Before you close your eyes,
Take a moment to look around.
Notice your body in the space,
And if it feels good you can gently begin to close your eyes,
Placing one hand over your heart and the other hand over your belly.
Start to feel your own aliveness,
Feeling the warmth of your skin,
Feeling the rhythm of your breath,
And just be with yourself,
Starting to bring some awareness to how you feel in this very moment.
You don't need to shift into some better version of yourself,
You're allowed to arrive here exactly as you are,
Without any judgement,
Raw,
Pure and tender.
And I'd like you to gently repeat in your mind,
I choose love and compassion.
I choose love and compassion.
I am enough just as I am.
I am enough just as I am.
And let these words land in your chest,
Let them soften your inner critic,
And let them shift the tone inside your body.
Now imagine yourself walking into a quiet,
Softly lit room,
The kind of space that feels like a warm exhale,
And there's a soft glow in the room,
Candles flickering,
Golden light falling through a curtain.
And you're walking barefoot,
And the floor feels warm beneath your feet,
And the energy is calm,
Safe and still.
And in front of you,
You see a mirror,
But not the kind that critiques or magnifies flaws.
This mirror is kind,
It is made with love.
And you walk slowly towards this mirror,
And there you are.
Not the version you show the world,
Just you,
Present,
Honest and human.
And something in you shifts,
Because for once,
You're not looking through the lens of not being enough.
You're looking through the eyes of compassion.
And you start to wrap your arms around your body,
And really feel the warmth of this embrace.
Imagine a shawl or a soft blanket wrapping around you,
Melting into that comfort,
Safety and love.
And let this moment melt away the armour.
Let it be the moment you stop fighting yourself.
Because self-compassion is not a performance,
It's a promise.
And take a deep breath,
And let it anchor you into your own presence.
Let it remind you that you don't have to earn tenderness,
You already deserve it.
And before we close,
Starting to bring the affirmations back into your body,
Say them slowly,
Like a vow to yourself.
I choose love and compassion.
I choose love and compassion.
I am enough,
Just as I am.
I am enough,
Just as I am.
And let these words wrap around you,
Not as something to repeat perfectly,
But as something to remember when you forget your own worth.
And take one deep breath in,
And a soft sigh out.
Releasing the old narratives,
Releasing the old patterns,
Releasing the inner critic.
And I invite you to carry this softness with you,
Not just as a feeling,
But as a way of being.
Because today,
You choose kindness,
You choose love,
And you choose yourself.
And that,
Is everything.
And when you feel ready,
You can gently start to blink your eyes open,
And just noticing the room around you once more.
And noticing how when something shifts inside us,
Everything around us starts to shift too.