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How To Know If That's Love?

by Juan Pablo Castañeda

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Knowing how to identify love when you see it in life, in others, in opportunities and above all in yourself, is the key to start choosing it constantly, choosing love allows you to experience it in your reality.

LoveSelf AwarenessManifestationIntuitionSelf EmpowermentEmotional ClarityFearActionRealityLove Vs FearAligned ActionCurrent Vs Desired Reality

Transcript

For most of us,

There is a gap between our current reality and our desired reality.

The reality that we long for,

A reality filled with love,

Abundance,

Joy,

Purpose,

Meaning.

Not only in the inside,

But also our external reality is reflecting that decision back to us.

All the results,

All the external things in our life is reflecting our choice of who we are.

So in our current reality,

It's like if we're having a ball of potential,

Like you know you deserve,

You know you are worthy,

And you know you are capable of manifesting more love,

Manifesting more abundance,

More joy,

More health,

More vitality,

More meaning.

It's like you have the potential here,

You're waiting,

You want,

Right?

And in the right hand,

We have a desired reality,

When it's like we're completely satisfied,

And we have a mirror,

And the mirror is reflecting that satisfaction back to us.

Like the mirror represents the external results,

External things,

Like your car is reflecting your decision,

Your partner is reflecting your decision.

Because external reality is always only a reflection of our internal universe,

Right?

So how can we start closing the gap?

How can we start actually living our desired reality?

Well what I come to tell you in this video is this wonderful tool,

And for me,

I can tell you with all my heart,

That the more capable you are to see with your eyes,

And to recognize with your intuition and with your heart,

What is love,

And what is fear,

The more able you are to experience that reality of your dreams.

Because sometimes we get confused,

And we confuse fear with love.

We do things out of fear,

Thinking we are doing them out of love.

Not only in ourselves,

We also see that in the people surrounding us,

Loving us.

So every action,

Every thought,

Every emotion,

Every belief,

Every decision,

We get to choose love.

Every decision has consequences,

Every moment has consequences.

If you're thinking out of love,

If you're believing out of love,

From love,

If you're taking action from a place of love,

Instead of from a place of fear,

That matters.

And that is how you create the desired reality.

So stop confusing what is love and what is fear.

When you see fear in people,

In words,

You identify it,

And then that's the way,

That's the key so that you don't get pulled into that frequency.

So that you can start having a stronger and stronger magnetic field,

Filled with love,

With your own energy.

By having this strong magnetic field around you,

You are free to continue living in more and more and more love,

In what you do choose,

In what does make you feel good,

Makes you feel good.

So what is love?

So that we don't get confused.

Love opens,

Always.

Love expands,

Always.

Love remains.

Love emits.

Love shares,

Reveals.

Love heals.

What a wonderful sensation.

What a wonderful decision to choose love.

What a wonderful thing to know.

Because we're taking action and we're deciding,

Thinking that that is the best,

But it's actually not allowing me to open more,

Not allowing me to expand more,

Not allowing me to heal more.

It's actually hurting me.

So what is fear?

Fear closes,

Field contracts,

Captures,

Flees,

Accumulates,

Hides,

And harms,

Hurts.

Fear hurts.

So sometimes we're like,

Okay,

This is hurting me a little,

This is contract,

This is making me feel contracted,

But I love her.

No.

And she loves me.

No.

This is something loving.

No,

It is not.

If it is not allowing you to expand,

If it is not allowing you to open more,

To emit,

To remain,

To heal,

Then it's not love.

Healing.

Loving.

It's easy to identify because it gives you a sensation of joy,

A sensation of,

Ah,

Yes,

Yes,

This is love.

I know it.

I want this.

If something is not giving you that,

It's just not love.

And sometimes we know,

Right?

Okay,

This is not love,

But we still choose it.

That is how we get stuck in our current reality instead of stepping into our desired reality.

The way that you know that you're stepping into your desired reality is because you're gaining awareness.

You're having more and more clarity.

All right,

I had this awful experience,

And now I have clarity that I don't like these kind of experiences.

Gaining awareness is how you gain power.

Because now you are aware,

You have the power to don't choose that.

Stop choosing that.

Know that you are able.

The second evidence that you're stepping into your desired reality is when you're taking action,

Aligned action.

When you're making things,

You're doing things,

You're getting things done.

How does it feel to take aligned action?

The evidence is that you feel so satisfied.

How can you know if you're taking action out of fear or if you're remaining,

Even though time is passing by,

You're remaining in your current reality because you're feeling self-doubt.

You are doubting your power.

You are doubting your freaking power.

That's when you really stay in your current reality.

And you feel impotence.

You feel resistance.

And the coolest and most important thing for me in this video is that your desired reality by definition can only be experienced in reality because it's your desired reality.

Reality is only here and now.

You cannot walk all the way to your desired reality because it can only be here and now.

So every time you're taking action to get there,

Because that is what you desire,

That makes it your desired reality.

Every step you take towards your desired reality is your desired reality because that is what you desire,

To step,

To go there,

Right?

So we can never experience our desired reality in the future.

Because it is not a destination.

It is a frequency of achievement,

Of having,

Of abundance,

Not possessing but enjoying more than enough is here,

Loved,

And you're feeling you're loved.

It is a destination.

Your desired reality is here and now.

It is in every step.

And you knew,

You knew that I'm,

I'm just reminding you,

I hope you are experiencing now a little bit of that energy of your desired reality and that you get inspired every day more and more.

Yeah.

Go there knowing that you're experiencing it already.

I wish you all the love,

All the blessings and all the purpose in your life.

Namaste.

Meet your Teacher

Juan Pablo CastañedaMexico City, CDMX, Mexico

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