The universal problem is people have misconception of love.
That doesn't mean you have zero love and you receive zero love.
But a similar portion of the love we think is true love,
We think is complete love.
That is the problem.
So,
I want to repeat again.
A very tiny portion of love mixing other things,
We think is complete love,
A true love.
And then we cling on that and we value in that.
That is our mistake.
It's not the problem,
It's love.
Love is the fundamental,
Incredible,
Valuable for anybody on this earth.
But we have mistaken what is really true love.
That's the problem.
Okay.
So,
For that reason,
Love brings your suffering,
Problems,
Many things.
Not because true love brings all these problems,
But if we mistaken that small tiny portion mixed with other problems,
We think is love.
That is the problem.
Okay.
So,
Now I'm going to talk about what is really true love.
Okay.
What is the nature of love?
Okay.
First you have to understand this.
The nature of the love,
Any phenomenon or person,
When you see it,
When you feel it,
You get for you is joy,
Only joy,
And only best wish.
Joy and best wish for it,
For them or it.
For instance,
If you see a beautiful flower,
You love beautiful flower,
What rises within you is a joy and you really care this beauty and you have the best wish this flower remains like this way all the time.
Maybe then you have some problem,
You are attached to that flower.
So,
Attached to that flower,
If you do,
That's a little problem.
But you may not attached that flower,
But you really find beautiful and joyful whenever you see it,
Whenever you feel it,
Whenever you imagine.
If that case is true love,
You can live with this flower,
Beautiful flower.
You don't care if it is present with you or not,
But if it is present,
It is joyful.
If it is not present with this flower,
Still you feel it,
You can imagine,
Give you a joyful and the best wish for the flower.
If you can do similar with person,
Or any person,
If you see it as joyful but you care the happiness,
The most important you care this happiness,
This person,
And you only get joy,
This person,
Contact this person,
Even you imagine this person,
No matter how distant you are,
You get only a joy and best wish,
Nothing else associated with you.
It doesn't have to be with you all the time,
It doesn't make differences together with you or not,
But your wish and joy is the same always remain,
If that then is true love.
But if there are other things,
Strengths attached,
Then the problem begins to start,
Which means all of love,
Yes,
You have this fundamental thing,
This joy and best wish.
For instance,
If you love somebody,
Yes,
Definitely you have this joy with this person,
And definitely you have the best wish,
This person,
Maybe not necessarily 100%,
Always everybody,
But mostly yes,
That is not a problem.
The problem is that you want this person,
You want to possess this person,
Same as any other object,
A piece of gold or car,
Beautiful car or house or whatever,
You just want to own this.
You don't want other people to own this,
You want to own this,
You want ownership,
And that begins to start the problem because that is a selfish basis,
That is an ignorant basis,
That is a biased basis,
So that is the reason we often mistake,
Heck,
When you have very strong feelings of this person you want on it or this object you want on it,
Then you have problems start.
But other than that,
If you don't want this ownership and possessiveness,
Without this possessive ownership,
As much as you lack joy and wish the best for this,
This is the true love.
So this true love always has good,
Good consequences,
Never,
Never will have bad consequences.
Often with poetry or many things,
Everybody is talking about the problem of love,
The suffering of love,
This incredible love and joy,
Transmissible,
All of this is because of that portion,
The portion of attachment and this ownership and this possessiveness,
And clinging on that,
When this portion is higher than your joy and everything,
Even equal,
And then is,
Problem starts,
And then you have the suffering result,
So that's always a problem.
But when you don't have that portion,
Only joy and the best wish for them,
Or not only wish but you really care and you feel joy,
It doesn't have to be with you,
But whenever you feel or imagine,
You give you only joy and the best wish and best care,
And then is a true love,
A pure love,
And always have the best result,
Best consequences,
Never be bad,
Never ever become bad,
This is an incredible value,
The whole universe.
So that means you can achieve tremendous spiritual qualities,
And the worldly joy is just,
That is very little.
You can,
Based on this true love,
If you have this true love and dedication,
A devotion,
If you have this true love and devotion,
Then you can accomplish it,
Unbelievable,
You know,
Attainments,
And so that's why true love is,
We have to understand intellectually first,
And then we try to fill that every day with anybody and any object,
Okay?
So if you need more understanding,
Then you have to read my books,
So then every detail and every situation should be very clear.
