Many dysfunctional family systems will teach you that you can have your cake and eat it too.
And this is why some people lie about who they are and what they want.
Beneath dysfunction is a strong energy of entitlement.
And beneath entitlement is an even stronger foundation of enablement.
If you feel shame about truth.
Sexuality or addictions,
There is one thing you must remember.
You are a free spirit.
You can do whatever you want.
But to be a free spirit requires you.
To some level of honesty with yourself and others.
Speaking your truth can feel counterintuitive.
Which means.
.
.
It will feel risky.
A double-edged sword.
You must be willing to disappoint people,
But also you need to learn how to break those entitlement initiations.
Your honesty does not entitle you to a person's support finances,
Or unconditional energy.
Based off your honesty,
An informed person gets to decide their destiny in their future,
Which may or may not include you.
This is why many people will lie.
Because they feel entitled,
They are enabled and they want their cake and they want to eat it too.
My name is Susan B.
Wuerra and this is my channel's message.
