Healing Your Parental Wounds By Reconnecting To The Divine

Our relationships with our parents shape how we relate to love, power, and trust. In this session, we explore your human parents not just as human caretakers, but as mirrors — sometimes distorted — of your Divine Parents. This talk is an extract of a live session we did together.

We begin with a talk from a broader perspective, that reframes your family imprint through a wider lens: what if the pain you inherited wasn’t personal, but ancestral? And what if healing it reconnects you with the Source of Love itself?

From there, we move into a deep energetic practice of reparenting from your Higher Consciousness. Together, we gently release the pain and projection tied to your early attachments. We will not bypass any hurt or trauma, but we will integrate it within ourselves. With truth, softness and presence.

With gratitude to Frits Evelein for the music.

Transcript

Take a deep breath in,

Deep,

Deep breath into your nose and exhale through your mouth and just relax.

Hi,

I want to welcome you.

This talk is an extract of a live session we did together.

In all the live sessions,

The meditations and the courses are about bringing,

Exploring and embodying a new perspective,

A bigger perspective.

I truly,

Truly,

Truly believe that you and I are here to bring heaven on earth.

I know it,

Because all this work is about bringing source energy to this very special planet in these very special times.

And you would not have attracted this information into your reality if you would not resonate with the same frequency on one level or another,

Just as I do.

The energy of source,

The creator of this universe,

Which is beyond the layers of this prison planet,

Because that it is,

Earth is a prison planet,

Frequency wise,

A frequency prison,

Which tries to keep us small,

In fear and under control.

It's time to change it.

The change has already come.

About 2000 years ago,

A new earth grid,

A new brain of the planet so to speak,

Was implanted.

And it has been growing,

Growing stronger and stronger,

Getting more momentum in these last 2000 years.

Since 2012,

It is complete.

And because of that,

There is a whole new reality available here on this planet.

And we get to choose,

In every moment,

To be connected to the old brain,

To the old grid,

To the old limited and limiting reality,

Which is so confusing,

Manipulative and lowering our frequency in order to keep the fear running.

The fear,

Which is the fuel of this reality.

Or we can choose a different reality now,

Yes.

And in the beginning,

This choice was very hard to make,

Because of the momentum of this old grid.

But it's getting easier and easier every day,

Because the momentum of the new grid is getting stronger and stronger.

Every time you do a connection to Source,

You connect to this new grid,

And you add to it,

You contribute to this momentum.

And because of free will,

We cannot choose what we want.

Free will was overridden for so long.

And now we get to choose.

We get to choose.

I have chosen,

Clearly.

And that's why there's nothing more that I love than to bring and be this energy here.

In my life,

On this planet,

In this time,

And also here,

On this platform.

Being the energy.

It has nothing to do with what I do,

Or with what you do.

It's about who you are,

And what energy you embody.

Being this energy,

That is my real divine purpose.

And I know that it is yours too.

Otherwise you would not have heard this information right now.

So,

If we want to bring heaven on earth,

And that's our purpose,

Well,

Let's start at heaven,

Right?

Let's start at the point of who you really are,

Beyond your human aspect,

Beyond your human life and story.

And look,

And let's have a look from that bigger perspective.

From the perspective of your divine essence,

And your connection to your Creator,

Your Source,

Your Divine Parents.

Everything we do is about that.

Every topic we address in every meditation or course or what have you,

Is about that.

Remembering who you truly are,

And living your life from a new point.

Using your creative abilities,

Your creative power,

And allowing your human self to rest.

To become whole.

To look at your human story through the eyes of love.

Through the eyes of Source.

And enjoy life as it was meant to be.

Since we are here,

Let's have some fun,

Right?

If you are here for the first time,

Please feel welcome to follow me for more content.

Yeah,

I love it so much to use every entry point,

Every subject in our human lives,

To let go of what we are not,

To reprogram,

And to return to and to feel a true divine essence more and more.

Yeah,

I love it so much to bring this energy more and more and to live life to the fullest.

So all the meditations,

All the courses,

All the live sessions contribute to that.

We will use all the subjects we can encounter in life to do this.

To shift,

To align,

To reprogram,

And to choose a new,

Wider,

More open,

Loving perspective.

We supersede the fear and we bring the love.

And today we dive into the topic of our parents,

Our human parents,

As a reflection of our divine parents.

But first,

Let's take a moment to sink in.

Just feel what is alive in you right now.

And everything is welcome.

To become fully present here,

I'd like to invite you to take a moment to really feel your body.

To take a deep breath in,

And as you exhale,

To just feel where your breath is.

Maybe you can let it sink into your belly a little bit more.

Then soften your eyes.

If you're able to,

You can close them.

And let them get really,

Really,

Really relaxed.

Just intend that all the muscles in and around your eyes,

In your face,

Just let go of all the tension.

And at your own pace,

As you breathe,

Just feel your feet on the floor.

Let thoughts go as they come.

Bring your attention back to your feet.

How do they feel?

Are they warm or cold?

You don't have to change anything about them.

It's all good.

Just be aware.

And then I'd like to invite you to put your hands together,

And gently slide your fingers of one hand over the fingers and palm of the other.

And just feel all the sensations in your hands,

In your body.

Feel how this movement is relaxing your nervous system.

Quiet your thoughts.

Just relax.

Take a deep breath in,

And as you exhale,

Just stay in this energy and listen.

And then,

Let the words simply wash over you.

Today we explore a powerful theme,

Your human parents and the energetic imprint they gave you.

This has nothing to do with blame or analyzing or going back to any trauma whatsoever.

We are just here to see,

To include,

To harmonize,

To forgive,

Which is always about forgiving ourselves.

And it's about acknowledging everything,

To bring light to what is,

And to remember who we truly are,

Beyond all of these human experiences and human stories.

After arriving here together,

I'd love to share with you a perspective,

A talk,

That offers some soul level clarity.

And from there we go into a guided meditation and energetic practice.

This is where the shift really happens,

In your body and in your energy field.

And we do this with the energy of Source,

So part of the practice is a connection to this Source energy and the energy of the new earth grid.

And we close with a few moments to integrate and reflect.

Let this be a soft space for you,

To remember who you really are,

Beyond your human story.

And just know,

Everything is welcome here,

Whatever you feel,

Is perfectly okay.

Take a deep breath in,

And as you exhale,

Just relax.

Before you came into this incarnation,

You chose,

Yeah really,

You chose this experience.

Your higher consciousness chose.

You chose this time,

This body,

This family,

And these parents.

You chose them.

You chose all of it,

To experience.

You chose two human parents,

And they too carry their own stories,

Their wounds,

Their ancestry.

They pass down life to you,

Which is their greatest gift.

And they also passed all the imprints,

All the frequencies that you needed,

To experience your story in this reality.

And,

A note,

All the experiences.

Some loving,

Some painful,

Some unconscious,

Most unconscious probably.

And know this,

What they didn't receive,

They couldn't give to you.

What they didn't heal,

They passed on to you.

And that's exactly what it was supposed to be.

Because with those frequencies that they passed on to you,

You were able to carry out your own story,

Which you chose.

But from the eyes of the child,

You might have looked up into empty eyes,

The empty eyes of your parents.

Because they were occupied with their own ancestral stuff.

And because they were occupied,

They were not emotionally available.

They were,

So to speak,

Out of order,

Energetically and systemically.

And you did what we all do as children,

Adapting,

Trying to be seen and heard.

That's real magical love we as children have for our parents.

We are falling in love with our parents.

Creating illusions and stories in order to feel safe.

Pretending they are whole and present and emotionally available.

So that we can feel safe.

And we create these stories,

Even when we sense that they are not real.

Or maybe,

The more we sense they are not real,

We make them up.

And even now,

As adults,

It can be so challenging.

Because our survival mechanism is programmed to just want to keep us in that illusion.

But the point is,

When we do not really integrate our whole story,

Also with the painful parts,

We always keep feeling that lack,

That search for wholeness within ourselves.

And we keep,

With our trauma magnet,

Attracting relationships that we hope will fulfill us.

That we hope will make up for what went wrong when we were those little children.

And that simply doesn't work.

Yeah,

For a short while,

Our ego likes it.

Ah,

There's someone.

And this person is going to make everything right.

Ah,

I'm so in love.

This is what falling in love really is.

I'm sorry.

And we're so happy in this first period.

But after a while,

We start to feel the emptiness again.

The longing to be whole and complete.

But what if,

What if,

What you were really longing for,

Not the recognition and healing from a partner,

But from your parents?

Maybe you know that already.

And then I'd like to take it one step further.

What if,

What you were really longing for,

Was not the recognition and healing of your human parents,

But of your divine parents?

Your divine parents,

They are the love before the form,

Before this human incarnation.

They are your source,

Before any human story,

Before any human parent.

Today,

We look into that.

And of course,

It's all in the past.

Interconnected.

Because this human story is all a reflection,

A hologram of the bigger picture.

So yes,

Our human parents reflect,

In their essence,

Our divine parents.

So,

What if?

What if I would want to keep humanity disconnected from their source?

What if I would want humanity to keep disconnected from their source,

So they could be my source?

Because humanity would be in fear,

In despair,

In confusion,

About not feeling the connection to their home,

To their origin,

To their parents.

They would fear.

And if fear is my nutrition,

My source,

Then this whole 3D,

Human material game,

Would be brilliantly programmed.

Right?

Yeah,

How brilliantly programmed is this 3D reality,

This matrix?

We are conditioned to feel so much pain,

Grief,

Anger towards our human father and mother.

It's such a distorted,

Often unfulfilling way of being.

And I'm not here to say that it isn't true,

That within your human story,

You have suffered a lot,

Because your parents weren't able to give you what you needed when you were little.

It keeps us stuck,

Because the moment we stay in those lower frequencies of pain,

Suffering and projection,

We cannot connect to the higher frequencies and to Source,

To our Divine Parents.

And that is why healing the relationship with your human parents is so important.

From that place,

Everything clicks in.

It falls into place like Russian dolls,

One straight alignment.

So,

Let's start with the very beginning,

The biggest picture in a meditation.

And from there,

Let's zoom in to our human parents and see what happens from there.

It is my intent that we heal our relationship with our human parents within us,

So we can open fully all the lines to our Divine Parents,

To our Source,

And to really feel the flow of love flowing again towards ourself.

And from there,

To everyone around us.

Also our human parents.

And whether they are alive or not,

It doesn't matter.

It's all about the energy.

And there is no difference between being alive or being on the other side of the veil.

Don't worry.

Just see what happens.

Let yourself be taken on a journey.

Take a deep breath in.

Deep,

Deep breath into your nose.

And exhale through your mouth.

And just relax.

Soften your eyes.

Soften your gaze.

Relax all the muscles in and around your eyes.

And feel how your face is softened too by doing that.

Ask to feel very relaxed.

And again,

Take a deep breath in.

Deep,

Deep breath into your nose.

And exhale through your mouth.

And relax your neck,

Your shoulders,

Your arms.

Let thoughts go as they come.

And ask to quiet your mind.

Quiet your thoughts.

Quiet your mind.

And one more time.

Take a deep breath in.

Deep,

Deep breath.

And as you exhale,

Go to your heart center.

And say from there,

I ask and intend to create a sacred space.

I ask to connect powerfully to the energy of Source and the energy of my own higher consciousness.

I now ask,

Intend and command for only this energy of Source and my own higher consciousness to be in my own sphere of light,

My sacred space,

Now.

And I command all other energies,

All other information,

All other attachments to leave my physical space,

Now.

And for this meditation,

My intent is to experience who I really am.

How I incarnated in this human form and into my human family.

And I ask to feel,

See,

Sense my divine parents.

And I ask to heal the relationship with my human parents from that divine energy.

And I ask to be safe and comfortable at all times.

Take a deep breath in.

And as you exhale,

Visualize a beam of light from the center of the universe all the way to you,

Where you are right now.

Sitting in your chair or maybe walking,

Wherever you are on this beautiful planet.

A pure,

Pure,

Pure beam of light.

Pure white light.

This is the energy of Source and this energy takes you back home.

So just visualize you're sitting in your own ball of light your sacred space.

And you follow this beam of light all the way up.

All the way up.

You go into space.

You see the Earth getting smaller and you're safe and comfortable in your own sphere of light,

Your bubble.

And you move through space and you arrive.

Following that beam at the center of this universe.

Here at the center of this universe there is a big,

Big light.

It's a consciousness.

It's pure,

Unconditional love.

This is Source.

This is Consciousness.

This is the hub,

The zero point.

That focused ball of energy holding the whole universe and all of creation together.

And this consciousness,

This energy,

This Source contains different types of consciousness and energy.

First,

There is the mind of creator that we call Divine Father.

It's the thought,

It's the cosmic mind which creates this universe by thought.

Creative thought and cosmic intelligence.

Focused and clear.

Mind energy.

And then,

There is also this other configuration which fills every new creation with life force.

With the breath of life.

This energy is nourishing,

Giving life,

Giving support.

Giving every creation a soul essence.

Giving every creation a heart.

This energy is the energy of the Divine Mother.

The mind and the heart.

The thought and the creative abilities and the soul.

And there is a third form of energy which we call the Divine Son.

And that is the ability to manifest those two energies into a physical form.

Whether it's a planet,

A star,

A galaxy,

Or a physical being like a human.

Through this energy,

The mind and the heart can become a physical expression.

From this field,

From this energy at source,

Emerges a new sphere of light.

A unique configuration.

A unique creation.

A new creation.

This is you.

This is your higher consciousness at the universal level.

From the center of the universe,

Your light body emerges.

A radiant sphere of consciousness,

Connected whole,

Unique.

A unique configuration emerged from your Divine Parents and still connected to them.

Like the arm is connected to the body,

So this new creation that is you is still connected to its source with an energetic umbilical cord.

Just feel,

See,

Sense.

Feel how you are still connected as a Divine Essence to your point of creation.

And still connected,

You went on a journey,

Finding your place in the universe.

And from there,

Experiencing what you wanted to experience.

Just visualize yourself moving through space.

Always connected through this umbilical cord.

You are free to move,

To go,

To expand,

To create yourself.

While you are still connected to your source,

To your Divine Parents.

And as you move through this galaxy,

The Milky Way,

You start to see this beautiful planet,

Planet Earth.

This is your next journey,

Your adventure.

And just remember,

As you start this adventure and journey,

You are still at source as well.

You never left.

It's one and the same.

And as you are here,

Near to this planet,

From your ball of light,

From your vast consciousness,

Another droplet,

Begins to descend.

It condenses without disconnecting,

Like the fingers still attached to the hand.

And here you take on a second body.

It's your energy body for this Earth.

Adjusted to the configuration of this Earth,

The chemical balance,

And everything that's needed to incarnate here as a human.

You are not a human yet.

You now begin to enter the field of time and space.

The illusion of time and space.

Which is all programmed into the Earth grid.

Which is the brain of the Earth.

And from this place you see this grid.

A giant,

Giant,

Giant grid of beams of light.

A matrix.

A matrix of communication,

Of transport,

And time-space.

And this time-space grid,

We zoom into that right now.

And what you do is you put all of your lifetimes.

We zoom in to this grid of time and space right now.

And when you look at that grid,

You start to decide at what points you want to incarnate.

And you choose your points,

Different times,

Different places.

And you could pick thousands of them,

Or just a few.

It's all up to you.

You make the plan.

From up there,

The bigger you makes the plan.

And so from that point there are no past lives.

They're parallel.

They're all at the same time.

They're just at different points at the time-space grid.

From there,

From this place on,

From your human perspective,

It feels like linear time.

And it feels like past lives.

Funny,

Isn't it?

Every incarnation is happening now.

There is only now.

Hmm,

That makes sense.

One of those points is your current life.

One of those points is this body and this family.

So let's zoom in.

Ask and intend to let that point light up in the grid.

The point of your current incarnation.

And let's go in there and have a look.

Zoom in,

Zoom in.

Maybe you see yourself sitting right now on your chair,

Or wherever you are.

Just have a look from that perspective to your entire story.

Maybe you see yourself.

Maybe you see your parents.

Ask to see your parents and your entire lineage.

What do you see?

What do you sense?

Say from your heart,

I now ask and intend to resolve my experience with my human family in love and harmony.

I take full responsibility for my emotions.

I ask and intend to release all negative emotions that are attached to any incident in the past or to my parents so I can be free mentally and emotionally.

I'm grateful for those family relationships which provided me with love and support.

And I wish to let go now of all those experiences that no longer serve my spirit expansion and soul purpose.

And so it is.

Take a deep breath in.

And as you exhale,

Visualize your parents in front of you.

Your father on the left.

Your mother on the right.

As you look at them.

And even if they are no longer alive,

It doesn't matter.

This is beyond time and space.

Look into their eyes.

Just look.

What do you see?

What do you feel?

What do you sense?

Then go to your heart and speak from your heart as you say and you look at your human father.

Dear Dad,

I see you.

I see all the beauty,

The pain,

The love and the lack.

I see that entire lineage behind you.

And I honor your life.

And I take you as my father.

And you may have me as your daughter or your son.

Take a deep breath in.

And exhale.

And if you want to,

You can bow your head for him.

And say,

I've been carrying things.

That for you,

For the lineage.

And I give back to you what belongs to you.

I did it with love.

And I give it back to you right now.

Then just visualize that you're giving him his things back.

Which weren't yours to carry but you did it out of love.

And feel what happens then.

And now have a look at your mother next to your father.

Look in her eyes and say,

Dear Mom,

I see you.

I see all the beauty,

The pain,

The love and the lack.

The whole package.

I see the line behind you,

Your entire lineage.

And I know 50% of me in this human incarnation comes from you.

As 50% comes from that.

I honor your life.

And I take you as my mother.

With all the good,

The bad and the ugly.

The whole deal.

And you may have me as your daughter or your son.

Dear Mom,

I've been carrying things for you too.

Out of love.

Out of the love of a child for their parents.

I did it with love.

But I now know it belongs to you.

I honor your path.

I honor your story as I do mine.

So I give you now back what belongs to you.

Just visualize you doing that.

Giving it in her hands or putting it at her feet.

It's all good.

Feel the relief.

And then take a step forward.

Rest your forehead on their shoulders.

As they stand together,

There's this little spot where you can put your head.

Your human parents.

Exactly right for you.

For the story you chose up there.

For everything you wanted to experience.

Which you decided up there.

And yes,

Here,

In this game,

Where everything seems so real.

Can be a hard thing,

I know.

What a brave being you are for being here.

For playing out this story.

And what a brave beings they are.

For being part of your story and playing this role.

And whether they were or weren't able to give you this connection and this love.

In their human expression.

They can and they are doing it from their higher consciousness.

A human expression,

The human form can be filled so much with pain and trauma.

That we completely lose ourself.

But from that other perspective,

There simply is no such thing.

So there you can receive this love and maybe here as well.

You'll see what happens when you speak these words and shift your own energy.

Things might surprise you.

Ah,

Stake the love in they have for you.

Feel yourself be held as a child.

Even if you're grown up right now,

Doesn't matter.

And then,

When you feel you're ready,

Turn around.

Now you have your father on your right side and your back.

Behind your right shoulder and your mom on the left.

Behind your left shoulder.

And you look ahead.

Here's your path,

Your life.

In front of you.

And they are in your back.

This is the right place for you.

You can move forward now from here.

And as you feel them in your back.

Just say from your heart.

I take this life fully from you.

And I will walk my own path in my way as of now.

Also in honor of you.

Look on me with love.

As I go forward on my own path.

In full connection to who I really am.

In full connection to my divine parents,

My source.

And I thank you for being in my human life.

I move forward in my own power,

In my own energy.

With love and appreciation.

As of now,

As of today.

And so it is.

Take a deep breath in.

And exhale.

I hope you've enjoyed this experience.

Thank you for being with me on this journey.

You may now see your own story from a different perspective.

And even if you were not able yet to integrate it all consciously.

Just know that your subconscious absorbed everything.

And your higher consciousness knows.

You've set the intent.

And it will unfold.

I've no doubt about it.

All of you,

Your parents and you,

Did the best they could.

With what you had and they knew at the time.

Let your body absorb the truth.

You are connected.

You are sovereign.

And you are free to live your own life.

With the love that created you.

The love that still holds you every moment of the day.

And the love that flows through you.

Every moment of the day.

Take a deep breath in.

And exhale.

Thank you for being here.

Thank you for your presence.

Thank you for your courage and living your human story.

Please stay in this energy for as long as you can.

Drink some water.

And see what unfolds in your reality.

You are so welcome to return to explore the meditations,

The courses.

And the sessions we do that support you on your path.

More is to come.

Also the topic of healing our family relationships.

There's so much more to explore.

Thank you for opening this space with me.

Hope to see you soon.