Message You Need To Hear Now: They Hurt You For A Reason

Welcome to this channeled tarot message. In this video, we will explore the deeper meanings behind your past experiences and how they can lead to profound healing and growth.

Using tarot, we will uncover insights and guidance to help you navigate your healing journey and remind you of the importance of putting yourself first. This message is designed to empower you and encourage self-love as you release what no longer serves you.

Transcript

Hello beautiful souls,

Welcome to today's reading.

If you are new here,

My name is Tess and today I would like to do a small like energy check-in,

Like what energies are currently around you and we can also see like what messages the spirit guides want you to hear.

And also I'm so sorry if you can hear the noises of my washing machine or someone is doing something outside,

But yeah,

It is what it is.

But before we are going to do the pull-out of the cards,

I have this small zodiac card,

So if your zodiac sign will show up,

You will have an extra or a small confirmation that you are on the right reading and that this message was meant to find you.

So let's see what zodiac signs we have for this message.

Okay,

I am seeing Gemini.

Okay,

So okay,

For this reading what I'm seeing we have Gemini,

So welcome Gemini to this reading.

Then we have a Scorpio,

Then we have a Virgo,

Another sign what we have is Pisces,

We have two times Capricorn and we also have Leo.

So if your zodiac sign show up,

This is an extra confirmation that you are on the right reading,

But if your zodiac sign didn't show up,

This is not a big deal.

And right now I would like to see what kind of energies are around you or what kind of situations you need to work through or your spirit guides are sending you some messages.

So let's see.

Okay,

So first we have Five of Cups.

So the message that I'm getting,

Some of you guys are leaving something behind,

Some of you are kind of stuck in the situation and you are not sure how to move forward with your situation.

Also the message what I'm hearing is that you have quite a lot of positive things in your life,

But you are still stuck and you are still focusing on the negative things that are still bothering you.

You cannot move on from the current place.

And also the thing is that everything that is coming,

The message that is coming is that this is around relationships.

So what I'm hearing or seeing is that someone is trying to get you to move forward with your life.

What I'm hearing or seeing is that someone left you,

You have some unresolved problems or issues or relationship.

It is definitely about the relationship.

So some of you guys are still focusing on the past,

You are kind of like holding into the negative energies,

You are kind of holding into the problems that other people hurt you.

It is definitely that someone did something really bad to you,

You cannot move forward,

You are unable to see that there is a way out from the situation.

And we also have the Empress.

So in this reading is that you have the power,

You have the creative energy,

And you have also all of the tools you need to have in order to move forward from the situation.

You need to remember that you are very strong inside.

You have this amazing strength,

This amazing power to overcome any obstacles.

Also,

If someone hurt you,

You need to move from the situation in order to get these new beginnings.

So we have these three cards and the messages.

What I'm also getting is that you have been hurt in the past,

And you are kind of like stuck in the situation,

You don't know how to go out of the situation,

You don't know how to move forward.

But the Empress card is here telling you that definitely you have this huge power,

You have this strength to move forward in order to get these new beginnings,

Because I'm seeing that there are new beginnings for you,

And they are coming quite soon.

But all you need to do is to kind of also do inner work,

Is what I'm hearing.

You need to do inner work,

You need to do some shadow work,

You need to do some journaling.

Maybe if you are hesitating and you want to even go through therapy,

This is a very right time for you to go actually to this therapy,

Is what I'm also getting.

Because I'm hearing that you are in this area in your life where you are actually ready to move forward,

But you are still hesitating.

You know what I mean?

That you are ready and you are kind of like tired,

Is what I'm also hearing,

That you are kind of tired of being always stuck in this situation.

You don't know how to move forward,

But you are just so annoyed also by yourself,

Because you don't want to feel this way.

You want to be healed,

You want to feel better.

Something is still holding you back,

Something is bothering you.

And in order to get these new beginnings on your way,

In order to actually step on this healing journey,

All you need to do is to realize that you have this extreme power inside you.

You have this strength,

You have this power to overcome everything.

If someone hurt you,

You need to also realize that probably it wasn't about you,

But it was more about them.

So if someone hurt you in the past,

You need to realize that they are also having their own battles,

They have their own fights.

Maybe they also have some unresolved traumas,

Is what I'm also getting.

Then that's why they are also hurting other people.

They are also kind of unsatisfied in their own life,

And therefore they also hurt you.

And you have the strength to overcome this,

You have the power,

Because you.

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Also what I'm seeing you.

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This is a gender neutral reading,

But what I'm seeing you is this strong figure,

And also inside you have this queen.

You know what I'm getting?

That these emperors,

You know,

Very strong foundations to actually move from the situation after you are going to realize that this whole situation wasn't about you,

It was about them mostly.

And what you need to learn is to appreciate yourself more.

You need to also realize that you are confident,

But you know,

You are living for yourself.

You are your own human being,

You are your own queen,

You are your own king,

You know?

It's just what I'm also getting,

That you need to fully step into these aspects of yourself where is your confidence kind of hidden,

Is what I'm also getting.

You need to realize that you are very strong,

You need to realize that you are very capable,

You have a lot of talents,

Is what I'm getting.

And also other people may kind of look up to you,

Maybe you don't even realize that,

But some people really admire you,

They see you as a very strong figure,

They see you as a strong person who can overcome everything.

Although I know that you are hurting,

And someone hurt you definitely,

But you need to realize that you have this inner power,

Is what I'm also getting.

So this is a very right time for you to actually start working on building your self-confidence,

Start working on building everything,

Even maybe from the scratch,

Is what I'm also hearing.

I have some more cards,

The decks,

So we can also have a better message,

What you need to hear.

Okay,

So nothing is yet set in stone.

From this message,

What I'm getting is that you have been hurt in the past,

But you are kind of still wondering why this person hurt you,

Why you needed to experience this.

And I'm seeing that also the answer you are seeking in this situation is coming.

You will definitely soon realize or you will just get these intuitive feelings or realization that why they hurt you.

You will also get this answer like why the people behaved in the way,

Because you will also see that they have some unresolved trauma,

Like I also got before,

They have something inside them,

What is kind of still bothering them,

So that's why they also needed to kind of not hurt you.

This is not like I have some excuses for them,

But they have some unresolved traumas inside,

So that's why they needed to kind of heal themselves by hurting you,

Is what I'm getting.

But soon they are also going to realize that what they done was not right.

Maybe they're also going to apologize to you,

Is what I'm also hearing.

And I also have another deck,

What I wanted to use for this small message video.

Again,

We have moon.

This is amazing.

So there are definitely some hidden things that you don't know yet about.

So my body is a manifestation of my energetic state.

So again,

Very beautiful confirmation that you are what you think you are.

Basically,

You can create your reality,

And if you're all the time going to be kind of stuck in this situation,

You will soon also realize that this is not the right way also for your well-being,

That this is not the right state for you.

And also you will realize that you don't want to be defined by the past.

You don't want to be defined by this hurt.

You don't want to be defined as someone who is not capable of moving forward.

You don't also want to be what I'm hearing.

You don't want to be defined as someone who is weak and is also maybe holding you back,

That you are also having some inner battles with yourself,

That you maybe don't know.

Also,

What I'm hearing,

You don't want to open up yourself to new people because you are afraid that they are going to hurt you.

You are afraid that you are going to experience the same trauma you did with the person,

But you need to realize that everything you are thinking about is coming through to your life.

You know what I'm also getting?

But we have two moon cards.

This is interesting.

What do you need to hear?

Okay,

The card.

What we got?

Boundaries.

Where do you need to establish better boundaries?

So again,

You are a people pleaser is what I'm getting.

You always want to put other people first.

You are forgetting some of you guys,

Because also what I need to say is that this is like a general message.

This is a general reading.

So also people will resonate with some messages.

Other people will resonate with other messages.

So also please take what resonates with you and also just take what feels right and leave the rest because we have multiple people who are clicking on this video.

So some of you guys,

Like I said,

Are people pleasers.

You are putting other people first.

You are forgetting about your own needs because you always want to please other people.

You are being heard by many people because you aren't like capable.

You aren't like,

Not capable,

But what I'm getting is you aren't like sure how to say no to people.

You don't know how to set the clear boundaries.

You don't know how to say no.

You always want to please other people.

So you're also being seen as someone who is helpful.

You also want to be seen as someone who is,

You know,

Always ready to help others,

But you need to realize that if you are going to help other people and if you are going to put other people first,

You are getting hurt definitely and you will get hurt even more because some people took advantage of you in the past.

Some people really were kind of taking advantage of you that,

Oh my god,

They are going to be there for me all the time.

They saw you as a person who is there for them and also they saw you as someone who is going to put,

You know,

Their whole heart,

The full emotions to help them and,

You know,

They also saw that you are not taking back what maybe you should take.

You know what I'm getting?

That you are definitely didn't set strong boundaries.

You didn't know how to say no and that's why you also get hurt in the past.

But also I have another deck with affirmations.

Okay.

I converse with awareness.

So also this card is asking you to be aware of where you are putting your energy.

You should be aware that this is a fact.

If you are going to help others,

Who is going to help you at the end?

You know,

You need to first help yourself.

You need to heal yourself first.

You need to set these clear boundaries before you are going to be there helping others.

You know,

If you are going to fill the cup of other people,

You cannot like fill your own cup is what I'm getting.

You need to really start focusing on your thoughts.

You need to start focusing on what you think about yourself because you are also lacking confidence is what I'm seeing,

What I'm getting.

You have a lack of confidence because someone hurt you.

You're not sure how to move forward but all you need to do is realize that you can really manifest everything into your life,

What you truly desire.

You can get what you want by simply changing your perception also about the situation and by setting these clear boundaries for yourself.

What else I'm also getting?

There are going to be some thoughts you are going to realize.

There is something you still don't see.

You don't see the whole surface.

You only see,

You know,

The small part what is under the surface but you don't see what is under the surface of this situation.

Something will definitely come.

You will get a big realization soon.

But the whole message that I'm getting soon hurt you because you have been giving a lot of yourself.

You have been giving quite a lot to this person you didn't came like.

Or this can be also about multiple people.

You have been giving quite a lot and you didn't ask anything back.

There was no balance what I'm getting also from this card.

People took advantage of you.

People were taking,

Taking,

Taking all the time and you didn't know how to say no.

I don't want to say that,

You know,

I'm this type of reader.

I'm intuitive and I'm also sometimes saying the harsh truth but,

You know,

I'm not going to put like,

You know,

This.

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I'm not going to try to please you as a listener but I also need to say that this is kind of not your fault.

But you already knew that what you are giving to people is not serving your highest good,

Is not serving your highest potential.

You knew it.

You knew it and you still kept going.

You still kept giving other people and you didn't know how to say no.

But you inside you,

You always want to say no.

And also the message what I'm also hearing is if it's not 100% yes,

If you don't feel excited of saying yes,

Of helping others,

Then it's no.

You need to say no.

You need to set clear boundaries.

You already knew this is not going well for you,

That you are giving a lot of energy and you are not taking anything back.

You knew it and you still decided not to do anything about this.

But this situation,

When you also click on this video,

Is a small beautiful reminder also to you that maybe you've given quite a lot but it's always the right time to change your perspective.

It's always the right time to change your life.

And by simply just saying no,

You can save a lot of your emotions and you can also have a better wellbeing if you are going to set these strong boundaries.

If you are going to say no,

If you are going to,

Also what I'm getting from these two cards,

If you are going to step into your full power,

If you are going to step into what you truly desire,

It's never too late to start saying no to people.

It's never too late to set clear boundaries.

Because if you are not going to set these clear boundaries,

What I'm also getting is you are not going to be able to move forward.

You are all the time going to have these shadow demons that are going to try,

You know,

Drone you also.

And it's just energetically.

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Also,

What I'm getting is you like to help people but you had enough.

You gave a lot of yourself to others and you just need to take back.

And you need to really.

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The guides are asking you to say no.

Basically,

You need to learn it and it's going to be for your best self,

For your higher self.

Also,

You need to realize like,

You know,

It's what I'm getting.

Maybe you also don't want to be seen as someone who is like mean to others and that's why you are all the time like helping them.

But you know,

You are going to live with yourself for the rest of your life.

You are.

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You cannot just basically all the time helping others and not to help yourself.

So this is also the message that I'm getting.

You need to realize that you are here for yourself.

You came to this earth to live your own life and not to be always drawn by other people's energy.

So the whole message that I'm getting is now is the right time to say no.

Now is the right time to set clear boundaries because you have been drawn energetically by other people.

This is the message what I'm also getting.

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