Vanessa Ooms

Thank you. I so resonated. While I walked away from over functioning or it was enforced upon me to walk away, I am finding it challenging to ground towards myself and be ok with spaciousness.

That was close to home …. And very helpful. Thank you

This is powerful and makes me feel afraid because I resonate with each sentence so deeply. I listened once then immediately I listened again. Now I will sit quietly in stillness. Choosing me! Even though it's uncomfortable even though I feel anxiousness deep inside my stomach and chest. Thank you so much and know that this has been helped me begin again and do my life differently. Moment by moment breath by breath. I will keep coming back.🙏🏼🌀💕

Wow, that was recorded specially for me. Every word of it. I'm working on this overfunctioning pattern in my life now, so I heard my story. Thank you for this talk, it was healing ❤️

Thanks for this message 🙏 it came to me at the perfect time ✨🦋✨

I needed this exact thing… like how did I find this!?

Thank you for this wonderful meditation. I will be using it regularly and it was exactly what I needed to do and hear . 🦋🙏🌼

Thank you Vanessa 🙏🏻 Your talk felt deeply reassuring and validating... almost like it embraced a part of me and filled a gap I’ve been trying to understand for more than four years. I’ve known that I’ve been overwhelmed by what I’ve gone through and what I’m still navigating. As I learn to become more compassionate and lovingly kind toward myself, I’m beginning to see how that also radiates outward. At the same time, I’m learning to accept that some circumstances, people, and their behaviors are simply just beyond my control, yet within my influence. “Overfunctioning” was the word that finally encapsulated so much of what I’ve been feeling throughout these years. Discovering this talk feels like finding a treasure... it validates what I’ve experienced, what I’ve felt, and what I’ve had to let go of. Understanding overfunctioning has given me a greater sense of agency and autonomy. I may not control everything around me, but I can choose how I respond, where I place my energy with the character I cultivate moving forward. From this moment on, I feel more capable of shaping the direction of my own life. My character determines destiny. Gratitude for you. 🙏🏻✨