Stop Compare Yourself With Others: You Are Unique

we use to compare oursefl and stay in an energy of lack instead, look within, and appreciate your authentic self.
This little talk is just to inspire you to be more within and may get inspiration from the others but recognize that everybody has his own path

Transcript

Namaste,

Beautiful people.

I'm Fabi,

Free happy soul.

And today I wanted to talk about an important topic,

That is comparison.

If you find yourself compare with the others very often,

So maybe this is for you.

So what's happened is that generally we tend to observe the others,

Compare ourselves with the others,

And maybe feel a little bit less of this person.

And this is very harmful for our mind.

Why we should not compare ourselves with the others?

Because everybody is unique.

What you have is unique to you.

So you are a beautiful person,

The person that you look,

That maybe you compare with that,

Is a beautiful person too,

But everybody has his own journey.

So it's okay to take inspiration from the others,

So like in a positive way we compare ourselves because maybe we want to achieve something,

Or we see that this person has achieved something that we want,

But also think that you have in your backpack a lot of things to carry that maybe this person doesn't have,

Or has like a different backpack.

So what I mean with that,

That the person is made of a lot of aspects.

Family,

Friends,

Economic situation,

Also genetic,

Or quality that somebody has.

And we need to find our strength,

Our power,

And work on this.

So let's say that,

For example,

In a business way,

We see a person that has a lot of clients.

But how did this person arrive to have this lot of clients?

And maybe think that this person,

In his life or her life,

Had other kind of facilities that bring him or her in that point.

So instead of looking for what he is doing,

Look to you.

Okay,

I put my effort,

And today I have only five clients.

So these five clients maybe are the result of a lot of work.

So it's good sometimes to stop yourself and watch also where you're coming from,

And how you arrived there.

I give you a personal example of it.

When I was younger,

I was very scared to travel.

And when I started to travel,

These things empowered me a lot.

But if I compare myself with another person that maybe was traveling with me,

And this person has always traveled in their life,

Or has the support of their family,

Or has a better financial situation than me,

For him it's easy to travel.

For me it was difficult.

We have the same result,

But the road that I made to arrive there was longer for me.

And I need to appreciate this road.

And I need to appreciate this change that I've made step by step.

To become the person that I am.

So instead of comparing yourself with the others,

Compare yourself with your previous self.

Notice all your steps that you have done.

Appreciate the steps that you have.

And really,

Find what is your own gift,

Your own quality,

Your own authenticity.

You are different from anyone else.

So maybe you have some power,

Some quality,

Some gift,

That you need to work more than I wanted to be like him because of.

So get inspiration,

But start from inside.

Analyze yourself,

Watch your point of strength,

And work on them.

And every time that you find yourself compared with the others,

Watch back to your step.

And appreciate the steps that you make that bring you where you are now.

So those two things are super important.

And I wanted to add another thing.

When we compare ourselves with the others,

We also don't know the life or the real life of this person.

Because maybe he has success with clients,

But maybe he has to struggle with the love life,

With family,

With friends.

So we don't know.

Because everyone of us has some things to work on,

And some things that maybe are more easy.

So that's why I think that we should never,

Never,

Never compare with the others.

Because everybody is unique.

He has his unique gift.

He has his unique journey.

He has his unique struggle.

So this is what I wanted to say today.

For me,

Because I also think that when we compare ourselves,

We are in an energy of lacking.

Because we want something that we don't have,

Maybe yet.

And this energy of lack slows down our vibration.

Meanwhile if we observe what we have,

What we are,

We are in an energy of abundance.

So we also can grow more,

Can increase our frequency,

Our happiness.

Because when we are in an energy of lack,

There is always something missing.

And this brings us to frustration,

Unsatisfaction,

Sadness,

Hunger.

And all these emotions are okay to be there,

But they don't help us to grow.

So instead of staying in that vibration,

Take a moment.

Observe who you are.

Appreciate all the parts of yourself.

Take a moment.

Recognize your journey and where you come from.

The starting point that brings you here.

And take a moment to just connect with the real you.

And find from inside what you really want.

Because maybe sometimes you think that you want something because you are carried from yourself,

Because you have seen something that you like.

But then we need to go within,

Understand what we want,

Understand our gift,

Understand our path,

And increase the vibration of abundance,

And manifest and live of our true will,

Our true nature.

So I hope that this little speech helped you somehow.

Let me know your thoughts.

And I hope to see you in the next episode.

Om Ari Om.

Namaste.