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For the context of the law of attraction,
Many have asked me what to do about those negative people that are part of their life,
Since they want to manifest a wish or simply to live in peace.
But in that environment,
It is very difficult to raise your vibration,
As you can imagine.
I think it is correct to assume that at some point all of us have had that person,
Either a family member,
Colleague or friend with high levels of negativity that makes us feel bad and their very presence transforms the atmosphere of the room they enter.
Another way to call negative people is toxic.
And categorizing people as toxic makes me feel as if they are subspecies derived from humans,
Different from what we are.
However,
For me,
Being that way is part of what defines a person.
Just like sometimes we're happy,
Persistent,
Pessimistic,
Etc.
We all can be toxic without realizing it.
It's not always them.
I know that Dale Carnegie said that people don't tend to have a negative self-image.
For example,
Al Capone,
The famous mob boss,
Didn't see himself as a bad man.
He was just providing for his family.
With the exception of someone who lives in total isolation throughout their life,
All human beings have at least on some occasion been toxic,
Either in childhood by harassing our parents or siblings or in some other stage of life.
If I try to define what a toxic person is,
I would say it's someone who makes another person feel bad.
Now,
Talking about people who physically bully others is a separate category that deserves a different lecture.
So,
Being toxic is having the ability to annoy or upset others.
Certainly there are people who constantly do this and instead of being an exception has become their ruling behavior.
And like I said at the beginning,
I have noticed a new trend for a few years now.
The battle or crusade to remove all toxic people from our lives.
But considering what I said earlier,
Do we really want to live in isolation?
I invite you to ponder before you continue this purge of acquaintances,
Relatives,
Significant others or colleagues.
Sometimes toxic relationships are the product of problems we have not resolved with someone.
In other words,
These people have an unresolved conflict with us or vice versa.
And perhaps we are the only ones with whom they behave like this.
So rather than label them as toxic and avoid them,
You should try to identify what situation was left unsettled,
Which could benefit from talking about it in a peaceful environment.
And maybe to your own surprise,
That person sees you as someone toxic before labeling someone.
It's good to know where they came from,
What they have suffered,
What experiences have scarred them.
And it's not about becoming their psychologist,
But having a bit of empathy and at least avoiding to judge a book by the cover.
With that said,
There will be people with whom we cannot get along with and in those cases some distance will be beneficial.
But if you are not in the position to put some distance,
Try to not initiate unnecessary conversations or meetings without neglecting your responsibilities,
Of course.
Now,
The ability for someone to bring us down is almost 100% in our hands.
Anyone with the capacity to anger you will become your owner or master.
And it has to do with how much power you give them away.
Think about this,
Words are impartial.
How you decide to take them is what makes the difference.
So with all this,
I invite you to reconsider the toxicity or negativity in your life,
To think about whether you have enabled any negative behavior and if you have been like that to others too.
No one can harm you with words if you don't grant them power over you.
And paraphrasing a very famous book,
Let whoever is without sin cast the first stone.
Now,
As for how to overcome negative situations,
I can say that they are much easier to describe because in the majority there will be other people involved.
So you can apply what I have already talked about.
However,
When the negativity or difficulty cannot be attributed to anyone,
Just take your time,
Look at the situation for what it is,
It's just something that you have to live.
And of course,
It will not last forever.
So do what you can to get out of it and analyze what your options are.
You can ask for advice and help.
Many people would be willing to give you a hand,
So don't hesitate in asking.
With that said,
Face it as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary pain.
