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Put Yourself First

by Jennifer Agostini

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Meditation
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If we aren't going to put ourselves first, who are we going to leave it up to? This meditation is an invitation for us to step into one of the biggest acts of self-love: putting ourselves first. When we do this, we will show up for the rest of the world in a better and better way.

Self CompassionSelf CareGuiltSelf LoveCommitmentForgivenessProductivityPosture AlignmentSelf CommitmentSelf ForgivenessPostures

Transcript

Hello meditators.

Hope that you're all doing well and ready for this practice.

So for this practice it's important that you're feeling as cozy as possible.

So you don't even need to be resting with a straight spine.

You don't necessarily have to be sitting or lying down.

You could even be standing and moving.

You could be going for a walk.

You could be laying in bed on your side in the fetal position.

You could be doing anything.

And allow yourself to just do what you're doing and feel totally good about it.

No guilt.

No shame.

Just love and gratitude and kindness for yourself.

Your eyes can be open or closed.

If you're going for a walk or something like that,

I definitely suggest to have them open.

And just listen closely.

So many of us allow ourselves to feel so guilty for taking time to ourselves.

For taking time off work or time away from our loved ones so that we can spend some alone time.

Sometimes we make ourselves become so productive.

And this is a huge challenge that a lot of us have in society now.

We tell ourselves that we need to be productive.

We need to be motivated.

We need to be always doing.

And if we're not,

Then we're not good enough.

Or then we're not lovable.

Or then we're not deserving.

And I want you to know that you are not the only one that thinks this.

I think every single person on this planet has or has had this false belief for at least a little bit.

And sometimes it's intermittently present.

But what's important to know is that not only do you deserve to have quality time with yourself,

Not only do you deserve to put yourself first,

But it's beyond deserving.

It's just what's so important.

It's important that you take time for yourself.

It's important that you put yourself first because if you don't do it,

Nobody is going to.

Accomplishing is more important than your own well-being.

Because if you don't put your own well-being first,

You won't be your best self in accomplishing or doing anything else.

When you put yourself first,

Though,

It brings you into a space where you can completely and wholeheartedly offer yourself to the world.

Now,

This doesn't mean that you are to disregard other people or be rude or shun other people out of your life.

It simply means that you are here to put yourself first and to take care of your own well-being first and not have any guilt or any shame around it.

Simply because it's the most important thing.

Putting yourself first takes practice and it's something you're going to have to work at every single day.

Make a commitment to yourself right now that you're going to do just that.

Make a commitment to yourself that you are not going to feel guilty for putting yourself first and instead,

You're going to feel grateful to have the opportunity to put yourself first.

Recognize how important it is.

You've got this.

A challenge that I have for you is for you to take at least 10 minutes,

If possible,

Either directly after this meditation or at a later time.

Take 10 minutes to do or be however you want,

Completely guilt free with all the kindness and compassion for yourself,

All the forgiveness,

All the understanding that this is what you need and want right now.

Notice all the love that you have for yourself.

If you didn't have an incredible amount of self-love inside of you,

You wouldn't be here right now.

I hope that you enjoy your time to yourself.

I hope that you enjoy fulfilling this ongoing commitment of always putting your own personal well-being first.

That way,

You can take care of others.

You can take care of your creativity,

Your professional and your personal life more wholeheartedly,

More intentionally,

More productively.

I sincerely hope that you enjoy.

Meet your Teacher

Jennifer AgostiniToronto, ON, Canada

4.6 (250)

Recent Reviews

Anne

December 28, 2025

Loved this! It was like a 10-minute hug! My first reaction when I saw the title was, oh, I can’t do THAT, which shows you just how badly I needed this. Thank you❤️

Elena

December 27, 2025

Thank you, what a beautiful practice.. I wish i could do all of this easily🤍

Michael

February 21, 2025

Perfect after lunch message, before returning to work.

Cara

November 25, 2024

Nice reminder ❤️

Diane

May 9, 2024

I found this to be a very valuable meditation. Putting myself first is, I'm noticing, something I don't do but I'm inspired to shift my focus on the words of this meditation and practice self love and kindness toward myself more frequently. ✨️

DeltaErin

February 10, 2024

So beautiful and gentle, a message I needed to hear. Thank you Jennifer 🙏

Adele

December 31, 2023

A beautiful and essential meditation. Thank you.

Janelle

December 20, 2023

Beautifully said 🙏

Emma

September 26, 2022

I am returning to this very gentle meditation and it seems to always serve me well. The quality is round and soft, very soothing. September '22. This is still my go-to meditation. The pace is not stressful but slow, kind and warm. Don't hesitate to make more like this ❤️💧🍵

Anna

September 23, 2022

Ohhh yes 🙌🏻

Zazoo

February 16, 2022

I feel free and spiritually recharged with this beautifully guided meditation.

Sascha

January 15, 2022

Very important message to ourselves, thank you (However, do I heartbreaking some car/motorsound along with your voice?)

Amber

June 3, 2021

brought the release of tears to my eyes and some much needed insight to begin again. Thank you so incredibly much

Kristina

December 8, 2020

Thank you 🙏 🥰🥰🥰

Rosie

December 7, 2020

I enjoyed this so much! Thank you 🙏

Francesca

December 7, 2020

Lovely to hear such reassurance, thank you 😊

Danielle

December 7, 2020

This was an incredibly soft, gentle, and refilling session for me, Thank you!

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