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Sexual Orientation Calibration

by Christoph Spiessens

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Time to re-calibrate with your soul essence! We might be living in an era of mental health awareness (thank goodness), but one topic that’s a huge anxiety inducer and yet rarely talked about is sexual orientation. If you are considering “coming out” (I don’t resonate with that expression, btw), or you know someone who is, you may find this 6-minute soul message empowering. It’s time to live your truth.

SexualityAuthenticityRecalibrationResponsibilityPressureMental HealthAnxietyEmpowermentTruthSexuality AcceptanceAuthentic LivingPersonal ResponsibilitySpiritual GrowthSelf Imposed PressureRipple EffectsSpirits

Transcript

Welcome to this recording.

My name is Christoph.

I am delighted that you have decided to check this out.

If you have been thinking about coming out of the closet,

Which is an expression I don't really resonate with,

But I'll talk about this in a moment,

Then this recording might be very helpful for you.

Keep an open mind and enjoy the journey.

The purpose of this recording is not to help you come out,

Because you do not have to come out.

The purpose of this recording is to help you recalibrate with your essence,

Your soul chosen essence that you bring forth into this human incarnation,

This human version of your soul,

Which really is your center of gravity.

You weren't born in a closet.

There's no closet you need to come out of.

But you have this lifetime as an opportunity to recalibrate with that which already is,

And that is your sexual preference.

It's an invitation.

It's not an obligation.

And spiritually,

If you spend the rest of your lifetime living out of alignment with your essence,

You can still have a very successful life.

However,

I believe that we have an opportunity to leverage our life and squeeze all the juice out of it by being all of what we are,

As opposed to living only certain parts of who we are.

We don't owe it to the world,

But we do owe it to ourselves to live the full version of ourselves.

So why is it so difficult to accept that sexual orientation piece when our sexual orientation is really our center of gravity?

It's at the very core of our being.

Now,

I appreciate that there's a huge set of circumstances that surround you.

There's a framework within which you operate,

There's a social context,

There's a professional context.

There's all sorts of conditions going on for you.

But that pressure is self-imposed.

For what comes into your world in terms of demands,

Expectations,

And so forth,

Is only there because you let it into your world.

So to a huge extent,

It is self-imposed pressure.

Although you didn't create it yourself,

You still allowed it into your world.

Do you want to spend the rest of your life living a story that is not the whole truth?

Or do you want to live the truth,

Your truth?

How people choose to resonate with that is not up to you.

That's their invitation.

And spiritually,

It's a double whammy.

You learn,

And they learn.

So in fact,

You are an enabler.

You're a facilitator of new experiences,

Both for yourself and the people around you.

Friends,

Family,

Work colleagues.

Recalibration has a positive ripple effect.

Positive doesn't always mean easy,

But positive nonetheless.

I myself recalibrated about 20 years ago because I knew that I was not living my truth.

And I knew that it wasn't fair towards the people who loved me and the people I loved.

And let me tell you,

It's one of the best feelings ever.

And even if people choose not to resonate with it,

It's still the best feeling ever.

Because at the end of the day,

It is between you and you.

It is between the human part of you and your soul.

Now here's why this is so important to me.

I can go to bed every night with a clear conscience.

And that is what I want for you too.

I hope you have enjoyed listening to this message of encouragement channeled for you from your soul,

The ultimate source of wisdom,

The ultimate guide.

Wishing nothing but the absolute highest state of joy for you.

Meet your Teacher

Christoph SpiessensManchester, UK

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Recent Reviews

Theresa

February 27, 2024

Thank you for this. It’s a confusing time, and this message felt nice.

Doug

July 14, 2022

Very helpful and I’ll revisit this often. Thank you!

Igo

June 20, 2022

Christoph, what a powerful message you bring with your wise words here. What touched me the most were your reflections on the expression "coming out" (totally agreed, we need to change this social perspective), the self imposed pressure we internalize from outside and it hurts us inside and the unique beauty of our souls. Your beautiful words here have the ability to remind us of the sacred Divine who lives within each one of us, and this is so beautiful to hear as a gay man in a world that wants us to believe otherwise. Thank you for sharing, really. Much love back to you. Namaste. Igo. ❤🙏⚘

CaTBlue︎︎︎︎•iAmThaTiAm

January 9, 2022

💥🎼🌈 Thank🙏You ~ i super Appreciate your POV & your Support ~ as a neuroAtypical who has allways felt mostly gender/sexually fluid ~ i've balanced 🎭masking + unmasking🗯🎭 as i felt comfortable & greatfully much more unmasking🗯🎭 lately , as i age more + w/Daily Practice All is Better ~ Thank🙏You again 4Sharing this HeRe NoW 🌈🎼💥

Roberto

August 26, 2021

Great!💕

Anna

August 11, 2020

This is so supportive and resonates deeply. I'm so glad it is on insight timer. Thank you Christoph.

Sasha

July 15, 2020

Thanks for the heartfelt message and the courage to deliver it. Namaste ⚓️

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