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Connect To The Pain Of Others

by Marc Lesser

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Donโ€™t avoid the pain of others. Instead, learn to embody a profound connection to all humanity and life by joining Marc in this practice. This track includes contemplation and a poetry reading. Take five minutes to find stillness and reflect.

ConnectionPainOthersContemplationPoetryStillnessReflectionBody AwarenessCompassionBreathingSelf InquiryVulnerabilityThought ObservationHumanityEmotional VulnerabilityPoetry IntegrationCommon HumanityBreathing AwarenessPostures

Transcript

Let's begin by bringing attention to the body,

Making conscious choices about how you're sitting,

Placing your hands on your thighs or in your lap,

Sitting slightly more upright than normal,

Lengthening the spine,

Arching your back just slightly,

Sitting with some energy.

See if you can find a way to be both relaxed and alert at the same time.

And gently bringing attention to the breath.

See if you can notice a full cycle of breathing.

Each inhale,

Each exhale,

And the spaces in between.

Letting thinking mind do what thinking mind does.

Letting thoughts come,

Let them go.

Bringing your attention back to the body and to the breath.

And now see if you can drop in asking yourself,

What's in my heart right now?

What am I feeling?

What are my deepest feelings?

What is it like to be alive right now?

Can you access your deep sense of care,

Concern,

And connection?

A complete lack of separation for those that you love,

Your family and friends,

Perhaps close coworkers.

Can you extend this sense of care and love outward to people and to all beings,

To all of life?

There's a beautiful poem by Vietnamese Zen teacher Thich Nhat Hanh called,

Please Call Me by My True Names.

It's a poem about unity,

Oneness,

And opening our hearts,

Even to those who we might judge,

That we might tend to close our hearts to.

Seeing that under different circumstances,

Under different causes and conditions,

We could be them.

We could be like those we judge.

Here's a few lines from the poem.

I am the child in Uganda,

All skin and bones,

My legs as thin as bamboo sticks.

And I am the arms merchant selling deadly weapons to Uganda.

My joy is like spring,

So warm it makes flowers bloom all over the earth.

My pain is like a river of tears,

So vast it fills the four oceans.

Please call me by my true names,

So I can hear all my cries and laughter at once,

So I can see that my joy and pain are one.

Please call me by my true names so I can wake up and the door of my heart could be left open,

The door of compassion.

In dropping in,

See if you can open your heart,

Open the door to your heart,

To your own pain and the pain of others,

And the joy and love within you and within others,

Waking up the door of your own heart,

Noticing this mysterious mix of feelings and emotions,

Of pains,

Of beauty and joy.

Opening our hearts is risky.

It means being vulnerable,

Human,

Open,

Kind,

Loving,

Able to be hurt,

But it's the way to connect.

It's the way to feel our common vulnerability and common humanity.

Bringing it in and taking a few breaths,

Bringing attention back to the body,

Back to breathing,

Keeping it simple,

Breathing in and breathing out.

And then whenever you're ready,

Returning back to being here in the room.

Meet your Teacher

Marc LesserMill Valley, CA, USA

4.7 (142)

Recent Reviews

Charlie

May 11, 2023

Thank you - beautiful and accessible.

Neet

May 24, 2021

Simple voice guidance, succinct and to the point. Thank you for sharing! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป

Claire

April 30, 2021

Beautiful meditation to start the day, Thank you Marc ๐Ÿ™

Ron

February 19, 2020

This brief, relatively simple meditation feels quite powerful, and I certainly found it useful in a period when I am directly confronting both my own comparatively minor/endurable pain and the life-threatening pain of friends. The poem at its core is also quite profound. The series this is from is also good for beginners to meditation, because the opening directions regarding posture are clear enough that absolutely anyone should be able to grasp the concept. (Most other guided meditations I come across teach a specific technique/posture without necessarily explaining the point.) Also bears repeat listening any time you need to reconnect with the notion of how to regard pain.

Raptor588

September 25, 2019

good meditation!

Elizabeth

September 6, 2019

Thank you for reminding us to keep our heart open with dear Thayโ€™s poem๐Ÿ™โค๏ธ

taratan

May 5, 2019

wise. beautiful. thank you.

Kellen

May 5, 2019

Thank you so much for this beautiful teaching. โค๐Ÿ•Šโค

Alexandra

May 5, 2019

Helped bring calmness in a hectic day. Thanks!

Sissie

May 5, 2019

Very satisfying...I did not know what to expect!

Nancy

May 5, 2019

Beautiful...thank you..exactly what Iโ€™m working on

India

May 5, 2019

So happy I was able to tap into the mind of others that I need to have more compassion and understanding towards through this session. And I truly enlightened and thankful for it! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝnamaste

Danielle

May 5, 2019

Lovely - I loved the poem and the short but powerful reminder of my humanity and the humanity of others. Will be sharing to some friends and my community. Namaste. ๐Ÿ™

Dorea

May 5, 2019

Thank you for an amazing meditation, will listen often!๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

Fin

May 5, 2019

Thank you ๐Ÿ™ I felt what is is to be alive right now ๐ŸŒŸ

Sam

May 5, 2019

Short but powerful, thank you and Namaste

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