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Resilient Grieving: Finding Strength & Embracing Life After Loss
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7 daagse cursus

Resilient Grieving: Finding Strength & Embracing Life After Loss

Door Dr Lucy Hone

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Wat je zal leren
As a resilience researcher and trainer, it's Dr. Hone's job to be familiar with the range of evidence-based strategies that science shows help people cope with adversity, loss and change. When her 12 year old daugther was tragically killed in a car accident, Lucy was appalled by the passive tone and out-dated advice provided by grief experts. Fortunately, there is a large body of robust scientific evidence that suggests certain ways of thinking and acting can support people through times of adversity. This course is an introduction to those tools. Everyone of them is evidence-based but ultimately practical and road tested for their effectiveness in the context of bereavement. Throughout this course, Lucy will guide you through what she means by resilience, how common resilience is in the face of grief, and some of the common characteristics of resilient people. She will also share the most up to date findings from bereavement research, while debunking a number of long held myths around bereavement. By sharing her own story of loss, and how her academic training in psychology helped her weather tough times, you will learn how you too can cultivate personal resilience and adjust to your loss. You are not alone, we all have to cope with loss, but sadly not enough poeple are taught the ways of thinking and acting that can help them cope. Lucy is dedicated to changing this and hopes that you will join her.

Dr Lucy Hone

Christchurch, New Zealand

Dr. Lucy Hone is a director of the New Zealand Institute of Wellbeing & Resilience, a research associate at AUT University, a published academic researcher, best-selling author and blogger for Psychology Today. On Queen’s Birthday weekend in 2014, the sudden death of her 12 year old daughter, Abi, (along with Lucy and Abi’s friends Ella and...

Les 1
Overview: Most People Are Resilient
Day One introduces Dr. Hone's work in the field of Resilient Grieving and the story of how the field grew from her own tragic loss. From that experience and the years that followed, Dr. Hone designed this course to help you navigate difficult thoughts and emotions.
Les 2
Ordinary Magic - Focusing Our Thoughts
In this lesson, Dr. Hone offers further insight into the concept of resilient grieving. She begins by sharing that these strategies for coping are, curiously enough, extremely ordinary and accessible to everyone. The “ordinary magic” of understanding where to focus our thoughts is elaborated in this session.
Les 3
The Things We Can Change & Those We Need To Accept
Today, Dr. Hone helps you go beyond focusing your thoughts and emotions and into getting a better understanding of the things we can change and what we need to accept. While there might have been a psychological bias toward negative things that were key to the survival of our ancestors, it’s something we need to re-wire for these modern times.
Les 4
Other People Matter
Day 4 of this course on Resilient Grieving discusses the important concept of relationships and how much other people truly matter. Bereavement, like other things in life, need to be shared. Whether it’s sharing our grief, listening to our stories, or just simply being there - having these supportive relationships are crucial to the grieving process.
Les 5
Coping With Anxiety & Fear
Today, the focus is on coping with anxiety and the sense of vulnerability that often accompanies grief. When people go through loss, they often fear that they won’t be able to carry on. Understanding the source of these fears helps us get a handle on what actually drives these anxieties. In this session, Dr. Hone helps us learn the skills to accomplish this.
Les 6
Post-Traumatic Growth
In this session, Dr. Hone discusses the concept of post-traumatic growth. Humans usually have varying responses to extreme adversity. More often than not, following traumatic experiences, people fall into depression and post-traumatic stress. But after a while, people are innately able to cope - undergoing post-traumatic growth. This session elaborates on the concept of PTG and how it’s within reach of everyone.
Les 7
Loving Acceptance
In this final lesson, Dr. Hone talks about how grief is a byproduct of love and how the fact that they're gone, doesn't mean that we should stop loving them or thinking about them. Understanding that love never has to die is a major advance in the modern outlook on grief. This crucial perspective of loving acceptance is the crux of the last in this seven-day course.

Recente Beoordelingen

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LJ
LJ
June 2, 2025
I recommended this course to anyone working through or with grief or trauma. The lessons provide practical and easy to apply tools. It reinforced that power is in my lane and although loss is inevitable, suffering is optional.
Marnie
Marnie
August 13, 2024
Thank you so much. This has been very helpful. I recommend this to anyone grieving regardless of circumstance : death, divorce, etc..
Senga
Senga
August 18, 2023
I highly recommend Dr Lucy's course. Very comforting and helpful. 💖🙏🕊🦋🙏
Liz Braun
Liz
August 9, 2023
Great course… helpful information… secondary losses… appropriate description.
Elizabeth Warnock
Elizabeth
June 22, 2023
I lost my mother during the height of the covid lockdowns and sadly was unable to farewell her in person as I live on the other side of the world. Add to this a seriously dysfunctional family dynamic which meant instead of helping me grieve, they made it worse. I found this course to be a lifesaver to help me emerge on the other side of the...
Kath
Kath
April 20, 2023
What a wonderful course! Gave me lots of clarity! Feel like I’m on the right emotional journey. And with support such as these courses, I know I will come out the other end ok. Some ups and downs on the way, but I can see the rainbow at the end. I also wanted to say that I’m glad that I’m not crazy for not wanting to forget my loved one and...
Trina Pecina
Trina
February 25, 2023
Thank you for this work. It was exactly what I needed at this time in my grief journey. ❤️
Francesca
Francesca
January 12, 2023
Thank you for such a helpful and practically valuable course. I work with bereaved children, teenagers and families and use the techniques you describe. Elizabeth Kübler-Ross worked with terminally ill people and her stages of grief model was what she observed with those patients. It is not a universal grief model she promoted, but it is how we...
Karen
Karen
October 10, 2022
Most helpful and I’m so appreciative of finding this course only weeks after losing the love
Loren King
Loren
September 4, 2022
I found so much healing through this course. Lucy’s wisdom and practical application of the principles of resilient grieving has been life changing for me. So grateful for her sharing her journey with us.
Rebecca
Rebecca
June 27, 2022
Wonderful course, easy segments to focus on when the mind and heart are in turmoil. Highly recommended. I see you and the light within you. Be as well as possible, now and always. 🤲🏻❤️🤲🏻
Julie
Julie
May 16, 2022
Thank you. This has been one of the most important things I have done since losing my sister 19 months ago.
Judy
Judy
May 9, 2022
So kind and helpful to know that I am not alone in what I am going through
Joyce Nowak
Joyce
April 8, 2022
She helped me understand my grieving. Why was I able to function when others talked of crying nonstop? I had gone right into self care mode something I had learned already in my support group related to living with a child with the disease of addiction. I had built resilience already and that has helped me on this journey of grief. I right...
Louisa Burford
Louisa
March 11, 2022
This course has been so very helpful for me in the early days after my dear dad’s passing. Thank you so much, Dr Lucy, for sharing your knowledge, and for showing us the way forward as we come to terms with loss and grief. Deepest gratitude and so much love from my heart to yours 🙏💛
Angela
Angela
January 16, 2022
Brilliant, easy to listen to and process. My husband passed away over 6 years ago and I still learned new things about my grief. I will likely listen again. 💕✨
Debra
Debra
November 12, 2021
My husband died very recently, and I immediately looked on Insight Timer for a course on grieving. This one called to me. It has helped so much. I highly recommend this course. Thank you.
Eddy
Eddy
October 29, 2021
This course help me to grieve and accept the feeling of loss and doing the things my husband and I love to do. Thank you very much.
Debby
Debby
September 12, 2021
Thank you very much for your work and this course. I also just bought your book and I'm reading it. Living on this earth without our younger son the past 2 yeats is painful beyond description. While I have been using some of the tools, others that you suggested have given me some hope. I am grateful to you and your sweet Abi for that. 🙏🏼💜
Lindsay Wagner
Lindsay
July 1, 2021
Powerful, affirming, evidence-based information shared in a way that was easy to digest. Highly recommend.

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