust me, If you can create this identity and connect with it whenever you need, I promise you it's gonna give you that boost that you are seeking. Let's begin by first addressing what is going on in your life and where do you need this identity? So like I said, With Beyonce, We're just using her as an example, She's a singer, She's a performer, And she needs this Sasha Fierce identity in order to bring out this incredible goddess energy. Fierce, She is fierce, She has no fear, Okay? Now, Because she's a performer, That's where it goes. For me personally, For instance, I have called a new identity, Jacqueline CEO. And the reason why I did that is because I am upgrading a lot of things in my business, In my world, And I don't have all the answers. I don't know sometimes where to go or how to do it. And so what I do is when I tap into this identity, I call forth this part of me that is confident, That is thinking from a whole other level, From like a CEO, Somebody who's very successful. Jacqueline CEO is running a hundred, Thousand dollars a year company or a million dollar a year a company, Okay? You can upgrade and you can shift this identity, By the way, Whenever it suits you, Okay? It doesn't mean that you have to hold this identity forever. You can use it for as long as it works for you and then you can shift it or you can use it for the rest of your life. But the idea is that this identity holds very specific things that I seem to lack. Willingness to make tough decisions in my business, Willing to make financial risks. Willing to think outside of the box and not to think from a poverty set, But from a wealth-minded, Successful mindset. So this is where this comes from, Right? My work ethic, If I am facing a challenge, How do I behave differently from this identity, As opposed to me, Jacqueline, Now, Who is running a company, Yes, But it's not quite at that number yet, Okay? And can I just say, By the way, It's helped me a lot. So you'd be surprised at how quickly things shift when you start to embody this identity. So I want you to think of essentially a part in your life right now where maybe you are lacking confidence, Where maybe you are feeling like you have a setback, Maybe where you can't seem to get out of, You're just stuck. You know, For instance, If you want to create a relationship, A healthy, Happy relationship. If your name is John, We can just say, You know, So what does love John identity hold? So we're going to break that down in a minute, But I want you to first identify where this identity can essentially help you in your life. So it has to be usually pretty specific, Okay? So we don't want this identity to show up 24-7 because Jacqueline CEO isn't as fun and as great when I'm in a family situation when there's kids running around and I have to think about business. That's not where she needs to show up. She shows up when I'm working. So I want you to think of a part of your life, A certain situation where you need this confidence this solution, This energy, Whatever it may be. Now, Once you have identified it, I want you to think about the ultimate version of you specifically as to where you want to be. And I would encourage you, Of course, To take a pen and paper and to write down what you would like. So what I want you to do is on the left side, You're going to write the old identity, And on the right side, You're going to write the new identity. So for instance, When I did it for my business, Jacqueline now, You can put Jacqueline now or your name now, Not Jacqueline, If your name is not Jacqueline, You get what I'm saying. And you're gonna write down essentially all the things. So I make $50, 000 a year in my business or $50, 000 a month on my business, Whatever it is, The realistic, I am challenged in. Upgrading the business to this level. I need to create more advertising. Where I find it difficult is knowing how to budget properly. You get the gist. You're essentially putting the reality of the challenges and where you are at right now. Now, You're going to write the name and identity of that alter ego. So like I said, For me it was Jacqueline CEO. You can make it up. You want it to be easy, You want it to be a name that you can remember, Okay? So let's just say you want to become famous, You can put your name, Star, Or you can put, You know, Like I said, John Love, Or the ultimate love of John. I don't know, I'm terrible at this, Obviously, But you get where I'm going with this. And then through this, You wanna really write down what you see in this identity. Now, Let's just say Love John, For instance, Finds peace when he's around other people who have a relationship. Love John is confident that he will find his perfect match. Love John does not chase. Love John does not, You know, We can think of anything that the old John does, And essentially you wanna find the opposite of that, Right? Questions that you can also ask yourself is like, What would somebody in this situation who is successful in business, Who is successful in love, How do they behave, How do they act, And how do they react? So you really want to put very clearly certain points, And again, You can add and subtract as you go in life. This is not like. . . A blueprint that will last forever. You will learn things, You will have to adjust certain things you know that are working and other things will not. So this is essentially how you build this identity. And now when you build this identity, When you build the Jacqueline CEO, I have given her an aura, A color, A frequency. Now for me, Jaclyn CEO has a beautiful gold energy. And I visualize me dressed in a certain outfit. Standing in a certain energy, So I want you not just to see what they represent, I want you to feel them. How do they feel differently to you? When I'm not confident, You know, Maybe my shoulders are slouched, I'm wearing darker colors, I'm like, Eh, You know, My attitude, My aura is a little muddily, Muddily, Muddy. And then when I see Jaclyn CEO show up, She's confident, She shows up in the room, She's strong, She speaks her mind, She's kind, She is gentle yet firm, Like this gold energy around her. How does she dress? How does she put her makeup on? Whatever it is, How far you wanna go to really embody this. And not just embody, But feel it as if you could put them on like an outfit, Like a suit. So your exercise for today is to really build this alter ego, To really get very detailed. How do they think? How do they act and react to the world? How do they dress differently to you? How do they enter a room? How do they leave a room? How do they see the world? How does the world see them? How do they face a challenge that you normally would give up or run away? How do they deal with that? And above everything else, What does their energy look like and what does their energy feel like? Once you have done this, The next step is very simple. Whenever you're ready to embody them, You're going to say their name. I call forth Jacqueline, CEO, And I want you to visualize that transformation as if you're stepping back. And you're allowing them to take the wheel. You're going to think. Feel, Look. Act and react to the world from their eyes, From their point of view. Yeah, It might feel like you're making it up a little bit. Yes, It may feel like you're doing some acting here. And again, This is between you and you. This is not something that you have to show the world. This is more of an internal experience that you're shifting. And notice what happens. You stop acting and reacting differently. You stop thinking and looking at things from a very different perspective. And I promise you, If you play this game and you start applying it seriously, This can truly, Truly change your life. All right, Guys, I hope you enjoyed this workshop, And I will see you in the next one.