Allowing Yourself To Receive More

There is a part of you that knows you are meant for more. But are you allowing yourself to receive it? In this session, I explore deserving, expanding your capacity to receive, and what you may need to release or give in order to welcome more into your life. Enjoy and share your thoughts and where you are with me after you listen.

Transcript

This is all about how to feel inside. That we are meant for more. More abundance, More love, More prosperity, More peace, More joy, More excitement, More health, More aliveness and vitality. Because When we live in some heavy energy, When we know that we don't leave our potential, There's always this calling for more. And some people suppress that. We suppress that calling. We suppress that instinct for more and we think we don't deserve it. These are the main reasons. Why we don't deserve. There can be a feeling of shame, There could be a feeling of guilt, There could be unworthiness, There could be stories that we have been told, Especially in our zero to seven years of life. This is when we. . . When we take shape, When our subconscious takes shape. And our conscious as well. So if you believe on autopilot some story that your parents told you, That you experienced in school, That maybe religion told you, Then you carry that further into adulthood and we ask ourselves in our 40s even, Hey, Why am I? Miserable, Why my life is not feeling better? Exciting anymore. What can I do to experience more aliveness? This is what it's all about. How to know you want more. So if you experience that right now in yourself, That there is more. There's more to life. Don't put any shame on what that is. Could be money, Could be lover or how you're treated by your current lover, Could be how you're treated by your children. No matter what the story is, I want you to allow that feeling right now to exist. Instead of trying to somehow cope with, Oh well let me push it away because I feel shame or I don't think I can handle and I have to look at some things if I really am honest with myself, Right? Because that's what usually happens. When we allow ourselves to feel why or how we hold ourselves back. Then of course it feels painful for a minute, But it can also feel like a relief that pain gets out of the body. And speaking of pain, I learned two things about pain here. Weather. We want it or not. Pain, We cannot get rid of pain. There's actually two. Types of pain that we experience in our life. Pain of growth, Right, Being active, Taking action, Showing up for the things you believe in, Moving through these obstacles and challenges and things, Right, Positive pain. And pain of regret, Pain of being lazy, Being sluggish, Being a victim, Complaining, Blaming the world or society or whoever for whatever happens to you. That's negative pain. So our choice is. . . What pain do we choose here? What paint do we choose? That what defines what we deserve. Because if you choose the the pain of regret, Then you would never experience that you desire things even. You have no fire. Literally, It kills your soul's fire. Your purpose goes away, The Creator or God takes everything from you so that you feel that you don't deserve it until one day you wake up and you say oh my god i want more and then it's given back to you. But then you have to take action, Even if that action is painful. It is painful, It is not easy to change your mind overnight, To wake up and have a new identity, Become someone else. You know, Especially if there's responsibilities in our lives, There's people we are co-creating with, There's so many elements. But you have to do that with yourself. You don't have to care about how other people perceive you, Right? And then you see who can stay in your experience, Who is growing with you, Who understands you, Who is curious, Who judges you or is against, Then you put a boundary. But you have to be honest with yourself first. You have to reach a point where you fully deserve your called reality whatever that is. Your calling, Your experience. Again that can be changing a job for something better, For following your purpose. That can be more prosperity and abundance, More love, More being respected, Joy, More health, Wellness, Well-being. It doesn't matter. Another thing I want to talk to you about is on actually how to learn how to learn to deserve, You know, How to learn to deserve. How to allow ourselves to deserve? We have to. . . Really look at what stops us to understand this. When you feel into deserving, Let's say Let's go extreme. Let's say there's a million dollars. Someone gives you a bag with a million dollars. How do you feel about that? Dude, Are you shocked? Are you shocked? Are you going to be like, Oh, I can't take this. I don't deserve this. What have I done to receive this? God, This is not mine. This is a test. A test of what? A test whether you want to be, Stay in the same reality or elevate. Things like this happens all the time. Miracles like this happens all the time. Of course, Not necessarily that someone calls it a million dollar, But opportunities, Even that can happen if you really, Really want that and if you have the nervous system capacity to receive that million dollar. Because most people, If you give them one million dollar right now, They will be more stressed than before. And that's because they don't have the capacity to hold that reality. It's a lot of energy, Right? One million dollar. What to do with them? Stress, Worries. Some people here maybe are already millionaires and they know what that is. Whatever the case. You understand what I mean? You have to have a clear vessel. And allow yourself to deserve that. So if someone wants to give you a million dollars and the first thing that comes to your mind is what I did to earn this. Then that shows where you are in your receiving capacity. And you're deserving, You deserve that. Some people But probably most people would take it, Right? But then again they will collapse They will spend, Who knows what they will do with that money. They can even go into drugs and go into whatever other dark stories because they cannot hold it. This is what usually happens also with famous actors or musicians that reach the peak and then they go into drugs and stuff because they cannot hold their vessel of abundance and prosperity. They don't feel like they deserve it. Their shadows bites them. From behind. So we need to look into all of those shame, Unworthiness, Guilt, Uh. . . All of these stories that we hold about ourselves and our value. What we deserve and what we don't. We need to look deeply into those. And we need to love ourselves through those processes. It's okay. We have lived in a world that feels like it's constantly focused on being small. Most people are asleep and feel small about themselves. This is the truth. I know we are living in an awakening time. But there's also layers to that awakening. It's not enough to know, Okay, The government is not trusting and there's these conspiracy theories and there's some breathwork and there's some this and that that I can do to feel a little bit more aligned. No, The awakening can go on a deeper level inside of you, Where you realize that you are a powerful creator. That God put you on this earth in co-creation with your soul. For something bigger than you think, Than you have been taught. At least so far. So of course you deserve. Of course you deserve, You are made by this beautiful energy of creation. That energy decided that you should exist in these times right here, Right now. Out of all infinite possibilities, You are here right now, Of course you deserve it. And the Creator, Or God, The Universe, However you want to call it. Is here to give you everything you deserve. Everything. The question is, Do you allow yourself to receive it? Have you ever expanded your capacity to receive it? Have you deliberately thought of this? How much am I allowing myself to receive? Do I want a mediocre life? Because everyone says, I'm okay with little, I'm okay with nothing, I'm okay with being small. No, We are not okay. We didn't come here to live for, Let's say on average, 80 years. And be little and do nothing, Just regurgitate and recycle the same life story all the time. We can get to live! We came here to be involved, We came here to create, To connect. To love one another, To elevate the spirit. Of what it means to be alive in ourselves and in the whole world. We didn't come here to just follow through the same routine of, I don't know, Individuality Feeling pity. Pettiness for ourselves. We didn't come for that. I think we all experienced enough of that. And so if you know that you're meant for more. You have to allow yourself to receive as well. All right, Deserving is one thing. Yes, I deserve it. Okay, Can you receive it? Is the next question. Can you receive? What you feel like you deserve. Can you receive that? What is it? A better partner? A better relationship with your husband or wife? If you don't have any partner, Maybe a new partner. More prosperity in your business, A new level of abundance. Okay, Can you receive that? Do you believe that that's possible? Is your is your body, Right, This beautiful vessel we have. Feeling safe. With receiving that which you want. And I want you to tune in right here, Right now, Inside of yourself. So let's do a small practice. Feel that thing that you want more of. Okay take a few deep breaths and feel that with the breath allow it to come inside of your body and outside of your body effortless so let it in and let it out at the same time so let it come to you and also let it go detach from it through your breath let's do this together so take a deep breath and feeling that which you want Allow it in your vessel. How does it feel to sit with this? Hold your breath there with it. How does it feel to feel that thing that you want? I'll let it go. Detachment we can't control it we can I just heard the. . . Bike running on the street so we can't control it we can't force this we have to let it go to let it in It's a process, It's a giving and receiving. This is how it trains us to give and receive. So we let it go now take it back in Take that feeling of whatever you want to experience more of. Take it back in. Hold it a little bit and let it go. No story, No nothing, Oh when is he gonna come back? So this is how it should be. Effortless. You have to know. Let's do one more time. Take a deep breath and feel that you're receiving what you want. Hold it in your vessel and allow it to rewire you from the inside out, To not doubt, To not feel shame, To not feel unworthiness. No story. To sit with it. Now let it go. So this is how we train our receiving ability. We have to envision, We have to not just hear, Oh I want that, I know how it looks like and I want that. You have to somatically experience it in your body. So. Once you are able to do that, Consistently and rewire your reality. With that… Every single day, Not just, Oh, I did it now and I'm expecting it tomorrow. And tomorrow you start doubting again, Oh, Where is it? It's not coming. Every single day, Every single morning, Every single evening before you go to bed. Some people are scrolling on their phones before they go to bed or they watch some Netflix or some TV. Don't do those things that you're literally rewiring your subconscious you prepare your subconscious for the night What do you prepare your subconscious for the night with? What do you prepare it? Prepare it with the things that you want to receive, With the things that you are ready to experience in your reality. Wake up with that as well. So this is so important because people are like, How do I rewire it? I want it now. It's not in my reality. It takes time, You need to feel it. It has to be normal in your body. And you have to feel it now. If you say oh it's in the future, Then it's always gonna be there. It's just law. It's just law and energetics. I'm not responsible for creating these laws. This is how the universe works. And it works every single time. Trust me, I attracted big clients this way. Lover to amazing cars and things that I was driving, To houses and things where I lived, To countries. I lived already on 3-4 continents. And I'm just starting. I'm not even in my 40s. So it's possible to live the life that you want. Now we go to the last part of this. Of this journey here which is What are you giving? What are you giving, Right? Because people Yes, We have problems to receive, We have difficulties to receive sometimes. Some people are over-giving, They are constantly giving. You might ask, Wait, What do you mean? I'm always giving, I'm an over-giver, I'm always on the go. Okay, But that's not really giving. That's exhaustion, That's burnout. Overgiving is not giving. Giving is when you know when to stop as well, When you give yourself first and foremost what you need. Giving is giving a boundary. To someone. To someone that doesn't respect your energy, Someone that is invasive to your energy. Someone that you simply don't want to spend time with or don't explain yourself with. And in the moment when you give them that, You allow the energy to move, You are in the giving and receiving cycle. But if you are over-giving, If you are self-abandoning, In the relationship, At your work, You don't tell your boss what you want to share, Which even might improve the company. It might improve the company. And also, If he's not the right boss for you, He might also say, You're not right. Pack your bags! Right? You can say that. That's perfect! That's perfect, Then you're ready to elevate to the next level. Can we trust that this is how simple it is when we really connect with the energy of giving and receiving, Of what is our core truth in every single moment, And give ourselves that? And receive also that, What is your truth? Receive your truth. Give your truth. That's how it works. It is that simple. We made it so complicated guys, Wow, We made it so complicated and we are sitting on stories and stories like on top of each other of why it's not happening, Of why we keep experiencing the same loop, The same reality. So yes, What are you giving? First and then can you receive what are you giving can you receive these two channels have to always be open and giving. Means A boundary. Giving doesn't mean that you need to sacrifice your energy. This is how we have been taught to do. We have to sacrifice. Always be up front there and doing and doing. If you have the energy to do that, Then you're in a great spot. Because we are givers, We are made in the image of God, Of the Creator, So we are naturally giving. We are naturally giving, Right? We are made to give. But you cannot give to a black hole. You cannot give to someone who doesn't receive or who cannot receive. And also you cannot give the things that you don't have. So you have to be really discerning upon where you are, What is required to give in this moment. Is it space? Is it boundary? Is it more love? Is it more freedom? And when it comes to the biggest giving of all, What we are here to give in this life, In this creation, Is our purpose, Our calling. Are you living your calling? Do you live the path that the Creator intended for you? Orchestrated with God, Even before you came here. What is the wisdom that you carry deep inside of you? What is the transformation, The craft, The mastery that life put you through already? Maybe from even other lifetimes before? That makes you unique and special in who you are. And you can give that to the world. That is the greatest giving of all givings. When you give your greatest, Your best, Let's put it that way, Your best every single day. Because the greatest Probably there could be a big gap for many people from where they are to reaching that point, Even for myself. I'm not giving the greatest I can. There's always a journey of mastery, Right? I'm giving my best. And that comes from my soul, That comes from the gifts that I inherited through my life, Experience from this one and other ones. Right through the whole evolution of my soul, All the way to today. So what is it that you're giving? That comes from that energy. And what are you allowing to receive? From that energy. Honestly, I'm 10 plus years into this business of teaching, Coaching, Mentoring, Guiding, Supporting people to be. Who they are and do what they love and believe in themselves just as i believed in myself from day one when i said you know what this is what i'm gonna do for my entire life from now on. I'm gonna follow my deepest calling. I'm gonna show up for it every single day. And I was crawling at times. I was in black holes. I had to go through black holes. To learn, To strengthen, To do my soul correction, My soul work. And we all do. Right? We all do. Life took us through so many places. I'm sure you all have so much things that you overcame. So much darkness that you experience. Maybe you're still in that place. Whatever the case. Once we are giving from our soul, Once we are giving from our purpose, That's when we receive the most. That's what I learned about my journey. And so I created even a business around that. That's my business, My business in this world. Is my purpose. How I receive. Reciprocation from God, Financial reciprocation, Love, Appreciation. Beautiful connections in people and relationships and opportunities. It's true my business. This is something that I'm deeply grateful for because it's not easy in this day and age to create your purpose business and give in a way. That also allows receiving. So many people are skilled and passionate about the things. We are spiritual. We know so many things. Yet, Do you allow that to be your receiver as well? You know, A foundation, A structure underneath you that holds you. In this reality in a powerful way. Thriving, Not just surviving. I'm interested where you are on this journey. What is your challenge and where do you see yourself? What do you want to achieve? What do you want to be? Just like a small reflection, Clarity. Sending love. Ciao for now. You are the creator. Show up as it.

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