Why Narcissists Hoover And Idealize You

This cycle of hoovering and idealizing is a common tactic used by narcissists to maintain their supply of attention and admiration, also known as narcissistic supply. Narcissists thrive on the attention and validation of others and will go to great lengths to ensure that they continue to receive it.
By hoovering and idealizing their past partners, they can ensure that they have a steady supply of attention and admiration, even if they have moved on to other relationships.

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OMG I experienced this pattern in my past relationship but fell for it every time. I thought that I was addicted to him. I also thought that he really loved me...only me. Now I know that he only loved himself.