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Boost Happiness & Lower Stress In 30 Days
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Corso di 30 giorni

Boost Happiness & Lower Stress In 30 Days

Di Vanessa Loder

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This course is for anyone who wants to receive the benefits of neuroscience, ancient wisdom and mindfulness to help you increase happiness and lower stress. This program is great for beginners, and it can also be used as a toolkit for more experienced meditators who want to experience a variety of techniques and practices in one 30 day period. Over the next 30 days, you’ll learn to rewire your brain for happiness, and shift out of the anxiety and overwhelm that can be our default in today’s busy world. By the end of this journey, you’ll find that you can more easily connect with the deep wisdom within and develop a peaceful and positive outlook. The intention of this course is to offer you a powerful toolkit you can come back to time and time again when you find yourself stuck, overwhelmed, anxious or depressed, and you want to feel even more joy and calm in your life. This course will teach you how to use neuroscience and the latest brain research to release the fears and self-doubt blocking you from achieving your greatest potential, improve focus and productivity, cultivate joy and gratitude, experience more compassion and practice forgiveness so you can release the past and move forward with your life. You’ll also learn how to manifest your ideal life using a visualization technique taught at Stanford Business School. The format of this course alternates between a fireside chat (talk) on a specific topic followed by a guided meditation on that same topic the following day. You’ll leave this course with a toolkit you can use for the rest of your life to steer your ship into more calm and joyful waters, no matter what storm is raging in the outside world.
Vanessa Loder is a world-renowned keynote speaker and leadership development facilitator whose work centers around expanding the consciousness of individuals and the planet at large. Vanessa's work has been featured in Fast Company, Forbes, the Huffington Post and Glamour magazine. Her TEDx talk "How to Lean In Without Burning Out" has over...

Lezione 1
Fireside Chat: Cultivate Joy
Did you know that you can actually train your brain to have more joyful, positive thoughts? This can have a lasting, positive impact on your neurology. Today’s fireside chat talks about neuroplasticity and how you can rewire your brain to experience greater joy and fulfillment in your life, no matter the circumstances. The fireside chat is a companion audio that goes along with the guided meditations to deepen your understanding of each topic.
Lezione 2
Guided Meditation: Cultivate Joy
Today’s guided meditation will support you in savoring even more joy in your daily life by focusing on the good. You'll practice four steps to take in the good, based in neuroscience. First, you'll help positive events become positve experiences. Second, you'll savor the experience by extending it through time and space. Third, you'll practice soaking it into your brain, heart, and every cell of your body. And fourth, you'll fill the hurt with love by sensing this positive experience is going down deep into old wounds and hurt places inside you and soothing them.
Lezione 3
Fireside Chat: Use Your Breath To Relax
Today’s fireside chat will teach you how to use your breath to activate the parasympathetic nervous system. This parasympathetic breathing technique will cause you to feel relaxed, peaceful, and calm. It’s super easy, and you can do this technique anywhere in less than a minute! As Rick Hanson says, "Unfortunately, our modern go-go-go culture pushes people into sympathetic nervous system overdrive with few opportunities for sustained parasympathetic recovery." Tomorrow's guided meditation will help you cultivate parasympathetic recovery.
Lezione 4
Guided Meditation: Use Your Breath To Relax
Today’s guided meditation will support you in practicing the technique you learned about yesterday. You’ll be using your breath to relax as you activate the parasympathetic nervous system. The parasympathetic nervous system conserves energy in your body and is responsible for ongoing, mellow, steady-state activity. The feeling of it is relaxation, often with a sense of contentment.
Lezione 5
Fireside Chat: The Power Of Self-Compassion
In today’s fireside chat, you’ll learn PhD Kristin Neff’s cutting-edge research on self-compassion which includes how to turn your inner critic into your inner coach, the surprising negative consequences of self-esteem (Hint: it has to do with narcissism), why self-compassion is a more effective and lasting solution than self-esteem and how to cultivate a more compassionate inner voice.
Lezione 6
Guided Meditation: The Power Of Self-Compassion
Today’s guided meditation is one of my favorite practices. Have you noticed there’s a voice inside your head, and it’s not always nice? We all have an inner critic telling us we’re not good enough, we’ll never make it, we don’t look good. When things get tough, it’s tempting to give up and cave in to that critical voice. The antidote to this inner self-flagellation is self-compassion. After today’s meditation, you’ll know that you are not alone in your struggles, and that you are loved.
Lezione 7
Fireside Chat: Lower Anxiety & Stop The Worry Cycle
We’ve all been there - lying in bed at night with your mind racing, thinking of all the things you didn’t get done that day or all the things you still need to get done tomorrow. Ruminating or getting stuck in a cycle of worry is exhausting. Sometimes, worry can show up disguised as “planning”, but it isn’t productive or useful. In today’s fireside chat, you’ll learn why the physiological impact of ruminating is so destructive and how you can get out of the worry cycle with greater ease.
Lezione 8
Guided Meditation: Lower Anxiety & Stop the Worry Cycle
Today’s guided meditation will help you lower anxiety and stop the worry cycle. You’ll learn to be more gentle with your thoughts as you give yourself permission, just for this little while, to simply relax. After the practice, you'll feel a sense of calm and ease.
Lezione 9
Fireside Chat: Increase Energy On Demand
Wouldn’t it be nice to have more energy? In this fireside chat, you’ll assess your current energy level and get clear on what you need to prioritize to increase it. Sleep, nutrition, the people around you - there are always ways to improve your energy. Most of the time, we know what we need to do and yet we don’t do it. Today, you’ll learn a technique to improve energy on demand and gain new insights into what’s preventing you from optimizing your current energy.
Lezione 10
Guided Meditation: Increase Energy On Demand
Today’s guided meditation will help you increase your energy, so you can show up as your biggest, brightest self.
Lezione 11
Fireside Chat: Improve Focus & Increase Productivity
Today, you’ll be learning research-backed tools to improve focus and increase productivity. During this fireside chat, you’ll learn my favorite productivity tool, along with some tips and tricks to be focused and present with those you love.
Lezione 12
Guided Meditation: Improve Focus & Increase Productivity
Whether you’re constantly distracted at work or with your kids, today’s focusing technique will help you harness your awareness and channel it towards those things that matter most to you. This guided practice, inspired by Robert Fritz, will help you improve concentration and feel increased aliveness and a sense of calm and balance.
Lezione 13
Fireside Chat: Feel Deeply Grateful
Research has shown those who practice gratitude tend to be happier and less depressed. As you experience positive emotions like gratitude and compassion, your awareness broadens and your creativity and problem-solving capacities will increase, making you more effective at whatever you choose to do. As Jack Kornfield says, “If we see the world as sacred, which is an expression of the spiritual life, then gratitude follows immediately and naturally.”
Lezione 14
Guided Meditation: Feel Deeply Grateful
In today’s meditation, we are turning our attention inward, focusing on cultivating gratitude. Today’s practice will help you feel deeply grateful for all the good things you have in your life. Use this practice to let go of stress and feel greater joy, inner peace, and a deep appreciation for all that you are, all that you have and all that you are in the process of becoming.
Lezione 15
Fireside Chat: Use The Law Of Attraction To Manifest Your Ideal Life
We live in a busy culture where people are running a million miles a minute and only a few of us take the time to pause and ask, “What is it I really want?” Clarity doesn’t magically appear. You must cultivate it. If you want to be thoughtful about planning the next phase of your life, so that it’s fulfilling and meaningful for you and your loved ones, you’ll appreciate today’s fireside chat and tomorrow’s guided meditation! Today, you’ll learn how to clarify your ideal vision, set inspiring goals, tune into a deeper wisdom that knows the “right” path for you, create a three-year vision for your life, and get inspired about the possibilities for you moving forward.
Lezione 16
Guided Meditation: Use The Law Of Attraction To Manifest Your Ideal Life
It's important to dedicate time and space for inspiration and reflection. Today, you’ll be guided through a process to create a three year vision for your life and expand what you believe is possible. What are you waiting for? Your future self is waiting for you under a moonlit sky…
Lezione 17
Fireside Chat: Overcome Fear & Self-Doubt
Fear and self-doubt are a natural part of progress. Learning to let go of fear and self-doubt is a critical life skill. No one ever accomplished anything truly amazing without facing their fears. If you want to have greater meaning and fulfillment, learning how to overcome your fear is vital. In today’s fireside chat, you’ll learn that while your fear might continue to crash the party, it doesn’t have to play hostess.
Lezione 18
Guided Meditation: Overcome Fear & Self-Doubt
Fear can stop you from taking a chance, falling in love, asking for a promotion, and putting yourself in the spotlight. In short, fear can stop you from living your greatest life. Today you will be taught a gentle practice to befriend and release your fears and doubts, so you can get on living the life of your dreams.
Lezione 19
Fireside Chat: Forgiveness
Forgiveness is not always easy to cultivate and yet it is a necessary part of our healing and ability to come back into wholeness with ourselves. When we hold onto a wound or a hurt from someone else, the pain stays with us. When we’re able to release the past and forgive others, and ourselves, we are set free. In today’s fireside chat, I share a deeply personal and raw story about my own experience with forgiveness.
Lezione 20
Guided Meditation: Forgiveness
In Buddhist psychology, forgiveness is understood as a way to end suffering; to bring dignity and harmony to our life. Forgiveness is fundamentally for our own sake, for our own mental health. It is a way to let go of the pain we carry. In today's meditative and forgiveness practice, we start by recognizing that we have all betrayed and hurt others, just as we have knowingly or unknowingly been harmed by them. It is inevitable in this human realm. By extending and receiving forgiveness, we can begin to experience redemption from our past.
Lezione 21
Fireside Chat: Surrender, Allow & Trust
Grasping or clinging to something you desperately want leads to suffering. Resisting what you don’t want also leads to suffering. How can we surrender and allow things to happen, while also taking action to steer our lives toward our desires? That’s what we’ll be talking about today. In today’s fireside chat, you’ll learn ways to open yourself to greater wisdom and guidance. I will also talk about how my daughter’s food poisoning gave me an important lesson and why clinging and resisting are two sides of the same coin (hint: both lead to suffering). We will also learn a mantra you can use to let go of control and help us trust that the Universe has your back.
Lezione 22
Guided Meditation: Surrender, Allow & Trust
This morning meditation practice will help you connect with your inner guidance as you ask, “What would you have me do today? Where would you have me go? What would you have me say and to whom?” You’ll learn a process to Surrender, Allow, and Trust (S.A.T.) the Universe or God to move in you, as you, and through you. After listening to this practice, you’ll be more connected to your intuition and better able to accept and surrender to life’s circumstances. You’ll also cultivate a deeper trust that the Universe has your back and that good things are coming your way.
Lezione 23
Fireside Chat: Increase Confidence & Live Your Truth
Today, you’ll be learning how to increase confidence by letting go of “should” and connecting with your inner source. Do you second-guess your inner impulses? Have you ignored what you wanted in favor of what’s popular or chosen the approval of others over your own needs? That’s okay. We’ve all done that. You can make a different choice to honor and follow your truth in any situation, big or small, and today’s talk will help you do just that.
Lezione 24
Guided Meditation: Increase Confidence & Live Your Truth
Today’s guided meditation will support you in trusting your deeper knowing and living with greater clarity and conviction. We were conditioned from a young age to please other people. This need to be liked is part of our wiring as human beings and is a basic survival mechanism. Yet, over time, it can erode your sense of self. Today’s practice will help you come home to yourself and your truth.
Lezione 25
Fireside Chat: Feel More Love
Have you ever loved a child or an animal so much that it physically hurt? If you’re a parent, it’s part of the territory. That’s what I call fierce love. Today and tomorrow you'll be practicing loving yourself fiercely. Loving kindness practice has been shown to reduce migraines, quiet the inner critical voice, reduce depressive symptoms, improve self-compassion, and increase positive emotions up to three months post intervention. Studies have also shown that regularly practicing loving kindness can strengthen your capacity for empathy and improve relationships. Tomorrow, you'll be receiving all these benefits and more during the guided meditation.
Lezione 26
Guided Meditation: Feel More Love
Today's practice was designed to cultivate loving kindness towards ourselves, those around us and close to us, and all sentient beings everywhere. Give yourself the love you deserve and desire with today’s guided practice.
Lezione 27
Fireside Chat: Heal The Past, Feel Supported
Do you ever wish you could wave a magic wand and redo the past? Often, when we feel pain in our current life, it’s because something has reminded us of an unhealed wound from the past. We want the people in our current lives to fill these holes and help us feel better. The good news is that you are capable of offering yourself the healing you most need.
Lezione 28
Guided Meditation: Heal The Past, Feel Supported
Today’s guided practice will help you revisit a painful experience from your past, and write a new script. You'll be visiting your inner child and allowing him or her to release painful energy. Then,you'll go to a healing, cozy place where you are loved and accepted unconditionally. This is a powerful healing practice that you can use anytime you want to comfort yourself and heal past wounds.
Lezione 29
Fireside Chat: Rewire Your Brain For Positivity
In today’s fireside chat, you’ll learn some of the most cutting-edge research that demonstrates our ability to influence not only our brains, but our genetics, DNA, and physical healing with our thoughts and beliefs. Epigenetics has now shown that we can turn different genes off and on, and we can impact our genetic structure by modifying how we see ourselves and what we believe. It’s wild stuff.
Lezione 30
Guided Meditation: Rewire Your Brain For Positivity
Today’s guided meditation was taught to me by energy healer Elizabeth Furest. In this practice, you’ll learn how to zap unhelpful neurons in your brain, and build new neural pathways to expand love, kindness, humor, and whatever value you like! I’ve been going back to this practice so often that I wanted to share it with you all today.

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Carolyn
April 28, 2025
I loved this course! It was full of useful strategies and practical ways to make life better! I often listened to Vanessa’s fireside chats twice, and I took notes daily. I will return again and again. Wonderful course!
Rachel
February 5, 2025
A really useful collection of meditation tools. I appreciate that each technique has a talk and a guided session separately, to really experience and solidify the teachings. There are several I am looking forward to exploring more deeply. Thank you!
Sandra
October 20, 2024
Thank you for a wonderful course Vanessa! I really enjoyed it and often listened to a couple of days or more in a row. Loved your talk about putting fear in the backseat of a car like a little kid. Giving it a hug or whatever it needed but no control. It can never be the driver. Also your 25 karat gold meditations. I’m a positive person but I...
Christy
March 19, 2024
Great course-thank you. I have been meditating for many years, yet learned so many new skills that I am going to start right back over at day 1!
Steven
July 24, 2023
Excellent resource of tools to use daily in order to enhance life's experience. Thank you. Namaste 🙏
Abhilash
November 3, 2022
Really appreciate the positivity in the lessons, truly felt like we were just hanging out together. Wonderful course with funny, engaging and happy content spanning a wide range of topics.
Narelle
September 5, 2022
This is the best course I've done on insite timer. Loved it. Thank you.
Cj
February 15, 2022
I will definitely revisit this course and adopt many of the techniques shared. I absolutely loved this format— alternating each fireside chat with a companion meditation! Thank you for your candor, Vanessa. Sharing your personal stories as well as your knowledge made each pairing relatable and memorable!
Gwen
December 22, 2021
This was really a beautiful experience, sending you so much gratitude for a lighter spirit focusing on positivity and prosperity 🙏❤️
Lara
September 3, 2021
Loved this course!
Jan
August 22, 2021
Wonderful course. Set me up to keep going in my practice . Thankyou for all you do Vanessa. Love and blessings to you 💕🙏🏽
Janel
June 24, 2021
Always so peaceful and a helpful reset 🙌💜
Bryan
May 9, 2021
I really enjoyed this course Vanessa answered all my questions with very thoughtful responses. Vanessa is genuine and truly cares about her students. Her lessons where very informative. I felt like she was a friend that I knew for years 😀. Thank you so much Vanessa and I can’t wait for your next course.
Cooki
March 31, 2021
This is such a wonderful course. I found so many useful tools within it. The last meditation in particular was magical. Thank you so much!
Lulu0405
February 21, 2021
Amazing!! Love how genuine you are!
Mieke
February 14, 2021
Thanks for this wonderful course! I meditate daily for a while and I still learned so many new insights through your course! Thank you! I hope you will continue to make such great courses and meditations on insight timer!!! Bless you!
Lisa
February 7, 2021
Another soul stirring, powerfully healing course from Vanessa. The talk and meditation on forgiveness was moving and helpful. I loved every single day. Thank you.
Liz
February 5, 2021
Wow! What a great course! I learned so much about the brain and myself!
Warren
January 15, 2021
Great course! Fireside chats full of helpful information, ideas and examples which were then integrated into the accompanying meditations. Thanks for sharing your personal and deeply emotional experiences.🙏
Kathryn
January 10, 2021
I really enjoyed the structure of “fireside chat” on one day followed by a guided meditation meditation on the next. The course addresses a broad range of topics - offering insights and tools for many concerns. I really appreciated and benefitted from Vanessa’s openness about her personal experiences and “humanness”.🙏

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