The secrets to love are filled with paradoxes.
The more you want it,
The more you'll push it away.
You have to know exactly what you want and be willing to let it all go in order to have it all.
That is the mystery of love.
It's so simple that we overcomplicate how to get there.
So,
With this meditation,
The aim is to allow you to experience this fine balance of attracting what it is that you want,
Without aiming or longing for anything in particular.
That is the space in which you are most magnetic.
That is the space in which your presence will be most noted,
When you least expect it.
Take a deep breath in,
Hold,
And exhale.
One more time.
Take a deep breath in and exhale and simply rest your awareness here and now.
Feel the support from the ground below and allow your body to sink even more into deep relaxation.
Take note of any sounds in your surroundings and gently allow your senses to relax as well,
Allowing all that you hear,
Sense,
Feel,
Taste and see to be part of this journey.
The imperfect perfection of every moment is always as it needs to be.
First,
I will guide you through a few simple questions to allow your awareness to focus.
You are a unique being with unique experiences and beliefs.
You are the only one who can guide you in the most accurate manner.
Do your best to allow the answer to simply arise.
Don't think about it.
The first answer is usually the correct one.
Whenever you feel your mind interfering,
Bring your focus to your heart or to your belly,
Away from your head and your mind.
Let's begin.
Take a deep breath in,
Hold and exhale.
What do you desire to magnetize into your life?
Just choose one thing in this moment.
Where in your body do you feel this desire most present?
What would it feel like if this desire were here right now?
Is there anyone you can think of who is a good example of portraying authentic,
Genuine confidence?
And what about an example of someone who is confident but not authentic and not genuine?
What is the difference in their overall presence and allure?
What is it that attracts you to one and repels you from the other?
Now,
Imagine yourself moving through your day-to-day activities with authentic,
Genuine confidence.
Imagine how this would change your posture,
Your sense of self,
Your perceived radiance.
Imagine how it would alter how you feel about what you do and how you do it.
And imagine how this would affect your magnetic allure,
Your irresistible presence.
There is nothing you need to change about your appearance.
No need to buy new clothes or cut your hair.
There is nothing you can add to the external that will impact your radiance as much as your attitude.
There is no need to hope,
Wish or want anything.
The paradoxical truth lies hidden in the knowing that when you let go of needing anything or anyone to become whole,
You'll become whole.
And when you're whole,
You'll magnetize gifts beyond what you could have ever hoped for.
Know what you want.
Let it all go,
In order to have it all.
Remember you are whole,
Always.
You are whole when you cry.
You are whole when you laugh.
You are whole when you feel alone.
You are whole when you feel connected.
You know what it means to feel aligned,
To feel confident and trust in your decisions.
You know what it means to just be yourself,
Shameless and free.
You know what it means to be present,
To enjoy the little things and find significance in the ordinary moments.
It is who you are by nature.
It is how every baby is born into this world,
Including you.
No matter how far you may have drifted from your confident,
Trusting self,
Yourselves remember,
It is who you are,
And that is what makes you irresistible.
Just be you.
