This planet is not made of the same energies and it is not made of the same exact beings.
It includes different types of humans with different types of backgrounds,
Mindsets,
Personalities,
Behaviors,
And intentions.
And when we come together,
Because we all do come together with several people,
Things happen.
And what happens is the result of each part affecting one another.
With this said,
Let's now focus on those moments in which someone mostly happy and sane comes across someone mostly aggressive and distorted.
These characteristics are not to be used as judgmental labels,
But as extremes that describe how it feels to experience it in this dense world,
And to reach those of us who consider themselves as generally happy and sane,
And who went or are currently going through this.
Many times,
These moments in which we come across these toxic energies turn into short or long-term relationships of all kinds.
And what are relationships?
They are just two or more energies coming together,
Nothing else.
And if you felt healthy and joyful until you met one or more specific people that seemed to ruin your ability to see things clearly,
To spontaneously smile and laugh,
To feel free in your energy and to be active towards your goals and wishes,
Just know that it is not your fault and that you are not alone.
Things like this happen,
And we as humans tend to overanalyze and find all kinds of reasons to explain it.
And many times,
We focus on blaming ourselves for our childhood and family,
For our inability to attract better,
For our over-giving way of being,
For our extreme needs and wants,
For being too nice,
Too naive,
Too stupid,
Too idiot.
Too dumb or too foolish.
Mass of layers that keep us coming back for more and more and more with an underlying sensation that we are the ones and only responsible for everything that happens to us.
When someone steals from another person,
Do we dive deep into the victim's traits and past experiences?
No,
We focus on the thief,
Right?
Stealing is stealing,
And it won't change depending on whoever gets stolen.
The victim could even be the worst person in the world.
Still,
Stealing is stealing,
And that is what we urgently want to solve once it happens.
Just imagine,
If someone is an habitual thief,
And they find an opportunity to steal,
Wouldn't they do it?
Of course they would,
And they wouldn't have a care in the world about the personality of their target.
Now,
Does this mean that we shouldn't reflect at all on our own ways and patterns?
No,
Of course not.
Self-reflection brings us consciousness,
And it even has the power to shift realities.
However,
It shouldn't be used as the remedy to solve everything,
With the constant subliminal message that it is up to us to carry all the weight in the world.
Yes,
There are people with bad intentions,
And it is way more common than we may think.
Let's acknowledge it and see it for what it is.
So today,
If you are feeling lost and miserable because of one or more people who unfairly put you down,
Who made you question your value,
Your sanity,
Your discernment,
Your ability to love and to be happy,
Who made you feel guilty for even existing,
Listen carefully.
You are a being of light,
Of love,
And of integrity.
You matter.
You matter to you,
To us,
To the world.
You matter,
And you deserve the best in life.
And if you are desperately looking for a way out,
Calm your heart,
Because your answer has arrived.
Do what you love.
And if your heart feels so squeezed and closed off that you can't feel any love for anything right now,
Then go back to your memories and remember the things that made you smile,
The things that brought light into your life,
The things that made you wake up in the morning.
Make a list and step by step,
One by one,
Do them all.
Is it a moment at the balcony?
A walk in the park?
Is it running?
Dancing?
Climbing?
Jumping?
A certain gesture?
A certain ritual?
What is it that you love so much?
Just do it.
And it is a promise to you that soon you will see yourself peacefully waking up with a deep smile on your face in total disbelief at how wonderful your life became.
