Welcome.
Take a slow,
Deep breath in.
And gently breathe out.
Allow your shoulders to soften.
The legs to your jaw.
And simply arrive in this moment.
Today we are tapping on the pressure you may feel to give your clients results.
Maybe,
When someone chooses to work with you,
A part of you immediately feels responsible.
But if they don't get the result,
They won't.
But if I can't help them enough.
But if they spend this money and nothing changes.
And because you genuinely care about the people you work with.
You may start carrying their results on your shoulders.
You may over prepare.
Overthink.
Give more than you promised.
Or feel anxious about whether you are doing enough.
We are not releasing your commitment to your client.
We are releasing the beliefs.
That you are alone responsible for their results.
You can bring your knowledge.
Your presence.
Your skills,
Your care.
And your clients brings their participation,
Choice,
Actions,
And willingness to the process.
Take another deep breath.
And let's begin typing.
Tap on the cut-out to choke and repeat after me.
Even though I feel responsible for giving my clients results.
I deeply and completely accept myself.
Even though I'm afraid of what it would mean.
If a client did not get the result they wanted.
I honor how much I genuinely care about the people I serve.
One more time.
Even though a part of me believes.
I have to make sure every client gets result.
I'm open to releasing the responsibility.
That was never completely mine.
Take a slow breath.
Eyebrow point.
I really want my clients to get the results.
Side of the aisle.
I want them to feel that working with me was worth it.
Under the eye and sometimes I put so much pressure on myself.
Under the nose.
But if they don't get the result they wanted.
Chain point.
What if I can't help them enough?
Color Bound.
But if they feel disappointed.
And did the arm.
Maybe that could mean I was not good enough.
To go the head.
I feel responsible for making it work.
Take a slow breath.
Notice where you feel that responsibility in your body.
You don't need to change it.
Simply acknowledge it.
I broke point.
I've been carrying so much responsibility.
Side of the eye,
Trying to make sure everything works.
Under the eye.
Trying to find the perfect solution.
Under the nose.
Time to give more and more.
Chin point.
Because I don't want to disappoint anyone.
Pull a boon.
Maybe I have been carrying more than my part.
Under the arm and that can make serving feels heavy.
To close the head.
I'm ready to reconsider.
But I am actually responsible for it.
Take another deep breath.
I broke wind.
I am responsible for showing up with integrity.
Title.
Ai I am responsible for doing my best.
Under the eye.
I am responsible for offering the support I promised.
Under the nose.
I am responsible for being present.
Chain point.
But I can't control another person's journey.
Colour bone.
I can't do their inner work for them.
Under the.
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I can't make every choice for them.
To put the head.
Their entire outcome.
Was never mine to control.
Take a deep breath.
Allow yourself to notice how that statement feels.
Their entire outcome was never mine to control.
Eyebrow point maybe I can put down some of this responsibility.
Settle the I.
I can care without caring.
And live that life.
I can support without controlling.
Under the nose.
I can guide without guaranteeing.
Change point.
I can give my best without demanding perfection for myself.
For the album.
My client's journey belongs to them.
Under the arm.
I honor their ability to take responsibility for themselves.
Top of the head.
I release what is not mine to carry.
Take a slow deep breath.
Imagine some of that weight leaving your shoulders.
I broke point.
I trust my clients to participate in their own journey.
Side of the eye.
I trust them to make their own choices.
Under that eye.
I trust them.
To use the support,
I provide and hit the nose.
I don't have to rescue them.
I don't have to force their transformation.
Cologne I can walk beside them without walking for them.
And dah!
I can respect their autonomy.
To hold the head.
And I can trust the process.
Take another deep breath.
I have no point.
I chose to serve from presence instead of pressure.
Side of the eye.
I don't need to prove myself through every client's outcome.
Under the eye.
I can be deeply committed.
Without being overly responsible.
And at the nose.
I can care without making their results.
Mean something about my birth.
Chain point.
I give myself permission to simply do my part well.
That is enough.
Under the arm.
I bring my skills,
Presence,
Experience and care.
To pull the head.
And I release the rest.
Take a deep breath in.
And gently breathe out.
Now imagine yourself Sitting up close from a client.
Stay yourself completely present with them.
You are listening.
We are supporting.
You are offering everything that is genuinely yours to offer.
Now imagine a line between you and your client.
On your side are your responsibilities.
Your preparation.
Your presence.
Your skills.
Your integrity.
US support.
And their side are their responsibilities.
Dare choices.
Their participation.
Their practice,
Their actions,
Their journey.
Notice how much lighter it feels when everything is in its rightful place.
You don't have to reach across that line and carry their parts.
Silently remind yourself.
I will do my part with love.
And I will allow my clients to do theirs.
Take a few slow breaths here.
Repeat slowly.
I care deeply about the people I serve.
And I don't have to carry their results.
I am responsible for the quality of my support.
Not for controlling every outcome.
I trust myself to do my part well.
I trust my clients to do their part.
I can care without caring.
I can guide without rescuing them.
I can support without controlling.
My client's outcome does not determine my worth.
I release the need to prove myself.
Through my client's results.
I allow serving to feel lighter.
I choose presence over pressure.
I do my part with integrity.
And I release the rest.
Take one final deep breath in.
And slowly breathe out.
Notice your shoulders.
Notice your chest.
Notice whether there is even a little more space inside you.
You don't need to stop caring about results.
Your desire to help people is beautiful.
Caring about someone's transformation.
And caring responsibility for their transformation are two different things.
You can offer your very best.
Without making yourself responsible for everything.
That happens next.
When we are ready.
Gently open your eyes.
And carry this reminder with you.
I can care deeply.
I can serve cold hot idli.
And I don't have to carry.
But it is not mine.