Lezione 1
Certainty
In the lesson we are going to talk about our need for Certainty. This need refers to our desire for safety, predictability, and control in our lives. At its core, certainty is the need for things to be stable, consistent, and comfortable.
Examples of the need for certainty include:
Job security: Many people seek job security to feel financially stable and to ensure a consistent source of income.
Routine: A daily routine provides a sense of structure and predictability in daily life, which can be comforting.
Predictable relationships: People often seek stable, predictable relationships with family and friends to feel safe and secure.
Familiarity: We tend to gravitate towards the familiar, whether it's a favorite restaurant or a comfortable daily routine, as it provides a sense of comfort.
Control: We often seek a sense of control over our environment and situations to feel safe and secure.
Certainty of the future: People often seek a sense of certainty about their future, such as retirement plans, to feel secure and in control of their lives.
Lezione 2
Uncertainty
In this lesson, we talk about our need for Uncertainty. This need refers to the desire for change, surprise, and diversity in life. People who have a high need for uncertainty thrive on new experiences, challenges, and adventures. They seek out opportunities to try new things and explore uncharted territory. Examples of behaviors and activities related to this need include:
Traveling to new places – People who have a high need for uncertainty may enjoy traveling to new and exciting destinations around the world. They may seek out adventure travel experiences like whitewater rafting, mountain climbing, or bungee jumping.
Trying new foods – People who have a high need for uncertainty may enjoy experimenting with new foods and flavors. They may seek out unusual or exotic foods that they have never tried before.
Taking risks – People who have a high need for uncertainty may be more willing to take risks in their personal and professional lives. They may be more likely to start a business, pursue a new career path, or try out a new hobby without fear of failure.
Testing limits – People who have a high need for uncertainty may enjoy pushing themselves beyond their limits. They may seek out challenges that are physically or mentally demanding, like running a marathon or learning a new language.
Lezione 3
Significance
In this lesson we'll be talking about the need for Significance. it refers to the desire to feel important, unique, and valued. Individuals with a high need for significance seek recognition, attention, and validation from others. They strive to stand out, be admired, and make a difference in the world.
Examples of the need for significance include:
Seeking fame or celebrity status: Some individuals desire fame as a way to feel significant. They believe that being recognized by the media or the public will make them feel important and special.
Pursuing high-status careers: Some people choose careers or professions that are seen as prestigious or elite, such as doctors, lawyers, or CEOs. By achieving success in these fields, they feel significant and validated.
Seeking attention and approval: Individuals with a high need for significance may seek attention and approval from others, whether it's through social media, public speaking, or other activities. They crave the validation and recognition that comes from others.
Engaging in extreme sports or risky behavior: Some individuals seek significance through extreme sports or risky behavior that sets them apart from others and makes them feel unique and special.
Accumulating wealth or possessions: Some people believe that accumulating wealth or possessions will make them feel significant and important. They may view their possessions as a measure of their success and self-worth.
Lezione 4
Connection
In this lesson we'll be talking about the need for Connection. It refers to our innate desire to form meaningful relationships with others, to belong to a group, and to experience a sense of love and connection with those around us.
Examples of how this need for connection can manifest are:
Socializing: We feel a sense of connection when we socialize with others, whether it's having a drink with colleagues after work or going to a party with friends.
Relationships: Having intimate relationships with other people can help us fulfill our need for connection. We may seek out romantic partners who make us feel loved, appreciated, and valued.
Family: Being part of a family can bring a strong feeling of connection, as we share experiences, memories, and a sense of belonging with our loved ones.
Community: Participating in a community can also fulfill our need for connection. This can include joining a sports team, volunteering, or taking part in a cultural organization.
Support: Having support from others can help us feel connected to them. This can be seen in the friendships we form at work or school, the support groups we join, or the therapy we receive.
Lezione 5
The Four-Way See-Saw
In this lesson we talk about how Certainty is on the opposite side of Uncertainty and Significance is on the opposite side of Connection on a four way see-saw that we are conditioned to balance so that our lives are perfect.
Lezione 6
Growth and Contribution
In this lesson we talk about the needs of the spirit: Growth and Contribution.
The need for Growth is the desire to continually improve oneself, to expand one's skills, knowledge, and experiences. It is a fundamental need that drives individuals to find new challenges, learn new things, and achieve greater success.
The need for contribution, on the other hand, is the desire to make a difference in the world, to have a positive impact on others, and to give back to society. It is the need to contribute our talents, resources, and time to help others and make the world a better place.
These two needs go hand in hand. As individuals grow, they gain more skills and knowledge that they can then use to contribute to others. And as individuals contribute, they learn and grow in new ways, creating a cycle of growth and contribution that fulfills both needs. Ultimately, these needs are essential to human fulfillment and happiness, as they allow individuals to both improve themselves and contribute to the greater good.
Lezione 7
Conclusion
The six Human needs are a model for understanding the underlying motivations behind humans' decisions and behaviors. They are:
Certainty: the need for safety, stability, and predictability.
Uncertainty/Variety: the need for change, excitement, and stimulation.
Significance: the need to feel unique, important, and special.
Love/Connection: the need for a sense of belonging and intimacy with others.
Growth: the need for personal development, learning, and evolution.
Contribution: the need to give back, contribute to others, and make a difference in the world.
