A twin flame connection is like no other connection on this planet.
It's said that a soul comes down to earth,
It's divided into two pieces,
A masculine and a feminine,
And at some point in their journey they meet,
It's an instant recognition of home,
Of peace,
Of love,
And they come together to change themselves,
To change the world around them.
So that's kind of the definition of a twin flame,
And it's known for the different stages,
Very unique stages in a twin flame connection,
With the first one being the meeting.
The portal opens,
They come together,
It's instant recognition,
It's warm,
It's home,
It's healing,
And it's that first taste of absolute perfection on earth.
The second stage,
It's the runner chaser stage.
So now we enter a dynamic where one of the twins is known as a runner,
Starts to feel overwhelmed by this happiness,
And starts to feel out of control.
The runner chooses to lean out,
To run away,
And the other twin becomes a chaser,
Starts obsessing,
Wants to know what happened to the runner,
And it gets to the third stage,
Which is a crisis stage.
So there's a realization that this relationship is now turning toxic,
And this is when the depression starts to set in,
Especially for the chaser.
They start to feel hopeless,
There's a lot of crying,
There's a lot of physical stress,
There's struggles at work,
And this is when the chaser feels like,
I'm this person never going to come back,
They're in complete despair.
And they start to look for ways to make a reunion happen.
So now we flow into the surrender stage.
So the chaser starts to realize,
There's really not much I can do to get this runner back,
And maybe the runner comes back some,
But not completely.
And the chaser realizes they do not want to be codependent with this person anymore,
And they want to start to find ways to find internal peace,
Some self-love,
And not feel like their happiness is just dependent on if the runner comes around or not.
So once that stage gets more complete,
Either we find reunion with that person,
The person comes back,
They've done their healing work,
And the runner and the chaser unite,
The masculine and feminine come together,
And there's this deep love.
Or if the runner chooses not to come back,
There can be internal reunion only,
Where the chaser becomes complete and whole within,
Helps their inner child understand what's going on,
And takes their power back.
And this is a beautiful,
Beautiful stage.
Reunion is not guaranteed with a twin flame connection,
And it's usually not even the goal.
This is more about the spirit finding a place inside your body that feels like home.
So the final stage is expansion and creation.
So whether you get together with your twin flame or not,
It will be absolutely life-changing,
And you will have to expand your life.
It has to move on from what you did before.
Your whole life needs a complete makeover.
And you can either create this with your twin flame,
Or you create it on your own,
Or with a future partner.
But that energy has been created,
That portal was open,
And it's such a magical journey.
So if you feel like you're on this journey,
This is kind of what you'll experience with this person coming in and out.
And I tell people all the time,
The label doesn't matter.
It's just what's happening to you and your own journey.
And be open to your twin flame journey looking very different and having its own conclusion.
Again,
It's not important.
The label doesn't matter.
What matters is your journey and what you're going to make of it.