Welcome.
I'm so glad you're here.
Today's mandala card is on the theme of forgiveness.
Before we begin.
I invite you to have a pen and journal nearby.
This session will include a few quiet moments for reflection and journaling.
Now let's arrive fully into this moment.
Find a comfortable position.
Sitting or laying down.
Let your shoulders relax.
Let your hands rest easily.
And gently close your eyes if that feels comfortable.
Take a slow breath in through the nose.
And a long breath out through the mouth.
Again,
Inhale,
Gathering your attention inward.
And exhale,
Releasing stress.
One more breath in.
Steady and present.
And out.
Calm and clear.
Feel yourself here.
Now.
Fully present in this moment.
I'll share now a reflection on forgiveness.
Forgiveness is a gentle release.
It is not about pretending something didn't hurt.
It's not about excusing what is unfair.
It is about choosing your freedom.
Sometimes we carry old moments long after they've passed.
Conversations that we replay.
Words we wish were different.
Regret,
Resentment,
Blame.
Over time,
Those memories can become heavy.
Forgiveness is how we loosen the weight.
Not for others,
But for ourselves.
It is the decision to stop reliving what cannot be changed.
It is the willingness to say,
I deserve peace more than I need to hold on to this pain.
And forgiveness can move gently.
It doesn't have to happen all at once.
It just begins with a soft intention.
A breath.
A small opening in the heart.
And then allowing that space to grow.
When you release what weighs you down.
You make space.
Space for calm,
Space for possibility.
Space for something new to grow.
Forgiveness is how your heart learns to breathe again.
And here's something that may surprise you.
Science has been studying forgiveness for decades now.
And what researchers have found is genuinely remarkable.
A review published by the National Institute of Health,
Drawing on years of studies.
Found that forgiveness is associated with lower levels of anxiety and depression.
Higher Positive Emotion greater satisfaction with life.
And fewer physical health symptoms.
Let that land for a moment.
Forgiveness doesn't just change how we feel emotionally.
It changes our physiology.
Studies have shown that people who practice forgiveness carry lower levels of cortisol.
The stress hormone that keeps the body in a state of alert and tension.
Holding on to resentment,
On the other hand.
Has been linked to elevated blood pressure.
And a higher risk of heart disease.
Dr.
Everett Worthington,
One of the world's leading researchers on forgiveness,
Has spent his career studying this.
He says that when we hold unforgiveness in the body,
It acts like a chronic stressor.
And when we release it.
The body notices.
This is not just a spiritual practice.
Is an active care for your nervous system,
Your heart,
And your health.
Choosing to forgive is one of the most loving things you can do for yourself.
Let's bring that awareness into the body now.
Scan gently from the top of your head.
Down through your shoulders,
Your chest,
Your belly.
Notice.
If there's a place where you're holding tension.
A tightness in the jaw.
A heaviness across the chest.
A clenching somewhere that you hadn't noticed.
This is where unforgiveness lives,
Not just in the mind,
In the body.
Now take a slow breath in.
And as you exhale,
Imagine softening that place.
Not forcing it open,
Just breathing into it.
Again,
Breathe in And on the out breath,
Let the muscles around your heart loosen just a little.
You don't have to resolve everything right now You just have to let the body begin to release what the mind has been gripping Notice if even the smallest shift is available to you.
A little more ease.
A little more space.
Now we'll move into journaling.
I invite you to take a few moments to write or simply reflect.
The journal prompt today.
Is what am I ready to begin releasing so I can feel lighter and more at peace.
Please write freely without judgment,
Letting whatever wants to be expressed come onto the page.
You you you It's time to bring your writing to a close.
And we'll move into an affirmation.
I'll say the affirmation first.
And invite you to repeat after me.
I choose freedom over resentment.
I choose freedom over resentment.
I release what no longer serves me.
I release what no longer serves me.
I deserve peace in my heart.
I deserve peace in my heart.
With each breath,
I grew lighter.
With each breath,
I grow lighter.
Just breathe that in,
Feel that sense of peace,
That small space that opens Now take one final breath in.
And a long breath out.
When you are ready.
Gently return to your day.
Carrying this energy and this theme with you.
If today's practice resonated with you.
I would love to invite you to go deeper.
I have a 10-day audio course called Return to Joy.
A guided journaling experience.
Designed to help you reconnect.
With joy and forgiveness.
And move forward with lightness and clarity.
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New guided sessions are added regularly and I'd love to have you with me.
Thank you so much for being here today.
May your day be filled with joy,
Lightness,
And the quiet freedom that makes forgiveness possible.
