Love As The Practice Of Freedom

In this reading of bell hooks' essay we learn that in the New Age, our collective liberation and the healing of the Black body politic must be guided by a love ethic. We are given a history of how the Black Power movement of the 60s had taken on a culture of dominance and sexism, leading to the internalization of racism within Black people. Hooks suggests a return to an understanding of our spiritual interdependence as the source of our healing. Healing cannot be done in isolation.

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Love as the Practice of Freedom by bell hooks from Outlaw Culture Resisting Representations, 2006. In this society, There is no powerful discourse on love emerging either from politically progressive radicals or from the left. The absence of a sustained focus on love in progressive circles arises from a collective failure to acknowledge the needs of the spirit and an over-determined emphasis on material concerns. Without love, Our efforts to liberate ourselves and our world, Community from oppression and exploitation, Are doomed. As long as we refuse to address fully the place of love in struggles for liberation, We will not be able to create a culture of conversion where there is a mass turning away from an ethic of domination. Without an ethic of love, Shaping the direction of our political vision and our radical aspirations, We are often seduced in one way or the other into continued allegiance to systems of domination, Imperialism, Sexism, Racism, Classism. It has always puzzled me that women and men who spend a lifetime working to resist and oppose one form of domination can be systematically supporting another. I have been puzzled by powerful visionary Black male leaders who can speak and act passionately in resistance to racial domination and accept and embrace sexist domination of women, By feminist white women who work daily to eradicate sexism but who have major blind spots when it comes to acknowledging and resisting racism and white supremacist domination of the planet. Critically examining these blind spots, I conclude that many of us are motivated to move against domination solely when we feel our self-interest directly threatened. Often then, The longing is not for a collective transformation of society, An end to politics of dominations, But rather simply for an end to what we feel is hurting us. This is what is why we desperately need an ethic of love to intervene in our self-centered longing for change. Fundamentally, If we are only committed to an improvement of that politic of domination that we feel leads directly to our individual exploitation or oppression, We not only remain attached to the status quo, But act in complicity with it. Nurturing and maintaining those very systems of domination until we are all able to accept the interlocking, Interdependent nature of systems of domination and recognize specific ways each system is maintained, We will continue to act in ways that undermine our individual quest for freedom and collective liberation struggle. The ability to acknowledge blind spots can emerge only as we expand our concern about politics of domination and our capacity to care about the oppression and exploitation of others. A love ethic makes this expansion possible. Civil rights movement transformed society in the United States because it was fundamentally rooted in a love ethic. No leader has emphasized this ethic more than Martin Luther King Jr. Jr. He had the prophetic insight to recognize that a revolution built on any other foundation would fail. Again and again, King testified that he had decided to love because he believed deeply that if we are seeking the highest good, We find it through love because this is the key that unlocks the door to the meaning of ultimate reality. And the point of being in touch with a transcendent reality is that we struggle for justice, All the while realizing that we are always more than our race, Class, Or sex. When I look back at the civil rights movement, Which was in many ways limited because it was a reformist effort, I see that it had the power to move masses of people to act in the interest of racial justice and because it was profoundly rooted in a love ethic. The 60s Black Power movement shifted away from that love ethic. The emphasis was now more on power, And it is not surprising that the sexism that had always undermined the Black liberation struggle intensified, That a misogynist approach to women became central as the equation of freedom with patriarchal manhood become a norm among Black political leaders, Almost all of whom were male. Indeed, The new militancy of masculinist Black Power equated love with weakness, Announcing that the quintessential expression of freedom would be the willingness to coerce. Do violence terrorize? Indeed utilize the weapons of domination? This was the crudest embodiment of Malcolm X's credo, By any means necessary. On the positive side, Black Power movement shifted the focus of Black liberation's struggle from reform to revolution. This was an important political development, Bringing with it a stronger anti-imperialist global perspective. However, Masculinist sexist biases in leadership led to the suppression of the love ethic, Hence progress was made even as something valuable was lost. While King had focused on loving our enemies, Malcolm called us back to ourselves, Acknowledging that taking care of Blackness was central to our responsibility. Even though King talked about the importance of Black self-love, He talked more about loving our enemies. Ultimately, Neither he nor Malcolm lived long enough to fully integrate the love ethic into a vision of political decolonization that would provide a blueprint for the eradication of Black self-hatred. Black folks entering the realm of radically integrated American life because of the success of Civil Rights and Black Power movement suddenly found we were grappling with an intensification of internalized racism. The deaths of these important leaders, As well as liberal white leaders who were major allies in the struggle for racial equality, Ushered in tremendous feelings of hopelessness, Powerlessness, And despair. Wounded in that space where we would know love, Black people collectively experienced intense pain and anguish about our future. The absence of public spaces where that pain could be articulated, Expressed, Shared, Meant that it was held in, Festering, Suppressing the possibility that this collective grief would be reconciled in community even as ways to move beyond it and continue resistance struggle would be envisioned. Feeling as though the world had really come to an end, In the sense that a hope had died that racial justice would become the norm, A life-threatening despair took hold in the Black life. We will never know to what extent the Black masculinist focus on hardness and toughness served as a barrier preventing sustained public acknowledgement of the enormous grief and pain in Black life. World as Lover, World as Self. Joanna Macy emphasizes in her chapter on despair work that the refusal to feel takes a heavy toll. Not only is there an impoverishment of our emotional and sensory life, But this psychic numbing also impedes our capacity to process and respond to information. The energy expended in pushing down despair is diverted from more creative uses, Depleting the resilience and imagination needed for fresh visions and strategies. If Black folks are to move forward in our struggle for liberation, We must confront the legacy of this unreconciled grief, For it has been the breeding ground for profound nihilistic despair. We must collectively return to a radical political vision of social change rooted in a love ethic and seek once again to convert masses of people Black and non-Black. A culture of domination is anti-love. It requires violence to sustain itself. To choose love is to go against the prevailing values of the culture. Many people feel unable to love either themselves or others because they do not know what love is. Contemporary songs like Tina Turner's What's Love Got to Do With It? Advocate a system of exchange around desire. Mirroring the economics of capitalism, The idea that love is important is mocked. In his essay Love and Need, Is Love a Package or a Message? , Thomas Merton argues that we are taught within the framework of competitive consumer capitalism to see love as a business deal. This concept of love assumes that the machinery of buying and selling of needs is what makes everything run. It regards life as a market and love as a variation on free enterprise. Though many folks recognize and critique the commercialization of love, They see no alternative. Not knowing how to love or even what love is, Many people feel emotionally lost. Others search for definitions, For ways to sustain a love ethic in a culture that negates human value and valorizes materialism. The sales of books, Focusing on recovery, Books that seek to teach folks ways to improve self-esteem, Self-love, And our ability to be intimate in relationships, Affirm that there is a public awareness of a lack in most people's lives. M. Scott Peck's self-help book, The Road Less Traveled, Is enormously popular because it addresses that lack. Peck offers a working definition for love that is useful for those of us who would like to make a love ethic the core of all human interaction. He defines love as the will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth. Commenting on prevailing cultural attitudes about love, Peck writes, Everyone in our culture desires to some extent to be loving, Yet many are in fact not loving. I therefore conclude that the desire to love is not itself love. Love is as love does. Love is an act of will, Namely both an intention and an action. Will also implies choice. We do not have to love. We choose to love. His words echo Martin Luther King's declaration, I have decided to love, Which also emphasizes choice. King believed that love is ultimately the only answer to the problems facing this nation and the entire planet. I share that belief and the conviction that it is in choosing love and beginning with love as the ethical foundation for politics that we are best positioned to transform society in ways that enhance the collective good. It is truly amazing that King had the courage to speak as much as he did about the transformative power of love in a culture where such talk is often seen as merely sentimental. In progressive political circles, To speak of love is to guarantee that one will be dismissed or considered naive. But outside those circles, There are many people who openly acknowledge that they are consumed by feelings of self-hatred, Who feel worthless, Who want a way out. Often they are too trapped by paralyzing despair to be able to engage effectively in any movement for social change. However, If the leaders of such movements refuse to address the anguish and pain of their lives, They will never be motivated to consider personal and political recovery. Any political movement that can effectively address these needs of the spirit in the context of liberation struggle will succeed. In the past, Most folks both learned about and tended the needs of the spirit in the context of religious experience. The institutionalization and commercialization of the church has undermined the power of religious community to transform souls, To intervene politically. Commenting on the collective sense of spiritual loss in modern society, Cornel West asserts, There is a pervasive impoverishment of the spirit in American society, And especially among Black people. Historically, There have been cultural forces and traditions like the church that held cold-heartedness and mean-spiritedness at bay. However, Today's impoverishment of the spirit means that this coldness and meanness is becoming more and more pervasive. The church kept these forces at bay by promoting a sense of respect for others, A sense of solidarity, A sense of meaning and value which would usher in the strength to battle against evil. Life-sustaining political communities can provide a similar space for the renewal of spirit. Life-sustaining political communities can provide a similar space for the renewal of spirit. They can happen only if we address the needs of the spirit in progressive political theory and practice. Often when Cornel West and I speak with large groups of Black folks about the impoverishment of spirit in Black life, The lovelessness sharing that we can collectively recover ourselves in love, The response is overwhelming. Folks want to know how to begin the practice of loving. For me, That is where education for critical consciousness has to enter. When I look back at my life searching it for a blueprint that aided me in the process of decolonization, Of personal and political self-recovery, I know that it was learning the truth about how systems of domination operated that helped learning to look both inward and outward with a critical eye. Awareness is central to the practice of love. Awareness is central to the process of love as the practice of freedom. Whenever those of us who are members of exploited and oppressed groups dare to critically interrogate our locations, The identities and allegiances that inform how we live our lives, We begin the process of decolonization. If we discover in ourselves self-hatred, Low self-esteem, Or internalized white supremacist thinking, And we face it, We can begin to heal. Acknowledging the truth of our reality, Both individual and collective, Is a necessary stage for personal and political growth. This is usually the most painful stage in the process of learning to love, The one many of us seek to avoid. Again, Once we choose love, We instinctively possess the inner resources to confront that pain. Moving through the pain to the other side, We find the joy, The freedom of spirit that a love ethic brings. Choosing love, We also choose to live in community, And that means that we do not have to change by ourselves. We can count on critical affirmation and dialogue with comrades walking a similar path. African-American theologian Howard Thurman believed that we best learn love as the practice of freedom in the context of community. Commenting on this aspect of his work in the essay Spirituality Out on the Deep, Luther Smith reminds us that Thurman felt the United States was given to diverse groups of people by the universal life force as a location for the building of community. Paraphrasing Thurman, He writes, Truth becomes true in community. The social order hungers for a center, Spirit, Soul, That gives it identity, Power, And purpose. America and all cultural entities are in search of a soul. Working within community, Whether it be sharing a project with another person or with a larger group, We are able to experience joy in struggle. That joy needs to be documented, For if we only focus on the pain, The difficulties which are surely real in any process of transformation, We are able to experience joy in struggle. A love ethic emphasizes the importance of service to others. Within the value system of the United States, Any task or job that is related to service is devalued. Service strengthens our capacity to know, To be able to understand, To be able to learn. To serve another, I cannot see them. As an object, I must see their subjecthood. Sharing the teaching of Shambhala warriors, Buddhist Joann T. Service is devalued. Service strengthens our capacity to know compassion and deepens our insight. To serve another, I cannot see them. As an object, I must see their subjecthood. Sharing the teaching of Shambhala warriors, Buddhist Joanna Macy writes that we need weapons of compassion and insight. You have to have compassion because it gives you the juice, The power, The passion to move. When you open to the pain of the world, You move, You act. But that weapon is not enough. It can burn you out, So you need the other, You need insight into the radical interdependence of all phenomena. With that wisdom, You know that it is not a battle between good guys and bad guys, But that the line between good and evil runs through the landscape of every human heart. With insight into our profound interrelatedness, You know that actions undertaken with pure intent have repercussions throughout the web of life beyond what you can measure or discern. Macy shares that compassion and insight can sustain us as agents of wholesome change, For they are gifts for us to claim now in the healing of our world. In part, We learn to love by giving service. This is again a dimension of what Peck means when he speaks of extending ourselves for one another. The Civil Rights Movement had the power to transform society because the individuals who struggle alone and in community for freedom and justice wanted these gifts to be for all, Not just the suffering and the oppressed. Visionary Black leaders such as Septina Clark, Fannie Lou Hamer, Martin Luther King Jr. , And Howard Thurman warned against isolationism. They encouraged Black people to look beyond our own circumstances and assume responsibility for the planet. This call for communion with a world beyond the self, The tribe, The race, The nation, Was a constant invitation for personal expansion and growth. When masses of Black folks starting thinking solely in terms of us and them, Internalizing the value system of white supremacist capitalist patriarchy, Blind spots developed. The capacity for empathy needed for the building of community was diminished. To heal our wounded body politic, We must reaffirm our commitment to a vision of what King referred to in the essay, Facing the Challenge of a New Age. As a genuine commitment to freedom and justice for all, My heart is uplifted when I read King's essay. I am reminded where true liberation leads us. It leads us beyond resistance to transformation. King tells us that the end is reconciliation. The end is redemption. The end is the creation of the beloved community. The moment we choose to love, We begin to move against domination, Against oppression. The moment we choose to love, We begin to move towards freedom, To act in ways that liberate ourselves and others. That action is the testimony of love as the practice of freedom.