So I'm sitting with Andrea,
She's got some more questions.
So I just wanted to ask a question about being in your true feminine when you're working.
We work in a,
You know,
We live in a patriarchy,
We work in a patriarchy,
And so I sometimes wonder how I can be in my feminine and be working in this world,
And it's so,
It feels so masculine,
And I don't want to be a boss,
Babe.
I want to be me,
Right?
I just want to be my true feminine.
And so I guess it's a question for all of us women out there that are working.
How do we do that?
Yeah,
How do we be?
We just be ourselves.
How do we be ourselves?
Oh,
This is a real question.
You know,
One of the things that I found as I proceeded in my spiritual journey was how male I was,
And I wasn't working,
But I,
When I was studying with Abraham the shaman,
The Hawaiian kahuna,
We did this dance and my movements were so rigid and abrupt.
I had none of the flow,
Think of Hawaiians,
The hula,
I had none of that flow.
I was just like a machine,
You know?
So for several summers we danced like 18 hours a day,
And I would feel my resistance,
And then I would cry because we couldn't stop moving.
We had to keep moving.
It was traditional semantic training,
So I would cry,
And then I would get a second wind,
And I would be able to move.
I would be fluid in my movements.
I was getting in touch with my feminine.
I think the question is whether women are working or not is,
You know,
If we're born feminine,
We're going to find happiness by expressing that true energy.
And if we're in a setup where we feel we cannot be ourselves,
We're going to be unhappy.
But the question is,
If we feel that we're in that setup,
We can change.
We're not hostage to any circumstances,
Even if you need to make money.
If you feel you can't be yourself,
Your true energy in your job,
Then maybe there's a job where you could express yourself more.
And the other thing is,
I think that there's no law against having your feminine energy in your work.
I think it's women are scared of it in themselves just because it hasn't been allowed,
But you can allow it,
And then it can just flow into your work,
And you'll just do it in a feminine way.
I notice,
You know,
As I proceed,
Like,
My feminine energy gets stronger,
And I have fewer and fewer difficulties.
And my difficulties are resolved so often into such a feminine manner that would never happen before,
You know?
And the females know how to diffuse situations.
We've got instinctively high IQs.
I think we just have to use them for ourselves.
So I know that in our work together,
I've given you permission for you to be yourself,
Right?
This is true.
This is true.
For you to be yourself,
Right?
This is what women need to do.
Instead of competing with each other,
I feel we need to help give permission to each other to recover our feminine energy.
And I feel we're going to have to,
That what we're doing is not sustainable,
And that we're losing,
You know,
The feminine energy,
We're seeing how valuable it is as we're losing it.
Do you see what I mean?
Nobody's taking care of the kids much.
Nobody's really taking the time to instill values,
Really.
There's not much support to do that.
It's hard to do that when you've been working all day,
Right?
So our culture is falling because we're not,
We're trying to get along without valuing the feminine,
And we're going to have to value her.
And women,
Though,
We,
I feel we really need to support each other with allowing it.
And you work with,
You work with somebody,
You know,
Megan,
You work with,
And you have supported her with,
You know,
Helping her become more of herself,
And you just did this even as you were working at your job together.
It all just got done seamlessly.
There doesn't have to be a false wall between our female nature and our world.
And I'll tell you,
Everyone would get along better if we women were doing this,
Because it just,
If we're at peace with ourself,
Then we can just offer it to the people around us,
And we become less judgmental and happier.
And,
You know,
When women are in their male energy,
If they're running too much with their male subconscious,
They get argumentative.
And nobody's,
It doesn't work for the woman,
It doesn't work for anybody around her.
And,
But the tragedy is what happens is,
In our little,
As a little girl,
Most of us find,
Found that we couldn't really keep our feminine and cope with what was going on in our families or with,
You know,
The outside world.
So our feminine goes unconscious,
And we start being run by our male subconscious that comes in to protect us.
So the male subconscious is trying to help us,
He's got this non-functioning female energy,
And he's trying to protect her.
So that's part of why that makes us argumentative and defensive,
That's coming from our male.
So,
But the thing is,
We have to waken the feminine,
We have to like,
Remind her that she can wake up,
And that she,
And make room for her,
And make room for the different polarity of the human consciousness.
I didn't even know what feminine energy was.
I mean,
We think it's a body,
It's not our bodies,
I mean,
It's our bodies.
But more than that,
It's the whole polarity of nurturing,
Compassionate,
Inclusive,
You know,
Patient,
Intuitive,
Yep,
And coming from the heart.
And,
I mean,
We're losing all those attributes and trying to function just on the male,
And the male's great,
But,
You know,
We've got a female polarity too,
For a good reason.
I mean,
Think of,
You know,
A bear,
A mother bear and a father bear,
We don't look at the female bear and say,
You should be like a male bear,
Right?
But women,
We can be female,
We can keep our feminine and,
You know,
Earn a living too.
It just takes a lot of attention and we need to help each other.
Yeah,
And love each other.
Yeah.
Agreed.
Bless your heart.
Bless all of your hearts.
