The Biggest Lie That Is Keeping Your Wishes Away. Part 1

Since our early childhood, we have been fed several paradigms that hinder our pursuit of happiness, in this recording from a live session, I want to debunk the biggest lie we have been taught. In part one you'll find the lecture, and part 2 has a soothing meditation.

Transcript

Hello,

I hope you're doing great.

This is a segment of my last live session.

If you want to participate in any of my next broadcasts,

Check out my profile and book the time that works best for you.

These are free events and you will have the opportunity to join us,

Ask questions,

Share your thoughts and meet wonderful people that are part of this great community.

I have a new topic per week and two sessions in different time zones.

After that,

I will upload some highlights like this one.

I also have a course titled Mastering the Law of Attraction.

You can listen to the first lesson for free.

Follow me and activate notifications to know when there is something new for you.

I hope you enjoy this content and appreciate if you share it if you did.

So today I want to talk about something really interesting,

A lie that we have been fed since we were kids and that hinders our ability to use the law of attraction and actually to manifest many things in life.

So this lie that we have been told,

It's so so much part of our society that we assume it's true and right out of the gate I'm going to say that is this idea of no pain no gain and I'm sure you have heard that before.

Why is this a thing?

I'm sure you have heard people saying if something is worth it is not going to be easy and other ideas that are related to that one are for example money doesn't grow on trees and you know I think that most of us have heard ideas like that and this is because the people that created those slogans or phrases are not considering the power of the universe the power of God the power of working with energy right now yeah from nothing comes nothing there you go Amina exactly.

So why is that?

I mean some people might say something like this and I used to believe this too let's say we're talking about a relationship it's a long-distance relationship it's difficult right but since it was so hard I'm sure that both of them are going to cherish and appreciate more when they're together and once they get married and so on well the the odds will be in their favor when it comes to continuing the relationship right but I don't buy it I mean we get tired really easily and it doesn't matter if you were in a long-distance relationship with someone I mean my parents had that relationship and when I was 12 years old they split right of course I cannot generalize I cannot say that every single relationship that was long distance is not going to stand the test of time no and I don't have statistics for you but I can tell you that whenever you have a wish as something ordinary that is already part of your life then that newness that excitement is going to tone down and if you are not really appreciating that wish that person it doesn't matter how hard it was to get to the point you are the relationship is not going to last because relationships require effort so that's my counter argument at least in relationships things that are difficult will be more valued now let's talk about the law of attraction and I I have several examples and I'm going to give you but let's say this train of thought is so old that you can find it even in religion and I'm not going to criticize any Creed or anything this is just an objective opinion but if you analyze what the Vikings believed they wanted to die in battle because that was a straight ticket to Valhalla right but if someone died of old age they would not be there so there there was no merit in having a long happy life and if you think about let's say people that are remembered that are honored that schools and avenues are named on their behalf all those people at some point where maybe martyrs or had suffer or had to fight against something maybe they went to war I don't know they're heroes and thanks to people like them we have many things today so I'm not trying to say that what they did is not worth it but can any of you give me a name of anyone in the history of mankind that is remembered because he or she lived a happy life I honestly cannot think about anyone but you will have dozens hundreds of names or even thousands of names of heroes of people that gave all that they neglected themselves to allow others to prosper and like I said that is not wrong but those are the examples that we are given to justify why we need to struggle in life to get something good and that is not the case that is one way definitely that is a hard way but it's not the only way right something similar not exactly the same but maybe most of you or all of you know how India got their independence from the British and they didn't use guns they didn't use violence right it was not easy but they got it they didn't fight so I want to challenge those paradigms that most of us have that we need to struggle that if you want something that is considered big or difficult it's going to take more time if you want to have a house and you currently are living with your parents well that sounds like a big step forward and it's going to be difficult right but it doesn't have to be that way and I gave an example yesterday that I just remembered I was able to manifest an apartment that I bought more than 10 years ago in one week and I had to wait two years to manifest a specific type of candy that I wanted to be given by whomever wanted to grace me with that so as you can see it's it's so ridiculous because of course I just could have gone to the store and buy the candy which was always an option but my wish was so specific so I would say stubborn in a way that I had to wait two years to see it come through so for the universe size does not matter how big you consider the wish is has nothing to do with the process of manifestation this is a good time to realize that we're not alone if you think about the law of attraction well the power that uses the law of attraction is the same power that created the whole universe is the power that created comet stars our planet black holes everything so imagine the amount of wisdom knowledge and power to calculate how the forces of the universe needed to be tuned in order to avoid let's say for example our solar system to avoid the planets from collapsing between each other or going straight to the Sun we have been here at least earth for billions of years if I'm not wrong and we still have a lot of years before the Sun starts to lose power and we no longer can sustain life as we know it so everything is so perfect we have oxygen we have water we have every element that we need to live and now we are trying to explore what's farther from earth we're going to Mars I mean look at all the things we have accomplished and if you think about it for a minute you realize that there was there is and there was of course is and will always be this incredible power and wisdom that knew that we were going to be here and maybe watched us evolved into this more intelligent creatures and maybe other ones in on this planet so that power that knowledge that wisdom is the same that you can use to manifest a wish so if you're saying I want to house but I don't think I'm gonna get it because it's so difficult really so you think it's more difficult to manifest a house or a spouse or health than creating the whole universe when you put it in that perspective I think that our desires are so tiny that I don't know I mean it's really an eye-opener to realize the power that we have in our hands right so I just want to share something really quickly to illustrate how society is conditioning us to take the tough road always right so I'm going to show a part of me that it's kind of a geek that it well it's part of me so I'm not ashamed of it so here we go if if we talk about video games depending on the difficulty that we choose you're going to be criticized so if you see the first one it says it's the easiest one and he says can I play daddy and you see a grown man with a pacifier and that ridiculous hand and if you start moving up the difficulty okay don't hurt me all right you don't look like a baby anymore but you still look like someone that is a coward right so if you choose the easy way you're going to be criticized now if you're more adventurous okay you bring them on now you have a tough face now you can intimidate your enemies whatever then you go up and up and up and you are well I don't want to say the word because I don't like to curse but as you can see that's what what we are given in so many media right and we shouldn't fall into that trap of doing things because they are expected from us I remember when my dad was still alive and I was in college I chose to study computer science the first semester was a mess I well I'm not sure what word do you use I failed several subjects and I had a scholarship so I was let's say on probation if you will so my dad was like why don't you study something easier and I was like nope well and in the end I did study something easier but it was still computer science and I was able to finish my career with good grades so but that there's that pressure no son maybe you're not caught up for this choose another thing give up your wish no I'm not gonna give up my wish and I was able to turn things around right so don't let anyone tell you that what you want is not for you that's up to you you decide you're the one in charge Simon used to do computer science too okay great well I I was working on that field for around 20 years until I said no more and I decided to well start teaching but yeah there you go so I want to talk about one big word and that word is expectation and expectation in the law of attraction has a big role to play and it has to do with how likely or not you think your wish is and that is what you use to gauge how much time you think it will take or how much effort right the usual example that I use is if you go to the gym for the first time and if you're like me I don't have a big frame I don't have big muscles so if I want to let's say lift a hundred pounds there's no way I'm gonna do that on the first day but if I start training maybe after a couple of weeks I'll become a little bit stronger and I can lift maybe 10% more and eventually I will be able to lift the 100 pounds with ease right that is an expectation and sometimes we have those for things in life we may think that finding someone to share your life with is going to be difficult when in reality there are billions of people on this planet of course you're not gonna like all of them and of course not all of them are available and furthermore not all of them are compatible with you but even with those filters there is a pretty big chunk of people that you could meet and have a beautiful life with so it's not difficult now the tricky part is that we want to make it happen we want us to be the ones in charge of manipulating the events and how they're going to unfold and that is a mistake that we make right especially with things that we really really really care about because for the ones that we don't care we don't pay attention and they arrive effortlessly and that could be the same outcome for the things that you really want but since we forget that step number two and I'm going to say the steps in case you don't know them the first step when it comes to using the law of attraction is choose what you want and then step number two the universe delivers it step number three is thank you so we're stuck in step number two saying you know what universe you don't know what I want you have been delivering half-baked results so I'm gonna be the manager of this wish and I do need your help but I'm wiser than you so let me handle things and then nothing happens and then you get frustrated because nothing is moving forward and you start thinking that this doesn't work or whatever you manifest is not what you really wanted and that is because first of all maybe you have not decided exactly what you want and you are let's say with a wiggly vibration like uncertain and sometimes you say this is what I want but no never mind because I see these obstacles or I have deepened my understanding of what I really want so there's no longer apply so we're just unsure so one of the things I do recommend is to take your time to decide exactly what you want if you looking for a partner well what type of partner do you want to have even the way they look it there's nothing wrong with choosing someone that you really like and you feel attracted to this is not only about being spiritual because we're living a human experience your flesh and blood and you also have hormones and desires so you should not neglect that part right so when you find exactly what you want you have completed your work you don't need to do anything else the only thing that you need to do like Natalia typed is relinquish control let things flow it doesn't matter how much time is going to take it really doesn't it's not up to you and you're supposed to be living a fulfilling life because if your wish is going to be the reason for you to have a meaningful life then I'm I'm afraid to tell you that that's not the wisest thing to do like I said earlier anything that manifests any wish that you get eventually is going to become ordinary I mean I don't like the word but it's actually accurate if you want to have a car you may be super happy for the first week and then you will be grateful and then you will just forget about it and not even wash it as often as you did when it was brand new and that happens also with people sadly we don't appreciate the people that we have around us we get used to them we we take them for granted right so your focus should be how can I enjoy this moment how can I be happy right now even if I don't have the partner even if I don't have the house I don't have the great job it doesn't matter what can I appreciate from my current situation because if you are struggling with accepting what you have and you're trying to run away from it what you're sending to the universe is I'm not happy I'm desperate I hate my life and then the law of attraction is going to say all right I'm going to send you more reasons for you to feel that way because a lot of attraction is not let's say an a spiritual being that has empathy and that is going to say oh poor JP he's so sad he's so lonely he needs a girlfriend or he needs a house or whatever no the law of attraction is going to say okay you're lonely you're gonna continue feeling lonely you are poor you will continue to being poor because that's what you're broadcasting and some people may think that's unfair but it's not because we share the same power that God or the universe has which was the one that was used to create the universe we are literally children of God so we are powerful so you may say okay so I see a problem there with your logic you're saying that you need to ask and then you say that the universe is going to take over but if you're so powerful why can't you just override that mechanism and manifest things by yourself well in a way you can because you're part of a machinery let's say a production line if you think about a factory you're a component there and if you are part of a well-oiled machine everything is going to work perfectly everything is going to flow but if you're contradicting your desire then you're delaying the production process right and if you think about the desires or wishes that imply other people well guess what they also have thoughts and feelings they also use a lot of attraction even if they are aware of it or not so if if you for example want to manifest a specific person in your life and that person doesn't feel attracted to you you cannot use a lot of attraction to brainwash that person so there are many components but what I can tell you by my own experience if you trust if you live your life if you enjoy what you have if you're grateful you don't need to think about their wish 24-7 if you remember it once in a while it's going to get eventually to you and think about this if you're living a happy life then in theory you don't need anything else to be happy right which is not me trying to brainwash you into saying okay I accept my reality I don't care about my wish anymore no no no no no ironically by doing this by saying I embrace my reality I like what I have I appreciate the people that I share my life with I appreciate the job that I have although all those things and people could be better if you find what you can really appreciate about them then the vibration you're sending to the universe is I appreciate my life I love my life and in return you're gonna get more reasons to feel that way so if you want to house and you're living with your parents like I said before but you learn to appreciate your situation well you're allowing an improvement on that area of your life and it will come you will have ideas inspiration or maybe someone will have a clue that you will be able to use or maybe you will inherit something I don't know I mean the universe has so many options for every of your wishes that it doesn't matter and we should be humble in the sense of not saying you know what universe I'm going to tell you exactly how you should deliver this wish I want to tell you the how do yourself a favor and don't choose the how just choose the what right so what do you want I want a house okay how do you want it well I want three rooms I don't know two bathrooms and I want to have a garden and whatever all right is there anything else you want well I guess I'm good cool now let me choose I have a plethora of options that will fit those requirements here you go which one do you like I have this one ready for you do you want it yes or no yes or no show me what else you got for me so that should be the attitude towards and using the law of attraction and some people feel frustrated when maybe they're waiting for a partner to arrive and then someone arrives and that person is not exactly what you're looking for well what I say instead of feeling discouraged feel happy because you know that it works you just need to work a little bit maybe I'm being more specific or not focusing on the things you don't want to have in a partner right focus on the things you do want to have or experience and let it flow Natalia I feel free to surrender and trust and inspiration does come from that space yes that is true because when you feel like that you're raising your vibration and then you have access to information from other planes so that's that's great and I would recommend that to be a normal practice for everyone and what about if you are ill or have pain somewhere in the body that's a great question if one doesn't feel well one should look for whatever feels good even if it's really hard that's a great question and let me answer that for you your body is designed to heal itself and I understand that when you're not feeling well it is more difficult to raise your vibration but it's not the same to feel pain and also experience fear then be hopeful right I remember I asked to my spiritual guides how should I address a problem that I had and it was Rosacea for more than a year I had a red mark here and it well I'm a Libra so I care how I look right some people may think that that's vanity but well that's who I am right and I did not feel confident so I asked my guys what should I do and I dreamed about one person that was next to me with perfect skin and that person was blind and the message that I received was ignore it so I did and I had gone to the dermatologist I had some ointments applied to my skin and it didn't work but when I started doing that eventually it healed now I have to be honest sometimes I had had that thing again but I do the same thing right now I have a little bit of it I guess you cannot tell but I do have it but I don't care and I have seen more than two times that it heals so I just let it I just let my body heal itself now of course that is not painful it's a very different story but let me tell you about dr.

Joe dispensa he had a bicycle accident and he fractured his spine and he was in a wheelchair he started working I don't want to say necessarily with the law of attraction right but he was able to heal and well he can walk and there's a more extreme example Maurice E Goodman and if I'm not wrong in 1982 or 1981 he had a plane accident he crashed and he went to the hospital he was only able to blink he was not able to breathe or swallow or move anything but his eyelids and in eight months he walked out of the hospital so your body can heal and of course he recovered against all odds against everything that the doctors thought about his future condition so you can heal I'm not saying that you're going to heal I'm not a physician right so I cannot tell you how or why your body is going to heal but I know it can heal because of my experience because of what other people have done so try to feel better try to feel distracted for example yesterday I woke up with a huge headache it has been the one of the worst that I have experienced in my life and what I did well I did take a couple of pills but I just remain in bed I covered my eyes and I tried to relax and eventually it was gone I mean I remain kind of drowsy the whole day but nothing compared to the pain that I was experiencing that it was almost incapacitating so you can recover yes you can there are several examples of that so try to be hopeful and try to distract yourself from whatever affliction you have I remember sometimes when I have experienced pain you can get distracted by watching a movie and you forget about it for a while and then you're like oh I don't feel pain anymore and then it comes back right because you're focusing on that but you have the power to overcome pretty much any disease

Reviews

Amazing 🤩

Our minds & thoughts are IMPT