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Control & Chaos

by Melissa Indot

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We yearn for some structure / system to make sense of the chaos; to bring some sense of order. Yet it is this very order that controls us. Please share with friends, family or your community; anyone whom you feel could benefit with these insights. Love from My Heart to Yours

ControlChaosSystemsInsightsCommunityLoveReflectionIndividualityChangeSystemic ReflectionCultural ExpectationsLife ControlSelf ReflectionCulturesOrdersSystemic Change

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These systems that we've been plugged into that all these things that we we can't live without we also yeah we can't live without but we're also forced to live with right because in order to function in this world the system these systems have been created to bring order from chaos for us but they actually control our lives and we can't in fact any any time any any opportunity we have to unplug from it it's it's almost like what you've seen to be radical he's actually makes life very difficult well now that's all changing that's all changing so what does that mean for us you know this this culture of doing doing doing since the day we start going to school it's all about achievements and goals right go to school get to grade school what are your test results and then you go to high school then you go to college you go to university then you go to go out there you get a job and then you buy your first car you rent your first room then you rent your apartment then you have to save you have to get insurance then maybe you save up to buy a place and you buy a place and then you look for that perfect partner and then you're gonna get mad so it's just the next thing the next thing the next thing the next thing the job promotion that I most of the time it's not even what we want to do it's this we create the system and then we become like robots right so we stop thinking because we're all the thinking is done for us well now we get to create things ourselves because now we're shown that the systems have have made us I'm trying to make us I'm trying to fit us into pigeonholes right and the basic logic here is that we all know look at the screen here diversity we're all different even your even those of us well even those of us you look at our parents if we have siblings you look at our siblings with our cousins you look at your own children they're a part of you genetically but they're so different from you and yet we've created systems it's all about making us the same and it basically it doesn't work so all the things we've been complaining about for whether it's us in our generation or our parents or in hundreds of hundreds and years of generations have been complaining about now we have the opportunity to really reflect on what kind of world I want to live in when I say what kind of world I want to live in talking about the introspection okay because we have been living life completely controlled by our world now that that outside world has collapsed and I mean it not in a bad way in a beautiful way it's kind of it's collapsing so that something new can come

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Melissa IndotKuala Lumpur, Federal Territory of Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

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Recent Reviews

Jeff

January 17, 2023

What an amazing reminder of the balance we NEED to strike between control and chaos if we want to thrive in our lives. When you're so far to one side of the swinging pendulum all you crave is the opposite side, not at all aware that it's just going to lead to more negativity when you get there... looking back at the other end of the pendulum you were desperate to get away from wishing you were there again before long! When you strike a balance between the two control gives you confidence to move forward and chaos keeps you on your toes enough to grow with each forward step. Thank you so much for this wisdom! 🙏

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