Tune Into The Frequency Of Love Part 1

Relationships are one of the most important aspects of the human experience, it is not uncommon to struggle in manifesting the type we are looking for, in this session I guide you to heal the most important one, which allows the others to flow into your experience. In part 2, you will find the healing meditation from this teaching.

Transcript

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Please have a piece of paper at hand and write down anything that you feel bad about yourself.

And it could be that maybe you missed an opportunity because you were too slow,

Or maybe you hurt someone,

Or maybe you don't have enough faith in you.

It doesn't matter what it is.

Or maybe you don't like your nose.

What I'm trying to say,

Whatever it is that you are upset or don't feel good about yourself,

Please write it down throughout the whole session.

You don't need to pause right now and write all of them like as fast as possible.

No.

Take your time.

And I'm sure some things that I'm going to share will jog your memory,

So you will say,

Oh,

Yes,

There's one more thing.

And of course,

The things that are more relevant or more powerful may already be on your radar.

You might know what they are,

And you can write them down immediately.

But some of them may not.

Okay,

As you know,

Today I'm going to talk about how to tune in to the frequency of love.

And my purpose with this session is to help you prepare so you can manifest any type of relationship that you're looking for.

So maybe you're looking for a love partner.

Maybe you want friends or to reconcile with someone from your past.

Now,

Most of this session is going to be focused on yourself because for me,

That's the most important relationship that you should be looking for.

I want to clarify,

I am not considering any religion or your relationship with God,

The universe,

Or synergy.

For me,

It's a given that that should be the most important relationship.

But the focus of this teaching is different,

All right?

Although in the meditation,

There's a surprise for you.

But,

Well,

Neither here nor there.

Let's go back to what I was saying.

This,

In a way,

Is going to be how I treat the law of attraction.

And I'm going to repeat this a little bit later,

And it will make sense.

But the overall message that I want to give you in how you should focus your attention is that I want you to focus on what you do want and not in the things that you do not want to have,

Right?

Now,

I'll go back to this later,

Like I said.

I just want you to keep that in mind.

So if I were to write down a list,

Like I asked you to,

About the things that I don't like about myself or the things I have done or not done,

That I feel regrets about,

I can easily remember around 20 years ago that I met someone that I really,

Really liked.

And we were going on a date,

And some people very close to me gave me this piece of advice.

Well,

I'm going to say what they told me.

But I decided to follow their advice,

And oh,

Boy,

Was I wrong.

Because by choosing to follow that advice,

I messed up an opportunity to have a beautiful relationship.

Now,

I'm not blaming my friends for the advice that they gave me because they had good intentions,

But the problem was that I did not read the room,

So to speak,

Correctly.

And I overlooked my instincts and did not act on them.

So I felt regret about that action that I did not do for years.

And maybe you can relate to something like this.

So what I want to tell you,

And this is what happened,

Well,

What helped me to overcome this negative feeling and memory,

Is that,

Well,

Since we're talking about relationships,

If you think about it,

There are thousands of,

Well,

Hundreds of thousands of people or millions of people or however you want to see it,

Billions,

Whatever.

So if by any chance you're not able to have a relationship with a specific person,

It doesn't matter because,

Of course,

There are some things about that person that you really like,

But those will not be unique.

If you think about it,

Let's say that you like someone because,

I don't know,

Their voice is,

In your opinion,

Is very sweet.

Well,

How many other people will have a voice similar that will give you the same feeling?

Maybe you like their eyes or you like the fact that they are very outdoorsy,

Whatever it is.

It could be a physical thing.

It could be something about their behavior or their preferences.

It doesn't matter.

And if you are going to blame yourself or feel bad because you were not able to manifest that relationship,

Well,

You're preventing yourself from discovering other wonderful people,

Right?

And in my case,

Since that was a really bad experience for me,

The greater the pain you feel,

The bigger the wisdom you will acquire once you recover.

So if one of the things you're writing down on your list is really,

Really,

Really strong,

It makes you feel really bad to the point of bringing you to your knees and cry,

Well,

Of course,

That doesn't feel good.

But on the flip side,

Once you overcome this and learn your lesson,

You may have acquired one of the best pieces of wisdom life is going to give you.

So don't feel bad.

And it doesn't matter how young,

How old,

Or whatever it is that you think could prevent you from manifesting the type of relationship you're looking for.

None of that matters.

And there's no such thing as that was my last train,

My last chance.

Because as long as you're alive,

You will always have more opportunities.

Okay?

Now,

I want to talk about a concept that I like the concept,

But I don't like how it was named.

And this is about guilty pleasures,

The name in and of itself.

It's not that great,

Because some people,

Whenever they hear the word pleasure,

Think about something that has to do with sex.

And it doesn't have to do with it necessarily.

So I would say maybe guilty preferences,

Whatever,

It doesn't matter.

But why do I don't like the naming?

You should never be ashamed about what you like.

And I remember in one of my previous jobs,

I was in charge of a company.

And in the warehouse,

One time there was,

It was a delivery guy.

He was eating a sandwich,

Hiding behind some boxes.

And I stumbled onto him,

And he was like ashamed.

And I told him,

Hey,

Why don't you go to,

You know,

The special room that we have for you to eat?

You don't need to hide.

I mean,

He was not doing anything wrong.

So I assume that maybe in a previous job,

He was very,

I don't know,

Controlled,

Had several limitations.

Right?

And I remember that attitude very clearly because it was so shocking to me to see that attitude.

So that in a way sums what I want to convey about guilty pleasures.

And it really doesn't matter what those are for you.

Right?

And I'm going to share two examples that some years ago I would have,

Well,

I would have felt ashamed to share.

Because maybe I would be judged by other people and considered,

I don't know,

Childish or whatever.

But,

Well,

Okay,

Let me show you first and then I explain.

Okay?

So if you're listening to the recorded version of this,

I'm going to describe what I'm doing because you cannot see it.

But one of those things is this,

A tarot deck.

And it's really funny because,

I mean,

Of course there's nothing wrong with having one.

But some people have some prejudice about these things.

Right?

Which is completely fine.

Not all of us are equal.

Right?

And the other one,

What is this?

Well,

This is a Blu-ray that has anime.

What's anime?

Well,

It's like cartoons from Japan.

Right?

Now,

Like I said,

In the past I would have felt ashamed to share that with some people.

Because I wouldn't have wanted to rule out the possibility maybe of a friendship or a relationship,

A love relationship with someone.

But after some time and realizing that not everyone is equal,

I decided to embrace who I am.

Right?

And now I want to explain to you why I was like that.

But before that,

I'm going to read a couple of comments that I see here.

I don't want to miss them.

All right?

So let's see.

Regret is evil.

I'm not sure if I would say evil,

But I agree that it's painful and it's not serving you.

So,

Yep.

The bigger the pain,

The greater the wisdom.

Yes,

My friend.

But don't forget that we can get so much wisdom from happiness too.

Of course.

Yes.

Yes.

But sometimes we,

Whenever things go right,

We don't learn anything because it's so natural that we haven't maybe considered what we have been doing right.

But when we make mistakes,

The contrast of them gives us time to analyze what we did and make changes if we decide to do them,

Of course.

But yes,

I agree,

Jovella.

We need to also consider the wisdom that happiness brings.

So thank you for mentioning that.

There's always a new beginning as much as we have life.

Yes,

Peggy.

I agree.

Okay.

So now that I read your comments,

Let me tell you why I felt that way about,

Well,

Showing other people who I really am.

And this comes from my childhood because when I was growing up,

The person that I was,

I don't know,

Considering my role model was my dad.

And I thought when I was a kid that by the time I became an adult,

I would be a copy of him,

Which of course is not the case for many reasons.

But one in specific is that he never watched cartoons.

And I remember when I was 17,

I mean,

Almost an adult,

I was wondering,

When am I going to become a man?

Right.

I still like this stuff.

When am I going to transition to manhood?

And that's a question that remained unanswered for many years until one day I remembered that my grandfather,

Which was my father's father,

He used to watch cartoons even in his 70s.

I remember one time when we were visiting our family,

I was nine years old probably,

And he was watching The Flintstones and he was laughing so hard.

Then I couldn't believe it.

So for some reason I remember that.

And to be honest,

My grandfather had four kids and a wife that he loved until the day he died.

And he was able to be a normal adult,

And that was not in any way,

Shape,

Or form affected by the fact that he liked to watch cartoons.

So why should I feel ashamed or feel that I'm not done yet or haven't grown up yet?

By embracing the fact that I do like them.

It doesn't make sense.

Right.

And if I go back to thinking about the man that he was,

He had an amazing personality.

And I mean,

Pretty much almost no one here knows me on a personal level.

And the impression that you have of me is me as a teacher,

Right,

But not as a friend or as a boyfriend or whatever.

But he was so amazing.

I was always so happy to see how well he could relate to people and hang out with them.

He was loved by everyone.

He had such a nice character.

And my dad had also a really nice character,

But my grandfather was even better.

It took me many years to embrace my guilty pleasures.

And I want to tell you that you do not need to be like the person that you like would want you to be.

We have different features.

If you think about your zodiac sign,

I know that some people don't believe in that,

And for the longest time I didn't.

But after many things that I have seen,

I believe in that,

Right?

I don't read the horoscope every day to see what's going to happen.

No,

I'm not that type of person.

But the point is that you will have certain features based on the day you were born.

Now,

You are not bound to be or to remain with that personality.

You can mold it if you want.

If there's something you don't like,

You can change it.

We are all born with some challenges and virtues.

But whenever I have read that some people say,

I don't want to meet Scorpios because they are not faithful,

Well,

I laugh.

And it's not because I'm mocking them.

They don't understand that there are some basic rules of compatibility.

And some signs are very compatible with Scorpios,

Right?

But not everyone is going to be loved by the whole population.

There is no single person on this planet that is going to be the ideal partner for every single other person in the world.

That does not exist.

And that's beautiful because that means that there are hundreds of thousands of people that will be compatible with you and that are going to love the way you are.

So you don't need to feel ashamed of the things you like.

You need to embrace them.

And if there's something that you really have conflicts with,

I recommend you to seek help.

And of course,

You always have the choice,

Like I said before,

To change something that you don't like about yourself.

But if that thing is not harming anyone,

Including you,

Why don't you embrace it?

And it's funny because,

And of course,

I'm not telling you to become an open book and to hang a sign on your chest saying,

Hey,

I like cartoons,

I read Tarot.

So if you don't like that,

Back off.

No,

I'm not asking you to do that.

I'm not asking you to be an open book,

That every time you're introduced to someone new,

Say,

Hey,

My name is Juan Pablo.

I like cartoons or anime.

I like Tarot.

How are you?

No,

No,

No,

No.

People need to earn the right to get to know you.

But when the time is right,

You should never feel ashamed of who you are.

Now,

If you do that,

You will become magnetic.

Any person that is hiding whatever it is that makes them feel self-conscious.

Or they think they should not show about themselves because they don't want to scare away some potential partners.

That vibration can be perceived by everyone.

And I'm not comparing ourselves with dogs.

But you know that if you are afraid of dogs and you're approaching one,

He's going to smell your fear and react.

So we have kind of the same thing,

But sometimes we don't understand what it is.

We just feel that someone is off.

Right.

And that's,

I guess,

The best reason why not to hide who you are,

To feel proud of the person you are.

And again,

If there's something you don't like about yourself,

You can change it.

But embrace who you are.

Now,

I remember and I want to,

I would say maybe debunk the myth that you have to be physically attractive in order to have a partner,

Especially for people that have traveled to find someone to love.

Many years ago.

And it's kind of funny now that I think about it,

Because usually when I share an anecdote,

I say many years ago.

But it was many years ago.

My brother was celebrating his birthday and he invited a bunch of friends.

And among the crowd,

There was this girl that was not my type.

Absolutely.

But for some reason in that occasion,

I felt something,

A connection,

A very strong impulse.

And we dated for some time.

And again,

She was not my type,

Which doesn't mean that she was not pretty or anything.

I would have never approached her.

And it's not because of her looks.

Something was missing.

Right.

But like I said.

That person that I was very sure was not my type ended up being someone that really attracted me.

And I also remember another occasion.

This is more recent,

By the way.

There was this person that worked at the same office.

And someday I said,

I would never be with that woman.

Right.

And it's not because she did something wrong.

She was not my type.

But oh,

Boy,

I was so wrong.

I fell in love with her and like super,

Super strongly.

So if you feel insecure about any of your features,

You don't like your height,

You don't like your eyes,

Your nose,

Whatever it is.

That is not something that is going to prevent you from having a beautiful love relationship with someone that you really like.

So you don't need to settle for someone that you don't like.

And it's not fair to them as well.

If you are with someone,

They should be like a 10 out of 10 in your eyes because you would not like to be someone else's.

Oh,

Well,

This is my worst is nothing.

Right.

That's not fair.

So anyways,

Before I move to other relationships,

I want to say this again.

I want to approach this as if I were using the law of attraction.

Which means focus on what you do want and not on the things you don't want.

So about other relationships,

Because we have been focusing on the relationship with yourself.

This is going to be very brief.

Think about what you really want to have with those relationships,

Either friends or a loved one.

Let's say if you remember that the last best friend you had never wanted to go out with you because they were always wanting to watch Netflix.

And you are more of an active person.

So if you're thinking about having new friends,

Don't make this come from a negative perception or statement saying,

Well,

I want to have friends,

But friends that I would say keen to being on a couch the whole day watching Netflix and eating chips.

Don't say that.

Don't think about it in that way.

Because if you think about it,

It doesn't feel good.

Instead,

Say or think or write down or whatever.

I would like to have friends with whom I can go out with and hike or do whatever you want to do.

And the same thing applies with someone that you want to have as a boyfriend or girlfriend.

Don't dwell in the past and the things that your ex-partners did that you did not like.

Try to change the perspective and the focus.

Right?

Like I said at the beginning,

If someone was with you and cheated on you,

Don't focus your energy on manifesting someone that is not going to cheat on you because you are bringing the energy of cheating to your wish.

No.

Instead,

You could say something like,

I want to have a partner that is crazy about me,

That is going to be in love with me for the rest of his or her life,

And I want to feel the same way towards that person.

How much difference does that feel?

It's so much better.

And it helps you to let go of the things that hurt you in the past.

So that's what I recommend you to do,

Because once you have fixed the love that you have for yourself,

Your self-image,

Everything else falls into place.

Right?

You will be so free to be yourself,

And that will make you magnetic.

Reviews

Que bonita disertación, que nunca nos falte amor❤❤❤.

Thank you for all of the advice!! I especially appreciate the reminder that your authentic self is your most attractive self 💜🌷