by Alex Buta
The unknown can be a terrifying place for so many of us, because we have learned that we have to have control all the time. Watch this video to learn what the unknown is and how to use it for your advantage.
Transcript
Welcome. Today I'm excited to dive deeper with you into this topic. How can we trust the unknown? Can you trust the unknown? On my journey so far, I managed to trust the unknown. To a degree. That. I'm feeling unshakable no matter what happens in my life, No matter what works and what doesn't work, No matter who loves me and who doesn't love me. No matter. My client is happy with my services or They are not happy with my services. No matter if what I want to create, No matter if my book gets sold. Or doesn't get sold. But no matter if. . . The weather is Sunny today or is storm? Outside. Whatever happens in the external, Whatever happens in reality, I manage to find that place inside where I feel whole no matter what. And I'm super grateful for that. Why it happened, Or how come I reached this place, Is by sitting a lot in the unknown, Is by facing the unknown so many times. Since I started to dive into my journey of living life. In a way that makes me feel alive, Makes me feel that I'm here. To live the greatest destiny that I could possibly live. Bye! Doing purpose work and doing things that are for the highest good. Not just. . . You know randomly. And so. . . Bye. Sitting in the unknown by being with the unknown. By feeling all the fears and all the heaviness and all the uncomfort. Uncomfortable moments and stories and doubts and sabotage. By going through all of this, I learned eventually to trust it. Trusted to a degree where You know. I feel comfortable no matter what, I feel whole no matter what, Even if I go through great pain, Even if I go through grief and loss, Which I have been for the last years very deeply so, From family members to partners, Life person that I thought that I'm going to marry. Many, Many things like this felt like the creator was taking from me. It felt like the creator said, No, Not this one. And I lost so many things and I have to sit so much with grief. And feel the pain of loss. And be in that place of uncertainty of the unknown. So much that I managed to find peace in it. Eventually. And once that happens. . . Then I ask myself the question, What if? What if? What if I live the greatest destiny? What if I live the greatest life that I could possibly imagine? What if I dream so big? That my inner child never dead. To dream. What if? And that's what I did. And this is how I want to live my life. You know, Doing exactly the things that feel the most exciting for my soul, For my growth. You know that makes me feel alive. And not, This doesn't mean. These things are risky or these things are destabilizing or ungrounding. No, I'm a very grounded practical person actually. It just means that I realized that When you lose everything, You can also gain everything or experience everything because we are only here temporarily. So what is it that you want to experience with your human life? What is it that is the most exciting for you to experience? In this life. How do you want to serve? The creation. This planet. Your community. Your society that you're part of. Those are the questions that. . . Always. Keem up for me. And so. According to those questions, I created my answers. And sitting in the unknown. Became so uncomfortable that I. . . I had to make peace with it. I had to make peace with it. Why? Well, First of all, I realized that we have been trained. To believe that the unknown is dangerous territory. We have been trained to believe that when we don't have certainty or we don't have control over something in our lives, Is danger. It's dangerous, Right? This is why we have created the society we have created. This is why the authority has grip on us, Because we are afraid, So we let others lead us. Based on their own agenda, Based on their own ways. And programs and cultural, You know, Conditioning and all of these things. So that we can feel a sense of control, A sense of safety, Yet we deeply feel disconnected to our own compass, Our own sense of what we want. Who are we here? Who are we now? To become and to be here on this planet. And when that sense of Safety. Which is for safety, By the way, Is shaken. Then we feel that we are in the unknown and therefore is dangerous, You know. It's something that. . . Is not on. Comfortable to feel. But what I found out from my journey is that the unknown. . . Is actually Fertile soil. For seeds to be planted. Let me tell this again. The unknown is fertile soil. For seeds to be planted. For the seeds of your own creations. Who you want to be, Who you want to become, And what you want to create into the world. That's what the unknown is. So if you see the unknown as soil, Actual soil, Then you will understand that as above, So below. Because on this planet, When we are planting seeds in the soil, When we are putting seeds, Flowers or fruit trees or whatever we put there, It doesn't grow right away. It takes time. It develops roots into the darkness, Into the soil, Deep. Right? That's what happens first. Every seed develops roots first and then it starts to go into the light. So in that process, When you have no certainty when you don't see that you are actually growing that the creation or the creator is on your side preparing your best reality for you. Getting ready to answer your prayers. In that time we fear the most and this is where we are tested the most. So someone said here that. . . She quit her job. And, You know. Doesn't know what to do next and that is in a very fragile point. In life. Well, This is where the seeds are being planted. This is where you can plant the seeds of your next chapter. Of what you want to harvest in the future and trust those seeds deeply. Now, When we are in the unknown, What we also want is to control. We want to control, We want to know when it's going to happen, How it's going to happen. We want answers, But they don't come. Just as much as you in the same way you cannot Make a plant grow, You cannot force a seed. To grow. It's impossible. So once you plant the seed of your own creation, Of something that you want to create, You set an intention, A desire. For yourself and for your life. Big, Can be massive, Or it can be small. You cannot force that. You have to surrender. You have to let it go and have faith. You have to develop really blind faith. Like almost delusional certainty. This is why most people don't make it. This is why most people give up. Because it is not comfortable to be in that process. It is not comfortable to be in those moments when nothing is clear, Nothing is certain, And to sit with that anxiety, To sit with that feeling in your body. It is not comfortable. However that is exactly the training that we need. Because the more you can see. In that moment and be comfortable about it because you realize that it's just part of the process. Just as much as it is when you plant a seed and then you see it growing. Then you trust. You know that the next seed and the other seeds that you're planting are going to grow. Chances are that they are going to grow. So you trust better the process. But until that point, Without. Without we worry, We create anxiety. So what do we do? Let's see the anxiety, The doubt and the worries in those moments. When we feel that, Let's see them as, I like this analogy with the earth and the seeds planting. Let's see them as weeds, Right? So you plant a seed into the soil. End. You're gonna have weeds growing. Anxiety. Doubt. Worry what other people think fears All kinds, Right? Survival fears. I'm not going to make it. I'm not going to be provided for. I don't have money. All kinds of stories. All of those are. . . Weeds. That grow around the seed. So what you can do as a creator is to pluck them up. So remove those seeds one by one as they come up. As they come up inside of you. You just remove them one by one. And how do we remove them? We just allow them to be there and we don't react. This is the Master, We don't react, We acknowledge it. And you're like, Oh, Of course you're here. Of course, Hello doubt, Hello worry. My old friend, Of course you're here, Because I'm in a very powerful place in my life when I'm planting massive seeds, When I'm in a transition, When I do not have certainty. And of course you're coming. Let me feel you. Let me love you. Let me give you what you need and what the doubt needs. What that world needs is love. It's your love, It's you being able to hold yourself. And hold it and hold. The certainty of the seeds that you have planted, That they are going to grow without forcing it, Because you cannot force it. You cannot force a plant to grow. So this is how the process works. If you understand this process on an experimental level, If you experience this, And go through this once or twice or three times and I'm sure many of you already been through this but maybe you don't have the awareness of that this is what it is then it's gonna be easier and easier and easier and easier and easier to trust the unknown more and more each time. At some point. This is what I also recommend, Is to create a relationship with the unknown. A loving relationship if possible, Because we are all terrified by the unknown, We are all terrified by those moments. When we don't have control and our ego is completely dismantling and dissolving and we don't know what to do. We really don't have the answers. When there is no certainty whatsoever. So that's when we have to develop the relationship, When we have to pour love into the process. Well, Imagine the unknown as a person. How does that person would look like? Imagine there is a soul that you have a direct relationship with. So create. The unknown. As an archive type. Could be a person, Could be an energy. And develop a relationship with it. And see. How much you can trust this person. Slash archetype. How much can you trust it every day? Can you trust it a little bit more every day? This would be your goal. Trust it every day a little bit more. It's scary. Most people don't want to do that. Most people, You know. . . Want to be in the in the light, Right? When everything is known and is easy and clear. But unfortunately, Life doesn't just work there, It works everywhere. The seasons and cycles of light and certainty and clarity and the seasons and cycles of transition, Of change and shift. That's the growth process. So we have to embrace both of these. And this is how we do it. We develop a new relationship with it because we have been terrified by the unknown. You know, We've been in these societies for thousands of years and this is exactly where those in power have been able to control people. By using the fear of survival. And creating laws and rules. Someone as authority comes and say I am safe you need to trust me this is your this is what I offer you and maybe that offering is really not good for you but you prefer to choose that rather than Trust the unknown. Even if it's less than what you deserve, We prefer to choose that. To give an example, An actual example, Most people prefer to earn $10 an hour or less. I'm speaking about the western world. The minimum wage in most countries is around $10 an hour or something like that. I don't even know. I have no idea. I think that was 10 years ago, 12 years ago when I had my last job. So. . . Most people prefer that over this. Trusting the unknown, Being in a place of uncertainty and creating themselves there and creating the reality there. That's where they get you. The so-called system gets you hooked into survival, Into fear. And if that offering is more, Then you're trading your nervous system, You're trading Yore. Energy and soul so that you do a job in exchange for money. And therefore The fear of the unknown is not that big. But also your, You're in a. In a place where there is no growth, There is no evolution. You don't follow what your soul came here to follow. You see what I mean? So find that balance, Find the fine line. In your journey. Between trusting the unknown and also be. Grounded and safe and take responsibility for that. But ultimately, Each time I trusted the unknown blindly, Delusionally, It always, It always delivered even better than I could ever imagine. You just have to know. Who you are. You have to have clarity upon what is it, How is it that you want to serve in this creation. How is it that you want to show up in the world? Who are you and how is it that you want to show up in the world and the unknown shows up. For you in the best way possible because That which we call unknown or the void. That's actually good. That is the infinite realm. Of all possibilities. You can really tap into every possibility through that and create whatever you need to create for your life. And that is scary for most people. That is scary for most people who are not used to be free. Who are not used to be liberated that way. It's easier. To not have responsibilities is easier to give away. Your sense of leadership. To someone else. And this is a process that we're all going through collectively. To become more creators, To become more. . . In charge and masters of ourselves and leaders of ourselves, Right? It's a continuous journey, A continuous process. So I would say trust and pull out the weeds. Whatever you're creating, If you find yourself in the unknown, Trust the unknown and continue pulling out the weeds, Feeling the emotions. Dissolving, Letting go and develop a sense of certainty. And you are the creator. And the creator. Inside of you is always good to you. It always wants your best. It's your ally. Tune into that energy, Tune into that frequency, And you will survive the unknown, And not only survive it. . . But in time you manage to trust it. You will have such an easier journey. The creator always delivers, All the time. It's up to us to decide whether we are ready or not. To receive, Whether we allow to receive. So this is it, This is what I wanted to chat with you about. Thank you for being here and if you feel to connect deeper, Feel free to reach out. I'm sending you. Lots of love and blessings on your journey. Have a beautiful rest of the week. END Remember. The Creator runs through you at all times. You are always whole. The Creator is always within you. Always. Once you make that decision, Once you decide I'm gonna meet that creator today, In this moment, In this hour. With this project. That creator is going to be revealed. Lots of love.
