Today we're going to dive deeper into how to create prosperity with your purpose and especially what is the main thing the main thing that has to shift,
The first thing that has to shift in order to make this possible.
Before we go to strategies,
Before we go to marketing things,
Before we analyze whether we are good enough or not,
Whether what we are doing the world is ready for or if it's worth it to put a value on it,
Before that,
We have to look at one thing.
One thing.
First.
And that is self-worth.
The reason we are not creating prosperity with our purpose is self-worth.
The main reason.
There's many,
But this is the main reason and this is the reason I want to focus on with you today.
Okay,
So Self-worth.
Keeps us.
Bypassing,
Sabotaging,
Doubting,
Creating stories and narratives.
About what we deserve.
What we can receive.
Whether.
.
.
Our intuition that calls us into something,
Calls us into some creative expression.
Calls us into writing a book,
Calls us into becoming a mentor or a teacher or a guide for someone.
Um,
When.
When that shows up in our life.
And we attack that instantly without with insecurities,
With worries.
Then what happens is that we sabotage it,
Right?
So it comes back and it comes back and it comes back again,
Right?
And we keep doing the same thing.
Why do we do this?
It's because we have low self-worth.
Have low self-worth.
No dignity or very little dignity.
And we feel like we don't deserve.
We feel like we don't deserve to receive payment,
Especially.
For our work.
Which is coming from our soul,
Right?
Comfortable to receive payment from something else that doesn't come from our soul,
We are comfortable to receive payment while selling our time and energy to someone else.
Just to get our bills paid.
We are comfortable to do that.
But we are not comfortable to follow truly our excitement and instincts.
Disconnected.
Us collectively as humans have become.
I know,
I just came from three months traveling.
I've been to Turkey,
I've been to Romania,
Where I'm from.
I've been to Greece,
To Spain and Lebanon.
And I see the same pattern.
Selling time and energy.
To get paid.
So there's nothing wrong with that.
You'd rather do that than not do anything.
And some people really enjoy what they're doing.
So I'm not here to say that it's wrong to do that in any way,
Shape,
And form.
But discussing with people,
With people who are very well established by the way.
What they tell me is that I'm doing this,
I have this business.
So it doesn't have to be that you're employed,
You can even have your own business.
I have this business but what I really want is to do this.
I cannot tell you how many people tell me this.
So I'm like,
Okay,
What stops you?
What do you think that is?
Again,
It's self worth.
Except for they do not believe that they are capable,
For whatever reason,
To do that.
There's many reasons.
There are four main reasons.
That I found that I want to share with you forward.
And there's many reasons outside of this,
But these main four reasons is what makes us unique.
Stay in the Self.
Worth.
Um.
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In a low self-worth vibration.
What are these reasons?
First and foremost.
Is the disconnection from the divine.
When we feel disconnected from the divine,
From the creator energy that flows through us.
Which,
To put it in a simple term,
Is really just creativity,
Is vitality,
Is aliveness,
Is life force energy.
When we do not.
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Honor that energy and we do not channel it enough through our vessel or if we do channel it but then invest it in something else.
That is not necessarily for our highest good or it doesn't create a better life for us then what happens is almost like we are siphoning this energy,
We are wasting it.
So then we become disconnected.
You know,
When you receive the intuition to change your job or to upgrade something in your life.
To upgrade your.
.
.
Health,
Your relationships,
Something.
And you didn't take action on that.
Each time you don't take action,
You are literally wasting that life force energy,
That creative energy that comes to show you how can you change your life,
How can you make your life better.
Right,
So.
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Then what happens is that we become victims.
If you're not a creator,
What are you?
There's only two options.
You're either a creator or a victim of circumstance.
Either you create your circumstances,
You create your life the way it feels right for you.
Not how I say or how whatever other person says.
But however feels right for you.
You need to listen.
To that God-Creator Higher Self within.
And follow the instructions to create that life.
And we don't do that,
Right?
Because It's easier not to,
Somehow.
It's easier not to.
It takes so much devotion,
It takes so much commitment.
To be connected.
With that higher frequency.
This is the truth.
It takes.
Commitment.
But what else is better?
Why would we not invest that?
Because you only invest in that in the beginning,
When at some point,
Like any habit,
It becomes a habit,
Right?
So if you invest in great practices that really empowers you to feel connected with your own God,
With your own energy that fills you up,
Whatever that is,
Whether you believe in a superpower with the supreme power,
Whether you feel one with everything.
Then you establish a connection that would be unshakable and from there Your self-worth won't have enough.
Your low self-worth won't have enough power and momentum to take you off.
That connection to unplug you.
So we have to invest time to feel connected in whatever way that is.
For some people it's just going into nature,
Taking walks in nature.
For some people it's by doing some practices.
For me personally.
.
.
From all the things I did.
What helps me be in that energy.
Is to utilize my creative energy,
Is to create,
Is to write,
Is to make music,
Is to create programs,
Is to be involved with people in creating,
Building.
The lives.
That's when I'm the most connected.
And fulfilled.
So.
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Another way.
Our self-worth.
Is impacted.
Pretty deep,
I would say,
Is our ancestral lineage,
Right?
So our family,
Our parents,
Our relationship with our mother,
With our father.
What did our father told us or not told us when we were young?
How was he showing up?
In the relationship with you.
Was he present,
Receptive,
Attentive,
Guiding?
Bringing confidence.
Was he abusive?
Was he ignorant?
Was he insecure?
Was he absent completely?
Same with the mother,
Was she nurturing,
Was she showing you unconditional love?
Was she demanding,
Narcissistic maybe?
Was she a control freak?
No judgment,
Discernment.
Because all of these things affect our self-worth.
How do they treat us?
How do they speak with us?
What do they encourage us to do?
And so a lot comes from our ancestral lineage that we need to clear so that we change the story of cell phones.
And so.
The most important thing is here to not stay into the blame.
Positioning to the blame game because then we are victims.
Because my mother said this when I was 5 years old,
Now I feel this way,
Now it has justification,
I'll use this as an excuse,
Of course I'm unworthy,
Of course my business is like this,
Of course I don't have this and that.
No!
No,
Don't fall into that trap.
That's a trap that most people fall into and then they repetitively create that story,
They find people to speak about.
They discuss problems about it.
They go into the depth to analyze everything.
Only to validate their experience.
You don't need to validate.
Through the external anything it's enough for you to see and to this side This is not how I want to live my life.
I'm going to give myself what my parents couldn't because of their own conditioning,
Because of their own struggles,
Because of their own things that they needed to overcome because of the stories that they have been through.
Some of our parents and grandparents went through war,
Through massive challenges in their lives.
So we cannot blame them really.
What they could.
Based on what they knew.
What we can do is to change the way we show up for ourselves.
So this is where we take our power back.
When we are not ruled by a 5 year old,
In a boy or in a girl,
Who dictates how we are today,
Who dictates how we show up.
Towards the things that we love.
That we want to have in our lives.
So that's a deep one.
Then.
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.
Another one.
Is past lives,
Right?
Many of us came into this life choosing our parents,
Choosing the exact patterns,
The exact dynamics that we needed,
To go through in order to transform them,
Correct them.
Release them and become the version of ourselves that is aligned with our greatest destiny.
It's as simple as that.
Now when you look at the situation from this perspective.
Suddenly,
The problems diminished because we realized,
OK,
There's so much more than what I know.
There's so much more behind.
.
.
The scenes of what I thought is right and,
You know,
Many of us blame our parents,
Blame scenarios in our childhood for who we are today.
But what if you take full responsibility for that and we say.
.
.
I chose this.
I had to grow through this.
I had to go through this to evolve.
To transform my soul,
To become a better person.
What if that's actually the case?
That releases any type of blame,
Guilt,
Shame,
Not-enoughness,
Unworthiness.
That alone dissolves the self-worth story.
We tell ourselves.
That alone has that power.
But of course then we need to show up in a different action.
We need to create a new version of ourselves that actually feels aligned with where we are going in life.
Because in those places where karma was defining us,
Was defining our next relationship,
Our job,
The way we show up in dynamic with people,
With life.
In those places when you remove that,
You need to replace it with something better.
New.
With something that simply makes you a better person.
And what else to replace it with,
If not more love,
More abundance?
How can you live a more joyful life,
A more creative life,
A fulfilling life,
A purposeful life?
Right?
Give it meaning.
Give your life meaning,
More meaning than it has.
And of course,
One of the greatest meanings is to have a family,
Right?
Do you feel like you show up the best for your children,
For your family,
Whatever,
If it's your parents,
If it's your sister,
Brother,
If it's the children you bring into the world,
If it's your spouse,
Your wife,
Your husband?
There's always room for improvement,
There's always room to create more expansion,
More love,
More freedom,
More peace.
More harmony,
More unity.
More abundance.
So we have to look into those areas then and decide how we're going to be today.
The last thing that I want to speak about when it comes to self-worth.
And where do we feel and why do we feel unworthy.
Is because of societal influence.
We all have been born in some cultures,
Some traditions,
Religions,
Ways of being,
Ways of doing things.
Conditionings that simply put like a filter on top of who we truly are.
Now.
.
.
We also came into these environments.
Because of the soul work we need to do,
Because of the transformation we are here to do.
So again,
There is nothing to blame.
You cannot say I'm like this because the government did this and that and acts in this way and that way.
Okay,
If the government does that,
Don't give power to your government.
Find that power within yourself and empower yourself.
Be your own self-leader.
Woman or man,
Doesn't matter.
You know,
We're all.
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Have self-leadership.
So.
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I said this as well,
I was like.
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I am.
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In this way because of my education.
I used to use that as an example to justify some things in my life.
Well,
If I keep.
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.
If I keep my education that I received when I was young.
You know,
When the world was at a different.
.
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Vibration If I keep myself hostage to that timeline,
How can I improve?
How can I improve my education today?
How can I learn new things today?
I can't,
So I have to let go of the story,
Hold space,
Give myself love,
Give love to all people that hurt me.
No more people I hurt on my journey.
And choose.
The story I'm telling myself today.
Right so this is the purpose of of this is to understand.
That we can change our story.
We can change our story and we can create.
Prosperity.
When we do so.
Because we have been trained in this world by default almost,
Unless you have been born in a wealthy family that really values money and has.
.
.
Great wealth.
You probably have been told that prosperity is something bad maybe or something that doesn't matter.
There's not much spoke.
Discussed about,
Also especially in spiritual communities.
Everyone avoids the discussions of money,
Abundance,
Wealth,
Prosperity.
Why?
Why that is literally the most like foundational thing that we need to integrate so that we can live the lives that,
You know,
We want,
Because here on earth,
Whether we want it or not,
We deal with finances,
We deal with bills,
We deal with money.
And we cannot bypass that.
And it's too little spoken.
In conscious communities about this topic.
So what I discovered from my journey.
Is that the closer I got to myself,
To my core,
The more I felt connected with the divine inside of me,
With my creative power.
The more I receive guidance to create prosperity based on who I am,
Based on what I love to do.
Based on what I'm called to do,
Because it's more like a calling.
As well.
Rather than my personal desire.
Indeed aligned with my personal desires.
But it's a strong calling.
I want to empower people to be self-sufficient,
To be prosperous,
Being who they are.
I want to walk on the street and meet someone,
And they don't feel shame if I ask them,
What do you do?
Where the conversation is empowering and they say thank you for asking me,
I'm doing this,
I'm an architect of,
You know,
Like.
.
.
How's his dad?
We can live in harmony with nature.
I want to meet people like this in my life.
You know,
I want to ask people What is your passion?
I love to help people be in a healthy relationship.
Boom!
Amazing!
How do you do that?
That's when actual co-creation happens.
That's when meaningful conversation happens.
Not necessarily how we treat people.
Conversations today,
Which is superficial.
Small talk We're discussing people instead of events and instead of ideas.
That make this world a better place.
I want to discuss with people about purpose.
I want to discuss about things that really matter in their life,
In this world.
So.
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And my main excitement is to discuss how can you bring prosperity in your purpose,
So that it's not just a passion.
Because we treat art as a passion.
There's two categories of artists.
There's those who are how I call the broke artists,
The ones who struggle,
Who think that being an artist cannot pay for your life.
And there's those extreme ones that make millions of dollars being artists.
What you think the difference is.
They feel like they deserve it.
For whatever reason.
They feel like they deserve it.
So do you feel that you deserve it?
To live a great life,
Doing what you love.
Being who you are.
Do you feel that it's possible for you?
Like deeply.
