Change Your Paradigm And Shift Your Life

Discover how you got to where you are right now, and how to get unstuck and motivated. You are controlled by a paradigm which you probably didn’t realise you had. Now is the time to shift and transform it, by changing your childhood conditioning and reprograming your subconscious. You can replace the old paradigm with a new reality; unlimited, and free to express the authentic you, fulfilling your true potential.

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Paradigm shift.

So why are so many of us stuck?

The real problem,

Where are we now?

The truth is that our present life experience has been controlled by a paradigm from the time we were in the womb.

Early childhood experiences have controlled every area of our lives.

Also our genetic lineage,

Parents,

Grandparents and ancestors going back into the eons of time.

Our genetic lineage has contributed to our current life situation.

Most often our paradigm has a very low or limiting frequency preventing us from really manifesting our true potential and from enjoying what is ours by birthright.

In fact our paradigm has nothing to do with us at all.

It's not who we really are and it's got nothing to do with our past experiences,

Achievements or future successes or failure.

So our life experience now,

Today,

Is being controlled by many unconscious habits and learned behaviour from our past.

Most of us have no idea,

No understanding or realisation of why we are not doing better.

It's the paradigm which has to be changed so that your subconscious mind can be reprogrammed and your frequency,

Your vibration is transformed in your life.

When your paradigm changes your life can also change.

So the conscious mind,

The mind that we are aware of every day,

Needs to reject the bombardment all around us of other people's limiting realities.

This has been programmed from your childhood genetic DNA,

Cultural and social conditioning.

However the conscious mind has a power and the ability to choose our thoughts.

We do have choice.

Our thoughts turn into pictures in our imagination.

The subconscious mind can then express them.

Here is where the magic lies and here is where we can make the changes.

As a baby we have no conscious faculties at all.

The subconscious mind of a baby is wide open and absorbs everything around it like a sponge.

We are programmed also by the environment we grew up in.

Just as today we are programmed by our environment as adults,

By the media,

The news,

Peer pressure,

Education,

Advertising and so on.

We can now start to change our paradigms by choosing our conscious thought.

Instead we can imagine what we would like to happen in our lives and feed that into the subconscious mind and allow the magic to work.

Questions and answers Question one.

Could you elaborate further on what you mean by your real identity?

Okay so the real identity is actually so unique to you that no one can ever steal it.

It is the essential indestructible aspect of your being.

When you surrender to your authentic being you become a conscious co-creative partner with spirit applying its universal laws of manifestation to create abundance and flow in all areas of your life.

Question two.

What is a paradigm?

The paradigm is a collection of subconscious programs from birth,

Childhood and even further going back through your genetic lineage and encoded in your DNA before you were even born.

It goes all the way back to your ancestors.

As a baby and a young child your subconscious was like a sponge absorbing everything it saw,

Touched,

Tasted,

Smelt and heard.

We are all living from this programming and old paradigm.

Question three.

Can you explain further inner and outer image?

Your inner image or identity is based upon your unconscious paradigm which I just mentioned.

It's your current frequency.

It controls what happens in your life.

That's why people change their outer situations that don't feel any better.

It's the inner change that really makes the difference and creates lasting permanent changes.

Obstacles and challenges.

When we set up goals and visions we can expect fear to come knocking on our door.

It's fear which makes us back off from going for what we really want in our lives.

In fact fear stops us from being who we really are.

It keeps us exactly where we are now and usually where we have been for quite a long time.

It keeps us stuck in limiting situations.

It's a very destructive emotion.

So we set our goals,

We find a wonderful vision and we go forward trying to manifest them.

Immediately the fear barrier comes right out of nowhere telling you that it's impossible,

It's not going to work,

It's not being done before,

You are too old,

You are too young,

You are too fat,

You are too thin,

You are too clever,

Or you're not clever enough.

Other people are doing it better than you could ever do it.

So why even bother trying?

So you have a new idea,

A vision,

A new project,

A great plan,

Outside of your paradigm.

How do you make it happen?

Basically you have to get emotionally connected with your idea or goal and involve your subjective mind.

That's the way that you allow a new vibration to come into your field,

Your energy field.

As soon as a new idea outside of your old paradigm pops into your head,

Your subconscious mind begins to doubt that it can happen.

The old paradigm pops up to the surface and that's when you hit the fear barrier and then you go back to the same old vibration,

The same one that you've been in for a long time.

If it's a new frequency and it's a way of getting out of your old box,

Your old paradigm,

Your mind kicks in with many reasons why this is not possible and you're not able to manifest it.

Or you can have a breakthrough and ignore your mind and smash through the fear barrier and achieve your goals and visions.

Your paradigm will change and you will experience a freedom in a way that is new.

So there's a war between what you know and what you don't know.

People stay in the area they are familiar with,

Dreaming new things for your life is going into an area that you don't know is unfamiliar.

When you decide to make a break,

Decide to go for freedom,

New liberating ideas come in.

If you just keep them in your thoughts and talk about them,

Nothing really happens.

They are just ideas,

Fantasies and dreams.

But the minute you actually start moving towards your goals and you get emotionally,

Vibrationally and practically involved,

Everything starts to change.

It doesn't matter if you fail,

Everyone fails.

Everyone who succeeds breaks through the fear barrier and achieves their goals,

Fails at some point.

Staying on the safe side of your fear barrier isn't much of a life.

Persist with the new frequency and the old paradigm will die and be replaced by a freer,

Happier,

More fulfilled you.

So make a decision,

Make a decision to change your life and go for your dreams and take the risk.

Questions and answers.

Question 4.

What are the biggest obstacles to manifesting the life you choose?

Well,

Very simply,

You have to be aware of the obstacles that you face.

Question 4.

What are the biggest obstacles to manifesting the life you choose?

Well,

Very simple ones actually.

The ones that are very low frequency paradigms which are everywhere and that we see in people all around us,

Unfulfilled,

Unhappy people unfortunately.

Some of the biggest obstacles are self-doubt,

Procrastination,

Fear,

Projecting negativity all around you.

Also thoughts that are projecting negative experiences into the future.

Also impatience.

So some of the important steps to help you overcome these obstacles are number one,

Spend time focusing on your dreams and remember energy flows where attention goes.

Two,

Avoid toxic people,

What we call negaholics.

Be around people who inspire you or who have already achieved the things that you aspire to do.

Three,

Take a hundred percent responsibility for your life.

Act as if all your goals have already manifested.

Four,

How to go from victim to victor.

E plus R equals O.

Event,

Response,

Outcome.

The power of our thoughts.

Five,

Decide what it is you really want to do to feel fulfilled on all levels of your life.

Six,

Set up goals and objectives with measurable specifics,

Times,

Places and events etc.

Do this as clearly and detailed as possible.

Question five,

Can you give an example of obstacles or challenges that your students experienced during your seminars?

Yes I have many.

For example,

One of my students who was a regular on my courses actually really wanted to become a complementary therapist.

She was a Reiki teacher,

Master and a hot stone therapist.

She had a lot of gifts that she wanted to share with people but felt limited as she had a lot of financial problems and quite a large family to provide for.

She thought her vision was beyond her dreams.

However,

She had an incredible seeing once during one of my courses and discovered that she actually wanted to run a healing centre cafe.

She said it just came to her very clearly.

This was the vision that she wanted to manifest.

So after about six months she came on a manifestation course that I was hosting and began to really focus on realising this dream.

So she got into action and wrote plans clearly and in detail.

By one month she was going to find the premises.

By three months she was going to be moving in there,

Advertising,

Getting clients,

A nice web page,

The whole package.

She started to proceed with this plan and found it very hard going.

In fact she said I really don't think that this is going to happen.

I haven't got enough money to pay for this.

The website is not like I'd wanted it to be.

It's just not working.

So she gave up on the whole idea feeling defeated.

You could see her bouncing off the fear barrier and then trying to get through it.

She just let go.

A few weeks later she rang me and said you'll never guess what's just happened.

A friend of hers asked her if she could run her cafe in Portugal while she was away travelling for a year.

She was very happy for her to combine running the cafe with offering therapies in an unused room there.

Perfect.

And that's exactly what happened.

It just felt as if it had finally fallen into her lap and seemed like it had nothing to do with all the planning,

The websites,

The business plan,

All of it.

Her dream came true.

The key was her intention and persistence.

So the point I'm trying to make is that it's not about what you do to manifest the goal.

Quite often it's your intent that brings it about.

And the things that you do are proving to the universe that your intention is real and that it's strong and that you mean business.

You are putting out a frequency that attracts your goals.

You are putting out a frequency that attracts your goals to you.

But often how it comes to you seems to have nothing to do with what you've done.

This is not a linear process.

So ask,

Believe and receive.

Well the second example I can give you is of a student of mine who I knew as a friend.

She often told me that though she had a very difficult relationship with her partner,

They had lived together for maybe 10 years and she was on the verge of giving up.

So she came on my Create the Life You Choose workshop six week course.

At the start of the course she chose the affirmation,

My relationship with my partner is now working.

It's positive,

Happy and nurturing.

All the things that she wasn't experiencing at the time.

During the course she began to see a paradigm that she had had in all of her relationships,

Including her partner.

The paradigm was that she felt considered and that she couldn't find her voice.

She felt unable to express her will,

Her wishes.

She couldn't really have a nourishing relationship with anyone in her life.

She just seemed to feel bossed about by anyone she got close to.

When she saw this it came as a great relief to her because she was no longer a victim of that or any relationship in her life.

She realised that she'd been colluding with her partner and many other people previously.

She was repeatedly attracting people who would keep her in the same old paradigm of feeling dominated and suppressed.

She had always felt powerless,

Weak,

Tired,

Frightened to make suggestions.

It was all about her feelings of powerlessness and inability to voice her wishes.

Having seen that,

The whole relationship with her partner was gradually transformed and they're still together now.

So that was a very positive outcome.