Hey there,
Welcome to Angel Transmission Podcast,
Where you'll hear real-life stories about the angels,
Inspirational messages from the angels,
And tips and tricks on how to connect with your angels.
I'm your host,
Alice Hadi,
Angel healer and spiritual coach.
Without further ado,
Let's dive deep into today's episode,
Shall we?
Are you tired of putting everyone else first but you?
Sounds familiar?
Perhaps you know like you put your family first,
In fact,
You even put your work first.
It's like everything comes first but you.
But that doesn't have to be the way you live your life.
And this is one of the very common reasons or symptoms of mother wound,
The divine feminine core wound of sacrificing oneself,
Of having to work so hard and struggle in order to earn a right,
In order to feel worthy,
In order to feel deserving,
In order to be good enough,
And so on.
I remember as a child,
I often witnessed that my mom always gave the best part of the meat to my dad and myself.
She would say something like,
Oh you guys have it first,
I'll have it later.
But the thing is,
She's just sacrificing herself in that sense by putting us first and letting my dad and I have all our share of the good meat and she will have some leftover if any.
And even as a child,
I found that fascinating and I remember as a child,
I also kept telling her no,
Eat with us now,
Don't eat what is left over,
Eat with us now,
Eat the good meat now and she will kind of have some sort of excuses as to why we are not gonna do it this way.
She will let us have it first and she will have it later.
And I love her so much and I appreciate her for that.
So this is definitely not for me to judge her in any way,
Nor do I have the right to do that.
But the reason I'm sharing this story is just to show a very classic example of a divine feminine wound where women are taught in whatever way,
Maybe from our parents or the society or because of the patriarchy around us that women have to be the one who sacrifice,
Who struggle,
Who give it your all and in the expanse of oneself.
It's almost like women put sacrificing as a badge of honor.
Like over glorifying sacrifice,
Over glorifying being busy and so on.
Does this sound familiar?
Can you resonate with this?
Perhaps like in one way or another you experience this not just in your mother,
Maybe in your grandmother or just your sisters and maybe even yourself.
And very soon you might find yourself depleted and tired and sacrificing your time and energy.
So the thing is,
This is very tightly linked to self-love as well.
Like self-love,
Loving yourself,
Being worthy enough,
Feeling deserving enough.
And to know that self-love is not selfish at all.
Not if it is done from love.
It is not asking you to be all self-centric,
All ego-centric,
All about me kind of selfish.
Selfish in the sense that putting yourself first so that your cup overflows and then you can give from that overflow.
And that is when you can truly stand in your power and embody your divine feminine and share your gift with the world.
Be it in the family or in work or in anything else.
And the number one secret,
So to speak,
To embody that divine feminine and to stop the cycle of sacrificing and over glorifying all of this struggle is to receive.
Easier said than done,
Right?
Like the art of receiving.
How else can you allow yourself to receive in your life?
Are you able to receive in all levels?
I invite you to do this little exercise going forward as you go through this week.
Perhaps you can keep a journal on that and just observe how well are you at receiving.
Like when people give you compliments,
How do you respond?
Do you really receive the compliment and feel gratitude and say thank you?
Or are you in a hurry to compliment the person back because you're like,
Oh no,
No,
No,
I'm not that beautiful.
You are so beautiful too.
So that's one way to check in.
How well are you at receiving compliments?
And the other thing is how well are you at receiving help?
Perhaps someone wants to help you carry your stuff and you're like,
Oh no,
I can manage it on my own.
And how well can you receive money?
Do you feel good to receive money or do you feel guilty of receiving money from somebody else because you think you need to work your ass off to receive it?
How well do you receive love from someone when someone shows their love and compassion to you?
Does it make you uncomfortable or does it make you feel good?
How well do you receive act of service from another person?
Kind of similar to receiving help,
Like when someone wants to cook for you,
Do you fight to say that I'm going to cook instead or rather than allowing yourself to receive that and so on and so forth.
Those are just examples of so many ways that you can be receiving so many greatness in life.
But if you allow yourself to have the consciousness and the mindfulness and paying attention to that by keeping a journal,
Even if it's just for one week,
Just to observe how well you are receiving,
What does it make you feel when someone offers you something and just notice that and you will find an interesting synchronicity or patterns that might show up there.
It will reveal a lot about your ability to receive and hence from there when you shine light into it,
When you have the awareness into it,
That's when you can change it.
You can't change what you don't know but now that you know you can change it.
So there is a power in consciousness and awareness so this very little simple and yet powerful practice is going to open the entire doorway for you to start to be aware of how you are receiving and to allow yourself to finally then be able to be more conscious and practice practice practice receiving all the greatness in your life day in and day out.
So that's a little exercise for you to walk away with today that you can do.
As you start to practice the art of receiving and allow yourself to receive all the greatness life has for you,
You will then really understand that you don't have the sacrifice to receive,
Nor struggle nor work your ass off.
You can receive simply because you are worth it,
You are deserving and you are born with greatness.
Make sense?
So go out and practice this and feel free to message me and let me know how it goes for you if you desire to share in more details.
I would love to know your experience and your progress in this.
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