Divine Masculine Healing

How much do you really know about your father and his lineage? What thoughts come up when you think about your father? Together, let’s explore into father's wounds and its impact in your life.

This is extracted from my 21 days course "Inner Union: Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies"

Transcript

Hey there,

Welcome to Angel Transmission Podcast,

Where you'll hear real-life stories about the angels,

Inspirational messages from the angels,

And tips and tricks on how to connect with your angels.

I'm your host,

Alice Hadi,

Angel healer and spiritual coach.

Without further ado,

Let's dive deep into today's episode,

Shall we?

So here's the thing that what nobody tells you about miracles.

If you are on social media,

You know,

Like scrolling through your feed,

You know,

Like it seems that everyone there is living the perfect life,

Isn't it?

Like everyone on social media is like,

She's making seven figures this year overnight,

Or like,

She has like the sexiest man alive as the husband,

And she is like building an empire and having the perfect body,

Like just everything seems perfect and easy for all these people.

Like,

It seems that everything is working out for them,

But why does it not work out for you?

Can you relate?

But the thing is,

Whatever you see over there that nobody actually really shows you in full transparency is,

They do not show you the behind the scenes.

Well,

Some of them do,

But most of those people you see do not show you the behind the scenes,

Especially when it comes to the healing work,

The deep,

Deep healing work.

Now,

Don't get me wrong.

When I say healing,

It doesn't necessarily mean that your healing or breakthrough or transformation has to be dramatic or like the dark night of the soul.

Not at all.

Like it can be easy,

It can be simple,

It can be gentle,

But the work needs to be done.

There is no quick fix,

There is no spiritual bypassing.

The healing work needs to be done.

That is the key to manifesting miracles.

Miracles essentially is a shift of perception from fear to love,

According to A Course in Miracles.

And it takes you to remember who you truly are.

Look,

You are born with love,

But fear is what you learned and pick up as you grow up.

Does it make sense?

You are born with love,

But fear is what you learned,

Which means you can unlearn fear.

Whatever conditioning that the society has conditioned you,

Your parents have conditioned you,

Your teachers,

Your friends,

Everything right from the childhood all the way to adulthood,

All of this can be unlearned.

Question is,

Are you willing?

As you unlearn all the fears that you have learned and releasing all these fears and transforming and transmuting into love,

That's when miracles show up like really easily and effortlessly.

And part of returning to love requires you to do the healing.

And today I would love to talk a little bit more on healing the divine masculine and the divine feminine.

Especially when it comes to topics like relationships,

Like manifesting the man in your life,

Manifesting the money,

The success,

A lot of these are related to the divine masculine energy as well as the feminine.

Like the divine masculine are essentially related to your father lineage,

Like your ancestors on your father's side,

And then the divine feminine will be on your mother's side.

So I also want to clarify that when I say mother and father,

It basically represents like the closest father figure for you.

It may be your real father or maybe your stepfather or maybe just the father figure that you have in your life.

It doesn't have to literally be your birth father,

That's what I'm trying to say.

The same applies for your mother.

So when it comes to manifesting man,

Miracles and money,

It requires you to come into the sacred union of your yin and yang as you return to the masculine feminine unity into oneness and into divine love.

So as you dive deep into healing the divine masculine,

You'll start to heal a lot of the wounds that you might have got from the father's side,

Like what we call the father's wound.

An example of the father's wound would be like,

I'm not good enough and I'm not worthy enough.

I have to rely on a man for support.

Man is my provider,

Man is my.

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So I'll share a personal story of what my father told me.

So growing up,

Having an Asian background,

My father is very patriarchy and very traditional in that sense that men are better than women and men are more superior than women.

I remember as a child,

I always wanted to be like my father because I saw him build his business and I watched it grow as a child and I thought it's such an amazing thing.

How cool is that?

So I always wanted to be an entrepreneur just like him.

And remember that I've told him more than one occasion,

Be it as a child,

As a teenager and even as a young adult about my dreams of having this empire and being this business woman and so on.

And every single time,

And I really mean like every single time,

Without fail,

This is what he told me.

Oh,

Like,

You know,

Just marry a rich man and don't stress so much about like working so hard and making so much money.

And I was always shocked with that statement,

No matter how many times he told me.

Because the thing is,

He said it kind of like half jokingly and kiddingly.

But we kind of all know that it is not really a joke.

Does it make sense?

Like,

I'm like,

Come on,

Like,

Come on,

Dad,

Like,

It can't be that.

So that's my personal example of what my father told me.

While you know,

Like,

This is not about like blaming my father or like making my father wrong.

It is just sharing this story to shine a perspective on you that this is what the impact our father can have in our life.

So although my father said that to me and that statement alone did not crush my dreams so to speak,

Like I still believe in my dream,

I still go for it.

So but it does leave an imprint in my mind,

In my soul,

Like a conditioning.

And later on as an adult,

When I do my inner healing,

And looking back,

I started to realize where all these like father's wounds that I have,

Right,

That is limiting me right now as an adult,

Like,

I started to have a thought like the man is more superior,

I need to seek a permission from man,

I need to seek approval from man,

That I need to rely on the man for support and strength because he said that marriage arrangement will solve the problem,

Right?

Get what I'm saying?

So all of this conditioning are what is limiting me as an adult.

It is blocking me on making money on my own because then I thought I needed a man to do that.

And it's also blocking me to have a healthy relationship with another man because then I probably over expect a man to do things that,

Like I impose it on a man that a man should provide for me because like my father said so.

So all of these are very toxic and unhealthy behavior that I pick up as a child unknowingly and it manifests and it shows up for me not just in my work,

Not just in my finances,

But in my relationship with men too.

So that is how like what our father said or did not say or do will have an impact on our conditioning as an adult and impacting not just our relationship with men,

Money,

Love and just basically about who we are and how we show up in life.

And that is just like one example of what he said.

Can you imagine if I dive even deeper into 100 other statements he said and all of everything he ever said to me and did to me on the leg of as I grow up?

That is basically like everything in my mind that I've been running around like with this imprint without knowing.

So it's really important for you to bring consciousness and to shine light on this father's womb.

On all of the things that you have picked up as a child from your father's and his lineage that is not even yours to carry.

All the belief system that is totally not true.

Like whatever you think you need to be in order to please your father,

To succumb to his standard or to meet into his expectation.

That is all not true.

That is not who you truly are.

You are not your mini father.

You are not your mini mother.

You are definitely not what your ancestors expect you to be.

You are who you are as uniquely you.

Remember what I said at the beginning,

You are born with love.

Fear is what you learn.

So your role is to unlearn all this fear as you return to love.

So that is kind of like the divine masculine side of things.

And then we have then the divine feminine side which is then going more into the mother lineage and the mother womb.

I'm not going to explain too much on this due to time for today.

Today I'll focus more on the father side.

But like for the divine feminine,

It is equally important because that's where the art of receiving is about.

Like yes,

Once you manifest the man,

The money and the miracles and you work on all these father's womb,

Then the next question is are you allowing yourself to receive?

Are you allowing yourself to receive the greatness in your life,

To receive the support in your life,

To receive the love and just miracles in general?

Are you able to think that you are worthy enough or deserving enough to receive that without having to sacrifice,

Without having to work your ass off,

Without having to sell your soul,

Just allowing simply because you deserve it?

That's kind of like the feminine side of things of allowing you to receive.

So you can now see that by having this divine masculine and feminine together,

You are kind of working on healing on the father's womb and in doing that,

You also want to work on the healing the mother's womb to allow you to receive all the greatness.

And when you can reach a balance of these two,

You return to the wholeness or oneness of who you are and that is one of love.

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Lovelies.

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Reviews

A fresh perspective on healing the Father Wound. Elies, you’re blazing a trail for empowerment, not just for daughters. Your personal example brings clarity. Looking forward to learning more from you with your additional recordings. Thank you so much!

Phenomenal and insightful thank you so so much for sharing your wisdom 💖

Elies my spirit guides led me to you today to show me my core wound that I never thought as a core wound. Loved this! You have unlocked the keys for me. Blessings.