Wake up with Nikki Confident Day 9

Day 9 of 11 tracks that connect you to your highest self to skyrocket your confidence and release anything holding you back from expressing your unique greatness! Visit WakeupwithNikki.com for the full experience: including afternoon text messages reminding you of your greatness and evening journal prompts that align you with your vision and who you need to be to achieve your dream life.

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Transcript

Good morning,

Good morning,

Good morning.

How did it go yesterday?

Did you get a chance to forgive yourself and forgive other people for their mistakes?

That was one I didn't add in there,

But I'm gonna add it in there today.

Who can you forgive today?

Mm,

It's a big one.

It's a big one,

Especially with those people that really hurt you.

Can you see that if they hurt you,

They were projecting their pain,

Saying,

Hurt people,

Hurt people.

It's a powerful one,

And it will bring you so much peace.

It's not for them,

It's for you.

It really is.

All right,

My dears,

Let's ground in.

Today we're gonna talk about trust.

I'm so excited.

Take your nice three deep breaths for me,

Please.

Deep breath in through the nose all the way to the top.

Hold it there,

Ground into the ground.

Thank you,

Pachamama.

As you exhale,

Thank you for taking all of my worries out of my body.

Extract all of that worry.

Release it down into the ground.

Nice deep breath in.

Connect to the spirits.

See that funnel go up to the sky.

And as you exhale,

Enjoy that shower of bright,

Beautiful light purifying your body.

Thank you,

Spirit,

For the guidance today.

Thank you,

Thank you,

Thank you.

I trust what flows through today.

Last deep breath in.

To your heart.

I trust today that I get to shower everyone with love today.

I get to share my love and my wisdom and my insights that flow through.

I get to share them today in full trust that they're exactly what the person needs to hear and exactly what I need to hear.

I trust today.

Trust is the theme.

Do you trust yourself?

Actually,

That's a great place to start.

Do you trust yourself?

What's the first answer?

Yes or no?

If it's a yes,

Wonderful.

Lean in.

What do you trust about yourself?

How can you trust yourself?

Take a moment to journal all the evidence that you have that you can trust yourself.

All those moments that may have been challenging that you pulled yourself through.

All of those times where you did something on your own and you succeeded.

All of those times that you showed up your best and your brightest.

Can you trust yourself?

Which ways can you trust yourself?

And lean in.

If you got a no,

Lean into that.

Let's see.

What is it you don't trust?

What don't you trust?

You don't trust that you'll be able to figure things out?

You don't trust that you'll be in integrity and you'll do the right thing and you'll speak truth and you'll honor your word?

If that's where it is,

Let's start there today.

What you say you're gonna do today,

Do.

The foundation of trust is honoring your own word and knowing that when you say you're gonna do something,

You'll do it.

When you say you're gonna call,

You call.

When you say you're gonna show up somewhere,

You're gonna show up.

Whatever it is that you've committed to,

You do.

And if you can trust yourself and your own integrity and you speak truth and you don't lie,

Say no if you have to say no today.

I can't do that,

I'm so sorry.

I don't have the capacity.

I wanna support you,

But I can't at the moment.

I cannot say yes.

That would not be saying yes to myself.

Then you learn you can trust yourself.

You can tune in,

Tap into your body,

Feel before you make a commitment.

Does this feel right?

Or does this feel really heavy and burdensome?

I'm like,

I get a crunching sensation in my stomach,

Like,

Ooh,

That's gonna be tough.

I'm gonna say yes anyway,

Because I want them to like me.

But then I'm gonna be in this obligation that I don't know that I wanna complete.

And then I'm gonna be resentful to this person,

Right?

So what's more honoring,

To say no in the get-go or to negotiate different terms that you can say yes to,

That you do get a sensation in your body,

That like,

Yes,

I can do that and I want to.

I desire that.

I'm fully on board.

I'm committed to this.

Take a moment right now to make a list of the things you are committed to.

I am committed to being an excellent daughter,

To showing up for my mother.

I am committed to being an excellent friend.

I am committed to showing up in excellence for my podcast and for my listeners.

I am committed to treating my body with nourishing thoughts and nourishing food.

I am committed to exercising today and moving my body and enjoying the sensation of movement and the pleasure of feeling sore afterwards,

Because I've done some powerful movements that will make me stronger.

What are you committed to today and how will you show up in excellence?

Because you are committed and you are a woman,

A man of your word.

Your word is really important and that's the foundation of you trusting yourself.

And confidence is self-trust.

Same thing,

One and the same.

I am confident because I know I can make it through things.

I know I can figure everything out.

I know when I'm down to $32 in the bank,

I will figure things out.

I will find the way.

I know when I'm standing in a train station in the middle of Japan and nobody speaks English and all the plaques have writing that goes from top to bottom instead of left to right.

I know that with just a little bit of patience,

I take a few deep breaths,

I will find the way.

I will find that angel.

I'll get room for spirit to support me and send an angel,

One barely speaking English person that wants to help a foreigner.

That gets the inkling that I need support and they come right over to me.

They show me the way.

Sometimes it takes patience.

A lot of times it takes trust and timing.

Can you trust that if something isn't showing up just yet,

It's not right yet.

If you don't have that relationship,

If you don't have the finances,

It's not time just yet,

But keep improving yourself.

Keep working on your own confidence.

Keep working on this inner dialogue and remind yourself that you are worthy of it and remind yourself of the sensation of it as if you already have it.

Feel the love that you desire from a partner.

Feel the freedom that you desire from money.

Feel that sense of expansiveness that you may desire from making an impact.

Feel all that worthiness,

All that security,

All that respect and love that you desire.

Feel it now.

Because the more you can feel into it,

The more that you can create it within your body right now,

The faster it will come.

And you have to trust that if it isn't here just yet,

There are some lessons you need to learn.

There's some expansion you get to create for yourself.

I know,

Having been single for nine years and having done nine,

Almost 10 years now of personal development work,

That I am now vibrating at the frequency to attract the mate that I've always desired and known that I deserve.

Had I met him five years ago,

I don't know that I would have attracted the man I truly deserve,

But I was so surrounded and filled within with self-doubt.

And there was some sense within me that I needed someone to depend on,

To take care of the things that I didn't wanna take care of like my finances.

I needed to get myself to this place where I know I am fully capable to stand on my own two feet,

To provide for myself,

To have all the joy and love and security and respect and everything I need for myself.

And now he can come in and support that growth even higher.

I'm vibrating on a very different level.

I share that story so that you understand that your frequency is attracting what you have right now in your life.

Your reality is a very different reality it's a outside mirror of what your inner world looks like.

And so if there isn't the finances or the physical shape that you desire or the love romantic partner in your life,

Then there's an inner dialogue that you need to keep working on.

In terms of finances,

What is your relationship with money?

Do you think that money turns people evil?

If that's the case,

You're gonna repel it.

So there's this concept of opposite forces,

Right?

So one part of you desires something and then there's an equal and opposing force that is subconsciously against it.

So I've been wanting and desiring a partner but my very next thought is,

But I sleep starfish in the middle of the bed,

Where is he gonna fit?

How is that gonna create space for him?

I have an opposing force that he's gonna take up space in my bed and that there isn't room for him really in my life.

Can you see it?

Silly example,

But that's what we do with everything.

We have this desire for something and then we have this opposing force.

It's the opposite thought that comes in.

So notice today the opposing force.

I would love to have a whole bunch of money in the bank but I'm gonna have to work really hard and I don't have the discipline or consistency to keep that up,

Right?

What are the opposing forces?

And what are some of the lessons?

It's hard to know what are the lessons you still need to learn but sometimes it's fun to try and play with having 20-20 hindsight in advance.

It's a fun concept.

What is it that you need to know?

And is it possible that you need to trust yourself more in the process and trust divine timing?

Trust,

What can you trust today?

Ooh,

Big one is can you trust the signals?

Can you trust what flows through?

If you asked today,

If you started your day with the intention of who may serve you today or who may I serve today and you got an answer,

Call David and then you don't trust it,

Well,

You're getting insights that you're not trusting and then you're not flowing with the universe.

You're not gonna get the lessons fast enough.

Enough is a big word.

You're not gonna,

You're gonna keep getting hit until you get the lesson.

Let's put it that way.

You're gonna keep attracting the narcissist.

Right?

Until you get the lesson that you are worthy to speak your truth and teach people how to treat you.

You get it?

So trust the intuitive hits that flow through today.

If you get an intuitive hit to call someone or to connect to the web developer or to hire a marketing agency or a business coach or whatever intuitive hit you get today,

Follow it.

Trust it.

If you get an intuitive hit to go sit and have coffee at a coffee shop,

Trust it,

Go.

It's that simple.

All you have to do is trust the intuitive hits that come to you today.

If you get an intuitive hit,

Listen to it.

It's leading to your next step.

There's someone there you need to meet at that coffee shop.

There's some lesson you need to learn.

Maybe you get there and the barista is a complete jerk off and you get to practice being patient and loving and transforming that person with your love.

Showering them with love anyway.

And that's the lesson you needed to learn from that coffee shop.

Right?

You get the opportunity to practice how you wanted to show up,

How what your intention was this morning.

I'm gonna show up loving and patient no matter what.

And then you get called to a coffee shop where the barista's a jerk.

And we're like,

Why'd this happen?

Oh,

Because an opportunity to practice patience.

Opportunity to shift someone's state by being a glorious version of your own.

Trust my love.

It's a big one.

Enjoy.

Let me know how it goes.

I love you.

Reviews

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Amazing session and love the high vibrational energetic way how you are bringing over the messages 🫶🏾🫶🏾👌🏾👌🏾