You Can Decide

Indecision will keep you stuck, rob you of life force energy, and postpone your happiness. So why do we allow ourselves to keep waiting to make a decision?
The bottom line is that Deciding feels hard. It feels scary. It feels permanent.
In this short meditative pep talk, Cheri Honeycutt helps you step into your important decision and break out of your stuckness.

Transcript

You have a decision to make. Right now there's something in your life that's been calling you forward and asking you to make a decision. It might be asking you to step into something that feels scary. Maybe you need to decide about leaving a job or looking for a new one. You might need to be making a decision about whether you want to enter into a partnership or romantic relationship or whether you want to leave one. You may need to be making a decision around finances where you put certain monies or where you take monies away. There are some things right now on your plate that need your attention and need you to make a decision. And I see you and I feel you as you sit there in that indecision. I see you sitting there doing what we call due diligence. You're weighing your options. You're looking for information. You're doing some analysis. You might be reaching out to people you trust and value and getting their opinion. You might be reading books. You might be journaling. You might be doing all kinds of things so that you will get to the core of the right decision for you. But what I'm here to tell you is chances are you already know the right decision. Chances are what you just haven't done is decide. You've just not chosen to say that you know. And again I see you and I send you love and compassion because when we make a decision what we realize we're doing is we're cutting off possibility to have chosen something else. And that's super scary. It's super scary because we want to know that we're making the right decision. Frankly what we really want is a guarantee. But I'm going to tell you this. There is no guarantee on any decision you will make. There is no guarantee that you will put your money in the right place or you will buy the right house or frankly that you will marry or partner up with the right person. We make the best decisions we can in the moment. The only thing that can be guaranteed is that sitting in your indecision is robbing you of life force energy. It is taking time and energy away from you as you sit and you mull and you circle and you stay stuck. So I invite you to go into your heart or your mind and looking at what is it that needs your decision. And I'm going to encourage you to simply decide. Be still and know and listen for what you already likely know. And it may be that you have one or two more pieces of information to get. So go do that. But what I invite you to stop doing is indulging in indecision. So go out there today and decide. You know the right thing to do. You know what is right for you.

Reviews

This came along at just the right time to support me in choosing powerfully for myself and the contribution I can make for those around me.

Great topic and all moments of our lives. Well presented, good pace and pauses. Great tone of voice and sincerity. Blessings to all. Warmly, Anne

Loved

Direct and to the point! It’s all risky! Thank you! 😊

Lovely for our Easter Sunday early Sunrise morning 🌸May we seek peace, love and kindness... May we never give up our path.