
How To Attract Divine Union From The Inside Out
by Alex Buta
In this track, we learn how to attract Divine Union from the inside out. We are going to explore the most beautiful aspects of what it means to be in Divine Union from the inside out, and also explore the challenges on the journey, where we all get stuck from time to time. Enjoy!
Transcript
Hello everyone,
I'm excited to dive into today's topic especially because I just I've been to a wedding of one of my best friends in Mexico the other week and so I got super inspired to share on the topic of divine union,
On the topic of inner union,
Outer union and so on and how important that is for us to embody to integrate.
Lately I have a few clients that I sign up and the topic was divine union the topic was relationships so it's interesting so I thought okay let me give it a chance to speak about this and share more about this because my journey with relationships and in general my journey with being in partnership whether romantic or in collaborations and co-creations was extremely transforming you know it shaped who I am it shaped what I've become and so again relationships I feel like the relationships are the most important catalyst for our growth they are a mirror of who we are and who we are becoming on who we were in the past they are a mirror of our wounds they are of our conditioning they are basically a mirror of how much can we love on or how or how hurt we are and what do we need to work on in order to be able to love more right in a nutshell and that love we pour that love in our purpose in our creations in our lives we build families we build communities we build our business based on that love based on that energy and so it's super important obviously to have relationships that elevate us and for my own journey I would share that my relationships so far was extremely and profoundly transformational I was almost like I was always in the fire okay and so there was a lot of growth a lot of refining and polishing the diamond inside of me which is my heart which is my consciousness and as well for them for my partners and for the you know people I've been connecting and co-creating with and it is a massive topic it's not just about being seen and being validated and receiving love and all of that from the external which we sometimes project so much on relationships divine union we all want a soulmate we all want that ideal partner that that fulfills somehow our life to a degree it's not about that in my experience is not about that in my experience relationships were reflecting me how much I can love because I feel already whole inside of me we are all whole we are not lacking anything right and so from that place of wholeness you can actually sustain a relationship and such was my journey they riped me they transformed me they polished me they shaped me all the way to I had I had no choice but to realize I am whole I am whole with or without a relationship I do not need this person to fulfill me however I do want to be with someone in my life that expands me that elevates me and also that I can do the work required in order to grow to expand to build an empire to build a family a community and so without relationships that is actually impossible we are eight billion people on this earth and that is for a reason so we have we have to find a way to relate to connect to co-create with one another from a place of unity from a place of harmony and I believe collectively this is what we are going towards you know and of course you cannot do that with everyone but with those that are on your path with your tribe with your soul tribe with your soul family with the people you're supposed to work with with the people that really add value to your life so how do we reach this point where we really co-create from that place of wholeness where everyone or most people that we meet really add value to our lives how do we do that well from my own experience the only way to do that was to keep becoming whole myself to be in union within myself to be in this inner union from the inside out because as much as we seek on the outside we want our boss to treat us in the right way we want our partner to treat us in a right way we want to receive love from the external however that's only going to happen when we give ourselves that love when we are in harmony within ourselves when we end the battle within whatever battle that is can be a battle of lack a battle of fear a battle of contradiction of identity an image of who we are who we think we are what we think we should do the battle of judgment do you know that like most of the judgment happens it's it's it's a self judgment most of the judgment that happens is actually a self you know no one judges you God the Creator the universe doesn't judge you your friends your family yeah they might to a degree judge you but we judge ourselves more than anyone else so we have to end that battle too we have to reach compassion for ourselves there's so many layers when it comes to inner union to feel in harmony with yourself and for my own journey the most powerful way to reach that inner union was to truly look at my masculine side and my feminine side and to do whatever work was there in order to show up from the most integral place when it comes to these energies when it comes to being a man when it comes to you know being a woman in the case of a woman when it comes to acknowledging and loving my own feminine energy just as much as a woman has to not only love her love her own feminine energy but her masculine energy too which then reflects how you show up in relationship with another it reflects that external divine union if that is possible or not because you cannot hate the masculine and be in relationship with someone on the external who's a man you can't you're gonna project that hate on that person and usually that hate comes from you towards your own masculine energy it ripples effect ripple effects there as well and I get it some of us was mistreated by the masculine or the feminine some of us have been not loved properly we don't have a role model a proper example of masculinity or femininity in society in order to feel safe in order to emulate a sort of archetypal energy and so we project that and my own from my own journey I I had oh I had always love from the feminine because my mother loved me deeply my mother loved me so much to the degree that she could like unconditional love freedom she always showed me mercy grace she was impeccable in the way she treated me of course she had her own challenges and shadows that I picked up and I had to say you know I had to close those ancestral patterns right that don't serve but the biggest challenge on my journey was my masculine energy right because I've been born in a world where my father was not present okay and because of that I developed a sense of resistance a sense of resentment was the masculine my the masculine doesn't show up the masculine abandons you and so on so I believed that story and I kept myself in a victim consciousness because of that story and I had to rewire and heal that loop that pattern that story that reality and so we we all have a challenge we all go through some sort of disconnect from our feminine or masculine energy however once we do the work required once we bring these energies into harmony and unity within ourselves then that's when we attract externally a soulmate a soulmate was there for our mission there's so much purple here I have a purple light let me turn this off better right so when it comes to divine union we all want it we all I don't think there's anyone who said I actually don't want to be in a healthy harmonious relationship with a man or a woman I don't think there is someone if there is probably that person was deeply hurt in relationships with a masculine or the feminine and that's okay I had moments you know between my partnerships where I had to sit with myself but I was not available to be in divine union when I didn't even care about it what I care about was myself in those moments and so if you're in such phase of your life that's totally fine take care of yourself be with yourself love yourself reach that place of union within but we all want it externally right we all want to be in relationship with a soulmate with someone that is there for us with someone we can build with with someone we can share amazing moments with with someone who can we can share laughter with we all want that someone we can share joy build a family and so the only way the only way to reach that is to really look at ourselves to really look into the mirror and ask yourself am I sorry am I that person am I that partner that I seek in another am I available to give that which I seek to receive in another as simple as that and when the answer is yes then we are ready for divine union when the answer is not yet there's still a lot that you have to give yourself there's still a lot of inner work that you have to do then we are not ready for a divine union externally however we might still attract someone in our lives that helps us that helps us learn some lessons that helps us move the energy in the right direction and this is why on this journey guys the most important thing I learned is to never attach it doesn't mean don't be don't be connected stay connected stay in connection but do not attach to the outcomes do not attach to the idea of that one and only or that idea of forever because let me tell you something that I learned anything we attach to like absolutely anything we attach to we lose we lose it's supposed to be that way I know it sounds weird sometimes because what do you mean I want to you know I want to have this thing what do you mean if I if I am attaching to it to have it I'm not gonna get it well it is simple basically each time we attach to someone or something it can be our job it can be our purpose it can be you know maybe you write a book and you are attaching to the idea of how the book should be how many copies should you sell maybe you attach you attach your identity I'm a doctor I'm an engineer I'm this and that whether it's empowering you or drains you doesn't matter the moment you attach to something you're gonna lose it why because you are telling the universe you're telling the creation that there is something more important externally than the creation and the creator itself which is what we are it's our essence there's something more important externally than your energy and once we do that we are literally getting outside of our body we are saying there's something more important to chase to choose that I have to be in control of and attached to otherwise I'm gonna be miserable and in that moment when we do that when we got already outside of our bodies and create create this mental perspective about something that we attach to the next thing that happens is we lose that we lose it it's gonna be removed from our life it's gonna create a gap a chaos it's gonna create an argument if that is a person is gonna create an argument it's gonna create some disconnect that you can actually feel because you're operating from attachment right we call that also codependency where you value something externally more than you value yourself and your own essence and the essence of the creator who runs through you the whole time which is you you are disconnecting from your own inner union because the most important in a union or union that exists out there before the divine union before the soulmate comes into our lives before we have this amazing relationship the most important union that is is the union with the creator the union with God the union with the universe the union with source with our soul however we call it so there's different inner unions there's different types of unions that we have to establish within ourselves before we enter in harmony the field the space of divine union externally and so one is we have to be in union with the inner masculine and inner feminine with our polarity then we have to be in union with the wounded part of ourselves with that ego that lower part of ourselves that we constantly judge or run away from we have to be in harmony with that you can't have a bad thought or you have like a moment of you know when when when you're simply in a lower state when you're disconnected and you can't hate yourself or judge yourself that's not why that's not what you should do in that moment in that moment you should love yourself regardless you have you should love yourself even when you don't love yourself that's the secret right there love yourself even when you don't love yourself so we have to be in union with that aspect of ourselves that we constantly push away and then we have to be in union with the creator with the laws of life however we want to call that call it God call it source call it the universe higher self your soul spirit we have to be in union with that and it's super important to be in union with that because that is mostly what we are anyway we are 80% 90% we are pure consciousness having a human experience right so we have to fall in love with that we have to fall in love with this vessel we have with this body with this amazing machine that we live our lives here temporarily on this planet on this beautiful planet so how can we fall in love with another if we haven't fell in love or rise in love let's put it that way with our entire multi-dimensionality with a whole essence of what we are the whole spectrum and that my friends that's wholeness when you come from that place of wholeness relationships all relationships in your life are gonna reflect that and some people are gonna remove themselves from your life God is gonna remove them you don't even have to do anything the Creator is gonna remove them because they do not reflect where you are we don't have to figure it out we don't have to fight we don't have to prove ourselves hey you did this to me and I did that to me we don't have to blame we just have to connect with the Creator and the right relationships come into place maybe you had a conflict with someone when you connect with the Creator and when that person is connected with the Creator then in that moment if your destiny is to have that person in your life there will be a merging there will be a union there will be a negotiation right so either people leave your reality or they come into your reality from the right energy and that includes your soulmate that includes the partner the husband the wife the partner in crime the co-creator that you have to live your life with that you want to live your life with or the clients the opportunities the people who bring value to your life are coming into your experience actually rushing sometimes rushing the more you are connected with that frequency the more you can sustain that frequency and build your vessel in such way that that is for you simply normality then you will experience miracles and in people popping into your experience to bless you to show you who you are to co-create with you a great experience and of course it doesn't happen all the time of course we fall from grace sometimes of course we stumble and then upon something an obstacle a challenge memory from the past a past hurt something that calls us into some sort of transformation and we have to embrace that because that is gonna keep us growing even deeper even further in connection in union with ourselves and with another all challenges are here to transform us into the person we are supposed to be all challenges are here to help us live our greatest destiny all of them I know this can be like what do you mean what do you mean Alex like I experienced this massive trauma when I was young do you mean that because of that that was supposed to be there to transform me into my greatest destiny yes absolutely what else do you do with that do you stay a victim do you use it against yourself to stay a victim to to become a victim and stay in that energy of this empowerment even if it was painful even if it was like hurting a lot I have clients that has been have been through cancer I know people in my life that's been through deep deep challenges like health wise or deep traumas and at some point they had to stay and sit with that trauma sit with that disconnect with that uncomfortable energy and at some point this they had to sit with that and say thank you for teaching me about myself from here I'm gonna choose differently and that's when we can transcend the illness that's when we can get out of a loop or a pattern that we've been so deeply involved in for so many years in our lives that we don't even know another reality so we have to make peace with everything that challenged us and I know for some it feels unfair right we feel oh wait wait you tell me that somehow God or I chose that for myself who gave me that pain it is what it was you need to trust that your intelligence your inner intelligence knows exactly why you came here on earth what you have to go through in order to evolve to transform and that was part of the process whether that comes from a past life incarnation whether that comes from your own desire to incarnate in a lineage with a certain ancestry say hello to my cat with a certain with a certain ancestry that involves deep pain that you had to transform because we are all here in these times in a moment of great awakening of who we truly are and reconnecting back to what we are as creators in this realm in this universe on this planet so we cannot just use these excuses to stay disempowered you have to face them no matter what they are I met people that don't have hands and legs and they are thriving and becoming international global public speakers nothing can stop them there's people that really go to deepest challenges that sometimes you look at your own challenge I personally did that and I said oh my god I actually have no problem compared with other people and I'm not saying this to make yourself feel better but to understand that no matter what challenges you go through there's always someone that has a bigger challenge or perceives their own challenge or their own problem as you know bigger sometimes and that shouldn't hold you back from living your greatest life that should actually teach you and me and everyone what it needs to teach us and utilize that to empower ourselves to learn from it and to also be a pillar of support for others that maybe go through the same thing and that's when we actually utilize our gifts and this is how the divine union idea template as a whole adds to our lives as well because once we are in divine union internally and externally our mission shows our purpose shows up because we have capacity to hold it and I've been doing this work with people to live their greatest destiny for years now for 10 years if not more and I know there's another level I've been in partnerships in this whole in these 10 years I've been in partnerships maybe half of the time yeah like five years I've been in partnerships five years maybe I've been single and every time every time I'm in a place where I feel fulfilled within myself where I feel like okay I reached this point where I really like my business works I have clients I have everything everything works great I'm inspired I'm creative and everything was great when I reach that point there's always something inside of me that says wow imagine now attracting a soulmate attracting someone that I can elevate even more I can have even more impact I can have even more I can give more right because when two consciousness are in union and matching and share the same mission and have beautiful complementary energy to each other that elevates everyone around them that inspires everyone and if there's anything that this world needs more of that is union that is divine union that is people who actually walk the path and leave their greatest destiny together as well because alone you can only reach so far so this is why divine union is so important it's an amplifier for your purpose for your mission for your well-being I love how royal my cat my cat stays there behind yeah so we have to trust this path if it's calling you if it if you're here and you're like oh wow like I like I feel that there's a divine union calling me I feel that there's you know something greater to be accomplished with that not just because you feel alone not just because you need to be validated by someone in your life and no because there's deeper there's a deeper reason for it then trust out trust that and embrace that that's what I'm at in my journey right now I'm starting to dive deeper into divine union externally okay because that's the time it's time for expansion it's time for more it's time for family it's time for community it's time for the true template the foundation I would say of society to be reinstalled do you know that there were there's one society deep deep into the past and in the future because time doesn't really exist right so depends how you look at it but some of you might heard of it it's called Lemuria and it's a civilization that it is said that they lived around 50,
000 years ago all the way to like 13,
000 years ago and their principle the foundation of their society was divine union and it was very simple it was like like mother right here in the womb area father and child this is the Holy Trinity this is the code of divine union now if you're looking at Christianism which is one of the biggest religions on the planet which is probably what most of us are I'm Christian by not by choice but by by birth and I've been learning how much is actually truth in that religion and how much is actually inversion or distortion because it was manipulated by the Roman Empire for their own gain and that's when Patra he started to deeply be installed in society and if you look at how they do the symbolism the cross is like in the name of the father the son the spirit the Holy Spirit amen right where is the mother where is the feminine where is it in this process some people say well the feminine is Holy Spirit no it's not the feminine is the union between the masculine the feminine which is God which is how this universe is created through two polarities where is the feminine in the process where is the mother we say in the name of the father the son and Holy Spirit where is the mother the mother is has to be in the process and it's not you know and that's why we live in a masculine man-made world 90% of it is masculine as simple as that and now we are going into a new phase in our evolution of consciousness where we're gonna be back in harmony back in balance because there was in the past also matriarchal societies woman-led societies more more like isolated and they are still are today there are groups and tribes that are led by women which by the way they are thriving more than we thrive in Pacharhi because the woman is always a little bit more connected with the creation she's more emotional she's more loving this is why the creator God however you call it the universe made the woman with a womb made the woman with a portal she has a portal inside her body where spirit joins matter and it actually creates a human being how crazy is that how wild is that and of course we as men we have the seed for that great but we are not deeply involved into that process as as the woman is in her own experience in her own body so she has been given this graceful ability I would say because she's able to emotionally relate deeper with the creation while we men instead of taking instead of being in position of power and controlling and fight for resources and other stuff we are supposed to protect we are supposed to provide we are supposed to lead this into well-being you know so we got a little bit twisted down the line for the last thousands of years because some people chose or wanted to be in a position of power I am the leader I say how things are I am God I conquer I take over the planet I do and and so we are living in that type of society all the way to today which if you think about it it comes from scarcity it comes from luck it comes from thinking that you're not yet good enough it comes from some wounded boy right and not to blame anyone or anything for that there's many leaders nowadays in in the world that come from that energy this there's many men that do not have their massive leadership position and they don't have emotional intelligence they don't understand the feminine they don't value the feminine and we are dealing with this on a collective level woman themselves they do not value themselves because they've been taught they've been silenced each time they try to cope with their own energy with their own power right true generations they've been silenced they've been let's face it burn at the stake there's nothing to hide here I'm not going to sugarcoat truth and I don't want to blame the masculine for it either let's say that we all have been living in this really deep density of consciousness dark age if you want that we finally have to learn we finally have to forgive each other we finally have to figure out a way or how to co-create the family unit the family structure the inner union the outer union the divine union and implement that into society again not individualism not consumerism and take as much as you can because everything because if not it's going to be taken it's everything is in abundance on this earth do you know that there is no luck luck doesn't exist it's inflicted is created someone decided literally someone decided I'm going to print money and you're going to earn only seven dollars an hour or ten dollars an hour doing this job because I say so and I say how much value your work has and we're like okay master let's follow let's follow your survival fear and instincts while at the same time in projection of control and power while at the same time those rules don't don't apply those rules don't apply for these people they don't right and now we live in a world where you can make millions of dollars from your laptop so everything changes everything changes you can be a millionaire from the comfort of your couch you can work on yourself on so many ways to so many methods I recommend the best method which is nature relationships that's the best catalyst there and once we are in a union once we reach that place of wholeness within ourselves everything shifts on the external but now I want to hear from you guys where are you on this journey of divine union what do you feel like sharing what is it that you need to process to have a breakthrough to have an insight to move to the next journey on your path share that with me in a private message reach out to me in a private message and share that with me share that share what that is and let's connect and have a beautiful rest of the week much love and remember you are the creator ciao for now
