Beginnings

Buddha’s Map, Chapter 2, Beginnings, read by Danial Cohen: The Buddha’s instructions came in the form of meditation practices. One of the practices he talked about most has two aspects: loving-kindness (mettā) and insight (vipassanā). They aren’t separate or even sequential practices. Rather, both are done at the same time and are intended to be integrated together. The Buddha described this path in stages (or jhānas).

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Buddha's Map by Doug Kraft Read by Daniel Cohen Chapter 2 Beginnings Cavern Imagine living our entire lives deep inside a mountain. There are seemingly endless chambers and large caverns connected through intricate arrays of tunnels. There are beautiful rock formations and deep pools and many people living in the mountain. It's pleasant. Sometimes it feels a little confining in a vague way, But since we know nothing outside the caverns, The feeling passes. We have a friend who is nice, Though a little odd. In quiet moments he mentions something called trees. He says they're green, Like some of the rock pigments. Yet the green is deep and soft and delicate. Inside the green are brown pillars like stalagmites. These trees are both strong and soft. He says that if we travel through a certain set of caverns and tunnels, We can actually see them. We're intrigued. So one day we try to follow his directions. We get lost but find our way back home. We try again. Eventually we come around a turn and see an impossibly bright light. It's beautiful. It's delightful to look at. We sit and gaze. After our eyes adjust to the light, We see deep greens and browns within the light, And the greens sway a little. Excited, We go back and tell our friend. He listens carefully and says, Yes, Those are trees. You were looking outside the mountain through what's called a cave exit. Rather than just look at it, Why don't you try to walk toward it and see what happens? This hadn't occurred to us, But it's intriguing. So the next time we find this light, We walk out the cave exit. Now we see more trees. They are so much taller than we'd imagined. They rise up and up. It's dizzying. And above them, There's no rock ceiling. Just a tiny patch of, Well, Nothing. The nothing is a soft light blue. We can't quite focus on it, But it is beautiful. How can nothing be beautiful and have qualities? We go back and tell our friend, Who again listens carefully. Yes, He says. The trees are very tall, And that blue nothing is called sky. It's lovely to look at. But rather than stop there, Why don't you walk outside the cave exit to the right? You'll come to some water. Unlike the water in the cabin, This water moves. It's called river. Walking outside, We come to a wall of trees. The wall isn't rock solid. We can walk through it, Slipping between the brown pillars. Eventually we find the river. It's not what we'd imagined. Not only does it move, It lifts up and down and swirls. It's large and powerful. And the blue nothing above is even broader and lovelier. We go back and describe all this to our friend. He listens carefully and says, Yes, That was a river and sky. Now you're beginning to see the whole forest. You have gone far, And you can go further. As you're comfortable, Follow the river in the direction from which it flows. You'll come to what's called lake. It's huge and still, And the sky above it is even larger. Our friend guides us further and further, But he can't actually travel with us. We have to do that on our own. What we find along the way is never quite what we imagined from his descriptions. But when we try describing it ourselves, We can't find better words. It's just something one has to experience to know. Before we ventured outside the cabin, We could have read about trees, Rivers, Lakes, And sky. We might have trusted that they existed. We might have believed in them, Had faith they were real. But after experiencing them, We no longer believe in them. We know them. We've seen them directly. This makes belief and faith seem pale and irrelevant by comparison. Bootstrapping The path described by the Buddha unfolds in just this way. It begins with experiences we can have from within our caverns. But rather than sit and gaze at how marvelous they are, This path uses them as guides to show us where to go next. If we try to go from our mountain chambers directly to the lake, Travelling would be as difficult as walking through rock. By going to the cave exit, Finding the river, Then heading upstream, The journey becomes manageable. From the lake, We get a mountain glimpse that is inconceivable from deep inside the cave. In a similar way, The Buddha offered instructions on how to travel up to peaks that previously were unimaginable. The Buddha's instructions came in the form of meditation practices. One of the practices he talked about most has two aspects, Loving kindness, Metta, And insight, Vipassana. They aren't separate or even sequential practices. Rather, Both are done at the same time and are intended to be integrated together. In the section 3, Path, We'll go through these interconnected practices in detail. Like travelling up the mountain, Engaging them leads to various states and insights. The insights are available all the time, But they're more compelling the further we go. From inside the cave, We might understand how the river, Forest, And mountain interact together. Seeing them from the mountain slope, It's no longer an intellectual understanding, It's direct knowing. It's specific insights, Direct knowing of how things are that awaken us. The Buddha described this path in stages, Or jhanas. Each leads to insights and states of consciousness that make the next jhana more accessible. It's a bootstrapping, Using the power of each jhana to help propel us to the next. If we become fascinated with a particular stage and stay there, Progress stops. If we try to move too far ahead of ourselves, Progress is very difficult. But if we follow the path, It moves along more quickly than we may have imagined possible. His discovery of this route is part of what made the Buddha such a master guide. The second section of the book, Insights, Looks at the insights that reveal themselves along the way. Some of these, Like the view of the sky, Are discernible near the beginning. As we travel further, The insights become more nuanced. The sky we see from the cave entrance is real sky, Yet the view is obstructed by trees. The insights support our progress along the path, And our progress along the path supports these insights. The deeper our practice, The more we'll see. The more we see, The further we travel. Before learning in greater detail about the path, It would be helpful to start a meditation practice. If you have a meditation practice already, It would be helpful to see if any of the core teachings of the Buddha might help fine-tune it. Meditation practice gives an experiential basis from which we might better understand the insights. And later, The insights will help us better understand the stages of practice. Now let's shift from this metaphorical overview to tangible practice. Before meditating, It is helpful to find a relatively quiet place to sit comfortably. Sit upright, If possible. Lounging invites the body and mind to go to sleep, Rather than wake up. But the posture should be comfortable. Cushions or chairs are both fine. Sitting cross-legged isn't required. A posture that is familiar to your body will be less distracting and more helpful than one that is uncomfortable. Now remember what happiness feels like. Perhaps you recently accomplished something that left you feeling great. Perhaps it was the softer happiness of holding a small animal that cuddled into you. Perhaps it was the selfless joy of watching a child play. Perhaps it was the serenity of watching a sunset by the ocean. All of us have felt happy at times, Probably many times, In our lives. The feeling may vary depending on temperament, History, Conditioning, And circumstance. The flavor of happiness is not important. This happiness is the cave exit. This is where this meditation practice begins, Not so much with the memory of the situation, But with the feeling itself. It's like a glowing in the center of your chest. To begin, Put yourself in your heart. Some people visualize easily, Others don't. It's not important that you clearly visualize. Just imagine holding yourself in the center of your chest. Then send yourself a wish for happiness or well-being. May I be happy. May I be peaceful. May I feel safe and secure. May I feel ease throughout my day. Any uplifted state is fine. The phrases are a way of priming the pump. They evoke the feeling. As it arises, Shift your attention to the feeling itself. Sooner or later, The feeling will fade. When it does, Repeat the phrase. It's not helpful to repeat it rapidly. This makes the phrase feel mechanical. Rather, Say the phrase sincerely and rest for a few moments with the feeling it evokes. Then repeat again. As we do this, Three things arise in the mind heart. The person to whom you are wishing happiness, Yourself, The mental phrase and the feeling. About 70% of your attention should be on the feeling. 20-25% on the person, Yourself and just a little on the phrase used to evoke the feeling. Spiritual friend. After about 10 minutes, Switch the person to whom you are sending kind wishes. Rather than sending loving kindness to yourself, Send it to a spiritual friend. A spiritual friend is a living person whom you find very easy to wish the best. It might be a favorite teacher who always has your highest interests at heart. It might be an aunt or an uncle who always looks out for you. It might be a small child who opens your heart. A partner is not a good choice for a spiritual friend. You may have a lot of love for him or her, But primary relationships are usually complex. For the purpose of this meditation, Simple is better. For the same reason, A teenage son or daughter is probably not a good choice. Those relationships have too many textures. A person who you find physically attractive is not a good choice either. Physical attraction can become thick, Complicated and distracting. You want the meditation to be light, Easy and uncomplicated. Once you have settled on a good spiritual friend, Stick with that person. If you switch from one person to another, The practice won't be able to ripen or deepen. And if you stay with one person in meditation, The other people around you will benefit even without being the explicit focus of your sitting practice. So each time you sit down to practice, Send well wishes to yourself for 10 minutes. Then switch to your same chosen spiritual friend. Breath Awareness There is a small percentage of people for whom a spiritual friend is not the best object of meditation. When these people do this practice, They find that most of their attention goes to the friend. Remember, Most of the attention should be with the feeling, Not the friend. The feeling is the main object of meditation. Nevertheless they find themselves thinking of the person, Wondering how they are doing, Wanting to call and check on them. They may become infatuated with their friend, Or they may find themselves continually analysing their experience, Thinking about it rather than simply observing. If this persists, It may be easier for them to use the breath as an object of meditation. Bhante Vimala Ramasi has written about the breath practice, But since the percentage of people who get too caught up in their friend is small, Using the breath as a primary object falls outside the scope of this book. The Real Practice This practice of sending loving kindness or wellbeing is the storefront. It is something wholesome to occupy the mind heart. There is a second practice in the back room that is just as important, If not more important. As you send well wishing to yourself or your spiritual friend, Other things will occur uninvited. Thoughts, Images, Sensations and emotions waltz in. This is not your intention. But the mind has a mind of its own. As long as you are still with the well wishing for your spiritual friend, Just ignore these intrusions. Let them float in the background as it were, Without doing anything with them. But sooner or later a distraction hijacks your attention completely. You won't see this happening. One moment you'll be sending loving kindness, The next thing you know, You're rehearsing a conversation, Planning your day, Reminiscing about yesterday or attending to things other than the object of your meditation. Rejoice Now you get to use the second meditation practice. This is a powerful practice that can only be used when the mind wanders. So now is your chance. The drifting mind is a symptom of tension disturbing your underlying peace. This side of enlightenment, We all have many tensions. So the distraction points one out. It shows exactly where it is so that you can release it skillfully. This is good news. The only trick is to do it wisely. An unwise way is to condemn yourself. Oh, I can't do this. That criticism creates more tension and destabilizes the mind further. Another unwise strategy is to buckle down and try harder. This too creates more tension and restlessness. A better approach is employing the six R's. As mentioned in the last chapter, These are as follows. 1. Recognize where your attention has gone. In time it will be clear that there is some wisdom that moved your attention to that particular place. It may not be the least bit clear right now what that wisdom is. That's fine. All you need to do is recognize where your attention went. 2. Release your grip on the distraction. Let it be. Don't push it away. Just release the hold it has on your attention. 3. Relax. Let go of any tension in your mind or body. You don't have to search for tension like an enthusiastic detective. Just relax. That's enough. 4. Re-smile or smile again. Allow a higher state, Any uplifted state, To come into the mind-heart. Having a good sense of humour about how the mind drifts is helpful. 5. Return. Now take the relaxed mind-heart and this brighter, Lighter state back to your object of meditation. 6. Repeat. The repetition will happen automatically if you continue meditating. Needless to say, The mind will wander again and again. If you haven't released all the tension from a particular distraction, That's fine. It will simply come up again until you have. You can relax in confidence that the mind-heart will let you know if there's more to relax. This 6R process contains the practical essence of the Buddha's Four Noble Truths and Eightfold Path. So we'll return to it many times in the context of insights as well as of the practice itself. To start, 30 minutes a day of meditation is adequate. 45 minutes is better. And once you get comfortable, Try to not move throughout this period of time. If the mind insists on moving, 6R the insistence. The 6Rs are very helpful in letting the mind release tension and find deeper ease. Of course, If pain arises from genuine physical harm, You will want to adjust your posture. The way to tell if it is genuine is to notice what happens when you get up from sitting. If the pain goes away very quickly, It was probably not caused by anything harmful. If it returns when you sit, Try to remain still and 6R. If, On the other hand, When you get up the pain lingers, It is best not to sit that way in future. If you already have another kind of meditation practice, I encourage you to give this approach a try. Or at the very least, Insert a relaxed step into how you deal with distraction. When your mind wanders, Rather than pulling your attention immediately back to your object of meditation, Relax first. The Buddha saw that craving, Or tightness, Is the root of all suffering. It also gives rise to distractions, So relaxing the tightness goes to the core of his teaching and practice. This simple step can make a huge difference, So give it a try. These beginning instructions are all you need to get started. In the coming pages, The importance of the 6Rs will become clearer. For now, We're ready to turn to some of the Buddha's core insights. These are the topics of the next section.