Hi,
I'm Hayley.
This tap is for you if you've got a meeting coming up.
In the next five minutes,
We'll calm your body so you can walk in there feeling calm,
Grounded and like yourself.
As I tap through the points,
Repeat my words after me,
Either out loud or in your head.
If I say anything that doesn't quite match how you feel,
Just swap it for your own words.
Let's slow everything right down together.
I'm going to ask you to take a deep breath in and then take two little sniffs at the top.
Hold and then breathe out.
Let's do that together now.
Take a deep breath in.
You can close your eyes if that feels comfortable.
Start by tapping on the top of your head.
Tap lightly like raindrops.
I am slowing right down now.
I am safe in this moment.
Relaxing your jaw.
Releasing your shoulders Now move to the start of your eyebrow just above your nose.
Take a deep breath in and hold at the top.
And a slow breath out I know my potential.
I know I am capable.
Side of the eye,
On the bone,
At the outside corner of your eye I am safe to be in that room.
Nobody is watching me as closely as I think.
Most people are focused on themselves and what they're going to say.
Under the eye on the bone just below your eye Take a deep breath in and hold at the top.
And a slow breath out I am allowed to take up space.
I am allowed to have a voice.
Under the nose,
The little dip between your nose and top lip.
I have this job because I am capable.
I deserve to be there.
Chin in the crease below your bottom lip and your chin.
I am letting go of the need to be perfect.
Even if I only say something small,
That is okay.
Collarbone just below where your collarbones meet and then about an inch either side.
Take a deep breath in and hold at the top.
And breathe out I am safe.
I am supported.
Under your arm,
About a hand's width under your armpit.
I'm allowing this anxiety to ease.
My body is beginning to settle.
I don't need to get rid of this feeling completely to be okay.
Wrists,
Tap the insides of your wrists gently together.
I second guess myself sometimes.
But I know more than I give myself credit for.
Finger points.
We're now moving to the finger points.
Tap on the side of your thumb by your nail bed.
I am calm.
Tap on the side of your index finger by the nail bed.
I am capable.
Middle finger,
I am safe to speak up.
Ring finger,
I trust myself.
Little finger,
I am enough.
And I always have been.
Let's take one more slow breath in and hold at the top.
And breathe out.
Take this feeling with you into that room.
Come back to this before every meeting this week and notice how your body settles a little quicker each time.