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From Disappointment To Calm Presence

by Clare Downham

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When disappointment weighs heavy, it can feel as though something has gone wrong. From a 3 Principles perspective, disappointment is simply a flavour of thought passing through. In this guided reminder, you’ll settle into body and breath, notice the transient nature of thought, and return to the calm that never leaves you. A gentle invitation to meet life with more ease and trust.

CalmMeditationBody AwarenessBreath AwarenessDisappointmentThought ObservationPresenceEmotional AcceptanceMindfulnessMetaphorDisappointment ManagementDivine Presence AwarenessMind Wandering ManagementMetaphor Usage

Transcript

Welcome.

This is a space to rest,

To breathe and to remember.

Take a moment to notice your body,

Where it is right now.

Feel the surface beneath you,

The way it holds you without effort.

You do not need to sit in a certain way or make this moment different from how it already is.

Let yourself be supported.

Now gently notice your breath,

The air moving in,

The air moving out.

No need to control it,

No need to make it slower or deeper.

Just noticing what is already here.

As your awareness settles,

You may notice the feeling of disappointment.

It might be recent.

It might be something that lingers in the background.

Disappointment often feels heavy.

As though life has not gone the way it should.

As though you are behind or missing something.

But here is the invitation.

What if disappointment is not proof that anything has gone wrong?

What if it is simply a passing thought?

A flavor of the mind that feels real in the moment,

But moves on just like weather.

Take another breath here.

Notice how it rises.

Notice how it falls.

You do not need to change the breath.

Just be with it.

Let it remind you that everything shifts.

Thought shifts too.

Disappointment is simply thought in motion.

It may look like evidence of failure.

It may look like proof that life has gone off track.

But it is none of these things.

It is only the mind's momentary interpretation.

Bring your attention again to your body.

Perhaps your shoulders,

Your chest,

Your stomach.

Notice if disappointment has left a trace there.

A weight.

A tightness.

A sinking feeling.

Let it be there if it is.

You do not need to push it away.

You do not need to fix it.

Simply notice.

And let your breath move softly in and out of that place.

Disappointment can seem convincing.

It can whisper that you should have done more.

That you should be somewhere else by now.

That life should look different.

These are the voices of thought.

Not the voice of truth.

Notice again the breath.

Notice the body held by the ground.

See how presence is already here beneath the noise.

Even disappointment arises within presence.

It cannot touch who you are.

In this moment,

There is nothing to do.

No mistake to correct.

No story to resolve.

Just the gentle rhythm of life moving through you.

Perhaps you notice the mind wandering off to what happened or what might happen.

That is natural.

Whenever you notice it,

Gently come back to this breath.

This body.

This simple awareness of now.

Every time you return,

You are reminded that presence never left.

That calm was always here beneath the noise of thought.

What if disappointment is not a warning sign?

What if it is only the mind showing you how believable a thought looks in this moment?

You are not required to act on it.

You are not required to believe it.

You can simply let it pass.

Like clouds moving across the sky.

Like waves rising and falling on the sea.

Disappointment is weather.

You are the sky.

You are the ocean.

Notice again how your breath comes without effort.

Notice how the body is naturally breathing.

Even when you forget about it.

This is how presence works too.

It never depends on you holding onto it.

It is always here.

Quietly waiting for you to notice.

You may find that the feeling of disappointment softens as you rest here.

Or it may remain for a while.

Either way is fine.

Peace is not about changing the feeling.

It is about seeing the truth beneath it.

You are not your disappointment.

You are not the story of what should have been.

You are the awareness in which all of this arises.

Calm.

Steady.

Untouched.

Take a few more gentle breaths now.

Let them remind you of the rhythm of life that continues no matter what thought is passing.

Breath rising.

Breath falling.

Awareness steady.

As you come to the close of this meditation,

Carry this reminder with you.

Disappointment is not who you are.

It is only a thought moving like weather.

What you truly are is presence.

Calm.

Clear.

Whole.

Whenever disappointment visits again,

You can return here.

To your breath.

To your body.

To this quiet space of being.

It is always waiting for you.

Thank you for being here.

Meet your Teacher

Clare DownhamLeeds, UK

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