Settle into sleep.
This one is made for lying down.
In bed,
Lights already low.
Unlike a daytime practice,
There's no need to come back to full alertness at the end.
The whole point is to let your body wind down towards sleep at its own pace,
Without needing to perform any part of this well.
Get as comfortable as you can.
Let your arms rest wherever they naturally fall.
Allow your legs to feel heavy.
If you feel like adjusting the blankets or shifting position,
Feel free to do that now.
Once we begin,
There's nowhere else to move toward except further down and further in.
Take a moment to settle before continuing.
Since it can help you to know what you're actually doing here,
Not just following along blindly.
Here's an explanation.
Your body has two main modes running underneath everything.
One that gears you up,
Alert,
Scanning,
Ready to respond.
And one that lets you stand down.
Rest,
Digest and eventually sleep.
Most of your day is spent,
Understandably,
In the first mode.
This practice is simply a set of protocols or pathways to help your body find its way into the second.
One of the most reliable ways to do that is through your out breath or exhale.
Lengthening and exhale.
Beyond an inhale sends a direct signal.
Through the largest nerve in the body,
The vagus nerve,
To the part of your nervous system responsible for rest.
You don't have to believe it or even think about it for it to work.
It's a physical mechanism,
Not a mindset.
Let's utilize that process now.
Breathe in gently through your nose and breathe out slowly through your mouth.
Longer on the out-breath and the in-breath,
Like you're fogging up a mirror or letting out a long,
Quiet sigh.
Repeat this a few more times.
Breathing in gently.
And letting the exhale run long and slow.
Let your natural breath return now.
No need to keep managing or controlling it.
Just notice it may be slower than when you started.
We're going to move through your body now in two ways.
First,
Releasing tension directly.
Then,
Simply noticing.
Both are well evidenced ways of easing a body toward rest and sleep and neither requires you to do anything except follow along as much or as little as you would like.
Begin with your feet.
Gently squeeze them,
Curling your toes,
Tightening your arches,
Just a small amount of effort,
Hold for a moment.
And let it go completely.
Feel the difference between the effort and the release.
Your feet may be heavier now than they were a moment ago.
Move up to your calves and shins,
Gently tightening.
Just slightly hold for a few seconds and release.
Let your legs sink further into the bed.
Bring your attention now to your thighs,
Squeezing gently.
Pause,
Hold,
Then let go completely.
Notice the sensation in your legs now,
Fully supported,
Nothing left to hold up.
Moving now to your belly and lower back.
There's not much to tense here,
Just notice whatever tightness is already present and on your next exhale let it soften even slightly.
Breathe out slowly,
Releasing whatever you can.
Bring your attention to your hands,
Make a gentle fist,
Pause and hold for a few seconds.
And release,
Letting your fingers uncurl,
Palms soft.
Resting.
Move to your arms,
A gentle tightening,
Elbows to shoulders.
Hold,
Then let go.
Let your arms feel heavier.
Than they did a minute ago.
Bring your attention to your shoulders,
Draw them up gently toward your ears.
Pause and hold for a moment.
And drop them further than before.
Most of us carry the day here without realising it.
Finally your face,
Gently scrunch it,
Forehead,
Eyes,
Jaw,
All at once,
Hold briefly.
And let it all go slack.
Let your jaw hang slightly open if that's comfortable.
Let your forehead be smooth and unguarded.
Release the crease between the eyebrows.
Your whole entire body has had the chance now to feel the difference between holding and releasing,
Which makes the releasing easier to find again all on its own for the rest of the night.
Now we'll move through more slowly,
Just noticing,
Without any effort at all.
This part requires nothing from you,
Except your gentle attention.
And if it drifts,
Which it likely will,
Especially this close to sleep,
That's okay.
Drifting is allowed.
It's actually the direction we're heading.
Bring your awareness to the top of your head,
Just noticing.
Rest here for a few breaths.
Move down to your forehead,
Your eyes heavy in their sockets,
Your jaw already loose from a moment ago.
Down to your neck and throat,
Your shoulders resting now instead of holding.
Down through your arms to your hands resting wherever they've settled.
Down through your chest.
Notice your breath still moving slower and quieter now.
Down through your belly,
Your lower back,
Sinking into whatever is beneath you.
Down through your hips,
Your thighs,
Heavy and supported.
Down through your knees,
Your calves,
Your feet.
The whole long line of your body from the top of the head to the tips of your toes.
Resting now.
Let your attention rest over your whole body at once for as long as feels good.
There's nothing left to do from here,
Nothing to solve tonight.
Whatever is on tomorrow's list will still be there tomorrow.
It doesn't need you now.
If your mind offers up a thought,
Let it pass through like weather.
No need to follow it anywhere.
Your breath will keep going,
Slower,
On its own,
The way that it does every night,
Whether you're paying attention or not.
Can stop listening whenever sleep starts to pull at you.
There's no ending you need to hear,
No need to stay present for what comes next.
If you're still here,
Take one more slow breath in and let it go long and easy.
Let your breath settle into its own rhythm.
Heavy.
Warm.
Held by whatever is beneath you.
Nowhere else to be.
Nothing else to do,
Except exactly this,
Resting.
Drifting.
However your body wishes to take it from here.